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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Godoverevery: 5:27pm On Oct 29, 2020
virginprincess:
Op like funny dude said, if you are seeing girls as liability then remain single, stop coming here to spill trash, it not by force to have a girlfriend, undecided
don't be naive and be logical........I don't engage cretins and teens

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by phazotron(m): 5:27pm On Oct 29, 2020
Godoverevery:

lol.......who will value a lady who have no source of income.
No matter the love no man wants a woman who is totally dependent on him.

Very true

They may marry but them no go respect am.

What do you contribute to my life?

When fight start that's the first thing the guy will say

If not because of anything

Contribute something because of self esteem and respect.

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by phazotron(m): 5:28pm On Oct 29, 2020
Very true

They may marry but them no go respect am.

What do you contribute to my life?

When fight start that's the first thing the guy will say

If not because of anything

Contribute something because of self esteem and respect

So that insult no go much when fight start.
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Godoverevery: 5:30pm On Oct 29, 2020
phazotron:


Very true

They may marry but them no go respect am.

What do you contribute to my life?

When fight start that's the first thing the guy will say

If not because of anything

Contribute something because of self esteem and respect.
then you start seeing them posting how there husband dont respect them on life matters.

if he is jobless will she respect him.....this most annoying thing is how some ladies feel they have the right not to work/be jobless.

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by stanliwise(m): 5:30pm On Oct 29, 2020
Kiss the truth, men are not women, women are not men, men are not greater than women, women are not greater than men.

Gender simply means role. Only sexism and supremacy theory would tell you other wise.

If you believe gender supremacy, then you can as well believe racial supremacy.

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Tombrown3(m): 5:32pm On Oct 29, 2020
FunnyDude:
Stop this complain. You're the man, go hustle and take care of your woman.That's the natural law of life.
If you don't want to take care of your woman, leave her alone and be single.

No one point a gun in your head that you must marry or be in a relationship.

Natural law indeed.



Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by phazotron(m): 5:33pm On Oct 29, 2020
Godoverevery:

then you start seeing them posting how there husband dont respect them on life matters.

if he is jobless will she respect him.....this most annoying thing is how some ladies feel they have the right not to work/be jobless.

Exactly!

Yeah the guy may be earning much

But to maintain your dignity and respect e pay the woman to be doing something

A woman won't respect a man who is jobless o

Any small fight the whole neighborhood will hear the man has lost his job

But na them get right to not do anything

Double standards everywhere!

Scammers! Scammers everywhere!

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by FunnyDude(m): 6:03pm On Oct 29, 2020
444crop:
Are u from akwa ibom or calabar?

I'm from South West
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by 444crop: 7:21pm On Oct 29, 2020
Ok...
FunnyDude:


I'm from South West
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by fati2001(m): 7:25pm On Oct 29, 2020
Godoverevery:

I hope they allow you go to a proper school before you are willed to that alhaji.


is that all? lolz and your quote is just like trash as you.
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by teejaymiquel(m): 7:39pm On Oct 29, 2020
you are right bro
billings every where
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Godoverevery: 9:01pm On Oct 29, 2020
fati2001:



is that all? lolz and your quote is just like trash as you.
so say an almajiri with a mobile phone.....pick the pieces of your life together and stop been a misrable c*ow commenting on every post dimwit.

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by fati2001(m): 9:05pm On Oct 29, 2020
Godoverevery:

so say an almajiri with a mobile phone.....pick the pieces of your life together and stop been a misrable c*ow commenting on every post dimwit.

coming from a deformed creature gotten from a rotten fowl smell gametes.

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Godoverevery: 9:12pm On Oct 29, 2020
fati2001:


coming from a deformed creature gotten from a rotten fowl smell gametes.
your foolishness is exclusive.
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by fati2001(m): 9:13pm On Oct 29, 2020
Godoverevery:
your foolishness is exclusive.

so you know yourself.... congrats.

Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by IamAngelica(f): 9:21pm On Oct 29, 2020
100% in support of this and i'm female..a high percentage of Nigerian women feel entitled to men to the extent that the man becomes their sole source of income which should not be so because as an individual, you owe yourself financial security and independence but most nigerian women prefer to be blood-sucking parasites instead of working for their money..i'm not saying he shouldn't buy you gifts but she should reciprocate (not boxers and singlets) and without these gifts she should be able to provide for herself, those gifts should be bonuses..girls that reason this way are seldom and will always be outnumbered..this in turn lead men to believe that every nigerian woman is like that too ;entitled, selfish, demanding and think that relationships are business deals..but dat one na talk for anoda day

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Godoverevery: 9:24pm On Oct 29, 2020
fati2001:


so you know yourself.... congrats.
read the quote above from a sensible lady.....she isn't a Dumbo like you.
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Nobody: 9:33pm On Oct 29, 2020
setobaba:
Remember they also have babies to offer that’s if you want
The baby is for them not for us
Why I say this is because before a child will buy something for his dad he/she would have already bought millions of things for his/her mom.
You as a man you will die first leaving your wife behind
Your wife will keep on enjoying the Goodies again after your death.
Setobaba I'm speaking some real shi huh..
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by fati2001(m): 9:35pm On Oct 29, 2020
Godoverevery:

read the quote above from a sensible lady.....she isn't a Dumbo like you.


NEVER KNEW YOU ARE A DUMBO..... MORE LIKE ZOMBIE !
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Finch1213: 10:12pm On Oct 29, 2020
The fact is that both men and ladies have sex to offer because we both enjoy it and most of the times during sex men always tries to satisfy women...the question should be what does ladies have to offer in relationships Because let for me, both the guy and lady both have sex to offer...we both enjoy it because we like it...ladies don’t offer sex they engage in sex. FULLSTOP

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by ThaThinka: 11:07pm On Oct 29, 2020
FunnyDude:
Stop this complain. You're the man, go hustle and take care of your woman.That's the natural law of life.
If you don't want to take care of your woman, leave her alone and be single.

No one point a gun in your head that you must marry or be in a relationship.




I didn't feel like commenting on anything this night, but I couldn't resist the urge to reply this one.

Your comment was somewhat besides the point. One thing I think the guy was getting across was that our ladies should be more responsible.

Is intimacy the best they can offer? Come on! If that's all, a man could simply decide to just be paying to get laid rather than taking on the responsibilities of marriage.

What is wrong in asking for things that could improve your life and make you less dependent? Most of these ladies are only interested in pleasurable items and not in self-improvement. undecided

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Sixfeetbelle: 3:23am On Oct 30, 2020
Finch1213:
The fact is that both men and ladies have sex to offer because we both enjoy it and most of the times during sex men always tries to satisfy women...the question should be what does ladies have to offer in relationships Because let for me, both the guy and lady both have sex to offer...we both enjoy it because we like it...ladies don’t offer sex they engage in sex. FULLSTOP

What do men offer in relationships?
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Goodman247: 7:14am On Oct 30, 2020
FunnyDude:
Stop this complain. You're the man, go hustle and take care of your woman.That's the natural law of life.
If you don't want to take care of your woman, leave her alone and be single.

No one point a gun in your head that you must marry or be in a relationship.



even when the woman is working, she does not touch her salary, she only want to spend the man's money,go to sane Clime, women contribute adequately to the running of the home, Nigeria women are selfish, God made woman to be a helpmate to man in all aspects.

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Godoverevery: 7:20am On Oct 30, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


What do men offer in relationships?
6/10 ladies driving a car it is man that bought it for them.
5/10 of ladies using iPhone it is a man that bought it for them.
I no many of my friends including me who have established a business for a lady.
many men have sent there gf to school... just to mention a few.
We don't only offer sex....we offer our money,food, house etc

now tell me what you offer in a relationship??

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Godoverevery: 7:22am On Oct 30, 2020
Goodman247:
even when the woman is working, she does not touch her salary, she only want to spend the man's money,go to sane Clime, women contribute adequately to the running of the home, Nigeria women are lazy.
bro what annoy me the most is they feel they have the right not to work or be jobless.

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Goodman247: 7:30am On Oct 30, 2020
Godoverevery:

bro what annoy me the most is they feel they have the right not to work or be jobless.
someone was telling me d other day, that one govt of a state wanted to empower some youths, he told them that if you empower a man, you indirectly have empowered a woman, because a man's money belong to his wife or babe too, while a woman's money is for herself alone.so he focused on the male youths and he only gave the women some money.

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by FunnyDude(m): 8:13am On Oct 30, 2020
ThaThinka:


I didn't feel like commenting on anything this night, but I couldn't resist the urge to reply this one.

Your comment was somewhat besides the point. One thing I think the guy was getting across was that our ladies should be more responsible.

Is intimacy the best they can offer? Come on! If that's all, a man could simply decide to just be paying to get laid rather than taking on the responsibilities of marriage.

What is wrong in asking for things that could improve your life and make you less dependent? Most of these ladies are only interested in pleasurable items and not in self-improvement. undecided

Well said bro
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Sixfeetbelle: 6:00pm On Oct 30, 2020
Godoverevery:

6/10 ladies driving a car it is man that bought it for them.
5/10 of ladies using iPhone it is a man that bought it for them.
I no many of my friends including me who have established a business for a lady.
many men have sent there gf to school... just to mention a few.
We don't only offer sex....we offer our money,food, house etc

now tell me what you offer in a relationship??

Thank heavens you pointed out that only a measurable quantity of guys have something tangible to offer in a relationship, which by the way are all material things, thus indirectly saying that without money, you guys have nothing to offer in a relationship.

And I hope you know the sole reason men feel they are the ones doing "everything" in a relationship is because of ladies who aren't content. This is the very reason why relationships in advanced societies are complex and mature.

So you in particular, let me posit this; when you meet a lady who can pay her bills, has a stable job/business, is very content with her life and income, tell me your importance in her life? What difference would your presence make in her life?
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Sixfeetbelle: 6:06pm On Oct 30, 2020
ThaThinka:


I didn't feel like commenting on anything this night, but I couldn't resist the urge to reply this one.

Your comment was somewhat besides the point. One thing I think the guy was getting across was that our ladies should be more responsible.

Is intimacy the best they can offer? Come on! If that's all, a man could simply decide to just be paying to get laid rather than taking on the responsibilities of marriage.

What is wrong in asking for things that could improve your life and make you less dependent? Most of these ladies are only interested in pleasurable items and not in self-improvement. undecided

@ the bold, why are men not just getting laid then? Why move ten steps further and wife her? I mean they know these things about women, they've seen it over and over again, yet they are the ones going down on their knees and proposing to women every other day. Even in the so-called western societies.

Riddle me this: If men know women are a "liability" and lazy, and jobless and entitled and all manner of adjectives you can think of, why are men still looking to tie a woman down to them?
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by GreatMage: 6:53pm On Oct 30, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


@ the bold, why are men not just getting laid then? Why move ten steps further and wife her? I mean they know these things about women, they've seen it over and over again, yet they are the ones going down on their knees and proposing to women every other day. Even in the so-called western societies.

Riddle me this: If men know women are a "liability" and lazy, and jobless and entitled and all manner of adjectives you can think of, why are men still looking to tie a woman down to them?

For babies...

To create a home...

To have a healthy sex life...

And to fulfill the scripture... tongue

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by GreatMage: 6:56pm On Oct 30, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Thank heavens you pointed out that only a measurable quantity of guys have something tangible to offer in a relationship, which by the way are all material things, thus indirectly saying that without money, you guys have nothing to offer in a relationship.

And I hope you know the sole reason men feel they are the ones doing "everything" in a relationship is because of ladies who aren't content. This is the very reason why relationships in advanced societies are complex and mature.

So you in particular, let me posit this; when you meet a lady who can pay her bills, has a stable job/business, is very content with her life and income, tell me your importance in her life? What difference would your presence make in her life?



Protection...

Manly comfort...

Assurance...

Mental and spiritual pillar...

A healthy sex life...

A man to call her own and lean on...

To carry and believe in her when others didn't... tongue

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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Sixfeetbelle: 6:58pm On Oct 30, 2020
GreatMage:


For babies...

To create a home...

To have a healthy sex life...

And to fulfill the scripture... tongue

grin grin grin

If all these things are important to you guys, why the wailing and ranting all over the place? It is not as if most of you will be very comfortable with a scenario where wifey earns more than you thus indirectly being the head of the house. Because this constant beacon call for women to take up more financial responsibilities is pushing for a paradigm shift that men's ego are not ready to deal with.

So manage the situation, please. If she's loving and submissive, what else do you guys need?

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