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When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

Hmmm.... I see no reason why you keep viewing status and texting..

You can view without text.. the more communication the more, the Temptation...

Na you don dey carry am for head now ohh....
Leave him alone , n face your husband madam

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.
It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.
When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.
But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry,, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc
I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.
We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

sister face ur marriage!!! no dey use eye find another person man

interesting...I just pity ur husband...

To cheat don dey hungry dis one

@op, you left the guy and married your husband and you still want him to be giving you his attention. You are very selfish and heartless, I pity your husband.

Op this is your answer,,,

Attention seeking woman,,,face ur husband

U 2 obviously have an unfinished business

Evil still deceiving Adam till this day, hope you re not another Eve.

Why not move on or you still have feelings for him for you to be feeling bad.

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.
It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.
When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.
But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry,, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc
I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.
We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

Slippery slope , you are married but your ex occupies your thought, if you were happy you wouldn't even think about your ex. You are on a slippery slope

@op, you left the dude and married your wife and you still want him to be giving you his spotlight. You are very selfish and heart, I pity your wife.

Madam just move on, this was same reason I blocked my ex, she won't reply my messages but when I post pictures I took with my colleague a girl she will comment happy married life. I just have to delete her number even block her

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.
It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.
When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.
But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry,, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc
I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.
We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

SMH

You are married; he is married. Is he looking for a second wife, or are you looking for a second husband?

Madam, face your front

You Didnt Break Up, he Travelled And You Married Somebody Else. Na Wa Oh! Shameful Words Girl.

Stupid post. Unsave his number and move on

imoleoluwa15431:
@op, you left the dude and married your wife and you still want him to be giving you his spotlight. You are very selfish and heart, I pity your wife.

Please read what you typed again...I cannot laugh

op why not focus on ur marriage and leave ex issues alone
ehn all these married women facebooking and twitting with ex

MajesticKris:
Hmmm.... I see no reason why you keep viewing status and texting..

You can view without text.. the more communication the more, the Temptation...

Na you don dey carry am for head now ohh....
Leave him alone , n face your husband madam

abeg preach.obsession don dey set in on op"s part and verysoon e go get effect on her marriage if she no try discipline herself now.

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.
It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.
When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.
But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry,, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc
I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.
We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

Wetin concern you with whether married man view your status or not?
Una don talk sotey another man tell you say "am I the father of your children". What rubbish talk be that?
Na from clap, dance dey start.
Man wey you for don delete him number since, abi you still get feelings for am?
No face your marriage you hear?

imoleoluwa15431:
@op, you left the dude and married your wife and you still want him to be giving you his spotlight. You are very selfish and heart, I pity your wife.

Which topic are u referring to ?

Nah wah for some women

He is definitely not happy that you moved on and married another man. You did not give him any prior information.
You are certainly not over him yet. Hence, you are concerned about your ex who is happily married and ignores your texts just to get back at you.

Focus on your marriage and forget about him. Do not send him messages again. Do not even bother if he watches your status updates.

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.
It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.
When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.
But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry,, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc
I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.
We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

You are one of the typical modern day Nigerian women! ...keep your shit together and hold tight to your husband.

This Op is mean. I've had a synonymous experience like this.

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.
It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.
When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.
But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry,, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc
I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.
We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

he feels his wife may not like it and misunderstand if discovered. hope you will be cool if your husband plays the same card with another?

Woman u better leave Ur ex and face Ur husband, I don't know why some women are confused

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.
It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.
When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.
But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry,, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc
I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.
We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

U wanna forget him he's married now n so are you. So does it really matter what it means that he views Ur social media pages or why he's ignoring you?
It shouldn't matter to you as U have Ur own husband to focus on
If U can be just friends then gud but it seems to me that u view it as unrequited love
(Why else are you thinking on it n worrying bout it enuff to come on nairaland n ask ppls opinions).
Otherwise any gud married woman wouldnt give it a second thought that he won't talk to you n just focus on her husband n her own life!

He isn't responding Ur messages most likely cos he is happy with his wife n doesn't need any temptations from a past gf confusing or messing up his marraige.
U should leave him be,
Would U like Ur husband's ex texting Ur husband?

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.
It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.
When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.
But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry,, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc
I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.
We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

ignore him as well. You made a choice not to marry him, he respects that decision, you should do same. Don't take his attitude personal. If he decides to read your status so be it. He still has your interest but I think demanding that he responds to your messages is a sign of disrespect to your husband.

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.
It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.
When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.
But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry,, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc
I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.
We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

Stop deceiving yourself. You guys can't be friends again for the sanity of your marriages. Avoid any/every form of contact to have peace of mind