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Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Ten06(m): 11:24am On Oct 15, 2020
We have heard from you madam. Can you now face front and mind yourself and your husband?
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by sweetilicious(f): 11:59am On Oct 15, 2020
nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?
Leave him alone.He is married and you are married.Stay away from intending adultery

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Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by LordOfTheGame: 12:18pm On Oct 15, 2020
Openbusiness:
kikikiki grin... she has been sucking more than pocket bro, she has been sucking lollipop too grin, but she's not satisfied, she wants wife privileges from the guy too, daz y the guy was reminding Otondo dat he's not d father of her kids grin


The matter tire me shaa. As am writing this now, like I said earlier, my ex with same Character just wrote me that she's put to bed a baby girl. I had to just call her and congratulate her and wish her well. But then, I know what the baby delivery announcement to me meant and I played cool and let her say it as usual but indirectly.

Anyways, from my heart, I've decided that I will send her something to support the baby.
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by djon78(m): 12:28pm On Oct 15, 2020
bluefilm:


Na the same thing me I don wonder o.

From my own experience, you can only know the number of people who viewed your status but not the particular person who viewed it.

Just like what we have here on Nairaland where you get likes but you don't know the person/s who liked your post.

Maybe they are using WhatsApp GB or something like that...



Maybe it's your version of whatsapp
My own I can see everyone that viewed my status
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by djon78(m): 12:40pm On Oct 15, 2020
SaveMeLord:
Moral Lessons Gathered from this woman's story:
1. Never marry a non virgin
2. If she is not a virgin then she definitely has an ex
3. If she has an ex, there is a 75% chance of going back to him, 95% if the so called ex is richer and more sexually oriented than you are.

4. If you didn't deflower any lady, why should you marry the one deflowered by others

5. Sex is not an ordinary activity, it is a binding force. Such a woman is bound to her ex except she is now in Christ Jesus and has prayed for deliverance, which only a few can do or has done.





Oga there is so much corruption in the world today
The average man and woman out there is so much exposed sexually

If people begin worrying about the things you highlighted
Na highbp go kill some people

My personal philosophy be any package you get in marriage, just manage am

You see a lot of dudes that have screwed left and right, begin to want virgins for marriage.
like who go then marry all those ones they screwed mercilessly, na another man they want to marry them

Most guys never see anything
Most of babes nowadays Don chop well well

Even the ones that call themselves Virgins
They do almost everything with guys except penetration

Make no man go kill himself with highbp
Carry your package when you get married
And go and manage
Nobody holy pass
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Aksnoopy: 12:49pm On Oct 15, 2020
pocohantas:
See how they are hyperventilating at the prospects of a cheating wife. They can’t even take it. cheesy cheesy

Aunty face your marriage. I wonder why you are looking backwards. Please don’t be like Lot’s wife...
You are lost and damaged already. I just pity your BF or husband, that's if you find one. undecided
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by prepresh(f): 1:15pm On Oct 15, 2020
nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady. Sister, that your status and stories are viewed does not mean he is doing it intentionally. Most times when you are viewing a status or story, other people own pops up. So, that could be the case

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by pocohantas(f): 1:58pm On Oct 15, 2020
Aksnoopy:
You are lost and damaged already. I just pity your BF or husband, that's if you find one. undecided

On NL you guys are so good at identifying damaged women, yet it is your gfs/wives cheating and following EXes upandan. Bring in your detective skills into your realities. Una never see anything, more wailings loading. grin grin

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Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Aksnoopy: 2:18pm On Oct 15, 2020
pocohantas:


On NL you guys are so good at identifying damaged women, yet it is your gfs/wives cheating and following EXes upandan. Bring in your detective skills into your realities. Una never see anything, more wailings loading. grin grin
I have an Ex with 3 kids whom is just like the OP, hell bent on fvxking me and stalking me just like OP. But as a real single G I won't fvck a married Hoe, neither will I marry a lost and damaged Hoe

Most you ladies are damaged,lost and dumb.
At the end of the day you are still gonna donate your pvssy to a NL guy freely on a platter of gold. So fuvk off pls!
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by pocohantas(f): 2:27pm On Oct 15, 2020
Aksnoopy:
I have an Ex with 3 kids whom is just like the OP, hell bent on fvxking me and stalking me just like OP. But as a real single G I won't fvck a married Hoe, neither will I marry a lost and damaged Hoe

Most you ladies are damaged,lost and dumb.
At the end of the day you are still gonna donate your pvssy to a NL guy freely on a platter of gold. So fuvk off pls!

Was I supposed to collect money for donating?grin
Which kind mumu jab be this? Abi I resemble olosho wey dey your family?

Oga, stop crying in my mentions o. I am not the cause of your relationship and life troubles.

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Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by hresso: 2:45pm On Oct 15, 2020
pocohantas:


Was I supposed to collect money for donating?grin
Which kind mumu jab be this? Abi I resemble olosho wey dey your family?

Oga, stop crying in my mentions o. I am not the cause of your relationship and life troubles.

Poco onijogbon!

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Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by greatsodade(m): 3:02pm On Oct 15, 2020
kenfarm:
U 2 obviously have an unfinished business undecided


An it can only end in tear for sure.... Madam face front abeg Ahn.
So you are coming to Nairaland to explain yourself now... he was your first love blah blah...Just listen to yourself.

Now if that guy give chance now, obviously you'll cheat on your husband straight up.

your thoughts are like that of a girl just out of secondary school...very premature.

If you don't want your husband, Madam quit the marriage instead of leading him on with your thoughts of MY FIRST LOVE.

I am sure you are already taking the frustration out on your husband either emotionally or otherwise. from your post, you did not talk about having any care for your husband. If you don't love him again let him know and you carry your cross madam first love. DON'T BE HERE AND THERE. it is your type that always shout DOMESTIC VIOLENCE... NA LIKE THIS E DEY START OOO. I HATE NONSENSE BUT I PRAY YOU RECEIVE SENSE SHA.

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Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Munzy14(m): 3:53pm On Oct 15, 2020
lefulefu:
iyam telling u
i like the guy..he"s a responsible guy.Next thing wey he go is if op starts bothering him again he should just block every channel that she will use to contact him.Any woman who wey don already marry and still dey use dey look ex is not a responsible wife.ur husband dey dere na another man u dey still look base onto say na first love
true talk..
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Nobody: 4:15pm On Oct 15, 2020
Yeye dey worry u. Face ur marriage.
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Nobody: 4:15pm On Oct 15, 2020
pocohantas:


Was I supposed to collect money for donating?grin
Which kind mumu jab be this? Abi I resemble olosho wey dey your family?

Oga, stop crying in my mentions o. I am not the cause of your relationship and life troubles.

One cold juice for u.
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Foumi(f): 4:45pm On Oct 15, 2020
pocohantas:


Was I supposed to collect money for donating?grin
Which kind mumu jab be this? Abi I resemble olosho wey dey your family?

Oga, stop crying in my mentions o. I am not the cause of your relationship and life troubles.
Technical knockout grin
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by LegendAnselm: 5:13pm On Oct 15, 2020
nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?
madam face ur husband u want to reap from u didnt sow.

u left him and get marry because u were so desperate to marry .


he ask u am i de father of ur pikin because ur begging 4 money



stop begging him 4 money

stop claiming u still love him


bcause u dont



thats why u left him to get marry


leave the guy to be


i am telling u all this because i know u
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Babygirltess: 5:46pm On Oct 15, 2020
Ategberoson:



God bless you for this, I was trying to find this post and Nairaland doesn't disappoint to hit the nail on the head



a shameless married woman worried about her fúcking ex, you see why I told these guys to stop marrying non virgin ladies? and men should stop fúcking a lady they know they can't marry


stop taking the hymen of these young ladies if you know you can't marry them, I hate it when an innocent man end up with a non virgin lady
And you will also have to remain a virgin OOS because you cannot be a non virgin and be looking for a virgin
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by noriene(f): 6:27pm On Oct 15, 2020
He is definitely not happy that you moved on and married another man. You did not give him any prior information. You are certainly not over him yet. Hence, you are concerned about your ex who is happily married and ignores your texts just to get back at you. Focus on your marriage and forget about him. Do not send him messages again. Do not even bother if he watches your status updates.
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Ategberoson(m): 6:52pm On Oct 15, 2020
Babygirltess:

And you will also have to remain a virgin OOS because you cannot be a non virgin and be looking for a virgin


no matter how rich/wealth a lady is/was she remained a subject in the hand of man, this is not the issue of double standard


men are not obligated to pay a lady dowry for nothing, it was stated to appreciate the value and dignity of a lady but what's woman if the dignity and value is gone?


any unmarried non virgin lady doesn't have value because what make her woman had been taken away by an opportunist.


this is why I endorsed sex education for girl child at tender age, most of the parents failed in that aspect. before you open your legs for another person husband that's disguising as bf, assess commitment, fall in love with your sense along
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Babygirltess: 6:39pm On Oct 16, 2020
Ategberoson:



no matter how rich/wealth a lady is/was she remained a subject in the hand of man, this is not the issue of double standard


men are not obligated to pay a lady dowry for nothing, it was stated to appreciate the value and dignity of a lady but what's woman if the dignity and value is gone?


any unmarried non virgin lady doesn't have value because what make her woman had been taken away by an opportunist.


this is why I endorsed sex education for girl child at tender age, most of the parents failed in that aspect. before you open your legs for another person husband that's disguising as bf, assess commitment, fall in love with your sense along
So in other words you aren't sleeping with anyone or better put you don't or never fornicated or never had sex with your girlfriend
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Ategberoson(m): 6:52pm On Oct 16, 2020
Babygirltess:

So in other words you aren't sleeping with anyone or better put you don't or never fornicated or never had sex with your girlfriend


I don't belong to the class of married men that have pússy at home and still run after another over used one

I disflowered my woman myself when she was 28years, how old were you when your hymen was taken away by an opportunist?


how many Virgin do we have among our young unmarried ladies? dignity and value is gone just because we tried to modernized foolishness and stupidity consistently
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Babygirltess: 10:38pm On Oct 16, 2020
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I don't belong to the class of married men that have pússy at home and still run after another over used one

I disflowered my woman myself when she was 28years, how old were you when your hymen was taken away by an opportunist?


how many Virgin do we have among our young unmarried ladies? dignity and value is gone just because we tried to modernized foolishness and stupidity consistently

[/quote
My dearest, virginity has nothing to do with a woman's dignity so after the first night what happens, does she have a good character does loosing her virginity to her husband mean she won't commit adultery? Our men don't need vitgins they need woman with good character who can raise their kids and build a home with them and being a Virgin does not guarantee you are a keeper and 90% of men want women who are badass in bed. You wanted Virgin you got it others don't so keep your opinion to yourself sir
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Ategberoson(m): 10:58pm On Oct 16, 2020
[quote author=Babygirltess post=95014578][/quote]


character my foot, all those one are secondary


virginity is nature, dignity and value are product of the nature, you're so uninformed


a lady marital value is useless without hymen, if anyone open your sealed icecream in Shoprite won't you returned it back or reject it? so how much a used body


you need proper sex education and orientation
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Babygirltess: 10:22am On Oct 17, 2020
Ategberoson:



character my foot, all those one are secondary


virginity is nature, dignity and value are product of the nature, you're so uninformed


a lady marital value is useless without hymen, if anyone open your sealed icecream in Shoprite won't you returned it back or reject it? so how much a used body


you need proper sex education and orientation
Lol
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by healthbing(f): 11:07am On Oct 17, 2020
Ma d truth is that you still love your ex..
You're trying to destroy your marriage with your emotions..
I agree that first love is difficult to get over..
But you're married you have to move on..
You have no business whatsoever with his emotions
Sister block him in every area if possible block his life..
If you continue like this you may end up nurturing and growing the feeling and this will make you develop hatred and regrets towards your marriage and their is tendency of cheating with your ex if he comes back.
Do d needful ...

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Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Ategberoson(m): 1:26pm On Oct 17, 2020
Babygirltess:

Lol


when you give birth to a girl child, tell her to open her legs for series of men at 13years to justify your dumb impression
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 6:52pm On Oct 17, 2020
Ademoore07:
Hmmm. I was once in that shoe. I hate to chat with such ex. I will rather block her.

I will bang any ex that ever visits me grin

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Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 6:54pm On Oct 17, 2020
nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

If I'm your ex I will bang you very well anytime you visit me grin
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Ademoore07(m): 7:23pm On Oct 17, 2020
DaudaTheSexyGuy:

I will bang any ex that ever visits me grin
Lmao
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Babygirltess: 10:59am On Oct 18, 2020
Ategberoson:



when you give birth to a girl child, tell her to open her legs for series of men at 13years to justify your dumb impression
With all due respect Mr virginity you are a great big clown, maybe you should go open a circus
Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by Flysinglemom(f): 9:44pm On Oct 18, 2020
My dear, whoever is in a relationship with you but doesn't have time for you is definitely cheating on you. No one is too busy for someone they love. No go dey deceive yourself. Leave while you still can.

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