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| Re: The Red Truth by Kalatium(m): 2:23pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
Chiagozieking:Lol what is making you scream |
| Re: The Red Truth by JasperVII(m): 3:03pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
Kalatium:Man was probably in shock. Lol |
| Re: The Red Truth by Kalatium(m): 6:50pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
JasperVII:When ever i see such things i am no longer surprised. I had a rude awakening some times ago i am not surprised. |
| Re: The Red Truth by JasperVII(m): 7:46pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
Kalatium:Care to share your story with us? It's ok if you don't want to... |
| Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 8:41pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: |
| Re: The Red Truth by Madekreem(m): 9:48pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
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| Re: The Red Truth by Madekreem(m): 9:51pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
Kalatium: Xem here bro no place like home Sense pill the dose to sense home |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:40pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
The other side of the coin: The women's liberation movement While the women's rights movement pushed for legislation through political lobbying and organized action groups , a more informal variant of the women's movement also developed, especially among young women. While older women concerned themselves with legal issues and discriminatory banking and education issues, younger women sought for social equality. These younger women sought changes in the private, domestic lives of women. The fundamental change desired by women's liberationists was an end to women's subordination to men. Women began to push for men to help with such tasks as housework, meal preparation, and childcare, for example. Women also began to resist the standards of beauty that it reduces women to sex objects. Organizations were created to address a variety of women's issues, such as legalization of abortion and childcare. " No-fault " unilateral divorce became legal and easier to obtain in many countries during the 1960s, 1970s, and 1980s.The idea of marriage being outdated came from the development of casual sex between Americans. At consciousness-raising events women came to realize that their personal experiences were not unique and that together with other women—their "sisters"—they could transform the larger political and social setting . This gave birth to the sisterhood. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by SlurUsername1: 11:49am On Oct 23, 2020 |
Nice thread |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:01pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
Feminism, Sexual revolution and the rise of promiscuity Coinciding with second-wave feminism, the women's liberation movement initiated in the early 1960s, was aided by feminist ideologues in their mutual struggle to challenge traditional ideas regarding female sexuality and queer sexuality. The introduction of the first oral contraceptive pill in 1960 started the public talking about sex and contraception. The oral contraceptive pill eliminated the fear of pregnancy, allowing them to engage in sex for pleasure. Many feminist thinkers believed that assertion of the primacy of sexuality would be a major step towards the ultimate goal of women's liberation, thus women were urged to initiate sexual advances, enjoy sex and experiment with new forms of sexuality. The feminist movements insisted and focused on the sexual liberation for women, both physical and psychological. The pursuit of sexual pleasure for women was the core ideology, which subsequently was to set the foundation for female independence. This gave rise to modern birth control, homosexuality, marriage and divorce, pornography, hookup culture , and sex education. The Sexual revolution open the way for books, magazines, and movies to begin referring to and showing sex in explicit ways that were once censored. Without these barriers, sex became a hot topic and people began to talk about the beginning of a "sexual revolution" during the decade. Public displays of nudity increased; for example among crowds at rock concerts, some women would bare their breasts. Rock stars sang about sex and some exposed themselves on stage. Madonna was a champion in promoting promiscuity. Promiscuous sexual encounters, or sexual experiences with multiple partners, increased and women began marrying later and having several sexual partners before marriage( after they hit the world). Singles bars opened and drew people looking for sexual partners, personal ads with requests for sexual partners appeared in newspapers, and a controversial, highly publicized practice called swinging ( practice of couples switching sexual partners) started. Homosexuality also became more accepted and visible to the public. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:17pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
There was a reason for Traditional roles Male promiscuity was long considered normal and healthy as long as masculinity was maintained, associated with being the penetrating partner. On the other hand, female chastity was required for respectable women, to ensure the integrity of family bloodlines(Paternity Assurance). Perhaps other cultures understand it is the evolutionary and biological imperative of men to “spread their seed” and that male infidelity means very little to men emotionally. It almost never means he doesn’t love his wife. However, when women cheat it almost always means she doesn’t love her husband. Hook-up (fling) culture is a direct consequence of the “sexual revolution” which feminism sparked, ignited and proclaims so loudly to be proud of. The notion that female promiscuity should be untamed and socially acceptable can still be seen even today with feminisms efforts to normalise female promiscuity via campaigns such as being “anti-slut shaming”. However, encouraging promiscuity is not only putting one at sexual risk via the prevalence of sexual disease, but is psychologically unappealing to a man looking to seriously build and create something with a woman for the long-term, thus damaging her own long-term chances at attaining happiness with a suitable suitor( a self-inflicting irony). A potentially deadly legacy of the sexual revolution was the increase in occurrences of sexually transmitted diseases, such as gonorrhea, syphilis, hepatitis B, and herpes. (AIDS was first discovered later in 1981.) 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:19pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
Third wave Third-wave feminists often focused on " micro-politics " and challenged the second wave's paradigm as to what was, or was not, good for women, and tended to use a post-structuralist interpretation of gender and sexuality. The 3rd wave feminist accused second wave feminism of ignoring groups such as women of colour and transgender women, and was instead, focusing on white, middle class, cisgender women. Third-wave feminism also contained internal debates between different feminists. Some believe that there are important psychological differences between the sexes. Others believe that there are no inherent psychological differences between the sexes and contend that gender roles are due to social conditioning (that men and women are thesame) . Reproductive rights and sluttiness One of third-wave feminism's primary goals was to demonstrate that access to contraception and abortion are women's reproductive rights. Third-wave feminists wanted to transform traditional notions of sexuality and embrace "an exploration of women's feelings about sexuality that included vagina-centred topics as diverse as orgasm, birth, and rape". The use of the reclamation strategy became a hot topic with the introduction of SlutWalks(women wallking naked) in 2011 in response to a Toronto police officer's remark that "women should avoid dressing like sluts in order not to be victimized." Many third-wave feminists supported the idea that women should embrace their sexuality as a way to take back their power. To feminist slutty dressing and being promiscuous is equivalent to female empowerment. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:12pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
Pre-feminist women : Before the 1960s
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| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:43pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
Post-feminist women: our Celebrities today. Notice how they go public without wearing bra and panties. Example kim Kardashian, rihanna, ciara, etc 1 Like
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| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:47pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
More of celebrity dressing. See they way the girl in the first pic almost display her genitals. . Men have suffer. See they way we are being teased. DJ cuppy accidentally exposed her genitals to the public allegedly 1 Like
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| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:57pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
Feminism Stand point theory Standpoint theory argues that research and theory treats women and the feminist movement as insignificant and thus sees traditional science as biased. Since the 1980s, standpoint feminists have argued that the feminist movement should address global issues (such as rape, incest , and prostitution) and culturally specific issues (such as female genital mutilation in some parts of Africa and Arab societies , as well as glass ceiling practices that impede women's advancement in developed economies). Violence against women , including rape, domestic violence, and sexual harassment, became a central issue. Other issues Third-wave feminism also paid attention to workplace matters such as maternity-leave policies, motherhood support for single mothers by means of welfare and child care , respect for working mothers, and the rights of mothers who decide to leave their careers to raise their children full-time. 5 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:03pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
Fourth-wave feminism Fourth-wave feminism refers to a resurgence of interest in feminism that began around 2012 and is associated with the use of social media . According to feminist scholar Prudence Chamberlain, the focus of the fourth wave is justice for women and opposition to sexual harassment and violence against women . Fourth-wave feminism is "defined by technology", and is characterized particularly by the use of Facebook , Twitter , Instagram, YouTube , Tumblr , and blogs such as Feministing to challenge so called misogyny and further gender equality . Issues that fourth-wave feminists focus on include street and workplace harassment, campus sexual assault and so called rape culture. Examples of fourth-wave feminist campaigns include the #YesAllWomen , Free the Nipple and the notorious #MeToo movement. However, quite number of women used #Me Too to destroy a lot of men via false rape allegation and false sexual harassment cases. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by CosmicPhoenix: 10:05pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
that second photo is not DJ Cuppy,it's someone else. Dpsychologist: |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:07pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
CosmicPhoenix:And what makes you sure of that, haven't you watched the video? |
| Re: The Red Truth by CosmicPhoenix: 10:09pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
I have watched it,that's not cuppy Dpsychologist: |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:22pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
CosmicPhoenix:Whoever it is. It is an example to drive home my point. 5 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:05pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
Postfeminism Institutionalising feminism is like institutionalising a cult, it is subjective, intellectually dishonest and inconsiderate of those who do not follow, conform or otherwise abide to said belief system. The term postfeminism is used to describe a range of viewpoints reacting to feminism since the 1980s. The term was first used to describe a backlash against second-wave feminism. Postfeminists say that feminism is no longer relevant to today's society. Dorothy Chunn notes a "blaming narrative" used by feminism where feminists continue to make unnecessary demands for gender equality in a "post-feminist" society, where "gender equality has (already) been achieved." A quite number of Women are coming out to criticize feminism. It is not as innocent as it claimed to be. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by TheUndercover: 8:03am On Oct 24, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: I love what you did there. There's no point trying to argue who the said person in the picture is as long as the point the OP is trying to clarify is understood. I would also agree that the person in the picture is DJ Cuppy but there's no need for argument. Resist The Urge To Shalaye - RTUTS 2 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:50pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
63.) CITATION NEEDED FALLACY All men reading this must understand that Red Pill is not a hearsay. It is pragmatic knowledge that would help men live a more fulfilled life. Vehemently comdemning the realities exposed by The Red Pill does not absolve you from its consequences. — Dpsychologist Much of the theories within red pill philosophy is based upon social observation. It is not completely unsubstantiated and made-up, sure alot is subjective and not subject to scientific rigour, many things are not, we don’t all exist in an educational establishment. It is simply ignorant to deduce that if an idea does not stem from academia, that it is not credible and is to be immediately disregarded, I see this arguments from authority all the time from people on Nairaland, Reddit, social media etc (detractors). Many times someone with an above average ability to argue the semantics out of something will come and concludes with bigotry that in the absence of evidence the hypothesis must be false/incorrect. The irony to this is, science sets to either prove or disprove the hypothesis but claims no certainty until either has been achieved, these people use the absence of scientific proof to say the hypothesis must be wrong, this is a hasty generalisation, as there is no proof here to say these things are wrong and the scientific method has not debunked them as much. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:28pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
It is quite hilarious when ‘bluepillers’ and red pill critics alike think that the red pill is wrong by the merit of being unproven, they irrationally conflate the state of being “unproven by scientific study” as being “disproven by the absence of scientific study” this is fallacious thinking. Ultimately the absence of evidence means that something has neither been proven nor disproven. When you corroborate many similar observations across a vast cross-section of the population from multiple cities and nations of similar culture, plausible sentiments start to overwhelmingly present themselves as ideas which demand respect regardless of whether the science will confirm or deny such observations. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:45pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
Absence of evidence cannot be evidence of absence Nothing is conclusively true; for what is currently believed as true is only currently true due to its proximity to truth, but not a truth in the most absolute sense. — Dpsychologist TRP constitution is built on reasoning, it aims to be compelling enough in its rationality to prompt the reader to think with greater rigour and criticality. As such, requiring citations whenever one asserts a viewpoint implies an absence of evidence is evidence of absence, and further implies that the individual dismissing a set of claims based on the absence of empirical evidence does not themselves hold beliefs that aren’t deductively valid. In practice this is untrue, and nothing more than a lazy way to refute premises one finds distasteful, for it is not the genuine nature of people to form beliefs solely on the basis they are backed by empirical evidence. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:57pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
The Fallacy People adopt viewpoints because they are either : A: likable, B: relatable, C: thought probable, or D: conclusively proven. As such, empirical evidence is a sufficient, but unnecessary condition to generate belief. The citation needed fallacy suggests the individual will only hold beliefs that fulfil condition D to the exclusion of all other conditions. This is false, but is asserted as such because the individual asking for the citation doesn’t like the premise put forth. For example, if you say "all women are like that" the person will challenge what you say telling you to bring evidence. Even if you are to bring evidence it will still be dismissed because the person does not like what you said. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:57pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
As a corollary to why people believe in things, they likewise often disbelieve things because they are either: A: unlikable, B: unrelatable, C: thought improbable or D: conclusively disproven. So often when one is asked for a citation, condition A of their reason for dismissing your premise is superficially conflated with condition D as a means of rejecting your claim and thereby dismissing you with minimal effort. The request for scientific evidence is not an earnest one, but rather a means in and of itself to dismiss your claims . If you actually provide evidence, such a person will look for a flaw in the study as proof of invalidation and therefore maintain their dismissal over the pursuit of truth. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:58pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
How we believe So how does one believe? Either via delusion, or because upon evaluating a thing you find it to be rationally compelling. Empirical proof is an often sufficient, but ultimately unnecessary condition for generating belief. On the topic of scientific proof, science often disproves things, but rarely does it actually ever prove anything. This is because it is a negative epistemology, its propensity is to disprove by trying to invalidate a claim, not prove a claim. And so when one looks to form beliefs in solidifying their understanding of the world, science at its sincerest can only tell people what not to believe, rather than what to. To believe, something must be a near certainty, and science specialises in creating doubts, not providing assurances. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 4:59pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: I love this baba. We are here to get the point and Not to argue. Weather DJ cuppy of DJ whoever the message is what matters. 3 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 5:23pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
Rubbish points. Rubbish thread. 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by Pstarogood0100: 5:50pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
Plead: How is it your business. Aren't you rubbish for rubbishing someone's thread ? 3 Likes |
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