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. by Nobody: 6:20am On Nov 04, 2020*

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Re: . by lazkizz: 6:25am On Nov 04, 2020

This is why guru maraji, says the more you see, the less you understand.

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Re: . by Nobody: 6:26am On Nov 04, 2020

lazkizz:
This is why guru maraji, says the more you see, the less you understand.

meaning

Re: . by illicit(m): 6:29am On Nov 04, 2020

Is the 1k not enough for her transport or what huh

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Re: . by Nobody: 6:31am On Nov 04, 2020

illicit:
Is the 1k not enough for her transport or what

1k? for what really? that's an insult and isn't that a red flag,she didn't ask him for anything remember

Re: . by illicit(m): 6:34am On Nov 04, 2020*

Zzor:
1k? for what really? that's an insult and isn't that a red flag,she didn't ask him for anything remember

Oh yeah
He shouldn't have given her anything in the first place then....

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Re: . by Greyworld: 6:36am On Nov 04, 2020

We think your friend is you. It's not a red flag nor any flag at all.

He gave your friend (you ) what he has. either you accept it or kindly n politely reject it.

He might not want to be seen as trying to impress your friend (you) with money. like you said your friend (you) are not hungry and broke.

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Re: . by MoxxxxO123(m): 6:40am On Nov 04, 2020

He shouldn't have given you 1k nahh, he's just being stingy.. the decision is yours apart from his stingy part is there any other things you noticed signaling the red flag?

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Re: . by Skyfornia(m): 6:49am On Nov 04, 2020

Like someone asked above....is the 1k not enough for your transport? Or you expected him to give you 5k for a distance where 5h will cover??

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Re: . by AstroG: 6:50am On Nov 04, 2020

We all know that 'Your friend' in the context used above is "You" grin

but the Guy try give you 1k self. If na me,as you take come,Naso u go take go undecided

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Re: . by Jessepaid(m): 7:20am On Nov 04, 2020

If he didn't give you'll say he's stingy... He gave and you are still complaining.
He is a business man and a business man does not invest much where he is not sure about profitable returns...
In common English..he no wan waste money on you till he is sure you down for him..
The 1k is also a test... Hope you didn't frown? Hope you also tried to reject the money?
Na so person dey lose husband oo...

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Re: . by LINTUNE(m): 7:25am On Nov 04, 2020

lol, i swear this gal de worry..haha...this early mormor she don start to de whine men..madam dont u have something doing, its too early for all this bullock stories!

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Re: . by mosdii(m): 7:26am On Nov 04, 2020

That means your friend is gay because you where busted by confirm gees here that you are a black dude with saggy balls.

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Re: . by DrFunmisticGlow: 7:31am On Nov 04, 2020

The fact that he wants to settle down by December is a red flag.

Dors your friend also want to settle down by then.

She needs to know him a little bit more and come out straight to ask why he wants to marry so quickly

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Re: . by MiamiePizza(m): 7:32am On Nov 04, 2020

Zzor:
1k? for what really? that's an insult and isn't that a red flag,she didn't ask him for anything remember

Who made the law that a guy must always gives t.fare or pay for drinks and food at meetings or date?
He gave her 1k when she didn't even ask and call that stinginess? OK

Your friend is OK as you said, why or what she needs his money for in the relationship? They don't lie even Nigeria girls who earn 300k and above still demands and feel entitled to guys.

If your friend can't settle with him she should make the decision fast and stop disturbing us with red flag wahala. Who knows if his ATM card is not working that day or baba just broke or dey test her gan, mtchewww

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Re: . by Silentgroper(m): 7:53am On Nov 04, 2020

Greyworld:
We think your friend is you. It's not a red flag nor any flag at all.

He gave your friend (you ) what he has. either you accept it or kindly n politely reject it.

He might not want to be seen as trying to impress your friend (you) with money. like you said your friend (you) are not hungry and broke.

exactly. She's nt hungry or broke, yet d 1k is a problem.

btw. Zzor is jxt 20yrs, she aint ripe 4 marriage.

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Re: . by Nobody: 8:04am On Nov 04, 2020

Zzor:
This is about a friend of mine,she met this man on one of the social media platforms and they became so fond of each other,though the man has been pestering her for a relationship but my friend insisted on meeting him first before she makes any decision.So,they finally met two days ago and after several discussion and all that,he asked my friend to marry him and that he's ready to settle down as soon as possible if he gets a positive answer from my friend,but my friend insisted on giving her time to think about it,he went further to tell my friend to get back to him soon so he can start making the necessary preparations as he wish to settle down by December.Now this very rich man who has businesses all over the place and even outside the country gave my friend only 1k when he was leaving,can you imagine that? My friend is not hungry or broke but who does that? Is that not a sign of extreme stinginess? It would have been better if he didn't give her anything and it would have made it easier for my friend to make her decision.Is this not a huge red flag? Ladies and gentlemen what do you think?

Someone Says He Wants To Marry Ur Friend. He Even Promised To Do D Necessary Things, Yet U & Ur Friend Are Complaining. Dat He Should Start Spending Lavishly On Her? Do U Know Whether It's A Test On Her? Dis Is Why Many Relationships & Marriages. What Do U Ladies Really Want?

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Re: . by Froshloaded: 8:09am On Nov 04, 2020

The friend is you.
You are the friend.
grin

Cc Silentgroper

Re: . by Froshloaded: 8:09am On Nov 04, 2020

The friend is you.
You are the friend.
grin

He might be testing you!
Cc Silentgroper

Re: . by muller101(m): 8:12am On Nov 04, 2020

Confused gender. Pls public service announcement to all NLders The op is a male man. Be guided

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Re: . by Silentgroper(m): 8:13am On Nov 04, 2020

Froshloaded:
The friend is you. You are the friend.
Cc Silentgroper

Re: . by Nobody: 8:17am On Nov 04, 2020

1k for what exactly.??
First sign of a useless and stingy husband
Tell her this....they both need time

Re: . by Makingrealsense: 8:18am On Nov 04, 2020

1k.....issorite

Re: . by Nobody: 8:21am On Nov 04, 2020

Froshloaded:
The friend is you. You are the friend.
Cc Silentgroper

Ur Prediction Could Be True.

Re: . by stanliwise(m): 8:22am On Nov 04, 2020

So like how much should your friend have collected and why?

Moreso did your friend collect the 1k cheesy

Re: . by Nobody: 8:27am On Nov 04, 2020

Silentgroper:
exactly. She's nt hungry or broke, yet d 1k is a problem.

btw. Zzor is jxt 20yrs, she aint ripe 4 marriage.

our mothers married earlier and it turned successful

Re: . by Nobody: 8:31am On Nov 04, 2020*

MiamiePizza:
Who made the law that a guy must always gives t.fare or pay for drinks and food at meetings or date?
He gave her 1k when she didn't even ask and call that stinginess? OK

Your friend is OK as you said, why or what she needs his money for in the relationship? They don't lie even Nigeria girls who earn 300k and above still demands and feel entitled to guys.

If your friend can't settle with him she should make the decision fast and stop disturbing us with red flag wahala. Who knows if his ATM card is not working that day or baba just broke or dey test her gan, mtchewww

I didn't say the man must give her anything but he decided to on his own and he gave her the 1k,my friend is not after money.The man is not broke,he's a multi millionaire if not a billionaire sef,so brokeness is out of it.Kai you won't understand kos you are not a lady

Re: . by olanrele78674: 8:33am On Nov 04, 2020

He shouldn't have given you 1k nahh, he's just being stingy.. the decision is yours apart from his stingy part is there any other things you noticed signaling the red flag?

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Re: . by Nobody: 8:37am On Nov 04, 2020

Truvel:
Someone Says He Wants To Marry Ur Friend. He Even Promised To Do D Necessary Things, Yet U & Ur Friend Are Complaining. Dat He Should Start Spending Lavishly On Her? Do U Know Whether It's A Test On Her? Dis Is Why Many Relationships & Marriages. What Do U Ladies Really Want?

A man of his status should not travel far to meet with someone and ends up dropping 1k,thats an insult and remember she didn't ask for anything and wasn't expecting anything as well.Some times little actions from a person is enough to get the bigger picture.Only ladies will understand what I'm saying

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Re: . by mespusinglez(m): 8:38am On Nov 04, 2020

The Friend Is Not Complaining
why are you then complaining
the enemy is very closer walahi

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Re: . by Shortyy(f): 8:39am On Nov 04, 2020

Na wa.

Re: . by femi4: 8:39am On Nov 04, 2020

Zzor:
This is about a friend of mine,she met this man on one of the social media platforms and they became so fond of each other,though the man has been pestering her for a relationship but my friend insisted on meeting him first before she makes any decision.So,they finally met two days ago and after several discussion and all that,he asked my friend to marry him and that he's ready to settle down as soon as possible if he gets a positive answer from my friend,but my friend insisted on giving her time to think about it,he went further to tell my friend to get back to him soon so he can start making the necessary preparations as he wish to settle down by December.Now this very rich man who has businesses all over the place and even outside the country gave my friend only 1k when he was leaving,can you imagine that? My friend is not hungry or broke but who does that? Is that not a sign of extreme stinginess? It would have been better if he didn't give her anything and it would have made it easier for my friend to make her decision.Is this not a huge red flag? Ladies and gentlemen what do you think?

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