Hi everyone... First time posting here cos i need your advice on a Lil issue

My girl friend of 2 years just informed me that she wants to practice celibacy.. That she wants to stay outta having sex for awhile and saying stuffs like.. Sex is overrated bla bla.. Meanwhile I've never for once heard of that from her..

I thought she was joking until she said it again in a stern voice.. And the way guys lament here on this platform about cheating girlfriends and how they neglect red flags is something else

So guys.. I just wanna know.. Is this a red flag? Because our last sex was like 4 months ago and we'll be seeing soon... Maybe her Congo have been shined by another nigga.. The thing is probably wide now and she is putting up some excuse... Who knows ...Though sex ain't food but I can't afford being cheated on ...
So please guys.. Is this a red flag I shouldn't neglect... Thanks..

FYI.. I'm planning to Marry Her.. She knows my family and vice versa..

Some ladies don suffer, that is why you shouldn't start what you can't continue. Both of you are gigolo Oniranu No better plans for the future, both sex is the first thing

Fero24:
Hi everyone... First time posting here cos i need your advice on a Lil issue

My girl friend of 2 years just informed me that she wants to practice celibacy.. That she wants to stay outta having sex for awhile and saying stuffs like.. Sex is overrated bla bla.. Meanwhile I've never for once heard of that from her..

I thought she was joking until she said it again in a stern voice.. And the way guys lament here on this platform about cheating girlfriends and how they neglect red flags is something else

So guys.. I just wanna know.. Is this a red flag? Because our last sex was like 4 months ago and we'll be seeing soon... Maybe her Congo have been shined by another nigga.. The thing is probably wide now and she is putting up some excuse... Who knows ...Though sex ain't food but I can't afford being cheated on ...
So please guys.. Is this a red flag I shouldn't neglect... Thanks..

FYI.. I'm planning to Marry Her.. She knows my family and vice versa..

Where do they get all these guys from abeg?

Guys, make I talk ?

pansophist:
Guys, make I talk ?

Oga talk jare

dorin27:
Where do they get all these guys from abeg?

Many of them on nairaland so don't be surprised

Fero24:
Maybe her Congo have been shined by another nigga.. The thing is probably wide now and she is putting up some excuse... Who knows

Of course yes another nigga is licking her plate clean. If u like, go marry Nigerian Used girl with 800,000 miles odometer
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Someone else is shining her Congo and he's doing much more than you can ever imagine.

Bola146:


Many of them on nairaland so don't be surprised

the kind of things they post here ehn? Just imagine what the op is saying about his own girlfriend. Shay this one no need help bayi?

O deep

Fero24:
Hi everyone... First time posting here cos i need your advice on a Lil issue

My girl friend of 2 years just informed me that she wants to practice celibacy.. That she wants to stay outta having sex for awhile and saying stuffs like.. Sex is overrated bla bla.. Meanwhile I've never for once heard of that from her..

I thought she was joking until she said it again in a stern voice.. And the way guys lament here on this platform about cheating girlfriends and how they neglect red flags is something else

So guys.. I just wanna know.. Is this a red flag? Because our last sex was like 4 months ago and we'll be seeing soon... Maybe her Congo have been shined by another nigga.. The thing is probably wide now and she is putting up some excuse... Who knows ...Though sex ain't food but I can't afford being cheated on ...
So please guys.. Is this a red flag I shouldn't neglect... Thanks..

FYI.. I'm planning to Marry Her.. She knows my family and vice versa..

well, you don't need to start being suspicious of her having affairs with other guys. it might be a change of mind to stay clean before marriage. just watch her closely. you can ask her why she wants to practice celibacy, that is if you guys give room for serious communication.
her thing is wide, abeg who wide am?

dorin27:
the kind of things they post here ehn? Just imagine what the op is saying about his own girlfriend. Shay this one no need help bayi?

It's not like I'm tryna damage her image or something
She cheated on me many months back and you know I don't wanna fall into the same pit twice

Fero24:
Hi everyone... First time posting here cos i need your advice on a Lil issue

My girl friend of 2 years just informed me that she wants to practice celibacy.. That she wants to stay outta having sex for awhile and saying stuffs like.. Sex is overrated bla bla.. Meanwhile I've never for once heard of that from her..

I thought she was joking until she said it again in a stern voice.. And the way guys lament here on this platform about cheating girlfriends and how they neglect red flags is something else

So guys.. I just wanna know.. Is this a red flag? Because our last sex was like 4 months ago and we'll be seeing soon... Maybe her Congo have been shined by another nigga.. The thing is probably wide now and she is putting up some excuse... Who knows ...Though sex ain't food but I can't afford being cheated on ...
So please guys.. Is this a red flag I shouldn't neglect... Thanks..

FYI.. I'm planning to Marry Her.. She knows my family and vice versa..

Hahaha. Planning to marry her when you are not acting like a niggar?

Fero24:


It's not like I'm tryna damage her image or something
She cheated on me many months back and you know I don't wanna fall into the same pit twice

you did not add this to your post. Hence my conclusion. Now that you've mentioned it, I really don't know what else to tell you than move on

Fero24:
Hi everyone... First time posting here cos i need your advice on a Lil issue

My girl friend of 2 years just informed me that she wants to practice celibacy.. That she wants to stay outta having sex for awhile and saying stuffs like.. Sex is overrated bla bla.. Meanwhile I've never for once heard of that from her..

I thought she was joking until she said it again in a stern voice.. And the way guys lament here on this platform about cheating girlfriends and how they neglect red flags is something else

So guys.. I just wanna know.. Is this a red flag? Because our last sex was like 4 months ago and we'll be seeing soon... Maybe her Congo have been shined by another nigga.. The thing is probably wide now and she is putting up some excuse... Who knows ...Though sex ain't food but I can't afford being cheated on ...
So please guys.. Is this a red flag I shouldn't neglect... Thanks..

FYI.. I'm planning to Marry Her.. She knows my family and vice versa..

If I told you to remove the thought of marrying her from your mind, you won't listen but act feebly.

You already know that's a red flag. If she says she wants to go celibate way, let her go but make sure you cut all the communication between you two while she is observing her celibacy. Don't call her, don't chat her, let her enjoy her celibacy. If she still means business with you she will call you to ask why you have stopped calling her, tell her you don't want to disturb her celibacy, just act indifferent to her. While doing this, pick up another girl you share similar idea with. If the former is seeing another guy, you will know by this time, this time know it's over between you guys. Make a paradigm shift to the latter girl. Life is simple sha!

Fero24:
Hi everyone... First time posting here cos i need your advice on a Lil issue

My girl friend of 2 years just informed me that she wants to practice celibacy.. That she wants to stay outta having sex for awhile and saying stuffs like.. Sex is overrated bla bla.. Meanwhile I've never for once heard of that from her..

I thought she was joking until she said it again in a stern voice.. And the way guys lament here on this platform about cheating girlfriends and how they neglect red flags is something else

So guys.. I just wanna know.. Is this a red flag? Because our last sex was like 4 months ago and we'll be seeing soon... Maybe her Congo have been shined by another nigga.. The thing is probably wide now and she is putting up some excuse... Who knows ...Though sex ain't food but I can't afford being cheated on ...
So please guys.. Is this a red flag I shouldn't neglect... Thanks..

FYI.. I'm planning to Marry Her.. She knows my family and vice versa..

You're damn right

Fero24:


It's not like I'm tryna damage her image or something
She cheated on me many months back and you know I don't wanna fall into the same pit twice

so she cheated on u before and u think she won't do it again??...

Bros...e be like say..another person dey do that thing..better comot mind from her, that's red flag oooo....

never accept a cheating girlfriend...bcus..she will do it more and more again

ladywealth:

well, you don't need to start being suspicious of her having affairs with other guys. it might be a change of mind to stay clean before marriage. just watch her closely. you can ask her why she wants to practice celibacy, that is if you guys give room for serious communication.
her thing is wide, abeg who wide am?

The girl is seeing another guy, there is no doubt that. She's using celibacy as excuse to deceive this guy.

Fero24:
Hi everyone... First time posting here cos i need your advice on a Lil issue

My girl friend of 2 years just informed me that she wants to practice celibacy.. That she wants to stay outta having sex for awhile and saying stuffs like.. Sex is overrated bla bla.. Meanwhile I've never for once heard of that from her..

I thought she was joking until she said it again in a stern voice.. And the way guys lament here on this platform about cheating girlfriends and how they neglect red flags is something else

So guys.. I just wanna know.. Is this a red flag? Because our last sex was like 4 months ago and we'll be seeing soon... Maybe her Congo have been shined by another nigga.. The thing is probably wide now and she is putting up some excuse... Who knows ...Though sex ain't food but I can't afford being cheated on ...
So please guys.. Is this a red flag I shouldn't neglect... Thanks..

FYI.. I'm planning to Marry Her.. She knows my family and vice versa..

so for two years the only thing that you both have in common was to phock

parkervero:


If I told you to remove the thought of marrying her from your mind, you won't listen but act feebly.

You already know that's a red flag. If she says she wants to go celibate way, let her go but make sure you cut all the communication between you two while she is observing her celibacy. Don't call her, don't chat her, let her enjoy her celibacy. If she still means business with you she will call you to ask why you have stopped calling her, tell her you don't want to disturb her celibacy, just act indifferent to her. While doing this, pick up another girl you share similar idea with. If the former is seeing another guy, you will know by this time, this time know it's over between you guys. Make a paradigm shift to the latter girl. Life is simple sha!

Thanks homie.. I appreciate 100%

Well, what you dread most is what's happening. She's going celibate quite alright, celibate from you. Every other guy will have access to that hole but you. Well let me be realistic, that guy she wants to woo who probably might have mentioned it to her that he doesn't like slack pussy or a girl who bleeps around will have access to her pussy but you. She didn't lie to you. She gave you true facts you should make use of.

If I were you, I'd put it to her, this way: “Honey, it's been a while since I had a taste of you pussy, and since we both are meeting very soon, I'd like us to have some time for ourselves where we both will explore.” If she doesn't oblige to your request, then break up with her there and then. Kapiche?


Pansophist, I told him!

pansophist:
Guys, make I talk ?

Drop am as e dey hot!

You already know... Hahahaha

Is it that she just gave her life to christ n thus no sex

ladywealth:

[/b]well, you don't need to start being suspicious of her having affairs with other guys. it might be a change of mind to stay clean before marriage. just watch her closely.[b] you can ask her why she wants to practice celibacy, that is if you guys give room for serious communication.
her thing is wide, abeg who wide am?

Guys here is the manipulation you should never ever fall for. Watch her for what?

GLYCOLYSISS, Ubunja, Martinez39s, CaveAdullam

Bola146:
Some ladies don suffer, that is why you shouldn't start what you can't continue. Both of you are gigolo Oniranu No better plans for the future, both sex is the first thing

I'm a councilor election candidate.. The election Will hold next year.. More so my uncle is the deputy speaker of oyo state.. Is it until I bring convoy to your house then you'll know I have plans?

Why can't you quit fornication and save yourself from all this stress.

SEX IS HIGHLY OVERRATED.

Mr Fero24, the problem with you guys in love is that when you ask for an advice, you ignore the most glaring truth and embrace the soft opinions as you're doing here.
So even if we advise you till next year, you'll still do contrary only to come back here with another topic like "Help! My wife is a chronic cheat!" But because you're a man, I won't hold it back from you. You're being foolish for;
1. forgiving her when she first cheated. No one cheats by error.
2. trusting her again and believing she hasn't been banging VIGOROUSLY for the past four months of her sexually quarantining you.
3. refusing to listen to your gut feeling. A man's gut feeling is always 99.99% correct.
4. thinking of marrying a lady who cheated on you. Tufiakwa!
See, hold your ears, both of them! A lady who's sexually active before you met her has no right to hoard her puzzi from you in the name of wanting to be celibate after meeting you, talkless of someone you've been banging aecrobatically.

I will also do you one more favour by inviting you to an AWAKENING service, holding here on nairaland 24/7. Join us at
https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know
and be misinformed for your own good.

Write these words on the tablet of your heart!

CAPSLOCKED:
SHE DOESN'T WANT TO CHEAT ON HER BOYFRIEND, WITH YOU.
THIS IS FIRST-CLASS INFORMATION. REJOICE AND BE GLAD THAT YOU GOT IT HERE FOR FREE.

Peace.

Fero24:
Hi everyone... First time posting here cos i need your advice on a Lil issue

My girl friend of 2 years just informed me that she wants to practice celibacy.. That she wants to stay outta having sex for awhile and saying stuffs like.. Sex is overrated bla bla.. Meanwhile I've never for once heard of that from her..

I thought she was joking until she said it again in a stern voice.. And the way guys lament here on this platform about cheating girlfriends and how they neglect red flags is something else

So guys.. I just wanna know.. Is this a red flag? Because our last sex was like 4 months ago and we'll be seeing soon... Maybe her Congo have been shined by another nigga.. The thing is probably wide now and she is putting up some excuse... Who knows ...Though sex ain't food but I can't afford being cheated on ...
So please guys.. Is this a red flag I shouldn't neglect... Thanks..

FYI.. I'm planning to Marry Her.. She knows my family and vice versa..

Whatever your thoughts about her are,,, just know that you are about 50% right. The so much you know about her already would either reduce or increase the percentage.

If a girl who doesn't joke with sex tells you all that story, you should accept you aren't in any r/shp,,,, till further notice.

Unless you confirmed she just had divine encounter

CAPSLOCKED:
SHE DOESN'T WANT TO CHEAT ON HER BOYFRIEND, WITH YOU.
THIS IS FIRST-CLASS INFORMATION. REJOICE AND BE GLAD THAT YOU GOT IT HERE FOR FREE.

Not far from truth

Chase a cheque, NEVER chase a bitch.

Fero24:
Hi everyone... First time posting here cos i need your advice on a Lil issue

My girl friend of 2 years just informed me that she wants to practice celibacy.. That she wants to stay outta having sex for awhile and saying stuffs like.. Sex is overrated bla bla.. Meanwhile I've never for once heard of that from her..

I thought she was joking until she said it again in a stern voice.. And the way guys lament here on this platform about cheating girlfriends and how they neglect red flags is something else

So guys.. I just wanna know.. Is this a red flag? Because our last sex was like 4 months ago and we'll be seeing soon... Maybe her Congo have been shined by another nigga.. The thing is probably wide now and she is putting up some excuse... Who knows ...Though sex ain't food but I can't afford being cheated on ...
So please guys.. Is this a red flag I shouldn't neglect... Thanks..

FYI.. I'm planning to Marry Her.. She knows my family and vice versa..

The Gospel according to the book of Future:

Chapter 1 vs 1: From the streets did she emerge, and to the streets she will return. 2. And I say unto you, "She is for the streets" 3. So be not weary when she must return from whence she came.

Chapter 2 vs 1: It is better if women call you STINGY than MAGA/MUGU, women will call a man stingy as a way of manipulating him to give her money.

2. Women are generally not appreciative, it's the one thing you didn't do that they will always remember, even though you've done 99 things for her.


Nigerian girls don't love you, they only love what you have. - Anonymous

BE WISE