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This sunday evening,i risked my life trying to wrench a broken bottle from a neigbour who was all out to stab his fiance.
The bone of contention was that the lady got pregnant for another guy-obviously she had been two-timing him.Hence,she had for the past one week,been trying to pick a fight with him that would lead to splitsville between both of them. The guy did not fall for the trick and then the lady had to come clean that the pregnancy is not his. This got the guy raving bonkers. Everyone tried to console him that he should forget about the lady,that life goes on and all that jazz.
Till now,he's still fuming and in severe pains.
How can i console him? I'm pretty much confuse because i still can't fathom whether his reaction is rational or not.
Guys can you fight over a snatched lover?
Is it worth it? Would you try what he did if you were in his shoes?
Happy sunday to all nairalanders!

Sad .

Hmm.

I only read the title of the post — too lazy to read the content.

No, men don't fight for two things

1. Women
2. Money

They attract them, they don't fight for or over them.

Fighting is for up-and-coming men — boys.

iLegendd:
Hmm.

Ding.bang.

FIRE FIGHTER NIIII

Honestly, it would hurt!
But where's the strength to fight I'm talking mentally, talk less of physically.
See live goes on oh!!
Abeg she Arsenal go fit win tonight? , I wan put 50k

Is it even possible to snatch someone else's partner? Asides kidnapping...

Wait, did I just read the part where you said " you were almost stabbed with a broken bottle" !!!!. I mean you nearly die because of a lady who could not use condom, because of a lady who you are not even related to!!!!!!
Menh you get luck say you no die , if not I would not even waste my RIP for you. And for that mumu guys wey dey fight over a LovePeddler; God punish una. I rather drink a beer and sleep than fight over a lady who will cheat on me tomorrow

iLegendd:
Hmm.

I only read the title of the post — too lazy to read the content.

No, men don't fight for two things

1. Women
2. Money

They attract them, they don't fight for or over them.

Fighting is for up-and-coming men — boys.

ilegend,this guy is a "tough" person.Even myself was surprised that he could be emotionally heartbroken to that extent.

gunners160:
Wait, did I just read the part where you said " you were almost stabbed with a broken bottle" !!!!. I mean you nearly die because of a lady who could not use condom, because of a lady who you are not even related to!!!!!!
Menh you get luck say you no die , if not I would not even waste my RIP for you. And for that mumu guys wey dey fight over a LovePeddler; God punish una. I rather drink a beer and sleep than fight over a lady who will cheat on me tomorrow

Do You have reading comprehension problem or you are just deliberately being obtuse?

Op, your title is misleading, the guy wasn't fighting another guy, he was just incensed over his lying/cheating girlfriend who was with him at the time. Two things are involve here; fighting another guy over a girl and punishing your girl for infidelity. No, i wouldn't fight any man over a girl. Yes, i would beat up a girl for fooling around while with me. Hell, i might injure her for life.

I shall never understand why men go mad because of women. Well, maybe it's because I do not understand romantic love and obsession because anything irrational doesn't make sense to me.

ReluctantAdult:
I shall never understand why men go mad because of women. Well, maybe it's because I do not understand romantic love and obsession because anything irrational doesn't make sense to me.

Guy,he has invested a lot on the said lady.I feel his pains too. Afterall,we all human beings.

thesilentman:
ilegend,this guy is a "tough" person.Even myself was surprised that he could be emotionally heartbroken to that extent.

It doesn't matter if you're tough, bad, good, handsome, ugly, smart, or rich. The rule remains the same.

"What's the rule?" You asked. The rule is to fall in like, not in love until she is your wife and with 2 biological kids for you.

The moment any man falls in love, he becomes a fool. This is why wise men keep love for later and exercise only likeness/friendliness.

You can end a friendship and you can stop liking someone, but love? That sh!t is hard and can make you do sh!t as revenge for love, investing (time and money) on the person.

Another rule is: whoever invests more time, money, and emotions (especially emotions) cries more.

From my end, It's a bye bye.
no time.

From my end, It's a bye bye.
no time.

thesilentman:
Guy,he has invested a lot on the said lady.I feel his pains too. Afterall,we all human beings.

Oh well... that's sad. But people shouldn't trust others to be perfect so they don't get disappointed and hurt.

From my end, It's a bye bye.
no time.

Exmilitant:
Op, your title is misleading, the guy wasn't fighting another guy, he was just incensed over his lying/cheating girlfriend who was with him at the time. Two things are involve here; fighting another guy over a girl and punishing your girl for infidelity. No, i wouldn't fight any man over a girl. Yes, i would beat up a girl for fooling around while with me. Hell, i might injure her for life.

The title is perfect. I said "fight over"not fight the other guy.

iLegendd:
It doesn't matter if you're tough, bad, good, handsome, ugly, smart, or . The rule remains the same.

"What's the rule?" You asked. The rule is to fall in like, not in love until she is your wife and with 2 kids.

The moment any man falls in love, he becomes a fool. This is why wise men keep love for later and exercise only likeness/friendliness.

That's a nasty point you got up there,i must admit.

ReluctantAdult:
Oh well... that's sad. But people shouldn't trust others to be perfect so they don't get disappointed and hurt.

We are all human beings,i repeat!

Silentgroper:
From my end, It's a bye bye.

no time.

Ofcourse,seems the logical thing to do but you must agree with me that he won't get over it so soon.Infact,he is in a terrible mood as i write.can't sleep,can't eat ,lol.
Although,am advising him to try smoke away the pain.

thesilentman:
We are all human beings,i repeat!

Yes! That's why we make mistakes! Nobody is an angel! Don't trust people!

op na another matter we for dey yarn if to say dat bottle na ur stomach e end up
there is nothing the guy can do
if he raves from now till tommorow it wont change anything
she said that the child is not his abi?
he should let her go and meet her new man
no need crying over split milk
with the difficulty nigerians are currently experiencing in naija over the endsars issue i am surprised ur neighbour is killing himself over woman matter at this moment .abi the hardship no reach their side?

thesilentman:
Ofcourse,seems the logical thing to do but you must agree with me that he won't get over it so soon.Infact,he is in a terrible mood as i write.can't sleep,can't eat ,lol.
Although,am advising him to try smoke away the pain.

. Hahahahaha. Yeah 4 him, he wouldnt. But as 4 me, i dnt get moody being seperated 4rm a girl. Dz feeling of excitement usually engulf me. I get dz thought in my head lyk yeah, it's time to move on to nxt puzzay. No time

Yes 95% of men will do it, if she doesn't want you let her go, am very sure he doesn't want to let the lady go, that why she had no choice than to get pregnant for another guy.

virginprincess:
Yes 95% of men will do it, if she doesn't want you let her go, am very sure he doesn't want to let the lady go, that why she had no choice than to get pregnant for another guy.

Are you insinuating that the guy was overly possessive?If so,is that a crime?

thesilentman:
Are you insinuating that the guy was overly possessive?If so,is that a crime?

Yes he was too possessive, sometimes you give people freedom, relationship is not by force, the lady was already tired of him a long time ago, but he never notice this, because he was too possessive.

virginprincess:
Yes he was too possessive, sometimes you give people freedom, relationship is not by force, the lady was already tired of him a long time ago, but he never notice this, because he was too possessive.

Wow!Yet women will complain if they don't get enough attention.Imagine!

He is a Pussy Niggar!
You and the guy plus his Girlfriend all of una dey mad! Useless Pussy Niggar People

Hell no

Silentgroper:
From my end, It's a bye bye.

no time.

That's my nigga