Hi guys, this is inspired by some rumors circulating lately. It's about the "ONE MILLION BOYZ" I'm sure many of you are familiar with this phrase and the hideous atrocities, molestation and violation of fundamental human right of citizens associated with their activities around Lagos. Actually, its the first time I'm hearing about them, and seriously? what the hell is the government doing about this.

Anyway, what caught me the most is one outrageous act they engaged in, and that is compelling siblings of opposite sex to engage in sexual intercourse in front of them. I was like.....wtf?. Whether or not this is true I don't know, but if true it is wickedness.

Now to the basis of this write up, provided that in a situation where such a thing happened, after the exercise, how should the siblings expected to see each other, certainly things can never be the same again with them. What measures can truly cure such, remember there's already emotional and psychological damage here. Should the two stay away from each other that they don't meet for a long time? or they just stay together and pretend nothing happened? Can it work that way?

I'm oblige to table this internal confrontation of mine before you distinguish nairalanders, as I couldn't find a conclusion of what's best to be done, to shed more light, giving your respective views on what should or shouldn't be done.

Okay, enough of me talking, over to you all, our dear therapies and psychologists, lets hear you out.

Cc; tosyne2much, lalasticlala. Rocktation, farano.

I bliv itz wrong to sleep with your sister now..girls plenty in our society & I'm wondering hw dt kind of mistake occured

hmmm well according to my say and experience in spiritual matters, the moment they both slept with each other, in the realm of the spirit, a vail was open for every demon to enter into their life, from demon of sadness and depression to demon of torment that they cant forget to demon of anger, what they need is a thorough deliverance to chase away those wicked evil spirits in the name of JESUS, then after they need the word of GOD as a food to be eaten daily and by so doing the love of GOD will flourish in their life and their past will be over and behind them, what will be left is only the love for JESUS and to live for the future.

It depends on the psychological threshold of both individuals and the effect of the aftermath of such experience on them.

Definitely, such event could leave them with emotional scars that may linger for some time and even change their perception of themselves both as separate individuals and as brother and sister, but this doesn't happen in all instances, and like I earlier said, it ultimately depends on the individuals themselves and how psychologically and emotionally strong they are.

I think after such experience, both siblings should talk to a psychologist together and separately. The psychologist would ask them questions and help them deal with any developing feeling, be it an attraction, fear, trauma, reoccuring fantasies or emotional turmoil, that they might have as a result of what happened. Most times, this "feelings" don't happen instantly, they grow gradually and blossom months after the experience, so, it's advisable that their visit to the psychologist for reassessment becomes a continuous thing. For instance; twice a month over a course of a year.

Naija criminals are getting sicker and more demented by the day.




A'ko ni pade agbako oooo (we won't encounter the unfortunate)




God will deliver this nation

joshing:
I bliv itz wrong to sleep with your sister now..girls plenty in our society & I'm wondering hw dt kind of mistake occured

I'm talking about a situation where one is compelled to do it. Not willfully, and/or even if a mistake what should be the next step.

saintloveren:
hmmm well according to my say and experience in spiritual matters, the moment they both slept with each other, in the realm of the spirit, a vail was open for every demon to enter into their life, from demon of sadness and depression to demon of torment that they cant forget to demon of anger, what they need is a thorough deliverance to chase away those wicked evil spirits in the name of JESUS, then after they need the word of GOD as a food to be eaten daily and by so doing the love of GOD will flourish in their life and their past will be over and behind them, what will be left is only the love for JESUS and to live for the future.

In other words, ur reservation is that spiritual deliverance is the only way out. What about the non-christians They too must pass the spiritual options?

joshing:
I bliv itz wrong to sleep with your sister now..girls plenty in our society & I'm wondering hw dt kind of mistake occured

You clearly didn't read the thread

they are currently terrorizing shibiri local govt and yet the police has not been able to capture them, sometimes I wonder what is the function of police..............we have ajangbadi police station, ilogbo police station and yet they wont come when are they are terrorizing people at night................please am appealing to the state police command to send strong forces to shibiri because for the past three days people don't sleep anymore at night

uncjay:


In other words, ur reservation is that spiritual deliverance is the only way out. What about the non-christians They too must pass the spiritual options?

YES YES YES AND A BIG YES, forget about phychologist it does not last long, u cannot drive away wicked spirits with mere words of encouragement. "JESUS IS THE ONLY way and the bible is the only permanent phychologist.

Decker:
It depends on the psychological threshold of both individuals and the effect of the aftermath of such experience on them.

Definitely, such event could leave them with emotional scars that may linger for some time and even change their perception of themselves both as separate individuals and as brother and sister, but this doesn't happen in all instances, and like I earlier said, it ultimately depends on the individuals themselves and how psychologically and emotionally strong they are.

I think after such experience, both siblings should talk to a psychologist together and separately. The psychologist would ask them questions and help them deal with any developing feeling, be it an attraction, fear, trauma, reoccuring fantasies or emotional turmoil, that they might have as a result of what happened. Most times, this "feelings" don't happen instantly, they grow gradually and blossom months after the experience, so, it's advisable that their visit to the psychologist for reassessment becomes a continuous thing. For instance; twice a month over a course of a year.

Though, I come to understand that emotions are subjective in human morality. I like your point here about seeing a psychologist. But are you also saying there the possibility of both individuals having feelings for each other over time, after the experience??

rotation, farano.......pls sirs do the needful nau, get this thing to the larger audience. Thanks

joshing:
I bliv itz wrong to sleep with your sister now..girls plenty in our society & I'm wondering hw dt kind of mistake occured

You wont die if you read the write up:

saintloveren:
YES YES YES AND A BIG YES, forget about phychologist it does not last long, u cannot drive away wicked spirits with mere words of encouragement. "JESUS IS THE ONLY way and the bible is the only permanent phychologist.

Ok sir.....thankx

uncjay:


Though, I come to understand that emotions are subjective in human morality. I like your point here about seeing a psychologist. But are you also saying there the possibility of both individuals having feelings for each other over time, after the experience??

Yes there is such possibility, especially if the female sibling is being deflowered by the male. But this attraction will be more of sexual than physical or emotional.

The minds of women associate a deep attachment to traumatic experiences, especially one of a sexual kind, and such experience could alter their sexual orientation in a lot of ways, and the perpetrator of the traumatic encounter or one who she shares such traumatic experience with, becomes a prime factor in the psychological equation and he/she becomes subconsciously aligned into the whole sexual alteration.

What the Op wrote is 100%. Its becoming alarming these days.

Decker:


Yes there is such possibility, especially if the female sibling is being deflowered by the male. But this attraction will be more of sexual than physical or emotional.

The minds of women associate a deep attachment to traumatic experiences, especially one of a sexual kind, and such experience could alter their sexual orientation in a lot of ways, and the perpetrator of the traumatic encounter or who she shares such traumatic experience with, becomes a prime factor in the whole equation and becomes subconsciously aligned into the whole sexual alteration.

Wow! In that case the females need psychologist asap..... Thanks bro.

vickvan:
What the Op wrote is 100%. Its becoming alarming these days. I couldn't even sleep last night because of one million boys. They do carry out their dubious act at night along Shibiri, Ajangbadi in Ojo LGA in Lagos. Please oo.. we need strong security agencies. May God help us.

Abo oooo help us canverse to any govt officials and parastatize ooooo..... We need help.

lalasticlala!!! Do the needful.

when u sleep with your brother or sister ,things will never remain the same again.u can't look into each others eyes neither can u stay together like siblings again,u feel depressed and guilty.U start looking for where to go to avoid him or her in fact everything will definitely change

cruzita:
when u sleep with your brother or sister ,things will never remain the same again.u can't look into each others eyes neither can u stay together like siblings again,u feel depressed and guilty.U start looking for where to go to avoid him or her in fact everything will definitely change

So what's your opinion on how to salvage such resultant effect

uncjay:


So what's your opinion on how to salvage such resultant effect

AVOID DOING IT

cruzita:
AVOID DOING IT

Did you read the write up??

saintloveren:
hmmm well according to my say and experience in spiritual matters, the moment they both slept with each other, in the realm of the spirit, a vail was open for every demon to enter into their life, from demon of sadness and depression to demon of torment that they cant forget to demon of anger, what they need is a thorough deliverance to chase away those wicked evil spirits in the name of JESUS, then after they need the word of GOD as a food to be eaten daily and by so doing the love of GOD will flourish in their life and their past will be over and behind them, what will be left is only the love for JESUS and to live for the future.

see the way ur talking as if its one easy thing to do. Haba

uncjay:


Though, I come to understand that emotions are subjective in human morality. I like your point here about seeing a psychologist. But are you also saying there the possibility of both individuals having feelings for each other over time, after the experience??

yes o. Very big posibility. And if dat hapens, they might start sleeping with each oda at home secretly

IamLEGEND1:
I no get sister,so I no go understand.

ok, what if it was ur bro/mum u were asked to slip with by d robbers?

I don't av a sister, but if I did how will my dck rise for her I dey craze? I no fit bleep am o, e beta make dem kuku shoot me(God forbid)

peacengine:
I don't av a sister, but if I did how will my dck rise for her I dey craze?

hahaha, u neva jam. By d tym dey say they wud use knife to do her if u kant do ha na den ur eye go clear wela.

Dis robbers are so sick

I wonder why this is not making fp. so that government will step up security in these communities. I couldn't sleep well last night because we noticed strange faces moving around in Ketu- Ijanikin. Not after hearing of their activities in Morogbo, Ilogbo and environs.


oga Seun, lalatisclala obinoscopy do the needful

Another form of 3 Mopol in our communities

glossy6:
I wonder why this is not making fp. so that government will step up security in these communities. I couldn't sleep well last night because we noticed strange faces moving around in Ketu- Ijanikin. Not after hearing of their activities in Morogbo, Ilogbo and environs.


oga Seun, lalatisclala obinoscopy do the needful

Another form of 3 Mopol in our communities

Thank you very much ooooo, I've called, shouted, begging and hoping they will push it forward oooo.

Larger audience, should share their view and government should be alerted for goodness sake. I've not had first hand experience of the touts activities but two days ago all the male in my street were all awake through the night keeping watch, when I asked I was told one million boyz are coming. Who or what the hell is one million boyz? So my were alerted to fight them back in case they show up.

That's terrorizzing the peace of people. So the mods should please send it to fp,.....lalasticlala.