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Re: No to stigmatization by Ibhamzah17: 2:27pm On Sep 22, 2020
This op is mad today, tomorrow and I Neva knw grin grin
Re: No to stigmatization by graciousolo(m): 2:37pm On Sep 22, 2020
Columbine:
Most people who masturbate would want to stop, this shows their is something negative or bad it does to them, wether spiritually, socially, emotionally or otherwise.

If you masturbate and you don't feel guilty, then their is a problem.

Your post is a circular thought.

You say the feeling of guilt indicates that masturbation is bad... then, you guilt trip a person who doesn't.


Apart from the religious and social dogma and norms you have associated to masturbation, why is it wrong?


I masturbate; I don't feel guilty.

In fact, I feel like I responded to a natural primitive need and there absolutely no need to feel guilty about it.


Don't be surprised that they tried to make you hate your sexuality. Snakes, dogs, pigs and a few other animals are hated just for existing due to religious BS.


Think for yourself.

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Re: No to stigmatization by 2DADDEY: 2:38pm On Sep 22, 2020
Naija greedy hungry and stupid girls aint worth it pls..
masturbation does not cause cancer undecided

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Re: No to stigmatization by graciousolo(m): 2:38pm On Sep 22, 2020
graciousolo:


Some of the drawdowns of religion is demonising sex. Still it didn't stop humans (including religious adherents) from sexing even if they have to lie about it.

Masturbation (or sex) only becomes a problem when it becomes an addiction like most seemingly harmless things like food or chocolate or milk etc.

...

Also...

Your god is anything but, almighty. There is no evidence for this


Based on your Bible there's nobody as evil as your god... It's all in your Bible.


Nobody destroyed more humans than your god in your Bible... Also nobody allows more death than your god... assuming he is real. Though I am sure the whole thing are the works of primitive and psychopathic uncivilised men.




You are most likely a masturbator yourself.




Re: No to stigmatization by Silentgroper(m): 2:38pm On Sep 22, 2020
fati2001:
continue!
ur shippers will surely applause for you lik the man below (as illustrated)
It's applaud baby girl.
Re: No to stigmatization by Righteousness89(m): 2:38pm On Sep 22, 2020
LabuleofNigeria:


I have been observing you and your unrealistic posts for long on this platform. All i have seen in you is Mental slavery.
You have sold your reasoning and mental strenghts to biased and baseless religious bigotry. No Insults intended pls.

Where in the Bible has Masturbation been tagged Sinful. look your baseless bible quotes. All has nothing to do with masturbation (Kindly take a second look). Take away your emotions and do justice to the my question. Is it a sin ? Where does God, or Jesus or Moses etc condemned it?

How would you then describe wet dreams? Unconsious sins? Riteousness89! please stay woke and face the reality.
Stop misleading people here all in the name of God. God has little or none to do with everything YOU relate to him on this platform.
Stop feeling like a mini-celebrity here. You are only exhibiting your ignorance & hemoragic bigotry on every topic. Rubbish.

ALL YOUR BIBLE QUOTES TALKS ABOUT SEXUAL IMORALITIES. NOT MASTURBATION !
NOTE: I DONT SUPPORT MASTURBATION TOO, BUT MY POINT IS YOU CALLING IT A SIN.

Galatians 5:19, NLT: "When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, the results are very clear: sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures,"

1 Peter 2:11, NIV: "Dear friends, I urge you, as foreigners and exiles, to abstain from sinful desires, which wage war against your soul."

1 John 2:16, KJV: "For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world."
Genesis 38:9-10 9 But Onan knew that the child would not be his; so whenever he slept with his brother's wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from providing offspring for his brother. 10 What he did was wicked in the LORD's sight; so the LORD put him to death also.
Galatians 5:16 But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh.
Romans 13:14 But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh in regard to its lusts.
1Corithians 6:18 Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, 'The two will become one flesh.'


Masturbation is not Sexual Immorality?
I see! It is Sexual Morality!

You Need Serious Help!

If you Observe me Here you will know that I don't Do Arguments.

I Tell you the Biblical Hard Truth that you will Hardly Hear.
Hear it again Sir!

Masturbation is Evil!
Masturbation is Immoral
Masturbation is Demonic

It's up to you to Decide for yourself..

If you Like Hear! If don't like reject it!

You can't say you Didn't Hear or didn't know

Every Decision has its Consequences..
Sin has its Consequences..
I am Through with u..
God Bless you
Re: No to stigmatization by paqman: 2:41pm On Sep 22, 2020
Righteousness89:
I am not Surprised by this..
The devil Assignment is to steal, kill and destroy..
He has his Delegated foot Soldiers every corner of the World and Cities, on line and Off line, Knowingly and Unknowingly.

Their duty is to Confuse people, Deceive them, Caged them and Ensure they go to Hell.

Masturbation is Sin against God Almighty
Masturbation is Evil
Masturbation is a Destroyer of the Spirit, Soul and Body.
Masturbation gives Access to Principalities and Powers to take control of you and use you to Perform Wicked Wonders..
Masturbation Cripples and Cages you Spirtually, Physically, Mentally, Emotionally, Publicly and otherwise..
Masturbation is an invitation to Spirtual Prision and Bondage..

Flee From Masturbation!
Flee From Sin..
do you have enough evidence to back it up
Re: No to stigmatization by Kabir5643(m): 2:46pm On Sep 22, 2020
Masturbators go full this thread
Re: No to stigmatization by Kabir5643(m): 2:49pm On Sep 22, 2020
Well you have a point, op

But in a way it's good. You just have to balance it

To me, the disadvantages outweigh the advantages cos it's very easy to get addicted to it and very hard to stop it

So masturbation is a nono for me


Semen retention geng
Re: No to stigmatization by Adegbem01(m): 3:35pm On Sep 22, 2020
incredible2017:
The gospel truth is that masturbation is not good and healthy, it has so many side effects that I can attest to.

But bro have you ever seen mammals (animal) masturbate?.
Why do people argue illogical like this, and have you ever see animal starved of intercourse before, is the word fornication or adultery valid in there world. How will you compare bieng of choice to animal that are nature programmed. Kai africans and small brain
If you wan hear your view fine, stop saying stupid things to make your idea look solid
Re: No to stigmatization by Cashsteady(m): 3:41pm On Sep 22, 2020
Lot of hypocrite here... A single guy who hasn't met any female in his life and he often have sexual urge.. what should we do? Should he go and rape? If u are single and u know u don't want to bleep hoes my brother masturbate don't mind all this hypocritical lot saying trash even research said it's healthy to masturbate

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Re: No to stigmatization by Jacuzzi55(f): 3:56pm On Sep 22, 2020
Kabir5643:
Well you have a point, op

But in a way it's good. You just have to balance it

To me, the disadvantages outweigh the advantages cos it's very easy to get addicted to it and very hard to stop it

So masturbation is a nono for me


Semen retention geng
I was never addicted to it
people who get addicted to masturbation need to work on themselves
no hardworking person we get addicted to masturbation unless you are jobless in such case you will also be addicted to other things apart from masturbation
Re: No to stigmatization by Jacuzzi55(f): 4:01pm On Sep 22, 2020
that is why many young christians and Muslims fall into sexual immorality
imaging telling a young guy to wait in order to have sex when he is married which might happen in the next 15 years,without any form of sexual relief?
do you think it is possible?
konji go wire their head one day and before you know it, they have been possessed by fornicating spirit and so they need "deliverance" as the dummies will say
Re: No to stigmatization by themaestro08(m): 4:06pm On Sep 22, 2020
Exactly, it always astound me whenever I see threads here with titles like "masturbation has ruined me" , "help the devil is wrecking me" bla bla bla.... My instant reaction is wtf are these guys on about ..... Even more annoying is those religious fanatics who will start giving sermons and preaching - spewing gibberish on how it is a demonic act which can lead one to hell bla bla bla ..... Wtf is wrong with you guys? angry

Anyway, op I shared your position that masturbating is totally healthy and safe so long one ain't addicted to it. Moreover, as far as I know there are no scientific evidence that says otherwise, any other thing is just anecdotes and bull shit.
Re: No to stigmatization by Karleb(m): 4:16pm On Sep 22, 2020
One thing with most masturbators is; they eventually quit after a very long time.

The OP is a case study.

This has nothing to do with your social or religious dogma.
Re: No to stigmatization by Notateflonguy(m): 4:31pm On Sep 22, 2020
I'm not here to dispute your point... But bruv....in the medical world masturbation is actually not a bad practice if done properly.....it should not be done to satisfy your sexual urge... Masturbation was meant to be more of a sensual act than sexual... Not something you do when you're Hot.... That's when it becomes an addiction... Masturbation should be done when trying to understand your body..... So you coming here to state bluntly the advantages of masturbation without stating why one should engage in it is bad.... We should all know the reason behind what we all do... The reason why most guys masturbate is not proper... Masturbation is not what you do to satisfy your sexual urge... A p***y is only meant to satisfy such urge
Re: No to stigmatization by Jacuzzi55(f): 4:51pm On Sep 22, 2020
Notateflonguy:
I'm not here to dispute your point... But bruv....in the medical world masturbation is actually not a bad practice if done properly.....it should not be done to satisfy your sexual urge... Masturbation was meant to be more of a sensual act than sexual... Not something you do when you're Hot.... That's when it becomes an addiction... Masturbation should be done when trying to understand your body..... So you coming here to state bluntly the advantages of masturbation without stating why one should engage in it is bad.... We should all know the reason behind what we all do... The reason why most guys masturbate is not proper... Masturbation is not what you do to satisfy your sexual urge... A p***y is only meant to satisfy such urge
but when pussy is not available ?
you stay mute with the konji?
if masturbation should not be done to satisfy sexual urge i wonder what it satisfies,unsexual urge?
I have done enough research and i myself is a living prove
if masturbation is done properly
there is a ZERO side effect
Re: No to stigmatization by Jacuzzi55(f): 4:59pm On Sep 22, 2020
Karleb:
One thing with most masturbators is; they eventually quit after a very long time.

The OP is a case study.

This has nothing to do with your social or religious dogma.

Yes when the eventually get a stable road
Re: No to stigmatization by Notateflonguy(m): 5:04pm On Sep 22, 2020
Jacuzzi55:

but when pussy is not available ?
you stay mute with the konji?
if masturbation should not done to satisfy sexual urge i wonder what it satisfies,unsexual urge?
I have done enough research and i myself is a living prove
if masturbation is done properly
there is a ZERO side effect

Lol....why will you want to replace the role of a pussy with masturbating ... If you're trying to sort out some medical issue like PE... You can resort to masturbation for practice... Not fulfilling your sexual urge with it... It's not healthy that way
Re: No to stigmatization by Jacuzzi55(f): 5:21pm On Sep 22, 2020
Notateflonguy:


Lol....why will you want to replace the role of a pussy with masturbating ... If you're trying to sort out some medical issue like PE... You can resort to masturbation for practice... Not fulfilling your sexual urge with it... It's not healthy that way
masturbation is widely know to cause both DE and PE
it depends on how you practise it
if you rush to the act and climax it causes PE
if you take your time before climax it cause DE
and other factor causes PE including what you take

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Re: No to stigmatization by Kabir5643(m): 5:28pm On Sep 22, 2020
Jacuzzi55:

I was never addicted to it
people who get addicted to masturbation need to work on themselves
no hardworking person we get addicted to masturbation unless you are jobless in such case you will also be addicted to other things apart from masturbation
Can you go a week without it?
Re: No to stigmatization by Notateflonguy(m): 5:39pm On Sep 22, 2020
Jacuzzi55:

masturbation is widely know to cause both DE and PE
it depends on how you practise it

You've said it all... It's a practice not a sexual relief shit....it should not be your resort when you're Hot...it should only be done when you're trying to know yourself better
Re: No to stigmatization by Jacuzzi55(f): 5:43pm On Sep 22, 2020
Kabir5643:
Can you go a week without it?
Yes
Re: No to stigmatization by Jacuzzi55(f): 5:46pm On Sep 22, 2020
Notateflonguy:


You've said it all... It's a practice not a sexual relief shit....it should not be your resort when you're Hot...it should only be done when you're trying to know yourself better
my point and yours dsnt tally
Re: No to stigmatization by themaestro08(m): 5:48pm On Sep 22, 2020
Kabir5643:

Can you go a week without it?

Even more than, that one masturbate doesn't mean they are addicted to it. Some do it daily, some weekly, monthly. Not everyone is addicted to it.
Re: No to stigmatization by OGWILLS123: 5:51pm On Sep 22, 2020
graciousolo:



Another wrong assumption.

Factually, humans have never had it this good... Even with the pandemic. Our generation has seen lesser diseases, lesser wars, more aid towards the poor, more awareness of our society and planet and more prosperity generally.


Even though I think sex and having multiple partners isn't bad as far as it is mutual. Please, tell me what morals the Davids and Solomons of your Bible had?


I know you will still italize your next post and write in the errors of uncivilised writers.
Leave the righteous man of God alone
is he stopping you from masturbating undecided
is he holding your hands undecided
go on and masturbate nobody is stopping
you .
but remember you will give account of your life
on the last day.
take it or leave it truth is always biter tongue
Re: No to stigmatization by GreatMage: 6:37pm On Sep 22, 2020
The devil is so smart that it's shocking...

He made sin look normal grin

Cc righteousness89 shocked
Re: No to stigmatization by Righteousness89(m): 6:56pm On Sep 22, 2020
GreatMage:
The devil is so smart that it's shocking...

He made sin look normal grin

shocked
You are so Correct Bro..
Many do not Understand who they are toiling with .
The Devil has Confused Humanity by Modifying Evil and Wickedness, Making them feel that it's Nothing..

All the devil is after is the Soul! He is walking round the Clock to Ensure Humans go against God Almighty so they will End in Hell Fire..,

That's why God Almighty put us here to tell Humanity the truth. It's up to Whoever wants to Hear!
You Can take a Horse to the Stream but you cannot Force it to Drink Water
Re: No to stigmatization by Notateflonguy(m): 6:57pm On Sep 22, 2020
Jacuzzi55:

my point and yours dsnt tally
Ok
Re: No to stigmatization by Jacuzzi55(f): 8:06pm On Sep 22, 2020
GreatMage:
The devil is so smart that it's shocking...

He made sin look normal grin

Cc righteousness89 shocked
you don't blame the devil
God created all human being like such
most people started masturbating through self thought
I believe wet dream is the starting point of masturbation as the first intro to it is from wet dream
it is left for you to think whether it is God or Satan that created wet dream
Re: No to stigmatization by graciousolo(m): 9:05pm On Sep 22, 2020
OGWILLS123:

Leave the righteous man of God alone
is he stopping you from masturbating undecided
is he holding your hands undecided
go on and masturbate nobody is stopping
you .
but remember you will give account of your life
on the last day.
take it or leave it truth is always biter tongue

Truth is subjective. Fact isn't. The fact is the only place you give account for life is here. Heaven and hell is a badly written story.


I masturbate and I do it with joy when I have to.

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Re: No to stigmatization by Introvertmemer(m): 9:36pm On Sep 22, 2020
Kabir5643:
Well you have a point, op

But in a way it's good. You just have to balance it

To me, the disadvantages outweigh the advantages cos it's very easy to get addicted to it and very hard to stop it

So masturbation is a nono for me


Semen retention geng
you can masturbate or have sex and still retain semen,doing away with sex as a whole is called abstinance or celibacy

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