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Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 9:39am On Sep 20, 2020
I will make it brief as possible, a fellow friend who is also a nairalander approached me with this question.

He said his wife whom they are in good terms has been talking recently about her ex who disflowered her but now outside the country and she has also been showing much interest in travelling out recently. On a friendly conversation, she told him that she is not ashamed of her past and also reminded the husband that he didn't marry her as a virgin.

Please is there an ulterior motive to this?
Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by Nobody: 9:47am On Sep 20, 2020
Ur village people no day carry last grin...
She go soon go back to her ex cheesy
Her body don day hot grin
Fear women cheesy

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by Nobody: 9:54am On Sep 20, 2020
That ex will soon be in the country for Christmas and new year and trust me she will so f.ucc him grin. They've being communicating of late.

Meanwhile I will handover the mic to Righteousness89 . cool

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by dingbang(m): 10:11am On Sep 20, 2020
Lmao.

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by yanabasee(m): 10:13am On Sep 20, 2020
Those species with fish brain....

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by donbachi(m): 10:13am On Sep 20, 2020
Anyday dat woman enter plane,comot from naija..bye-bye to the husband.

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by Nobody: 10:16am On Sep 20, 2020
E done be

She's a gold digger.. seeing that the ex is abroad she's now of the notion that all is Rosy for him and she wants to get back to him and use that opportunity to travel out..

I said it before and I will say it again.. "I smell a lot of failed marriages in the future because of this Ex epics"

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 10:23am On Sep 20, 2020
BigEcommerce:
Watch closely, the ex go soon they chop am
Noted thanks
Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 10:24am On Sep 20, 2020
QuillanHardy:
Ur village people no day carry last grin...
She go soon go back to her ex cheesy
Her body don day hot grin
Fear women cheesy
Na the husband village people dey follow or the wife?
Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 10:25am On Sep 20, 2020
Kaeboy:
That ex will soon be in the country for Christmas and new year and trust me she will so f.ucc him grin. They've being communicating of late.

Meanwhile I will handover the mic to Righteousness89 . cool
He even said she mentioned the ex has been around 3times and he was shocked how she knew...

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by AfroKnight: 10:26am On Sep 20, 2020
She wants to make him jealous.

It will backfire.

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 10:26am On Sep 20, 2020
yanabasee:
Those species with fish brain....
Fish brain self better pass some of them own
Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 10:28am On Sep 20, 2020
dingbang:
Lmao.
Love and marriage are opposite abi (lmao)
Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 10:31am On Sep 20, 2020
BornSnner9:
E done be

She's a gold digger.. seeing that the ex is abroad she's now of the notion that all is Rosy for him and she wants to get back to him and use that opportunity to travel out..

I said it before and I will say it again.. "I smell a lot of failed marriages in the future because of this Ex epics"
I also keep wondering how the future home will look like and the kind of kids that will be raised....thanks for this
Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by dingbang(m): 10:32am On Sep 20, 2020
ademidedavid:

Love and marriage are opposite abi (lmao)
kai cheesy

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 10:32am On Sep 20, 2020
AfroKnight:
She wants to make him jealous.

It will backfire.
Jealous on what grounds?
Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 10:34am On Sep 20, 2020
donbachi:
Anyday dat woman enter plane,comot from naija..bye-bye to the husband.
Small child that says when he grows he will use the head of birds as meal...do you think the head of those birds will make him grow?
Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by gbowoade85142: 10:35am On Sep 20, 2020
:hate and divorce are antithesis abu (lmao)kai

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 10:40am On Sep 20, 2020
gbowoade85142:
:hate and divorce are antithesis abu (lmao)kai
Wisdom
Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by cooooooks(m): 12:54pm On Sep 20, 2020
Who virginity epp?

Why is she bringing up her ex who is abroad? Is this a marriage of lovers or a marriage of "I am now 30, let me marry now"?

We only have your word though.

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by proclinician: 1:00pm On Sep 20, 2020
The woman you didn't marry as a virgin can only be your woman circumstantially but not substantially (proclinician, 2020).

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by Nobody: 1:56pm On Sep 20, 2020
ademidedavid:

He even said she mentioned the ex has been around 3times and he was shocked how she knew...
She's cheating and obviously robbing it on that man's face, trying to let him know anything can happen, and she's probably giving him a reason to flare up so she can gain her freedom.

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by Nobody: 2:02pm On Sep 20, 2020
If the husband try and go through there conversations I bet he will throw her out grin

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 2:28pm On Sep 20, 2020
Kaeboy:
She's cheating and obviously robbing it on that man's face, trying to let him know anything can happen, and she's probably giving him a reason to flare up so she can gain her freedom.
I sincerely appreciate this piece, bless you

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 2:29pm On Sep 20, 2020
Kaeboy:
If the husband try and go through there conversations I bet he will throw her out grin
She might delete after each conversation but once he sees traces, I know he will definitely do so

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 2:30pm On Sep 20, 2020
proclinician:
The woman you didn't marry as a virgin can only be your woman circumstantially but not substantially (proclinician, 2020).
What!!!!
Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 2:31pm On Sep 20, 2020
cooooooks:
Who virginity epp?

Why is she bringing up her ex who is abroad? Is this a marriage of lovers or a marriage of "I am now 30, let me marry now"?

We only have your word though.
They are both mature atlease above 30, but she just like flamboyant life style
Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by DrFunmisticGlow: 4:27pm On Sep 20, 2020
Why do I get the feeling that the husband is not measuring up financially or sexually or both and the wife is beginning to think she made the wrong choice?

No woman will compare her husband to her ex if her husband is better than her ex.

Just saying

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by ademidedavid(f): 4:38pm On Sep 20, 2020
DrFunmisticGlow:
Why do I get the feeling that the husband is not measuring up financially or sexually or both and the wife is beginning to think she made the wrong choice?

No woman will compare her husband to her ex if her husband is better than her ex.

Just saying
Sure, this pandemic period has been a bit tough for the guy but he's getting back on his feet now, but they both enjoyed when it was rousy.....I think it should be for better for worse or has it turned to for better for stay and for worse for depart?
Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by DrFunmisticGlow: 4:47pm On Sep 20, 2020
ademidedavid:

Sure, this pandemic period has been a bit tough for the guy but he's getting back on his feet now, but they both enjoyed when it was rousy.....I think it should be for better for worse or has it turned to for better for stay and for worse for depart?
Then it is most likely bedroom you'll be surprised how easy it is to fake an orgasm these days just to make sure it ends quicker.

It seems like the money covered up for inadequacy in the bedroom when things were rosy and now that that padding is gone, she is beginning to question the point of the whole arrangement.

Getting back on his feet is not enough. Is he going to be better than before?

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Re: Marital advice; wife, I am not ashamed of my past and you didn't disflower me by stanliwise(m): 4:51pm On Sep 20, 2020
ademidedavid:
I will make it brief as possible, a fellow friend who is also a nairalander approached me with this question.

He said his wife whom they are in good terms has been talking recently about her ex who disflowered her but now outside the country and she has also been showing much interest in travelling out recently. On a friendly conversation, she told him that she is not ashamed of her past and also reminded the husband that he didn't marry her as a virgin.

Please is there an ulterior motive to this?
You have the right to speak but that one doesn’t mean you speak carelessly.
What sought of misyarn is that?
No show of respect for her husband and moreso added salt to injury by digging out an old hatchet.

If the man knows what’s up let him start getting ready to make some hard decisions.

Nonsense and ingredient

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