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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:51am On Oct 21, 2020
PREDATORY FEMALE
A friend of mine once shared a story with me about a working class man who was getting unfettered attention from a particular lady.

At first, the man was excited that a girl was going crazy for him because she must have loved him darely. She calls him regularly and have been making attempt to come to his house to bang him. The way the girl was interested in banging him started to make her look suspicious.

He started resisting her moves but she kept coming strong and use any slight opportunity to infer sex. He started suspecting her of trying to infect him with disease. To cut the story short. He refused to have sex with her.

He later discovered, a guy got her pregnant so she is trying to have sex with him to pin the pregnancy on the Innocent man.

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Re: The Red Truth by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 8:17am On Oct 21, 2020
Dpsychologist:
PREDATORY FEMALE
A friend of mine once shared a story with me about a working class man who was getting unfettered attention from a particular lady.

At first, the man was excited that a girl was going crazy for him because she must have loved him darely. She calls him regularly and have been making attempt to come to his house to bang him. The way the girl was interested in banging him started to make her look suspicious.

He started resisting her moves but she kept coming strong and use any slight opportunity to infer sex. He started suspecting her of trying to infect him with disease. To cut the story short. He refused to have sex with her.

He later discovered, a guy got her pregnant so she is trying to have sex with him to pin the pregnancy on the Innocent man.
Fecking beeches
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:24am On Oct 21, 2020
PrinceofAgoAre:
Fecking beeches
Lol
Re: The Red Truth by Jerry59: 11:00am On Oct 21, 2020
Dpsychologist:
PREDATORY FEMALE
A friend of mine once shared a story with me about a working class man who was getting unfettered attention from a particular lady.

At first, the man was excited that a girl was going crazy for him because she must have loved him darely. She calls him regularly and have been making attempt to come to his house to bang him. The way the girl was interested in banging him started to make her look suspicious.

He started resisting her moves but she kept coming strong and use any slight opportunity to infer sex. He started suspecting her of trying to infect him with disease. To cut the story short. He refused to have sex with her.

He later discovered, a guy got her pregnant so she is trying to have sex with him to pin the pregnancy on the Innocent man.
Frauds!!!

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:11pm On Oct 21, 2020
ANOTHER PREDATORY FEMALE
It’s heartening to see that men are wising up to the cruel, calculating games of women:

A man who picked up the courage to go on his first ever Tinder date after being ‘superliked’ by a seemingly-eager woman, has told how the evening ended in total misery after the unnamed lady behaved so rudely that he ran away without telling her, he walked out and left her ass with the bill.
He shared that despite their chemistry prior, the date took a turn when the girl arrived to the fancy restaurant in sweatpants(gym clothes) , did not look at him once, and ordered the most expensive items on the menu, totalling $150( =N57k).

According to the guy:

We met up tonight at a restaurant I’d picked out. She didn’t look at me, wore sweatpants, and immediately ordered a $13 appetizer. Okay, not a deal-breaker. I tried starting a conversation a few times, but she only gave one word answers. Then, she orders a $25 steak and $22 crab legs. She drank four $9 glasses of wine“She talked more to the waiter.”

I got the steak, and a few drinks myself. Right about the time our main courses arrived, I’d pretty much given up. As we were finishing, I excused myself and went to the restroom. While I was in there, a light bulb went off. I left the bathroom, headed out the door, got in my car, and drove home. Now, here I am. She messaged me a few times, called me a “fucker” about twelve times.


Women choose their targets wisely, in true Predatory Female fashion. She probably saw him on Twitter and thought he’d be so thrilled to have been “picked” she could get a night of free fine dining out of him. And he would scurry off after the date and she would lie and say she was “going home” while no doubt hopping on the cock carousel that night with a full belly. But Dinner Guy caught on to her game quickly, especially when she came to their “date” dressed for the gym.

The Biggest culprits are nice guys. Women would feign interest in him, use him for food and entertainment for the night, then turn cold as the night prematurely drew to a close. The next day, phone calls would go unanswered.
It’s at this point a man should know he’s being played.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:12pm On Oct 21, 2020
We have discussed extensively on predatory Females. Forward we go.
FEMINISM AND PROMISCUITY loading...

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:12pm On Oct 21, 2020
CosmicPhoenix:
Baby mama cannot help you in America, child support will milk you dry.
In America,the law view Animals as the most important, followed by women then kids,men come last.

Funny but true.

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Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 3:25pm On Oct 21, 2020
Dpsychologist:
We have discussed extensively on predatory Females. Forward we go.

FEMINISM AND PROMISCUITY loading...

Any man that stumble upon this thread and does wise up will die forever as mugu.

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Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 3:37pm On Oct 21, 2020
Dpsychologist:
ANOTHER PREDATORY FEMALE
It’s heartening to see that men are wising up to the cruel, calculating games of women:

A man who picked up the courage to go on his first ever Tinder date after being ‘superliked’ by a seemingly-eager woman, has told how the evening ended in total misery after the unnamed lady behaved so rudely that he ran away without telling her, he walked out and left her ass with the bill.
He shared that despite their chemistry prior, the date took a turn when the girl arrived to the fancy restaurant in sweatpants(gym clothes) , did not look at him once, and ordered the most expensive items on the menu, totalling $150( =N57k).

According to the guy:

We met up tonight at a restaurant I’d picked out. She didn’t look at me, wore sweatpants, and immediately ordered a $13 appetizer. Okay, not a deal-breaker. I tried starting a conversation a few times, but she only gave one word answers. Then, she orders a $25 steak and $22 crab legs. She drank four $9 glasses of wine“She talked more to the waiter.”

I got the steak, and a few drinks myself. Right about the time our main courses arrived, I’d pretty much given up. As we were finishing, I excused myself and went to the restroom. While I was in there, a light bulb went off. I left the bathroom, headed out the door, got in my car, and drove home. Now, here I am. She messaged me a few times, called me a “fucker” about twelve times.


Women choose their targets wisely, in true Predatory Female fashion. She probably saw him on Twitter and thought he’d be so thrilled to have been “picked” she could get a night of free fine dining out of him. And he would scurry off after the date and she would lie and say she was “going home” while no doubt hopping on the cock carousel that night with a full belly. But Dinner Guy caught on to her game quickly, especially when she came to their “date” dressed for the gym.

The Biggest culprits are nice guys. Women would feign interest in him, use him for food and entertainment for the night, then turn cold as the night prematurely drew to a close. The next day, phone calls would go unanswered.
It’s at this point a man should know he’s being played.


Its a pity Some men believe that every greenlight from a lady is a good light. Only the bad boys can discern the true light.

I pity people that are looking for greenlight b4 making advance.

Greenlight are traps most of the time, only the bad boys can go successfully with it.

I respect men that have the ability to create the desire in them to like him not the ones waiting for greenlights.

Influencing them ladies mind to like him is the best skill a man should have in the dating arena.

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Re: The Red Truth by Alfather: 3:37pm On Oct 21, 2020
Dpsychologist:
A SURGEON'S STORY
In fact, a recent expose by an ex prison guard tells the story of a surgeon whose life was destroyed by a predatory female, a man who went from saving lives to doing work in harsh conditions for low pay:

The very worst case I saw as a prison guard was a surgeon, yes an American surgeon who was one of the most respectable guys I ever met, hard working, worked until 2 a.m. 6 days a week to save people’s lives. With all the work hours, his wife got “lonely” and started sleeping around, eventually having 2 kids that weren’t even his as he found out later.

And then she filed for divorce so she could take the surgeon’s money, blow it on cocaine and stupid luxuries for herself without doing any work herself (that’s the real destination where the “child support” money goes) and sleep around with her favorite Chad of the week, all on her hard working surgeon ex-husband’s money.

She won an insanely high judgment in a US family court, millions of dollars in child support and “alimony” that the poor surgeon would have to pay. Since by the court’s judgment, “she should be entitled to maintain the same standard of living after the divorce”, even though this gold-digger is the one who filed for the divorce to steal from her hard-working husband who was actually saving people’s lives.

After a few years of doing this, and losing his house and his nice car, the poor surgeon injured his back while helping a patient onto an operating table. He had to cut down his hours as a surgeon, and went to the divorce court asking for a reduction in the support demands, and ask that his lazy, entitled ex-wife get a job herself.

But the court refused using the same delusion filled imputation bullshit they pull on other ex-husbands, claiming he could somehow make millions of extra dollars using his surgical wizard skills somehow. Which he couldn’t do in reality with his injured back, something the family court judge couldn’t or wouldn’t even try to understand.

So then now the alimony and child support were demanding 120% of his income. You see, the family court system will never let you off the treadmill once they target you, especially if you earn a lot of money. Eventually he drained his savings and retirement, couldn’t make the payments at all—and he wound up in the prison where I was a corrections officer.

The corrupt American family court-media-feminist-academia cultural Marxist-big business-prison industrial complex had worked perfectly to ruin this poor man, and what a prize they had.

A dedicated, hard working US surgeon, saving lives every day, drained of his money and reduced to poverty by a gold-digging, spoiled greedy bimbo who divorced him due to his very dedication, had kids with other men to force him to pay bullshit “child support” in addition to never-stopping alimony, his assets taken by his gold-digging ex wife and the state to grease their own corruption, the “child support” in actuality supporting the ex wife’s corrupt, hedonistic lifestyle after divorce.

And then the poor surgeon himself made a literal slave in a US prison, stripped of his license and made a perpetual debtor, worked to the bone but never allowed to profit from his own efforts or hard work. That really is how it works in the US family court and prison system.

That poor surgeon was the worst case we ever saw, made us so mad we were talking about how we were going to “free the Bastille” and start a revolution ourselves to stop all the corruption, Robespierre style. And free all the innocent men, and even some women, who were imprisoned this way, to feed more slaves to the machine.



As this case shows, women have absolute power over men in the court system. A man’s life, liberty and finances are subject to forfeiture by an oppressive, legalistic system simply because he had a failed relationship with an Anglobitch.
so touching, but while should the man go ahead and marry after all these laws
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 4:56pm On Oct 21, 2020
Unless she fancies you from the start, you can't influence nada.

A woman's heart towards a potential date at an initial point of contact is either a desert or a rainforest.

We all know that it is near impossible for anything to grow on a desert land.



Highest she will play along while draining you of your hard earned resources.






Pstarogood0100:



Its a pity Some men believe that every greenlight from a lady is a good light. Only the bad boys can discern the true light.

I pity people that are looking for greenlight b4 making advance.

Greenlight are traps most of the time, only the bad boys can go successfully with it.

I respect men that have the ability to create the desire in them to like him not the ones waiting for greenlights.

Influencing them ladies mind to like him is the best skill a man should have in the dating arena.

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Re: The Red Truth by Akinbahm(m): 8:54pm On Oct 21, 2020
Pstarogood0100:



Its a pity Some men believe that every greenlight from a lady is a good light. Only the bad boys can discern the true light.

I pity people that are looking for greenlight b4 making advance.

Greenlight are traps most of the time, only the bad boys can go successfully with it.

I respect men that have the ability to create the desire in them to like him not the ones waiting for greenlights.

Influencing them ladies mind to like him is the best skill a man should have in the dating arena.

I guess he's trying to say he respected those guys whose ladies fall for without those guys doing the chasing and in all honesty that's the secret let ladies choose you dont choose them.


#alexistaiwo

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:08pm On Oct 21, 2020
62.) FEMINISM AND PROMISCUITY
What is Feminism?
According to wikipedia, Feminism is a range of social movements, political movements, and ideologies that aim to define and establish the political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes .

Feminism claims that societies prioritize the male point of view, and that women are treated unjustly within those societies.

Waves of feminism
The history of the modern western feminist movement is divided into four "waves" viz:

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:28pm On Oct 21, 2020
First-wave feminism

First-wave feminism was a period of activity during the 19th and early-20th centuries. It focused on the promotion of equal contract, marriage, parenting, and property rights for women. This is what introduced the tender years doctrine for child custody and gave women the right of custody of their children for the first time.

With the turn of the 19th century, activism focused primarily on gaining political power, particularly the right of women's suffrage (the right to vote and stand for parliamentary office) , though some feminists were active in campaigning for women's sexual, reproductive , and economic rights too.


Feminists continued to campaign for the reform of family laws which gave husbands control over their wives. Feminists have also worked to abolish the "marital exemption" in rape laws which precluded the prosecution of husbands for the rape of their wives.

Feminism was still weak until the aftermath of World War 2. It is during the baby boom period, that feminism waned in importance. Wars (both World War I and World War II) had seen the provisional emancipation of some women, but post-war periods signalled the return to conservative roles.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:50pm On Oct 21, 2020
Second wave
The second wave feminism is the era where things started getting messed up. The equal rights they demand ended up ecploiting men and emasculating them. This is one of the reasons the Redpill exist.

By the late 1960s many women joined together to create the second wave of the women's movement in order to push for more equality in their lives.

In part inspired by the civil rights movement of the late 1950s and 1960s, which drew attention to gaining rights for African Americans , women advocated for equal rights under the law and in the workplace and also for the liberation of women from stifling stereotypes in domestic and other cultural situations.

In 1963, Betty Friedan 's book The Feminine Mystique helped voice the discontent that American women felt. The book is widely credited with sparking the beginning of second-wave feminism in the United States. Within ten years, women made up over half the First World workforce.

Second-wave feminists see women's cultural and political inequalities as inextricably linked and encourage women to understand aspects of their personal lives as deeply politicized and as reflecting sexist power structures.

The feminist activist and author Carol Hanisch coined the slogan "The Personal is Political", which became synonymous with the second wave.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:58pm On Oct 21, 2020
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Look at this monikers above , they are people hired to spill hate and spread hatred by their paymasters ...They try to incite ethnic violence between southerners , they are very many here ......
Mostly northerners and BMC campaign boys
They use divide and rule tactics to subjugate the south........They have more than 3 different monikers on Nairaland.....
This might not be a complete list...... Don't be misled by their words......
They are ravenous wolves in sheep clothing
SAY NO TO DIVIDE AND RULE TACTICS SPEARHEADED BY THE NORTHERN OLIGARCHY........
SAY NO TO BMC SUPPORTERS ONLINE.......
SAY NO TO APC PDP AND OTHER USELESS POLITICAL PARTIES.....
A UNITED SOUTH CAN ACHIEVE ANYTHING
This are just some of their evil MONIKERS beware of them .......They are masters in disguising
Bro of what use is this info you Shared relevant to this thread. We only deal with red pill here.

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Re: The Red Truth by prodige001: 11:10pm On Oct 21, 2020
Dpsychologist:

Bro of what use is this info you Shared relevant to this thread. We only deal with red pill here.
i wonder ooo my oga...
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:11pm On Oct 21, 2020
The female discontent
Women's concerns about legal and workplace discrimination could be traced back to World War II , which had brought with it increased employment opportunities for women. By creating a campaign to get women to take traditionally male jobs, the U.S. government enticed women to join the war effort.

As men went off to war, women by the thousands dropped their children off with family or at the newly created federal child-care facilities and spent their days as policewomen, firefighters, and factory workers, among other things.

By doing "man's work," women enjoyed the increased responsibility and higher pay offered in these traditionally male positions. When veterans returned after the war, however, women were forced out of those jobs that had historically been reserved for men.

The federal government closed the federal childcare facilities and encouraged women to return home, even though a 1944 Women's Bureau study reported that 80 percent of working women would have liked to keep their wartime positions.

While many women returned to lives as homemakers, devoting themselves full time to being wives and giving birth to a generation of children known as "the baby boomers," those who remained in the workforce saw their employment opportunities limited to less well paying jobs historically reserved for females, such as secretarial or teaching positions. Professionally trained women who remained in traditionally male positions earned less than their male co-workers.

By the 1960s, women began to pressure employers and the government for equal treatment and pay. This led to many women rights group like NOW which fought for equal treatment and pay.

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Re: The Red Truth by Mandela27: 12:42am On Oct 22, 2020
Dpsychologist:

Bro of what use is this info you Shared relevant to this thread. We only deal with red pill here.
Dont talk like that man.We all in this together,we hardcore redpill,but this is not time to give much attention to TRP or the teaching,there's time for everything,our country is in mess right now,lets focus on whats going on for now.Cheers man.
Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 12:55am On Oct 22, 2020
alexistaiwo:
Unless she fancies you from the start, you can't influence nada.
[b][/b]
We all know that it is near impossible for anything to grow on a desert land.



Highest she will play along while draining you of your hard earned resources.


I can see you are only limited to your knowledge on dating. Please dig deeper. There are abundance of knowledge on dating, you just need to dig deeper.
Please Don't limit.

The above quote you quoted are for MEDIOCRE in the dating world.

Fancying you from the beginning or not fancying you from the beginning.
The way you approach a lady matters a lot weather she gives green light or red light. Your approach towards a lady that gives you greenlight might turn her off if you don't have the balls.

@ Alexistaiwo. I had expected you to ask questions instead of arguing, that's how wise people do.
Re: The Red Truth by Sibtygar: 1:28am On Oct 22, 2020
Dpsychologist:
We have discussed extensively on predatory Females. Forward we go.

FEMINISM AND PROMISCUITY loading...
In most of your post, you always end up pointing the males as the victim! Or in other words you share message that specifically talk about male being the victims. Why do you feel this male-gender victim story telling will help a simple guy act realistic in a world that is based on both women and male as victims of social interactions?

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Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 1:59am On Oct 22, 2020
Akinbahm:


I guess he's trying to say he respected those guys whose ladies fall for without those guys doing the chasing and in all honesty that's the secret let ladies choose you dont choose them.


#alexistaiwo


That's not what I said. I meant what he quoted me wrong about.

There are lots of dating skills that 95% of men in the world are exposed to. You may think you have known it all until you stumble on another dating games. Just like this particular THREAD on redpill created by Dpsychologist. A lot of guys on nairaland thought they have seen it all until OP ( Dsychologist) appeared with redpill knowledge that surpasses all redpill threads on nairaland .

@alaxistaiwo, surly you will one day stumble upon how to attract a lady that doesn't give you greenlight and influence her mind to like you and still dick her without being mugu for her.

Just this last week, I approached a very beautiful lady that I was a complete stranger to. I invited her over the third day and dicked her. I only bought what she ate and gave her tee fare back to her house.

She has a boyfriend who spends on her regularly I got to know this when I was discussing with her. that's to tell you she is not a prostitute. As a guy who has lots of experience in the game, I can decode when ladies lie . Supposing she is a prostitute at least she would bargain with me based on the business matter.

Mind you, she is quite intelligent. Am saying all this because I want to prove a point to you.

When you understand dating games. You can deal with any girl you come across without spending like a nice guy who try to impress or buy her love. And that is why its called game.

Until I got exposed to abundance of knowledge in the dating arena, i used to believed that money or luxuries is necessary to conquer pussy. Money is not even necessary at all to conquer pussy but, you can choose to spend if you are a shareful giver. Your money can help to greeze the relationship as it continues but you had conquered the pussy long ago without spending like nice guys.

Greenlight or no greenlight, go and take what you want and dominate without begging. Lion doesnt take permission before hunting the prey. Alpha man is a lion, he goes for the ladies he wants, he dominates and conquer. Betas take permission( greenlight) to act, I see this as MEDIOCRITY.

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Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 2:08am On Oct 22, 2020
Sibtygar:
In most of your post, you always end up pointing the males as the victim! Or in other words you share message that specifically talk about male being the victims. Why do you feel this male-gender victim story telling will help a simple guy act realistic in a world that is based on both women and male as victims of social interactions?


Don't get him wrong. He is driving somewhere. All this is just to prove some points and the true nature of women.

Anyone who patiently continue to follow this thread to the end will understand fully what the op will unleash at the end of this thread and will benefit so much. According to him, this is just the beginning.

@Sybtygar be patient and calm down.

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Re: The Red Truth by Sibtygar: 2:22am On Oct 22, 2020
Pstarogood0100:



Don't get him wrong. He is driving somewhere. All this is just to prove some points and the true nature of women.

Anyone who patiently continue to follow this thread to the end will understand fully what the op will unleash at the end of this thread and will benefit so much. According to him, this is just the beginning.

@Sybtygar be patient and calm down.
Meaning later on he will prove the true nature of men right?
Re: The Red Truth by Chiagozieking: 8:03am On Oct 22, 2020
Dpsychologist:

Women do not rigorously shit test their men out of malice, but merely out of insecurity, out of a need to feel protected, out of a nagging sense of insecurity that they “just need to make sure” they have made the right choice and are still in a relationship with a man who is badass .

As soon as a man can no longer give a woman “that safe feeling”, she will leave him and find a guy who can make her feel safe. She will then rewrite history in her memory to say the man she is leaving was always weak and that he failed in his duties to her, she will paint him as the bad guy so that it makes it easier for her to branch swing to the next guy without feeling bad or having any sense of personal responsibility for it.

This is why women say bad things about their exes

She has to demonise him and paint herself as the victim(See section 17) within her own mind to allow herself to carry on without hating herself.

She needs him to “be the bad guy” so that she can move on. As far as she is concerned, it’s his fault she lost interest in him, regardless or despite if he did everything in his power for her. It’s always the man’s fault in the mind of a woman.

She wants a man she can’t change but she tries to change him as a form of counterintuitive test of his strength, and if she succeeds in changing a man into someone who is no longer dominant she will grow to hate what she has made of him.


I couldn't stop screaming
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 8:10am On Oct 22, 2020
@ your last statement, let's keep the conversation civil. There is enough chaos in the country as it is already.



You talked about banging a beautiful girl you approached within a relative short period of time, I am not disputing that. Been there multiple times, done that, nothing there. Men don't have the monopoly of being adventurous with the opposite sex, these babes too wanna have fun and experiment with multiple dicks. You will get the shocker of your life the day she will tell you that you fit the description of the guy she wanna bang but you aren't her kind of person for a lifetime of commitment, why? She didn't choose you at the initial point of contact.

For one night stands and the sex-themed kinds of parole, moving in without being greenlighted can work since all you are concerned about is getting between her legs but if you want something serious, better let her do the choosing because if you subconsciously influence her taste to fit your attributes, there is a high probability of her wandering the day she comes across the guy who fits her innate desires.




Pstarogood0100:


I can see you are only limited to your knowledge on dating. Please dig deeper. There are abundance of knowledge on dating, you just need to dig deeper.
Please Don't limit.

The above quote you quoted are for MEDIOCRE in the dating world.

Fancying you from the beginning or not fancying you from the beginning.
The way you approach a lady matters a lot weather she gives green light or red light. Your approach towards a lady that gives you greenlight might turn her off if you don't have the balls.

@ Alexistaiwo. I had expected you to ask questions instead of arguing, that's how wise people do.

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Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 8:48am On Oct 22, 2020
alexistaiwo:
@ your last statement, let's keep the conversation civil. There is enough chaos in the country as it is already.



You talked about banging a beautiful girl you approached within a relative short period of time, I am not disputing that. Been there multiple times, done that, nothing there. Men don't have the monopoly of being adventurous with the opposite sex, these babes too wanna have fun and experiment with multiple dicks. You will get the shocker of your life the day she will tell you that you fit the description of the guy she wanna bang but you aren't her kind of person for a lifetime of commitment, why? She didn't choose you at the initial point of contact.

For one night stands and the sex-themed kinds of parole, moving in without being greenlighted can work since all you are concerned about is getting between her legs but if you want something serious, better let her do the choosing because if you subconsciously influence her taste to fit your attributes, there is a high probability of her wandering the day she comes across the guy who fits her innate desires.





She may choose you but never forget the hypergamous nature of women. When something better than you surfaces, she tends to move on.

Nothing is sure in life but death. The ability to handle situations when they arises is what a man needs in life.

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Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 8:50am On Oct 22, 2020
Sibtygar:
Meaning later on he will prove the true nature of men right?

We men already know our nature. Handling women regarding their nature to prevent stories that touches the pussy is what we need.

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Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 8:58am On Oct 22, 2020
Women are hypergamous but there is a reason why when the going gets tough, some women are quick to move on while some women will still find a way to rationalise their choice and stick around.

Life is already difficult enough as it is, why make it more difficult by chasing a lost cause by knocking on a closed door when others are wide open begging for your attention?




Pstarogood0100:


She may choose you but never forget the hypergamous nature of women. When something better than you surfaces, she tends to move on.

Nothing is sure in life but death. The ability to handle situations when they arises is what a man needs in life.

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Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 11:48am On Oct 22, 2020
alexistaiwo:


Women are hypergamous but there is a reason why when the going gets tough, some women are quick to move on while some women will still find a way to rationalise their choice and stick around.

Life is already difficult enough as it is, why make it more difficult by chasing a lost cause by knocking on a closed door when others are wide open begging for your attention?





NOTE: we are not arguing , our opinion on this matter could help some guys out there that's why am shed more light to this subject of green light.

In your opinion, greenlight signal could make things easy for the guy .

But, in my own opinion, greenlight has proven its self to be a danger(red light).

Its a complete delusion to assume you could get down easily with a lady that gives green light. On the contrary, we find it difficult when we chase green light.

Here is the wisdom: lady will give you greenlight to attract you and make it difficult for you to achieve your aim, which is to have sex with her because you had already concluded that she could be cheap for you to have sex with.
We can't discard the fact that we guys always presume a lady wants to have sex with us for giving green light.

Of what use is a person we are not sexually attracted to. Most of the greenlight doesn't come from the lady we are attracted to sexually, nothing will flow in the relationship no matter what you try.

Me, for instant. No matter how a fat lady or the one am not sexually attracted to gives me greenlight, I will never go for her. Even if she opens her mouth to woo me I will reject her. I can never accept to date someone am not sexually attracted to, it can't work unless I want to eat her money.

And most of the greenlight do come from those we are not sexually attracted to, how can a guy cope with that. Even if you get greenlight from a lady you are attracted to sexually if you don't know how to play the game well, you had find yourself as a victim of circumstances.

What am saying in essence is that greenlight or red light doesn't matter in this regard.

A beautiful lady that truly loves you and gives you green light will create a defence mechanism as you make advances. If you are not careful in the process she will turn you to a man she hates(SIMPs) and discard you thereafter. Then you begin to ask yourself, " was not this lady that was giving me green light ?."
A lot of guys in this thread can relate with what am saying here, its a common occurrences in the daily life of man in the dating arena.

Greenlight could be red light and Redlight could be green light, all you need is the knowledge to deal with them equally to avoid being a loser.

I had walked up to a lady that never gave me greenlight. The way she embarrassed me eeeh cry . The same girl told me friend who she didn't know was my friend until she saw us both together. She told my friend that she never had the knowledge that we were friends. She confessed to my friend that she was madly in love with me but she couldn't express the love for she not to be taken for granted. I was woooowed.

In the same vain, in my simping days I had gone for those that gave me greenlight. It took me more than a year to see her pant, of which some I didn't see their pants at all cry . it could be painful suffering in the hands of those that gave you greenlight, I swear.

Greenlight lady will frustrate your life because you had been aiming for the pussy you think will be easy for you to conquer. She knows this and will try her best to defend her precious pussy. She knows that giving you the pussy easily will make you loose interest in her. In the process of you trying to achieve your aim, you had turn to simp she hates, therefore you become undesirable to her afterward.

Please, its mediocrity to assume that greenlight will ensure easy access to ladies or become successful in the relationship.

Your easy access and success fully depends on you not greenlight.

Go for what you want or what wants you and dominate like an alpha man( the true good bad guy).

What I wrote here may suppose the knowledge of many people that will read this.
Please, there are abundance of knowledge in dating. KEEP DIGGING you will surly find what suite you best someday.

OP keep doing your great work. We really appreciate you a lot.

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Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 12:05pm On Oct 22, 2020
Now I can see where our difference in opinion lies.


I am not taking about pursuing a girl for the sole purpose of bedding her. I am talking about taking things on a deeper level.
After all, when all is said and done, even most of the red pillers will get someday married and I am talking about choosing your poison wisely.


Now to the topic of Greenlight.

Greenlight doesn't mean that she is throwing herself at you or pursuing herself. It runs deeper than that. Greenlight is when a girl is responsive to your approach from the onset.

If you meet a beautiful girl and you approach her, if she is responsive, that is a Greenlight.

As a Guyman, there are ways girls you are approaching for the first time will act up and you will know that it is all a charade, all is coded Greenlight so as not to appear cheap.


Absence of Greenlight at initial contact will make guys to be running helter-skelter to impress and change her perception of them so she counts them worthy of her attention and we all know that whatever you use to attract is most likely what you will have to use to keep her interested in you.





Pstarogood0100:


NOTE: we are not arguing , our opinion on this matter could help some guys out there that's why am shed more light to this subject of green light.

In your opinion, greenlight signal could make things easy for the guy .

But, in my own opinion, greenlight has proven its self to be a danger(red light).

Its a complete delusion to assume you could get down easily with a lady that gives green light. On the contrary, we find it difficult when we chase green light.

Here is the wisdom: lady will give you greenlight to attract you and make it difficult for you to achieve your aim, which is to have sex with her because you had already concluded that she could be cheap for you to have sex with.
We can't discard the fact that we guys always presume a lady wants to have sex with us for giving green light.

Of what use is a person we are not sexually attracted to. Most of the greenlight doesn't come from the lady we are attracted to sexually, nothing will flow in the relationship no matter what you try.

Me, for instant. No matter how a fat lady or the one am not sexually attracted to gives me greenlight, I will never go for her. Even if she opens her mouth to woo me I will reject her. I can never accept to date someone am not sexually attracted to, it can't work unless I want to eat her money.

And most of the greenlight do come from those we are not sexually attracted to, how can a guy cope with that. Even if you get greenlight from a lady you are attracted to sexually if you don't know how to play the game well, you had find yourself as a victim of circumstances.

What am saying in essence is that greenlight or red light doesn't matter in this regard.

A beautiful lady that truly loves you and gives you green light will create a defence mechanism as you make advances. If you are not careful in the process she will turn you to a man she hates(SIMPs) and discard you thereafter. Then you begin to ask yourself, " was not this lady that was giving me green light ?."
A lot of guys in this thread can relate with what am saying here, its a common occurrences in the daily life of man in the dating arena.

Greenlight could be red light and Redlight could be green light, all you need is the knowledge to deal with them equally to avoid being a loser.

I had walked up to a lady that never gave me greenlight. The way she embarrassed me eeeh cry . The same girl told me friend who she didn't know was my friend until she saw us both together. She told my friend that she never had the knowledge that we were friends. She confessed to my friend that she was madly in love with me but she couldn't express the love for she not to be taken for granted. I was woooowed.

In the same vain, in my simping days I had gone for those that gave me greenlight. It took me more than a year to see her pant, of which some I didn't see their pants at all cry . it could be painful suffering in the hands of those that gave you greenlight, I swear.

Greenlight lady will frustrate your life because you had been aiming for the pussy you think will be easy for you to conquer. She knows this and will try her best to defend her precious pussy. She knows that giving you the pussy easily will make you loose interest in her. In the process of you trying to achieve your aim, you had turn to simp she hates, therefore you become undesirable to her afterward.

Please, its mediocrity to assume that greenlight will ensure easy access to ladies or become successful in the relationship.

Your easy access and success fully depends on you not greenlight.

Go for what you want or what wants you and dominate like an alpha man( the true good bad guy).

What I wrote here may suppose the knowledge of many people that will read this.
Please, there are abundance of knowledge in dating. KEEP DIGGING you will surly find what suite you best someday.

OP keep doing your great work. We really appreciate you a lot.

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