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Dreyton36:
Fvck mehnnnnnnn

Listen up OP ,
Do you know that girls who forms hard to get are the sweetest to fvck in the oza room?

Step up your game , the man fvcking her might not even be up to your standard

Ensure you fvck that girl oooo, hope she get big breast cuz I no they use big breast play mehnnnnnnnnnnnn

colour of the girl pant op no go see .Girls are not attracted to desperate men .Babe go just use am cruise give am small hope then chop im money and run .wen u are desperate to nack a particular thats when u spend more in order not to lost the pussy and wen u spend u spend foolishly .Money wey ur association group give u to keep or church money wey una group give u to hold u can dip hand in the money to use to entice her in ur quest to get in between her pant and in the end u wont even smell the pant.u never see anytin

Martinez39s:
OP, are you a female troll hiding behind a male moniker? If your story is true, I would say you are a pathetic, desperate, and narcissistic simp. You have a big but fragile ego, and no self-respect. If I were your father, I would sell you for a gallon of fuel. Mtewwww. Just kidding.

I'm redpilled boss.
Just went through all those stress for a reason

vindisick:
I have a girl i met last week Sunday. I told her i am only interested in a serious relationship. Now the issue is that she doesn't return my calls. But when she eventually picks and i ask her about it, she will say she was really busy and apologize for not returning my call. She's also nice to me when we speak on phone. But then she repeats it again. Also, sometimes she reads my Watsapp message and hardly replies. Normally, I should have deleted her number and completely avoided her but now I am confused about this cos she still apologises and give me reason of being really busy with work. She's a nurse. I don't like wasting my time if it's not worth it. Can someone really advice me?

cc Martinez39s Open4business Lefulefu

Account2Many:
I met this pretty tall and gorgeous looking girl 3 months ago, we exchanged numbers but she hasn't been calling which is a sure sign that she isn't into me and I understood.
I'm the only one that has been doing all the calls and checking up but she has never for once flashed, even when she misses my calls she will never call back.
So I recently came back after I travelled cos I'm on my annual leave, I called her and told her I'll like to see her, she said she isn't always chanced but obliged to see me after she closes from work by 6pm then she'll drop by a certain rendezvous we agreed on.
So by 5:30pm I got myself well dressed went to the ATM withdrew some cash, and waited for her but she closed from work and went directly back home without calling me, I waited till 7pm and since I didn't see her calls, I now called thrice, she wasn't answering, then I later called the fourth time and she picked the call and started blasting me with words like "why am I disturbing her life? am i that jobless? go find a job and all those profane words"
I now asked her where she is and she responded that where she is it's not important to me" I should stop disturbing her life and go get something useful to engage in.
Mehn after she insulted and embarrassed me on phone I just kukuma ended the call and went back home.
I'm suspecting she's a lesbian.
Honestly I'm so ashamed of myself, it's not easy coping with rejection or insults from female folks

she doesn't like you, just shun her....

Account2Many:
but my mind kept telling me that they are so many fishes in the river.
Guy what's the best way to revenge the time wasted, the stress waiting for her and preparing a table for two only to be ignored.
Honestly my ego and dignity is down and I'm so ashamed of myself.
I want to revenge if not for the insults but at least the time wasted and the embarrassment

jst go make more money and forget bout her . u gonna meet someone better than her

vindisick:
I have a girl i met last week Sunday. I told her i am only interested in a serious relationship. Now the issue is that she doesn't return my calls. But when she eventually picks and i ask her about it, she will say she was really busy and apologize for not returning my call. She's also nice to me when we speak on phone. But then she repeats it again. Also, sometimes she reads my Watsapp message and hardly replies. Normally, I should have deleted her number and completely avoided her but now I am confused about this cos she still apologises and give me reason of being really busy with work. She's a nurse. I don't like wasting my time if it's not worth it. Can someone really advice me?

guy guy guy guyyyy
she is not attracted to u
cant u figure it out?
when a girl tells u she is busy she is indirectly telling u she is not attracted to u and u not her type
girls plenty nau
why stress urself over one girl

davealvaro:
jst go make more money and forget bout her . u gonna meet someone better than her

he does not even need to make more money
he should just forget about her

davealvaro:
jst go make more money and forget bout her . u gonna meet someone better than her

youngmo001:
she doesn't like you, just shun her....

I'm not used to rejection from ladies, it affects me, perhaps I have to deal with it

vindisick:
I have a girl i met last week Sunday. I told her i am only interested in a serious relationship. Now the issue is that she doesn't return my calls. But when she eventually picks and i ask her about it, she will say she was really busy and apologize for not returning my call. She's also nice to me when we speak on phone. But then she repeats it again. Also, sometimes she reads my Watsapp message and hardly replies. Normally, I should have deleted her number and completely avoided her but now I am confused about this cos she still apologises and give me reason of being really busy with work. She's a nurse. I don't like wasting my time if it's not worth it. Can someone really advice me?

Leave her alone.



Girl Wey love you na im go dey use call dey pursue u sef


Girl Wey dey reason you for mind go answer you once when you toast am. Once girl refuse you after max 2 times just leave am. She no like you.

I no too dey toast girls abeg. Na girl Wey give me green light I go reason. And I go still dey hyper observant of her body language. Free these dumbshit girls go hustle. Over time you go meet person Wey match you well.

lefulefu:
guy guy guy guyyyy
she is not attracted to u
cant u figure it out?
when a girl tells u she is busy she is indirectly telling u she is not attracted to u and u not her type
girls plenty nau
why stress urself over one girl

a girl that loves you would always despite her busy schedules create time for you..
cc vindisick

Account2Many:
a girl that loves you would always despite her busy schedules create time for you..
cc vindisick

then find the one that loves and creates time for u and u also create time for dat one
just dont be needy and desperate
thats what i am saying
women dont like weak,desperate and needy men

lefulefu:
then find the one that loves and creates time for u and u also create time for dat one
just dont be needy and desperate
thats what i am saying
women dont like weak,desperate and needy men

And when you see that person treat am well. I still dey regret my carelessness

phazotron:
And when you see that person treat am well. I still dey regret my own.

exactly

lefulefu:
exactly

Guys don't know how to detect when a girl is into them. For you to enjoy your relationship the girl must get interest in you. It reflects even in the most subtle ways

Girl Wey like you no fit ever get one sided discussion with u

She will be interested in knowing about you

Once you detect a chat btw u and a girl is one sided or na u dey ask all the questions

Japa japa

Me I dey dispatch girls once I notice this one

I no go even wait till relationship start

I no get patience for stunt

vindisick:
I have a girl i met last week Sunday. I told her i am only interested in a serious relationship. Now the issue is that she doesn't return my calls. But when she eventually picks and i ask her about it, she will say she was really busy and apologize for not returning my call. She's also nice to me when we speak on phone. But then she repeats it again. Also, sometimes she reads my Watsapp message and hardly replies. Normally, I should have deleted her number and completely avoided her but now I am confused about this cos she still apologises and give me reason of being really busy with work. She's a nurse. I don't like wasting my time if it's not worth it. Can someone really advice me?

Mistake #1:

I told her i am only interested in a serious relationship.

You just met her and you're already rushing things. Even if a serious relationship is what you're after, it was too soon to declare to her. You can't just assume things in one direction, you have to consider all angles. Not every girl wants a serious relationship, some just want a fling, some their freedom want to explore, some are undecided etc for reasons best know to her. So assuming she's the type that doesn't want a serious relationship yet and you're already declaring that's what you want, then she might just axe you straight up, like she cannot come and let u pour sand inside her garri or ruin her parade. There's a saying that, Don't ask a girl whether she has a boyfriend or not, or whether she is single or not, just do your own thing and let her decide whether she is single or not. That is to say, if a guy plays his game well, even if girl has a boyfriend before, she will use her own mouth to declare to the new guy that she is single. Same way, no need to tell a woman you just met you're looking for a serious relationship. Simple you're looking for a relationship is ok, then play your game well, and if she catches your vibes, you won't need to tell her you want things to get serious between the 2 of you, na she go dey halla u that "What are we?", that she wants your relationship to be a committed one etc. And then every woman is similar yet different at the same time. So you have to pay attention to figure out the kind of person you're dealing with. She's a nurse, so her schedule might be a bit tight as per if you text her at odd times, she might leave u hanging for a long time. So get to know what her schedule or shifts at work is like, then you can work out a plan around that to know when you should chat her up, call or drop her messages for later replies etc. But no matter what, don't lose your sense. There's one golden rule about chatting on phone. People will ALWAYS make out time for whoever they truly care about, no matter how busy they are. So if at the end of it she really isn't giving you attention, and always ghosting you, then it means she's not really interested in dating you. If this is the case, then friendzone her before she friendzone you. If you friendzone her first, it might trigger her to react by trying to draw closer to you, cuz like most women can't bear the thought of a guy just putting her in a corner like she's nothing special, So that might draw her back to you, like she wanna know what her offense is or if this guy is crazy or arrogant or d kind of bomb in your head that made you to put her on your bench, instead of starting line up. But if she friendzonebuou first, then see finish don come b dat and she might probably erase any slightest idea of imagination in her mind that she could ever date you. If you want to get it right, as per she's giving you a conflicting stance, then just reset the whole process and start all over again. This time around, pay attention to her and form your strategy based on that

phazotron:
Guys don't know how to detect when a girl is into them. For you to enjoy your relationship the girl must get interest in you. It reflects even in the most subtle ways

Girl Wey like you no fit ever get one sided discussion with u

She will be interested in knowing about you

Once you detect a chat btw u and a girl is one sided or na u dey ask all the questions

Japa japa

Me I dey dispatch girls once I notice this one

I no go even wait till relationship start

I no get patience for stunt

look if a girl likes u she will show it .she will check up on u or call u.all this mumu idelogy wey some guys dey get dat it is the girl u spend more time in chasing dat will make a better partner does not always work.the energy and time u will use in chasing women to make them like u can be used for other useful things.Life is so simple so i dont know why some ppl love to stress demselves.how will a guy say he wont eat or sleep until one particular girl agrees to his toasting.does that make sense? if a girl tells u she is not interested let her be and go get another girl

lefulefu:
look if a girl likes u she will show it .she will check up on u or call u.all this mumu idelogy wey some guys dey get dat it is the girl u spend more time in chasing dat will make a better partner does not always work.the energy and time u will use in chasing women to make them like u can be used for other useful things.Life is so simple so i dont know why some ppl love to stress demselves.how will a guy say he wont eat or sleep until one particular girl agrees to his toasting.does that make sense? if a girl tells u she is not interested let her be and go get another girl

Exactly

Who is that mumu

I need to slap him

I no dey toast these days

And even when I gather strength to

Na red alert I dey

Lol, Pele brother. I've had my own share of rejection even when it had to do with someone's life (life and death lol,), this person just told me no! Thank God for God sha. pele, you go dey alright.

proclinician:
Question is did you receive sense from the encounter or not?

he must have received it...


Please recommend Ubunja's Miseducation to him

Account2Many:
I'm not used to rejection from ladies, it affects me, perhaps I have to deal with it

you better learn to accept rejection... It is good for your health in relationships

Account2Many:
yes because i can't fathom how she would reject me cos I possessed all the features.
She's a hardcore lesbian. why would she turn down a Date at one of the most beautiful and expensive sit out?

you carry too much baggage and its affecting you. You are pompous.. Read what you wrote again

lefulefu:
colour of the girl pant op no go see .Girls are not attracted to desperate men .Babe go just use am cruise give am small hope then chop im money and run .wen u are desperate to nack a particular thats when u spend more in order not to lost the pussy and wen u spend u spend foolishly .Money wey ur association group give u to keep or church money wey una group give u to hold u can dip hand in the money to use to entice her in ur quest to get in between her pant and in the end u wont even smell the pant.u never see anytin

That one off me I was with an ex at her apartment this evening when she started talking about her new guy n relating him to not being a man because he shows too much emotions, always clingy, begging her even when she's wrong..we were actually watching a nollywood movie on one of these African magic channels n one guy dey mumu himself and according to her na so her new guy be

This her guy dey wash her pants, clothes n every, the guy dey even divide him small salary into two give babe one part.. I had to stop her when she began comparing him to me. Some guys really worship these girls like demi gods abi na goddesses and i don't think there's a girl who sees any value in that. Some guys are suffering n will continue to suffer until they wake up.

Account2Many:
I met this pretty tall and gorgeous looking girl 3 months ago, we exchanged numbers but she hasn't been calling which is a sure sign that she isn't into me and I understood.
I'm the only one that has been doing all the calls and checking up but she has never for once flashed, even when she misses my calls she will never call back.
So I recently came back after I travelled cos I'm on my annual leave, I called her and told her I'll like to see her, she said she isn't always chanced but obliged to see me after she closes from work by 6pm then she'll drop by a certain rendezvous we agreed on.
So by 5:30pm I got myself well dressed went to the ATM withdrew some cash, and waited for her but she closed from work and went directly back home without calling me, I waited till 7pm and since I didn't see her calls, I now called thrice, she wasn't answering, then I later called the fourth time and she picked the call and started blasting me with words like "why am I disturbing her life? am i that jobless? go find a job and all those profane words"
I now asked her where she is and she responded that where she is it's not important to me" I should stop disturbing her life and go get something useful to engage in.
Mehn after she insulted and embarrassed me on phone I just kukuma ended the call and went back home.
I'm suspecting she's a lesbian.
Honestly I'm so ashamed of myself, it's not easy coping with rejection or insults from female folks

.

The girl sha.

Just block her everywhere and forget about her.

Insults and rejections are part of life, when you get it, you move away from it and move towards people who loves and appreciates you.

Account2Many:
@bolded like seriously?

Yes, it seems rather dumb to me. If nothing is bringing the two of you together don't just walk up to some random girl, perhaps that's the reason NL guys say women are dumb.

Account2Many:
I've already deleted the number and moved on but I'm still pained.
I know the time she closes from work and I know the path she takes home, I may likely block her

Circumstances reveal our real selves. The fact that you can't accept rejection shows you're proud. She was under no obligation to accept you, whether you got all the features or not. She's just not into you and it's what it is, not everyone goes with the crowd.

You shouldn't really blame her for bailing out on you. She seemed to be looking for a polite way to let you know that she's not interested, but you kept pushing. You kept pressurizing her to accept you, and I can tell you also pressurized her to accept the date. So it's not entirely her fault. Just move on bros.

Let her be, forget the revenge and just learn your lesson. Revenge might seem sweet but you never know what comes next. Be wise!

Account2Many:
I met this pretty tall and gorgeous looking girl 3 months ago, we exchanged numbers but she hasn't been calling which is a sure sign that she isn't into me and I understood.
I'm the only one that has been doing all the calls and checking up but she has never for once flashed, even when she misses my calls she will never call back.
So I recently came back after I travelled cos I'm on my annual leave, I called her and told her I'll like to see her, she said she isn't always chanced but obliged to see me after she closes from work by 6pm then she'll drop by a certain rendezvous we agreed on.
So by 5:30pm I got myself well dressed went to the ATM withdrew some cash, and waited for her but she closed from work and went directly back home without calling me, I waited till 7pm and since I didn't see her calls, I now called thrice, she wasn't answering, then I later called the fourth time and she picked the call and started blasting me with words like "why am I disturbing her life? am i that jobless? go find a job and all those profane words"
I now asked her where she is and she responded that where she is it's not important to me" I should stop disturbing her life and go get something useful to engage in.
Mehn after she insulted and embarrassed me on phone I just kukuma ended the call and went back home.
I'm suspecting she's a lesbian.
Honestly I'm so ashamed of myself, it's not easy coping with rejection or insults from female folks

hope you are wise now....never force yourself on a lady. A lady that's into you won't stress you. You are even creating an excuse for her....pls don't be a simp

Several missed calls and she didn't call back or texted is enough handwriting on the wall for you to move on but you didn't see the signs,if a woman likes you she will be the one calling you

Being desperate can be a massive turn off.

Also think, if you actually have a relationship with someone who disregards you, what security do you have?

She's a working class lady right??
Two things involved, either you're not handsome or you gat no car.
Next time don't act I too like you if you have not secure her.

All you need is just adequate doses of red pills.

lefulefu:
guy guy guy guyyyy
she is not attracted to u
cant u figure it out?
when a girl tells u she is busy she is indirectly telling u she is not attracted to u and u not her type
girls plenty nau
why stress urself over one girl

This response was all i needed. I don't stress my self with women. The point is that I have deleted everything about her after reading your reply. I don't have time. If she gets back to me, its her business. If she doesn't, its still her business.