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Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by EzendiEgo1: 3:59pm On Sep 22, 2020
Good Afternoon guys

I want to breakup with my girlfriend of 4yrs for a 4months Relationship.

Please I need advise on how to handle to situation.. I have been with this girl since, I loved her cared for her but she took me for granted. Most times I will stay upto 4months without any call or chat from her.

I do love her but the issue now is that my new baby have showed me the other side of love..the other side of Relationship and I have made my pledge to be with her no matter what happened.

I see seriously in them but if I have to go for one. I will go for my new girlfriend because she brought out the real me.

Please do you think is right to tell the other one that am already committed in a new Relationship.
How do I solve this without hurting her feelings
Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by Nobody: 4:24pm On Sep 22, 2020
go where your mind (heart) goes
Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by Patvincible: 4:25pm On Sep 22, 2020
hope the new one is not fantasy
Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by EzendiEgo1: 4:38pm On Sep 22, 2020
Mandelus:
go where your mind (heart) goes
That's true but I don't want to hurt either of them
Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by CosmicPhoenix: 5:49pm On Sep 22, 2020
why are you cheating on your girlfriend,mr man.until i hear her own side of the story,you are telling lies.

Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by luscioustrish(f): 5:58pm On Sep 22, 2020
Did you try to talk to your first girlfriend about her not calling/chatting you for a month? Do you know if she's not happy dating you for 4 whole years without a glimpse of marriage in sight?
.
Anyways there are 3 sides to this story, your version,her version and the truth.
Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by CreepyBlackpool: 5:59pm On Sep 22, 2020
The fact that you entered a new relationship while still being in another one already makes you unworthy of either ladies.


My advice?
Break up with both!
Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by incredible2017: 6:00pm On Sep 22, 2020
EzendiEgo1:
Good Afternoon guys

I want to breakup with my girlfriend of 4yrs for a 4months Relationship.

Please I need advise on how to handle to situation.. I have been with this girl since, I loved her cared for her but she took me for granted. Most times I will stay upto 4months without any call or chat from her.

I do love her but the issue now is that my new baby have showed me the other side of love..the other side of Relationship and I have made my pledge to be with her no matter what happened.

I see seriously in them but if I have to go for one. I will go for my new girlfriend because she brought out the real me.

Please do you think is right to tell the other one that am already committed in a new Relationship.
How do I solve this without hurting her feelings
If your first girl friend has been like that from the beginning of your relationship, I advise that you go for the one that loves you more.
Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by 2dice01: 6:03pm On Sep 22, 2020
You can breakup with the former girl already cus she has broken up with you since

The O.S you dey use slow my Brother
Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by EzendiEgo1: 6:05pm On Sep 22, 2020
luscioustrish:
Did you try to talk to your first girlfriend about her not calling/chatting you for a month? Do you know if she's not happy dating you for 4 whole years without a glimpse of marriage in sight?
.
Anyways there are 3 sides to this story, your version,her version and the truth.
I have told her that many times all she keep saying was sorry sorry.

Now she drop something that look like suicide text.
Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by EzendiEgo1: 6:08pm On Sep 22, 2020
CreepyBlackpool:
The fact that you entered a new relationship while still being in another one already makes you unworthy of either ladies.


My advice?
Break up with both!
Mind you she didn't talk to me for all this long but I keep seeing her online...long the line Love showed up and made you to understand meaning of love. If you where to be Me what will you do?
Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by Nobody: 6:12pm On Sep 22, 2020
EzendiEgo1:
Good Afternoon guys

I want to breakup with my girlfriend of 4yrs for a 4months Relationship.

Please I need advise on how to handle to situation.. I have been with this girl since, I loved her cared for her but she took me for granted. Most times I will stay upto 4months without any call or chat from her.

I do love her but the issue now is that my new baby have showed me the other side of love..the other side of Relationship and I have made my pledge to be with her no matter what happened.

I see seriously in them but if I have to go for one. I will go for my new girlfriend because she brought out the real me.

Please do you think is right to tell the other one that am already committed in a new Relationship.
How do I solve this without hurting her feelings

Another man pikin don day run ur race... Go for the new girl bro

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Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by CreepyBlackpool: 7:00pm On Sep 22, 2020
EzendiEgo1:
Mind you she didn't talk to me for all this long but I keep seeing her online...long the line Love showed up and made you to understand meaning of love. If you where to be Me what will you do?
I would've broken up with her first before entering another relationship

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Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by EzendiEgo1: 7:02pm On Sep 22, 2020
CreepyBlackpool:

I would've broken up with her first before entering another relationship
That's what am trying to do am. You don't have idea that am dating.
Re: Please I Need Advise On How To Handle This by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:48pm On Sep 22, 2020
You are already cheating so just fix your life and get rid of the one you don't want...instead of wasting your/her life.

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