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I have been hearing about women who married their husbands and the man happens to be staying in overseas or moves to overseas thereafter for economic reasons to Carter for the welfare of his family.. Why it is good and fine economically it has left a deficient emotional vacuum for the wife and children esp if it's a young family.

I have a woman in our building whose husband stays abroad but she's always looking forward to talking with me and even trying to make me her confidant but I know the risk associated and had to find my away not to get more closer to her.she has only 2 kids fresh and cute.. Mind you she's still very much pretty and young.. I never knew she was married till I saw her fine kids

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*Deficient emotional vacuum* no dey feed mouth

Chino4NAUTH:
I have been hearing about women who married their husbands and the man happens to be staying in overseas or moves to overseas thereafter for economic reasons to Carter for the welfare of his family.. Why it is good and fine economically it has left a deficient emotional vacuum for the wife and children esp if it's a young family..
I have a woman in our building whose husband stays abroad but she's always looking forward to talking with me and even trying to make me her confidant but I know the risk associated and had to find my away not to get more closer to her.she has only 2 kids fresh and cute.. Mind you she's still very much pretty and young.. I never knew she was married till I saw her fine kids

Share your experience with us

If you don't mount her, someone in the area eventually will. Body no be firewood. Only a foolish man would go at the other side of the world for years and expect his wife to patiently wait. What kind of evil man would even expect that of a wife?

MrBrownJay1:
If you don't mount her, someone in the area eventually will. Body no be firewood. Only a foolish man would go at the other side of the world for years and expect his wife to patiently wait. What kind of evil man would even expect that of a wife?

I won't mount her bro.. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years.

Sisijetue:
*Deficient emotional vacuum* no dey feed mouth

Well we can't have everything in life.. Whatever rock their boats,.. Feed the mouth and leave the vaginaa hungry

Chino4NAUTH:
I won't mount her bro.. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years.

Because they value MONEY above everything... So they have no problem abandoning their family to go chase some whatever, far away from their family. I fully understand why such desperate woman fall prey to men.

Chino4NAUTH:
I won't mount her bro.. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years.

probably the man might have married over there as well.Wen u see a guy overseas who is married and he"s not concerned about bringing his wife over then know for sure he has a woman there .Its not that complex when u overseas and want to bring over ur spouse to join u..except if u there illegally

I have one that is my neighbour currently. Moved into my apartment in January this year and my next flat neighbour is a pretty young woman with very young female twins. They were about 9 months old when I moved in. God knows I love pretty children. These kids have not seen their father before.

There's no amount of temptation I have not faced from this woman. But i have always had a principle of not touching another man's wife. Her twin kids thinks I'm their father cos I buy them things almost on a daily basis while returning from work. Sometimes I pity the young pretty woman. It's not easy for her but I can't help.

Anytime she sees a lady visit me, if you see her face eh lolz. But, it is what it is

lefulefu:
probably the man might have married over there as well.Wen u see a guy overseas who is married and he"s not concerned about bringing his wife over then know for sure he has a woman there .Its not that complex when u overseas and want to bring over ur spouse to join u..except if u there illegally

Exactly...many are in such situation because they CANT bring wifey over til they have they permanent residency and divorce their oyingbo. Wifey.

I left my Wife in Nigeria early this year for overseas after getting the job of my dream. My Organization is ready to move my family anytime am ready. People are leaving Nigeria because of the Economic situation and the way APC is managing the country. Don't blame the Men but the country.

MrBrownJay1:
Exactly...many are in such situation because they CANT bring wifey over til they have they permanent residency and divorce their oyingbo. Wifey.

most times if u having ambition to migrate its better not to get married when u want to married.Marriage can be like a burden when u travelling out.No peace of mind and u will be worrying weda ur wife is cheating on u.If the main reason for travelling is to study u wont be able to concentrate when in class

MrBrownJay1:
If you don't mount her, someone in the area eventually will. Body no be firewood. Only a foolish man would go at the other side of the world for years and expect his wife to patiently wait. What kind of evil man would even expect that of a wife?

I have been noticing how you give bad advice on this forum,why you advice him to sleep with someone else wife, very bad. For those of you quoting me that i misunderstood what mrbrownjay1 said, i don't blame you guys, you all are birds of the same feathers, my point is that he shouldn't have giving the op such delivish advice in the first place.

eejo:
I left my Wife in Nigeria early this year for overseas after getting the job of my dream. My Organization is ready to move my family anytime am ready. People are leaving Nigeria because of the Economic situation and the way APC is managing the country. Don't blame the Men but the country.

Please which country?

virginprincess:
I have been noticing how you give bad advice on this forum,why you advice him to sleep with someone else wife, very bad.

That's because you failed to understand what I wrote... If wifey is already h0rny and willing to offer the toto, then we have to be honest about the situation, instead of pretending that she won't give up the toto to the 1st available Mandingo warrior.

If you believe that this is a bad advice, then so be it.

lefulefu:
most times if u having ambition to migrate its better not to get married when u want to married.Marriage can be like a burden when u travelling out.No peace of mind and u will be worrying weda ur wife is cheating on u.If the main reason for travelling is to study u wont be able to concentrate when in class

How can a man start a family then abandon the poor wife back home? I understand why many are losing their minds.

MrBrownJay1:
That's because you failed to understand what I wrote... If wifey is already h0rny and willing to offer the toto, then we have to be honest about the situation, instead of pretending that she won't give up the toto to the 1st available Mandingo warrior.

If you believe that this is a bad advice, then so be it.



How can a man start a family then abandon the poor wife back home? I understand why many are losing their minds.

Well i have nothing to say to you, because the op has giving you the best reply himself, nigeria men & their stupid mentality.

Chino4NAUTH:
I won't mount her bro.. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years.

my uncle went to the uk in 1987. His wife joined him in 1999 after he divorced his arrangee wife. He came home every 3 years and hit the jackpot 3 times. Today all the kids are doing well abroad. He is enjoying his retirement there too. Money is very important in this life. No point staying in 9ja suffering with ur wife. She may still cheat on you.

virginprincess:
Well i have nothing to say to you, because the op has giving you the best reply himself, nigeria men & their stupid mentality.

As much as the OP won't do, he was honest to say that some other man will, because as the saying goes: "body no be firewood"

MrBrownJay1:
That's because you failed to understand what I wrote... If wifey is already h0rny and willing to offer the toto, then we have to be honest about the situation, instead of pretending that she won't give up the toto to the 1st available Mandingo warrior.

If you believe that this is a bad advice, then so be it.



How can a man start a family then abandon the poor wife back home? I understand why many are losing their minds.

It is very easy to judge other people's actions and come up with your own conclusions. Advising your fellow man to go and fcvk another man's wife is not good.

PUNAengineOIL:
It is very easy to judge other people's actions and come up with your own conclusions.

I wouldn't expect any less from a man... Thus I would certainly understand if this woman does the same. All you hypocrites would see nothing wrong with her husband going abroad to marry and/or fukc some woman for green card but then would look down on the wife doing the same thing. Who are we kidding here?

Now, remember, I am not saying that cheating on your spouse is right, I am just saying that I understand why such lady would lose her damn mind after being "sexually miserable" for so long.

MrBrownJay1:
As much as the OP won't do, he was honest to say that some other man will, because as the saying goes: "body no be firewood"

Yes some other men like you will, because am sure if you are given the chance you will.

virginprincess:
Yes some other men like you will, because am sure if you are given the chance you will.

Again, her being married or not is irrelevant to the point at hand... If this woman wants to fukc, and made up her mind she wants some young Mandingo bull to fukc her, then SHE WILL BE FUKCED!! especially in Nigeria.

MrBrownJay1:
Again, her being married or not is irrelevant to the point at hand... If this woman wants to fukc, and made up her mind she wants some young Mandingo bull to fukc her, then SHE WILL BE FUKCED!! especially in Nigeria.

We are saying the samething, men like you are always avaliabe to do it.

MrBrownJay1:
Again, her being married or not is irrelevant to the point at hand... If this woman wants to fukc, and made up her mind she wants some young Mandingo bull to fukc her, then SHE WILL BE FUKCED!! especially in Nigeria.

You are so on point

I wonder why a man will live is wife home while working abroad. Long distance marriage is a NO for me

Men in long distance marriage can cheat just for sex but for women it goes beyond that. Women loves affections and once they start getting emotionally attach to a man, they won't only give the kpekus they are likely to give their heart too

While body no be firewood, some couples find ways of going through such a predicament.

Omo video call gang.

Some even allow themselves 'freebies'.

I have also heard of people appropriating friends for their spouses

virginprincess:
We are saying the samething, men like you are always avaliabe to do it.

Lol, if I meet the babe for road and she invites me for some "fun time", would it be written on her forehead that she is married? Or better yet, as the dude is about to mount her, do you think he will ask:" are you married, because if you are I no wan do again?!"

adg98:
You are so on point
I wonder why a man will live is wife home while working abroad. Long distance marriage is a NO for me
Men in long distance marriage can cheat just for sex but for women it goes beyond that. Women loves affections and once they start getting emotionally attach to a man, they won't only give the kpekus they are likely to give their heart too

That's the African men misplaced ego's double standard hypocrisy... A man can fukc around all he wants (even while living with wifey) but if wifey dares to look at another man (let alone fukc him), that's an abomination. Lol!

They will surely cheats but it will be coded

MrBrownJay1:
Because they value MONEY above everything... So they have no problem abandoning their family to go chase some whatever, far away from their family. I fully understand why such desperate woman fall prey to men.

see as you rush conclude and generalize.

BKsoul:
see as you rush conclude and generalize.

Why would a man move abroad and abandon his wife back home, if not for money?! Pls oga, do enlighten us on the issue...

MrBrownJay1:
Why would a man move abroad and abandon his wife back home, if not for money?! Pls oga, do enlighten us on the issue...

abeg am a female ooooh. See ehn in this life, whatever you do not the story please dont conclude or generalize, if the man stays back here without any tangible thing to do while he has an opportunity of travelling to make the money, na human being go still insult am say because of yansh, he no wan make am..

I respect women in this kind of situation. Cos its not easy to stay alone without a husband to kiss and cuddle you. An undisciplined wife will cheat when she's tired