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Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Nobody:
If you text a girl for the first time and she doesn't know you, 90% of the time you'll get " Who gave you my number? "

But guys rarely ask. If a random girl hits you up, we'll just say " Who are you or what's your name?" And then the conversation continues.

I've never asked though. Only way I find out is when the girl decides to tell me.

So guys do you always ask the question?


Lalasticlala Mynd44
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by delishpot: 9:42pm On Sep 30, 2020
Sohuh? As in what's wrong in asking how you got a random girls contact?
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by chybuzky(m): 9:43pm On Sep 30, 2020
grin


grin Once a girl hit me up the first thing I do is to check her pics if its cool them,,, the rest is history
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by yomi007k(m): 9:47pm On Sep 30, 2020
I will ask who gave you my number o...


I don't trust humans and security breach.
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Sep 30, 2020
delishpot:
Sohuh? As in what's wrong in asking how you got a random girls contact?
Who said it's wrong?
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by CosmicPhoenix: 9:58pm On Sep 30, 2020
the "who gave you my number" question is irritating as fvck,"how did you get my number" is even more polite.
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Sep 30, 2020
chybuzky:
grin


grin Once a girl hit me up the first thing I do is to check her pics if its cool them,,, the rest is history
bad nigga I sight u grin
chybuzky:
grin


grin Once a girl hit me up the first thing I do is to check her pics if its cool them,,, the rest is history
bad nigga I sight u
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Sep 30, 2020
chybuzky:
grin


grin Once a girl hit me up the first thing I do is to check her pics if its cool them,,, the rest is history
bad nigga I sight u
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by chybuzky(m): 10:01pm On Sep 30, 2020
bukky1994:
bad nigga I sight u
My guy I no fit come dey ask where you get my contact from oo once you sharp everything is ok
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Nobody: 10:02pm On Sep 30, 2020
choices differ, most guys u rather check d gal's pics first if she is okay forget it she is down already
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Nobody: 10:03pm On Sep 30, 2020
chybuzky:
My guy I no fit come dey ask where you get my contact from oo once you sharp everything is ok
u be correct baba
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Nmezor(f): 11:54pm On Sep 30, 2020
Dudes will always be one n Ladies are Ladies...Courtesy demands you state how you got my #
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Funkyswagzz(m): 12:02am On Oct 01, 2020
I can't even remember the last time I got a girls number without her giving it to me. Unless am too bored. Guys I have so many girls number on my fone I dunno wat to wiv them..
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Nobody: 12:03am On Oct 01, 2020
Well i don't care if u look like Beyonce.. If ur number isn't on my listed contacts i must ask. Do i know u? Where n how did we meet? No be now fine face dey hypnotize me. Safety first. If u like vex put
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Cetacean419: 12:13am On Oct 01, 2020
I saw in a meme that Most guys are willing to give a tree a chance if it approaches them first
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by iInjureHerYansh: 12:25am On Oct 01, 2020
Cetacean419:
I saw in a meme that Most guys are willing to give a tree a chance if it approaches them first
Chai grin grin
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Freestainworld(m): 12:46am On Oct 01, 2020
they ask because it's in their nature.
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by 444crop: 2:46am On Oct 01, 2020
Simple phone ethics demands you know how are stranger got your number irrespective of gender.... Even u fine like diamond, as long as ur a stranger, ur a stranger and I deserve a proper introduction
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by tobechi74: 3:02am On Oct 01, 2020
It doesn't matter
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by JoshOxborn: 3:07am On Oct 01, 2020
Girls are weird creatures with bizarre characters.
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Bahamas95(m): 4:06am On Oct 01, 2020
Not only girls, I also do that but in a polite way unlike most of the fvcking girls.



What I ask is HOW DID YOU GET MY NUMBER, not WHO GAVE YOU MY NUMBER......If she isn't ready to give me a direct answer I ignore sharpaly without giving a damn about her looks, I regard her as one less problem to worry about.
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Kiddogarcia(m): 4:17am On Oct 01, 2020
Na number wahala,but na confirm agbo me I wan sell,happy independence tho
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Nobody: 5:56am On Oct 01, 2020
Some of us try to stay as private as possible. I think "how did you get my number" is more appropriate, that's if after the necessary introduction, you still don't have an idea who the person is.


I've resorted to avoiding such questions, cuz most times I don't get the needed reply. huh
But trust me, after a day or two, you won't even recall you collected a number.(You'ld get the proper definition of boring) tongue
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by SirWhiteFish: 6:16am On Oct 01, 2020
Robert1da:
If you text a girl for the first time and she doesn't know you, 90% of the time you'll get " Who gave you my number? "

But guys rarely ask. If a random girl hits you up, we'll just say " Who are you or what's your name?" And then the conversation cont
So guys do you always ask the quest
Lalasticlala Mynd44
Men are bold and can easily defend themselves against harm as oppossed to women whoo are vulnerable when it comes to being safe
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by meobizy(m): 6:41am On Oct 01, 2020
I'm a guy and I've asked the question. I've also shouted down a fair number of unknown admirers. When you know your worth as a human being you can afford to select. I hope all men learn this as they get older.
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Kondomatic(m): 6:53am On Oct 01, 2020
bukky1994:
u be correct baba
He's actually stupid
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Iceyjayz: 6:55am On Oct 01, 2020
I must ask, I can't talk or chat to someone that I don't know from adams.

if you beat around the bush, expect blocking from me, I don't care who you are.
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Ironman3(m): 8:31am On Oct 01, 2020
They do think their number should be in the space where nobody can access it. Well, just trying to be safe
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by BigDawsNet: 8:55am On Oct 01, 2020
It's very normal to ask a lady where she get your number...

Most times... I Interrogate her in a FBI/CIA way...if she's a lady that lack calmness...she won't stay till I finish processing her.
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by padi94(m): 9:15am On Oct 01, 2020
Lol, am a guy And I do ask o... too many political enemies. I cannot be caught sleeping
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by Jeferious: 9:26am On Oct 01, 2020
A guy who doesn't ask how a female stranger got his contact to initiate some convo, in this 21st century....WILL PROBABLY DIE LIKE A FOWL. The person on the other end may not be the beautiful girl you see on the profile picture. It could be a "village people", fraudster or even assassin trying to monitor you through your SM accounts. Personally, I don't woo my ladies online, neither do I accept online wooing. If we can't do our wooing offline where I can see your face as well as your body expressions, forget it.
Re: Why Do Girls Always Ask This But Guys Don't? by kmaster007: 9:34am On Oct 01, 2020
chybuzky:
grin


grin Once a girl hit me up the first thing I do is to check her pics if its cool them,,, the rest is history
badt guy
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