BKsoul:
as in ehn, i tire.

na so oo..some husbands and wives dey view themselves as enemies and competitors..no love at all..i wonder why such dey even get married in the first place.

lefulefu:
na so oo..some husbands and wives dey view themselves as enemies and competitors..no love at all..i wonder why such dey even get married in the first place.

i rather stay single than living a lie... me way love love and care like there's no tommorow... how will i cope

BKsoul:
i rather stay single than living a lie... me way love love and care like there's no tommorow... how will i cope

unfortunately not all will be like u
many nigerian marriages the couples are just tolorating each other.if any chance to gbese arise any of the partner go dump the other one without looking back .there was this young lady dat i was buying gas from who died of high blood pressure.dem say d woman husband na wahala for d lady life.as soon as she died d husband take over the shop and bring im side chick over

fattprince:

He is not an e-rat I didn't buy the opinion at first but after his second post I understood him more. From your post he is actually more intelligent than you. His crime was he was blunt with the truth and I can relate because I've been insulted for saying the truth bluntly too.

You are one of the e-rats I was referring to. But like I said earlier, I won't debase the entire male folk just because of e-urchins like you. Just piss off, will ya!

Kassymonkey:

mother from hell

lefulefu:
unfortunately not all will be like u
many nigerian marriages the couples are just tolorating each other.if any chance to gbese arise any of the partner go dump the other one without looking back .there was this young lady dat i was buying gas from who died of high blood pressure.dem say d woman husband na wahala for d lady life.as soon as she died d husband take over the shop and bring im side chick over

nawa ooooooh

A woman who plays around does not need you to go abroad before she engages her passion. There are women, leave them for 5 years, the way you left them is the way you'd meet them. There are women, go to the grocery, they don dey moan on top man before you start car.

Are you saying if I get a job that requires me to spend six months without my wife because she's rounding up a programme, I should reject it because I don't want my wife to cheat? So I should be monitoring her every move because I don't want her to cheat? Look, if she wan cheat, accept that there is nothing you can do about it.

One dog I was in a relationship with, having cheated, told me she had promised the pastor she was sleeping with to give him a hand job whilst pregnant with my child. I didn't travel anywhere and she cheated.

Look, if you have any fear that your partner would cheat or is cheating, that is the singular reason you shouldn't marry them. Face the heartache now by breaking up now than face the pain of divorce and the spiral effects of spousal infidelity, which may last a lifetime.

PS: Marry a disciplined man or woman who respects you and what you share. Who fears God and values family. She or He won't cheat. Love is not enough to carry a marriage. And many who cheat manifest poor upbringing of lying, stealing, and cheating in small things. Most men and women I have seen or heard cheat, lie or steal, they learnt from their parents.

this rubbish happends in nigeria only. i know how many i have bleeped and drained

4ckTOT0:
this rubbish happends in nigeria only. i know how many i have bleeped and drained

story... empty vessels make the loudest noise... you think its only married women whose husband are abroad that cheats? even women who wakes up with thier husbands everyday cheats too

emkz:
A woman who plays around does not need you to go abroad before she engages her passion. There are women, leave them for 5 years, the way you left them is the way you'd meet them. There are women, go to the grocery, they don collect preek. Are you saying if I get a job that requires me to spend six months without my wife because she's rounding up a programme, I should reject it because I don't want my wife to cheat? So I should be monitoring her every move because she's my wife?

i tire.... a cheating partner is a cheating partner, no two ways about it

Mrscarter:


Going without sex isn't that hard.
I don't see how ppl can't do it.
It's no big deal. It depends on your priorities in life and how important your wife/husband is to you and how much you love them

I was in a relationship and work required that we had to be apart for three months. I like sex, but I chose not to indulge my likeness. But madam was collecting every week and fighting me on top. I didn't feel played, I saw her for her worth and she irritates me till this day. I could not even keep her as a sex friend. Everyone can do without sex. Any one that tells you he can't is a liar. Like you said, its a matter of priorities and respect for oneself and your partner.

One truth we must all confront is that after death, there is no more sex. What is our excuse? Cheating has nothing to do with sex, it is just the belief that one can do it and get away with it. Prove to them that they can't by dumping them.

MJluv:
You are one of the e-rats I was referring to. But like I said earlier, I won't debase the entire male folk just because of e-urchins like you. Just piss off, will ya!

M***erf***ker. Your just too low to understand a simple opinion.

BKsoul:
i tire.... a cheating partner is a cheating partner, no two ways about it

What a hypocrite you are.... The above is exactly what I have been saying all along: A WOMAN WHO WANTS TO FUKC, WILL BE FUKCED... And whether the OP or some other stranger, someone will fukc that woman.

MrBrownJay1:


What a hypocrite you are.... The above is exactly what I have been saying all along: A WOMAN WHO WANTS TO FUKC, WILL BE FUKCED... And whether the OP or some other stranger, someone will fukc that woman.

story. onye onyibo hypocrite... what of a cheating man why are you so bothered about a cheating woman? man no dey cheat? abi dem forbid you to talk about cheating men the men that leave their wives to go hustle, dont dey cheat on thier wivesif you want equity, abeg come with clean hands

lefulefu:
it happened in my state sometime ago
the guy hustle im way to yankee when im marry one old yankee white woman.at first the guy wife in naija agreed to the plan with the pressure of the guy"s parents and everything was going on well for him in yankee.I think the plan was to get married to the old american woman divorce her then bring his wife over but the naija wife later lost her patience and sent a threatning facebook message to the guy"s american wife for her to leave her husband alone..dat the guy is her husband and they both have a child and she showed the american wife proof of the marriage .Bros had to run before im american wifey accuse am then posted the matter on the internet.But the guy"s parents chased away his naija wife for breaking up the racket.

It's the Nigerian hypocrisy again.... Parents would allow their son to go abroad fukc some other woman, but as soon as 9ja wife stand for her marriage (or God forbids, cheats), they will quickly look down on wifey. Lol!

See all of them claiming arrant nonsense on this thread.

Mrscarter:

Going without sex isn't that hard.
I don't see how ppl can't do it.
It's no big deal. It depends on your priorities in life and how important your wife/husband is to you and how much you love them

emkz:
I was in a relationship and work required that we had to be apart for three months. I like sex, but I chose not to indulge my likeness. But madam was collecting every week and fighting me on top. I didn't feel played, I saw her for her worth and she irritates me till this day. I could not even keep her as a sex friend. Everyone can do without sex. Any one that tells you he can't is a liar. Like you said, its a matter of priorities and respect for oneself and your partner.

One truth we must all confront is that after death, there is no more sex. What is our excuse? Cheating has nothing to do with sex, it is just the belief that one can do it and get away with it. Prove to them that they can't by dumping them.

Some people can go without sex and others CANT. that's the hard reality of life...just like some can go without money while others CANT. The minute anyone believes that EVERYONE can/should go without sex, that's when you have lost the plot on this issue.
The woman in this issue CANNOT go years without sex, and that's the reality, don't blame men for fukcing that sexually miserable woman, blame the foolish husband who abandoned her.

BKsoul:
story. onye onyibo hypocrite... what of a cheating man why are you so bothered about a cheating woman? man no dey cheat? abi dem forbid you to talk about cheating men the men that leave their wives to go hustle, dont dey cheat on thier wivesif you want equity, abeg come with clean hands

This thread is about a married woman who wants to fukc so stick to the issue, but as you just typed the above arrant nonsense, educate yourself by reading below exactly what I wrote on the above rubbish you just typed:

MrBrownJay1:
I wouldn't expect any less from a man... Thus I would certainly understand if this woman does the same. All you hypocrites would see nothing wrong with her husband going abroad to marry and/or fukc some woman for green card but then would look down on the wife doing the same thing. Who are we kidding here?

Now, remember, I am not saying that cheating on your spouse is right, I am just saying that I understand why such lady would lose her damn mind after being "sexually miserable" for so long.

MrBrownJay1:
That's the African men misplaced ego's double standard hypocrisy... A man can fukc around all he wants (even while living with wifey) but if wifey dares to look at another man (let alone fukc him), that's an abomination. Lol!

How more unbiased can I possibly be?!?!?!?!

MrBrownJay1:


This thread is about a married woman who wants to .fukc so still to the issue, but as you just typed the above arrant nonsense, educate yourself by reading below exactly what I wrote on the above rubbish you just typed:

mr man. go and sit your ass down. why resorting to insults? must you insult make your points known without insults and stop behaving like a sissy.

BKsoul:
mr man. go and sit your ass down. why resorting to insults? must you insult make your points known without insults and stop behaving like a sissy.

You just wrote ARRANT NONSENSE so how do you want me to call it?! If only you had focused on what I have been typing all along in this thread, instead of writing rubbish.

All you people are bursting a vein on this issue because a married WOMAN wants to go and fukc, while her husband is probably already fukcing (after a few years living abroad). Who are we trying to fool here?!?!?!

MrBrownJay1:


You just wrote ARRANT NONSENSE so how do you want me to call it?! If only you had focused on what I have been typing all along in this thread, instead of writing rubbish.

All you people are bursting a vein on this issue because a married WOMAN wants to go and fukc, while her husband is probably already fukcing (after a few years living abroad). Who are we trying to fool here?!?!?!

ehn be bleating nah. � goat.

Im also guilty of this 'sin' . Abandoning your family to travel out to eke out a living. I must confess to you, its not the best living your family behind and traveling out. In my opinion, traveling is best for unmarried people because the temptation outside Nigeria is too much. Fornication and adultery are not viewed as serious sins outside. They perceive them as normal as far as its consentual. However, an unmarried person will just use the opportunity to meet a life partner.

Majority of the young ladies whose husbands are abroad have fire extinguishers. At least I have 5 of them struggling to bleep me but each time an appointment is kept I will come up with one excuse or the other knowing full well that in my community, bleeping another man's wife is prohibited

Samakus:


Nice to see a lady with this mindset. A lot of people, gender notwithstanding, believe that one can't do without sex. That's a notion I find very untrue, maybe because I fit hold body small.

Truth is, if people learn to control their sexual urges, we have successfully solved 80% of world's problems. Sadly, quite a very high percentage of human population just can't

Sex is natural, no matter how discipline you are, there will always be this urge to make out.

Accept this reality.

Mrscarter:


Lol not really.
I'm abstinent for a fair while now by choice n I'm happy n healthy n not frustrated in anyway.
N I know once the wait is over it'll be the more sweeter for him and i
Procreation aswell as pleasure can be done at any given time U choose its not a must that U constantly have to give into.
But everyone's different.
Some ppl have a stronger will than others I guess
So

I submit to your opinion, you have had enough sex that can last you, so sex is nothing but a rush of hormones.

BKsoul:
i rather stay single than living a lie... me way love love and care like there's no tommorow... how will i cope

I like your matured comments

jookunlaja:
Im also guilty of this 'sin' . Abandoning your family to travel out to eke out a living. I must confess to you, its not the best living your family behind and traveling out. In my opinion, traveling is best for unmarried people because the temptation outside Nigeria is too much. Fornication and adultery are not viewed as serious sins outside. They perceive them as normal as far as its consentual. However, an unmarried person will just use the opportunity to meet a life partner.

Are you outside yourself?

luminouz:
I like your matured comments

Thank you so much i appreciate sir(θ‿θ)

Imbalance

Efewestern:


Sex is natural, no matter how discipline you are, there will always be this urge to make out.

Accept this reality.

Isn't there times you lack money and feel the urge to get money by any means possible?

Do you take any means possible for you at that time to get money at that time to satisfy your urge?

Answer me, and I will know the pedestal to reason with you from.

ok

Chino4NAUTH:
I have been hearing about women who married their husbands and the man happens to be staying in overseas or moves to overseas thereafter for economic reasons to Carter for the welfare of his family.. Why it is good and fine economically it has left a deficient emotional vacuum for the wife and children esp if it's a young family.

I have a woman in our building whose husband stays abroad but she's always looking forward to talking with me and even trying to make me her confidant but I know the risk associated and had to find my away not to get more closer to her.she has only 2 kids fresh and cute.. Mind you she's still very much pretty and young.. I never knew she was married till I saw her fine kids

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