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Good Afternoon guys

I want to breakup with my girlfriend of 4yrs for a 4months Relationship.

Please I need advise on how to handle to situation.. I have been with this girl since, I loved her cared for her but she took me for granted. Most times I will stay upto 4months without any call or chat from her.

I do love her but the issue now is that my new baby have showed me the other side of love..the other side of Relationship and I have made my pledge to be with her no matter what happened.

I see seriously in them but if I have to go for one. I will go for my new girlfriend because she brought out the real me.

Please do you think is right to tell the other one that am already committed in a new Relationship.
How do I solve this without hurting her feelings

go where your mind (heart) goes

hope the new one is not fantasy

Mandelus:
go where your mind (heart) goes

That's true but I don't want to hurt either of them

Did you try to talk to your first girlfriend about her not calling/chatting you for a month? Do you know if she's not happy dating you for 4 whole years without a glimpse of marriage in sight?
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Anyways there are 3 sides to this story, your version,her version and the truth.

The fact that you entered a new relationship while still being in another one already makes you unworthy of either ladies.


My advice?
Break up with both!

EzendiEgo1:
Good Afternoon guys

I want to breakup with my girlfriend of 4yrs for a 4months Relationship.

Please I need advise on how to handle to situation.. I have been with this girl since, I loved her cared for her but she took me for granted. Most times I will stay upto 4months without any call or chat from her.

I do love her but the issue now is that my new baby have showed me the other side of love..the other side of Relationship and I have made my pledge to be with her no matter what happened.

I see seriously in them but if I have to go for one. I will go for my new girlfriend because she brought out the real me.

Please do you think is right to tell the other one that am already committed in a new Relationship.
How do I solve this without hurting her feelings

If your first girl friend has been like that from the beginning of your relationship, I advise that you go for the one that loves you more.

You can breakup with the former girl already cus she has broken up with you since

The O.S you dey use slow my Brother

luscioustrish:
Did you try to talk to your first girlfriend about her not calling/chatting you for a month? Do you know if she's not happy dating you for 4 whole years without a glimpse of marriage in sight?
.
Anyways there are 3 sides to this story, your version,her version and the truth.

I have told her that many times all she keep saying was sorry sorry.

Now she drop something that look like suicide text.

CreepyBlackpool:
The fact that you entered a new relationship while still being in another one already makes you unworthy of either ladies.


My advice?
Break up with both!

Mind you she didn't talk to me for all this long but I keep seeing her online...long the line Love showed up and made you to understand meaning of love. If you where to be Me what will you do?

EzendiEgo1:
Good Afternoon guys

I want to breakup with my girlfriend of 4yrs for a 4months Relationship.

Please I need advise on how to handle to situation.. I have been with this girl since, I loved her cared for her but she took me for granted. Most times I will stay upto 4months without any call or chat from her.

I do love her but the issue now is that my new baby have showed me the other side of love..the other side of Relationship and I have made my pledge to be with her no matter what happened.

I see seriously in them but if I have to go for one. I will go for my new girlfriend because she brought out the real me.

Please do you think is right to tell the other one that am already committed in a new Relationship.
How do I solve this without hurting her feelings

Another man pikin don day run ur race... Go for the new girl bro

EzendiEgo1:
Mind you she didn't talk to me for all this long but I keep seeing her online...long the line Love showed up and made you to understand meaning of love. If you where to be Me what will you do?

I would've broken up with her first before entering another relationship

CreepyBlackpool:
I would've broken up with her first before entering another relationship

That's what am trying to do am. You don't have idea that am dating.

You are already cheating so just fix your life and get rid of the one you don't want...instead of wasting your/her life.