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Re: God is good by Aridunnuoluwa(m): 8:34am On Nov 04, 2020
Anyiiii:
We are in the month of November. I'm still not married. A close female friend of mine will be getting married in December. Two of my close friends got married this year too. I'm feeling depressed right now. Nothing interests me. My decoder is subscribed and I can't watch TV. I have food but I'm not hungry. I have money but I'm not happy. Who says money is happiness? Some men are coming my way but they are not my spec. I'm very beautiful and look so younger than my age. So stop imagining the looks of an old Lady. Why can't I find the man of my dreams? Please you people should pray for me. Is there any good luck herb that you can recommend for me to get my husband? Thanks
..... I am available if you wanna marry this year..... cool
Re: God is good by Tastemoney(m): 8:58am On Nov 04, 2020
I am in need of a sugar mummy that can possibly lead to marriage. I am 24, and a graduate with job.

Are you available?

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Re: God is good by Kyngfarabale1(m): 9:06am On Nov 04, 2020
anochuko01:
Hang out.
"market" yourself.
Attend Singles summit.
Attend events where you think your specs could be.
Make yourself very available on Twitter.


And those your specs... Hope they're the right specs. If they're anything you could cut out from them, kindly do.

And lastly, are you willing to practically submit to a man, or you want someone you can rub shoulder with? No man wants to marry another "mother".
anochuko01:
Hang out.
"market" yourself.
Attend Singles summit.
Attend events where you think your specs could be.
Make yourself very available on Twitter.


And those your specs... Hope they're the right specs. If they're anything you could cut out from them, kindly do.

And lastly, are you willing to practically submit to a man, or you want someone you can rub shoulder with? No man wants to marry another "mother".
anochuko01:
Hang out.
"market" yourself.
Attend Singles summit.
Attend events where you think your specs could be.
Make yourself very available on Twitter.


And those your specs... Hope they're the right specs. If they're anything you could cut out from them, kindly do.

And lastly, are you willing to practically submit to a man, or you want someone you can rub shoulder with? No man wants to marry another "mother".
NO MAN WANTS TO MARRY ANOTHER....... MOTHER.... Hmmm dis got me on my spine
Re: God is good by humilitypays(m): 9:06am On Nov 04, 2020
HerRoyalFlyness:
So in other words, any Tom, Dick and Harry that comes for her now, she should accept him with open arms and try to change him later. Even if he is a street tout or a drug dealer, It doesn't matter right? She should accept him just so she can answer Mrs. somebody.

You guys should calm down. I don't think there's anything wrong with having a spec or someone you're attracted to whether physically, mentally, intellectually, emotionally, whatever, name it. This thing is marriage we are talking about. What if you are unable to turn the person to your spec years into the marriage? You'd start talking of divorce? What's the point getting married only to get fed up and depressed few years later?

It's okay to have specs please. What's important is having REALISTICS specs. But I don't advice any woman or man to date or marry someone they are not attracted to in any form.

We might not necessarily have EVERYTHING we want in a spouse in one human being because nobody is perfect. But we must pick those very important qualities that we cannot do without and that still means having a spec. If you don't find the important qualities you want, please don't manage the person or settle for less all so that you can be married. You'd end up hurting yourself and the person in the long run.

Listen, whenever a single lady is talking about spec this, my spec that.....it is mostly superficial and fantasy-based qualities that are not worthy. I am not just typing this for typing sake. If I may brag small to drive my point home.......I have met so many women of all class.....most single ladies overrate themselves when it comes to physical looks.


Many guys maybe flooding around you for flings, date, one night stand, FWBs, hookups, etc.....that doesn't mean you are truly a hot chick with charming personality most men want in a life partner....men are weird when it comes to picking a wife. The qualities they seek for in a fling or hookup or casual date is not the same with what they desire in a life partner....and this is where most ladies get it all wrong and miss out.


You as a single lady maybe thinking; I am beautiful, I am sexy, I have money, I earn big income, I live in my own house, I drive my own car, I have masters degree, yet men aren't coming to me for marriage, it seems someone cursed me or I am possessed, you are not sister!!


All over the world, it is the same. I laugh at people who think ladies find it easier getting married abroad than in Nigeria....Nigeria is even easier for smart ladies to find a hubby than abroad......so many white ladies are lonely and emotionally depressed due to no serious man in their life which is why Nigerian internet romance scammers keep cashing out big......they take advantage of that situation of loneliness among western women.


The problem is, until a lady start to think like a man or understand how men reason when it comes to picking a life partner, such a lady may find it very difficult finding a deserving life partner.


Most single ladies are the cause of their long singlehood......let me share a story with you.


A very close friend of mine shared a story with me last week....this guy is completely single, in fact, any lady that meets him now is lucky because he is mentally, emotionally, spiritually and financially prepared and just looking for that one lady to be with. The only thing is, he has been single for too long because he is this kind of perfectionist type of a guy.....maybe too much book made him that way,maybe. If he was a lady, he may never get married, but lucky for him, he is a man, so he will get away with it because it is the man that decides when and whom to marry at the end.


So this guy told me while he was driving to a pharmacy to get an over the counter drugs, he saw a beautiful lady walking on the street.....he drove past her and parked, and respectfully came down and helloed her, luckily she replied, they talked for a few minutes the lady said she was in a hurry, and that she just want to get a taxi at the junction because uber drivers she has been ordering kept refusing to come to her location.....my friend said he offered to take her to wherever she was going that he's free, she declined that he should not worry.....he said okay and asked for her phone number, she refused, and said maybe next time, he told her that next time may never happen.....she said then that's not destined to be....he said okay......he said as he tried to step back into his car, something told him to try again, he said he called out the lady, she turned, he walked towards her and pleaded that let me have your number, its not a crime....if I call you aren't cool with picking, or talking at that moment, I will respect that and maybe not call again, so she gave him the number and with strict instruction:


Please don't bug me with calls, I hate it!!


My friend said he felt so belittled, he just collected the number, and wiped it off the moment he stepped out.


Its an insult to a young man of that pedigree....and why would a single lady give such useless instruction to an admirer


I don't care her previous experiences with other guys.....you must treat every guy you meet as a different person, not judging him with your useless experiences or encounter with some dumb guys when he hasn't even done anything of such or anything wrong.


I no longer pity single ladies searching.......most are the architect of their own problems.....even the ones that end up with foolish men as husbands, they are to be blamed.....you don't pity a company that screen out good, qualified applicants and hired the most foolish applicant....same way, you don't blame a bad employee for being a bad employee to his employer, you blame the employer who saw better candidates' application and stupidly hired the useless employee......ladies are the employer who screen guys and accept the one they feel deserves their attention, so whatever they get, they should swallow it and take it as their mistake!



If you use your number 6 and not your eyes, fantasies and greed to make choice of a partner, you will never end up with the wrong partner in life.

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Re: God is good by Mineisgrace(f): 9:53am On Nov 04, 2020
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
I'm the better man zero will you recommend me?
but you say all Nigerians are mad now. why do you want me to recommend a mad person? except you are not Nigerian
Re: God is good by Mineisgrace(f): 9:54am On Nov 04, 2020
HeRulesMen:


Did you read the part she said men are coming her way but not her spec?
actually I decided to close my eyes to that.
you won't understand because you are not a woman

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Re: God is good by ORIAYO70(m): 10:25am On Nov 04, 2020
Anyiiii:
We are in the month of November. I'm still not married. A close female friend of mine will be getting married in December. Two of my close friends got married this year too. I'm feeling depressed right now. Nothing interests me. My decoder is subscribed and I can't watch TV. I have food but I'm not hungry. I have money but I'm not happy. Who says money is happiness? Some men are coming my way but they are not my spec. I'm very beautiful and look so younger than my age. So stop imagining the looks of an old Lady. Why can't I find the man of my dreams? Please you people should pray for me. Is there any good luck herb that you can recommend for me to get my husband? Thanks


Sometimes I heard some ladies saying I have my own principle...

I have a sister that married @41...I don't pray such for you...but if u r kind of a woman that have much principles, such woman is bound to be troubled.

Just try to be humble n yet don't negotiate your esteem, and don't allow any man to see you desperate...mark my words n come back for thanks giving here..before Next year February u hooked with a responsible person.

Use the above therapy n be good..
Mind you just try to be happy, so that ur beauty don't get shrink by depression.

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Re: God is good by Salt06(m): 10:30am On Nov 04, 2020
Anyiiii:
We are in the month of November. I'm still not married. A close female friend of mine will be getting married in December. Two of my close friends got married this year too. I'm feeling depressed right now. Nothing interests me. My decoder is subscribed and I can't watch TV. I have food but I'm not hungry. I have money but I'm not happy. Who says money is happiness? Some men are coming my way but they are not my spec. I'm very beautiful and look so younger than my age. So stop imagining the looks of an old Lady. Why can't I find the man of my dreams? Please you people should pray for me. Is there any good luck herb that you can recommend for me to get my husband? Thanks
Let's be friends
Re: God is good by preciousjun(m): 10:36am On Nov 04, 2020
HopeAtHand:


I will marry you na grin. I don't want you to commit suicide.

You Funny bro.....
Re: God is good by HeRulesMen: 10:56am On Nov 04, 2020
Mineisgrace:
actually I decided to close my eyes to that.
you won't understand because you are not a woman

Then she should create one for herself
Re: God is good by motionarena: 10:59am On Nov 04, 2020
Anyiiii:
We are in the month of November. I'm still not married. A close female friend of mine will be getting married in December. Two of my close friends got married this year too. I'm feeling depressed right now. Nothing interests me. My decoder is subscribed and I can't watch TV. I have food but I'm not hungry. I have money but I'm not happy. Who says money is happiness? Some men are coming my way but they are not my spec. I'm very beautiful and look so younger than my age. So stop imagining the looks of an old Lady. Why can't I find the man of my dreams? Please you people should pray for me. Is there any good luck herb that you can recommend for me to get my husband? Thanks
Fake profile alert.
Stupiid attention seeker
Re: God is good by Owologbo(m): 11:04am On Nov 04, 2020
Anyiiii:
We are in the month of November. I'm still not married. A close female friend of mine will be getting married in December. Two of my close friends got married this year too. I'm feeling depressed right now. Nothing interests me. My decoder is subscribed and I can't watch TV. I have food but I'm not hungry. I have money but I'm not happy. Who says money is happiness? Some men are coming my way but they are not my spec. I'm very beautiful and look so younger than my age. So stop imagining the looks of an old Lady. Why can't I find the man of my dreams? Please you people should pray for me. Is there any good luck herb that you can recommend for me to get my husband? Thanks
Hope you don't look too serious? Try to be approachable if you are not.
lastly;
Please don't be desperate about getting married.
It's not a must and your happiness shouldn't depends on it.
There are single people living better and happier than some married people. thanks
Re: God is good by cutieBR(f): 11:08am On Nov 04, 2020
What an excellent piece.. learnt alot from it.
humilitypays:
Listen, whenever a single lady is talking about spec this, my spec that.....it is mostly superficial and fantasy-based qualities that are not worthy. I am not just typing this for typing sake. If I may brag small to drive my point home.......I have met so many women of all class.....most single ladies overrate themselves when it comes to physical looks.


Many guys maybe flooding around you for flings, date, one night stand, FWBs, hookups, etc.....that doesn't mean you are truly a hot chick with charming personality most men want in a life partner....men are weird when it comes to picking a wife. The qualities they seek for in a fling or hookup or casual date is not the same with what they desire in a life partner....and this is where most ladies get it all wrong and miss out.


You as a single lady maybe thinking; I am beautiful, I am sexy, I have money, I earn big income, I live in my own house, I drive my own car, I have masters degree, yet men aren't coming to me for marriage, it seems someone cursed me or I am possessed, you are not sister!!


All over the world, it is the same. I laugh at people who think ladies find it easier getting married abroad than in Nigeria....Nigeria is even easier for smart ladies to find a hubby than abroad......so many white ladies are lonely and emotionally depressed due to no serious man in their life which is why Nigerian internet romance scammers keep cashing out big......they take advantage of that situation of loneliness among western women.


The problem is, until a lady start to think like a man or understand how men reason when it comes to picking a life partner, such a lady may find it very difficult finding a deserving life partner.


Most single ladies are the cause of their long singlehood......let me share a story with you.


A very close friend of mine shared a story with me last week....this guy is completely single, in fact, any lady that meets him now is lucky because he is mentally, emotionally, spiritually and financially prepared and just looking for that one lady to be with. The only thing is, he has been single for too long because he is this kind of perfectionist type of a guy.....maybe too much book made him that way,maybe. If he was a lady, he may never get married, but lucky for him, he is a man, so he will get away with it because it is the man that decides when and whom to marry at the end.


So this guy told me while he was driving to a pharmacy to get an over the counter drugs, he saw a beautiful lady walking on the street.....he drove past her and parked, and respectfully came down and helloed her, luckily she replied, they talked for a few minutes the lady said she was in a hurry, and that she just want to get a taxi at the junction because uber drivers she has been ordering kept refusing to come to her location.....my friend said he offered to take her to wherever she was going that he's free, she declined that he should not worry.....he said okay and asked for her phone number, she refused, and said maybe next time, he told her that next time may never happen.....she said then that's not destined to be....he said okay......he said as he tried to step back into his car, something told him to try again, he said he called out the lady, she turned, he walked towards her and pleaded that let me have your number, its not a crime....if I call you aren't cool with picking, or talking at that moment, I will respect that and maybe not call again, so she gave him the number and with strict instruction:


Please don't bug me with calls, I hate it!!


My friend said he felt so belittled, he just collected the number, and wiped it off the moment he stepped out.


Its an insult to a young man of that pedigree....and why would a single lady give such useless instruction to an admirer


I don't care her previous experiences with other guys.....you must treat every guy you meet as a different person, not judging him with your useless experiences or encounter with some dumb guys when he hasn't even done anything of such or anything wrong.


I no longer pity single ladies searching.......most are the architect of their own problems.....even the ones that end up with foolish men as husbands, they are to be blamed.....you don't pity a company that screen out good, qualified applicants and hired the most foolish applicant....same way, you don't blame a bad employee for being a bad employee to his employer, you blame the employer who saw better candidates' application and stupidly hired the useless employee......ladies are the employer who screen guys and accept the one they feel deserves their attention, so whatever they get, they should swallow it and take it as their mistake!



If you use your number 6 and not your eyes, fantasies and greed to make choice of a partner, you will never end up with the wrong partner in life.

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Re: God is good by humilitypays(m): 11:17am On Nov 04, 2020
cutieBR:
What an excellent piece.. learnt alot from it.
kiss kiss
Re: God is good by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 11:18am On Nov 04, 2020
Mineisgrace:
but you say all Nigerians are mad now. why do you want me to recommend a mad person? except you are not Nigerian
me and you are very mad
Re: God is good by Bejusttoall: 11:20am On Nov 04, 2020
Anyiiii:
We are in the month of November. I'm still not married. A close female friend of mine will be getting married in December. Two of my close friends got married this year too. I'm feeling depressed right now. Nothing interests me. My decoder is subscribed and I can't watch TV. I have food but I'm not hungry. I have money but I'm not happy. Who says money is happiness? Some men are coming my way but they are not my spec. I'm very beautiful and look so younger than my age. So stop imagining the looks of an old Lady. Why can't I find the man of my dreams? Please you people should pray for me. Is there any good luck herb that you can recommend for me to get my husband? Thanks

Trust in God
Don’t rush into marriage
Watch your character
Pray along

Shalom
Re: God is good by Babawale01: 11:40am On Nov 04, 2020
lefulefu:
this age pool is kinder narrow.u should increase ur dating pool age since u said u are 35. lets say 32-48 wont be that bad.or even 32-50.that 32-38 yrs is not realistic enuf cos guys around that age would want to be with a woman who is much younger.but a 50 something yr old man wouldnt mind dating a 35 yr old lady.

That's a great analysis you've put up there bro but sadly they won't affirm with you on that note.
Most single guys within her age bracket spec would find it very difficult to marry a 35 years old lady.. It does happen but it's rare mehn.

If by any chance a good looking guy with all OP spec within let's say 30-40 years of age hasn't marry after all the hustle and money stack somewhere now decide to settle down.. Then he will gladly go btw 24 to maybe 30 years old lady.

I think OP might need to adjust her preference if she wants marriage. Now, Let's say I have all the qualities you described as your spec.
Honestly, I may not be able to marry you even if you portray all the good characters in this world cuz something would make me believe you're simply pretending to trap me into marriage but I will definitely date you YES. Marriage? Hell NO!
. cheesy . It's not my fault

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Re: God is good by Tastemoney(m): 12:02pm On Nov 04, 2020
Tastemoney:
I am in need of a sugar mummy that can possibly lead to marriage.
I am 24, and a graduate with job.
Are you available?

Anyiiii
Re: God is good by adeadeyera(m): 12:11pm On Nov 04, 2020
Let's talk seriously
Re: God is good by cutieBR(f): 12:56pm On Nov 04, 2020
Re: God is good by durasome(m): 1:23pm On Nov 04, 2020
[Hope you are not just one of those types expecting Angeles from heaven? If you are not then look carefully and closely one of those coming your way is the Mr right but you have failed to notice.quote author=Anyiiii post=95637914]We are in the month of November. I'm still not married. A close female friend of mine will be getting married in December. Two of my close friends got married this year too. I'm feeling depressed right now. Nothing interests me. My decoder is subscribed and I can't watch TV. I have food but I'm not hungry. I have money but I'm not happy. Who says money is happiness? Some men are coming my way but they are not my spec. I'm very beautiful and look so younger than my age. So stop imagining the looks of an old Lady. Why can't I find the man of my dreams? Please you people should pray for me. Is there any good luck herb that you can recommend for me to get my husband? Thanks[/quote]
Re: God is good by Nmezor(f): 1:27pm On Nov 04, 2020
An interesting thread...Learnt a lot.

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Re: God is good by Africangiants(m): 1:32pm On Nov 04, 2020
Most people get into a relationship just because they are now of age and do not have a reason to be in love or fall out of love. Being responsible in a relationship/marriage as a man or being the icing of the relationship on a steady is what a lady should be on the lookout for. You cannot just be all about sex and styles and how lasting you can be on bed or what you can receive on bed alone. There are values that makes the world a better place for both families and friends. Start by asking the right questions and you will do your self a gigantic favor in your relationship. Lets kick it off with these simple questions, shall we.....comment below if you have a question you think should be added and hit me up if you need anything at all, monetry wise or relationship wise


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=az1WNgEtC1o
Re: God is good by Nobody: 1:37pm On Nov 04, 2020
Babawale01:


That's a great analysis you've put up there bro but sadly they won't affirm with you on that note.
Most single guys within her age bracket spec would find it very difficult to marry a 35 years old lady.. It does happen but it's rare mehn.

If by any chance a good looking guy with all OP spec within let's say 30-40 years of age hasn't marry after all the hustle and money stack somewhere now decide to settle down.. Then he will gladly go btw 24 to maybe 30 years old lady.

I think OP might need to adjust her preference if she wants marriage. Now, Let's say I have all the qualities you described as your spec.
Honestly, I may not be able to marry you even if you portray all the good characters in this world cuz something would make me believe you're simply pretending to trap me into marriage but I will definitely date you YES. Marriage? Hell NO!
. cheesy . It's not my fault
thats just the plain fact my brother.A guy around 32-40 in nigeria who wants to settle down would prefer going for a lady thats much younger.Its just the way it is with some of we guys ..though there some 32 yr old guys who would go for a girl who is much older but such guys are rare.i am sure if she widens the date age pool to even 45 she will see a guy.and she further narrows it down that the guy must be either yoruba or igbo cheesy.now i am seeing the reason why some ladies tend to end being single.needlessly narrowing their chances by restricting to only their own tribe or their village.If u feel biological age is ticking away why not give that guy a chance who might not be from ur tribe but he has all the specs u want in a man or why not give that guy a chance u comfortable with who is not in the age range u like but u always comfortable when u with him.anyway to each its own cheesy.

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Re: God is good by CaptMarvel(m): 1:58pm On Nov 04, 2020
Anyiiii:
We are in the month of November. I'm still not married. A close female friend of mine will be getting married in December. Two of my close friends got married this year too. I'm feeling depressed right now. Nothing interests me. My decoder is subscribed and I can't watch TV. I have food but I'm not hungry. I have money but I'm not happy. Who says money is happiness? Some men are coming my way but they are not my spec. I'm very beautiful and look so younger than my age. So stop imagining the looks of an old Lady. Why can't I find the man of my dreams? Please you people should pray for me. Is there any good luck herb that you can recommend for me to get my husband? Thanks
Hey beautiful! I'm the man of your dream! I'm sure you will be swayed when you see me.. Pm me and let's get started on a starter pack! grin
Re: God is good by NeeKlaus: 3:29pm On Nov 04, 2020
HerRoyalFlyness:
So in other words, any Tom, Dick and Harry that comes for her now, she should accept him with open arms and try to change him later. Even if he is a street tout or a drug dealer, It doesn't matter right? She should accept him just so she can answer Mrs. somebody.

You guys should calm down. I don't think there's anything wrong with having a spec or someone you're attracted to whether physically, mentally, intellectually, emotionally, whatever, name it. This thing is marriage we are talking about. What if you are unable to turn the person to your spec years into the marriage? You'd start talking of divorce? What's the point getting married only to get fed up and depressed few years later?

It's okay to have specs please. What's important is having REALISTICS specs. But I don't advice any woman or man to date or marry someone they are not attracted to in any form.

We might not necessarily have EVERYTHING we want in a spouse in one human being because nobody is perfect. But we must pick those very important qualities that we cannot do without and that still means having a spec. If you don't find the important qualities you want, please don't manage the person or settle for less all so that you can be married. You'd end up hurting yourself and the person in the long run.

Lol, there's no 100% spec. In marriage and dating, you must always compromise. It's impossible to see someone that ticks all the boxes you require in a partner. I mean, every single box.

There must always be a "comma" and that's where compromise comes in.

Have you ever seen any couple that are 100% perfect for each other?

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Re: God is good by Ahmback(m): 4:11pm On Nov 04, 2020
Anyiiii:
Some men are coming my way but they are not my spec.
Here lies your problem.
You'll still be looking for your spec until you clock menopause.

So after spending all your early ages enjoying life,,you're now looking for a husband.

Aunti wey mumu

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Re: God is good by HerRoyalFlyness(f): 5:31pm On Nov 04, 2020
Please read my comment again. There's no difference between what I posted and your comment right now. Read to Understand, don't read just to respond.

NeeKlaus:

Lol, there's no 100% spec. In marriage and dating, you must always compromise. It's impossible to see someone that ticks all the boxes you require in a partner. I mean, every single box.

There must always be a "comma" and that's where compromise comes in.

Have you ever seen any couple that are 100% perfect for each other?
Re: God is good by Nobody: 6:16pm On Nov 04, 2020
i read your a thread you posted earlier but i couldn't make a comment as it has gone in many pages,so i knew then it would be hard for you to see my contribution,first i want you to know that you nor your sisters arent under any curses or generational problem,first ask yourself was your mum successful in getting a husband? if your answer is yes,then you have no curse,im sorry to to say that excessive religious practice have lead you into a pathway of depression,you have the passion to own a family everyone can see that but you need to come in natural and dump superstitions of religion, astrology is nature and even christ was traced through his birth star? thats to tell you how acurate astrology could be before the advent of religion,everyone born on earth was born under the influence of a certain star,your star decides the people most compatible to you in reality,trust me it is 200% truth but if you are unaware of this,you may loss loads of life partners because you where only looking at physical traits instead of the celestial traits,for example im a 'taurus' im most compatible with,Pisces,virgo,cancer,scorpio,Capricorn and taurus i am almost compatible with leo and libra but not very compatible with gemini,Aquarius,Sagittarius and aries now this list can make me easily decide what kind of relationship partners i need or kind of relationship to expect, (even though my best friend is an Aquarius yet we dont always agree)from this list i also know relationships that would need extra work to keep it going ,this is not magic nor witchcraft,religion would deny you the right to such wisdom so they keep draining you financially also remember astrology worked for christ so it is not a sin. we are different to bring balance to existence,the fact that you are least compatible to others does not mean they are your enemies. so i would recommend you do a little reading on astrology today im going to live you a link to follow up on your zodiac sign and natal chart these could give you a propper understanding of yourself and your siblings including your next target of life partners,trust me this doesn't lie. so open your google chrome browser and search for (thehoroscope.com) or (cafeastrology.com) i hope the spam bot wont block me,trust me from today on your life would be full of joy and you may just be suprised what you've been missing and how fast you would get a life partner good luck.
Re: God is good by HerRoyalFlyness(f): 6:18pm On Nov 04, 2020
Lol.. Nice write up but I have a few things to point out:

"most women are the architect of their own problems." - How did you come up with such conclusion? I don't care if you've met different women from different works of life but how many are they really that will make you use "most women"?

"until a lady start to think like a man or understand how men reason when it comes to picking a life partner, such a lady may find it very difficult finding a deserving life partner." - How please? Enlighten me. And pls I'm asking with an open mind cos I really want to know.

"you must treat every guy you meet as a different person, not judging him with your useless experiences or encounter" - Lmao This got me laughing.. Even your comment alone tells me you do not practice what you preach. lol.. See you judging "most single girls" and saying they are the architects of their problems (because you've met all of them and you know why they are single abi?) yet you're saying girls shouldn't judge with their "useless experiences." It's not a bad advice o but I suggest you take your own advice first before you dish it out and be a little compassionate, you won't die grin

"If you use your number 6 and not your eyes, fantasies and greed to make choice of a partner, you will never end up with the wrong partner in life." - Lastly, this doesn't follow in my own opinion because I believe it's possible for a lady to end up in a terrible relationship even when she didn't get into the relationship based on greed or fantasy. So it's not a 100% guarantee.

I come in peace. cheesy


humilitypays:
Listen, whenever a single lady is talking about spec this, my spec that.....it is mostly superficial and fantasy-based qualities that are not worthy. I am not just typing this for typing sake. If I may brag small to drive my point home.......I have met so many women of all class.....most single ladies overrate themselves when it comes to physical looks.


Many guys maybe flooding around you for flings, date, one night stand, FWBs, hookups, etc.....that doesn't mean you are truly a hot chick with charming personality most men want in a life partner....men are weird when it comes to picking a wife. The qualities they seek for in a fling or hookup or casual date is not the same with what they desire in a life partner....and this is where most ladies get it all wrong and miss out.


You as a single lady maybe thinking; I am beautiful, I am sexy, I have money, I earn big income, I live in my own house, I drive my own car, I have masters degree, yet men aren't coming to me for marriage, it seems someone cursed me or I am possessed, you are not sister!!


All over the world, it is the same. I laugh at people who think ladies find it easier getting married abroad than in Nigeria....Nigeria is even easier for smart ladies to find a hubby than abroad......so many white ladies are lonely and emotionally depressed due to no serious man in their life which is why Nigerian internet romance scammers keep cashing out big......they take advantage of that situation of loneliness among western women.


The problem is, until a lady start to think like a man or understand how men reason when it comes to picking a life partner, such a lady may find it very difficult finding a deserving life partner.


Most single ladies are the cause of their long singlehood......let me share a story with you.


A very close friend of mine shared a story with me last week....this guy is completely single, in fact, any lady that meets him now is lucky because he is mentally, emotionally, spiritually and financially prepared and just looking for that one lady to be with. The only thing is, he has been single for too long because he is this kind of perfectionist type of a guy.....maybe too much book made him that way,maybe. If he was a lady, he may never get married, but lucky for him, he is a man, so he will get away with it because it is the man that decides when and whom to marry at the end.


So this guy told me while he was driving to a pharmacy to get an over the counter drugs, he saw a beautiful lady walking on the street.....he drove past her and parked, and respectfully came down and helloed her, luckily she replied, they talked for a few minutes the lady said she was in a hurry, and that she just want to get a taxi at the junction because uber drivers she has been ordering kept refusing to come to her location.....my friend said he offered to take her to wherever she was going that he's free, she declined that he should not worry.....he said okay and asked for her phone number, she refused, and said maybe next time, he told her that next time may never happen.....she said then that's not destined to be....he said okay......he said as he tried to step back into his car, something told him to try again, he said he called out the lady, she turned, he walked towards her and pleaded that let me have your number, its not a crime....if I call you aren't cool with picking, or talking at that moment, I will respect that and maybe not call again, so she gave him the number and with strict instruction:


Please don't bug me with calls, I hate it!!


My friend said he felt so belittled, he just collected the number, and wiped it off the moment he stepped out.


Its an insult to a young man of that pedigree....and why would a single lady give such useless instruction to an admirer


I don't care her previous experiences with other guys.....you must treat every guy you meet as a different person, not judging him with your useless experiences or encounter with some dumb guys when he hasn't even done anything of such or anything wrong.


I no longer pity single ladies searching.......most are the architect of their own problems.....even the ones that end up with foolish men as husbands, they are to be blamed.....you don't pity a company that screen out good, qualified applicants and hired the most foolish applicant....same way, you don't blame a bad employee for being a bad employee to his employer, you blame the employer who saw better candidates' application and stupidly hired the useless employee......ladies are the employer who screen guys and accept the one they feel deserves their attention, so whatever they get, they should swallow it and take it as their mistake!



If you use your number 6 and not your eyes, fantasies and greed to make choice of a partner, you will never end up with the wrong partner in life.
Re: God is good by emmanuelpopson(m): 6:19pm On Nov 04, 2020
Anyiiii:
50 something? God forbid. I want young blood

God wíll help you out. Especially when you had young guys coming your way but you don't attract them kos you are finding a perfect man.. See ee. You don't have options now kos in some years now like max 5. You will be 40..
Instead of you to humble yourself � and be responsible.. Be outgoing and stay respectful.. By been nice, showing respect and all that... The same Naira land that you are, some people have met their LOML.. Dey there they find young blood..
Re: God is good by Nobody: 6:42pm On Nov 04, 2020
omale88:
i read your a thread you posted earlier but i couldn't make a comment as it has gone in many pages,so i knew then it would be hard for you to see my contribution,first i want you to know that you nor your sisters arent under any curses or generational problem,first ask yourself was your mum successful in getting a husband? if your answer is yes,then you have no curse,im sorry to to say that excessive religious practice have lead you into a pathway of depression,you have the passion to own a family everyone can see that but you need to come in natural and dump superstitions of religion, astrology is nature and even christ was traced through his birth star? thats to tell you how acurate astrology could be before the advent of religion,everyone born on earth was born under the influence of a certain star,your star decides the people most compatible to you in reality,trust me it is 200% truth but if you are unaware of this,you may loss loads of life partners because you where only looking at physical traits instead of the celestial traits,for example im a 'taurus' im most compatible with,Pisces,virgo,cancer,scorpio,Capricorn and taurus i am almost compatible with leo and libra but not very compatible with gemini,Aquarius,Sagittarius and aries now this list can make me easily decide what kind of relationship partners i need or kind of relationship to expect, (even though my best friend is an Aquarius yet we dont always agree)from this list i also know relationships that would need extra work to keep it going ,this is not magic nor witchcraft,religion would deny you the right to such wisdom so they keep draining you financially also remember astrology worked for christ so it is not a sin. we are different to bring balance to existence,the fact that you are least compatible to others does not mean they are your enemies. so i would recommend you do a little reading on astrology today im going to live you a link to follow up on your zodiac sign and natal chart these could give you a propper understanding of yourself and your siblings including your next target of life partners,trust me this doesn't lie. so open your google chrome browser and search for (thehoroscope.com) or (cafeastrology.com) i hope the spam bot wont block me,trust me from today on your life would be full of joy and you may just be suprised what you've been missing and how fast you would get a life partner good luck.
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