This story is expected to be a long one because of the nature of our relationship and how we met, probably I will subsequently narrate my story in another thread for now, I will go straight to the point.
So I met this lady online on Facebook at the beginning of the lockdown around April,we actually got so close then we came over to WhatsApp to chat with ease,with time we fell in love with ourselves
The relationship in question was a long distance relationship, because she stayed at Ph and I at abia so coupled with the lockdown we found it difficult to see ourselves for the first time,so presently plans are on ground already for us to meet ourselves.
Now during one of our chats when we were talking about how we are gonna meet we deviated to our intimacy,it was then she insisted on the fact that i shouldn't use condom to have sex with her,she actually told me prior to this chat that she has allergies using condoms and the effects causes weeks of endless pains so I shouldn't use it on her we almost had a big issue arguing that then. So I insisted that my type plays safe and I dont wanna take the risk of going raw but she assured me that she is free from STDs and also she will take some drugs after our intimacy in my presence to thwart any possible pregnancy.

My moves to insist and persuade her that I wanna play safe proved abortive,she ended up being angry saying that i am a selfish person,that if I tell anyone about this
that he/she will confirm that am a selfish person
Pls am here to find out, what can I do? Which line of action should I tow? Because currently that relationship is under threat now and my decision can make or break it
Note(this girl has been faithful throughout and preserved for me according to her actions I believe so)
I have a lot to add to this story,but I want to make this post as short possible Even if it appears quite long though
As the thread continues I can give more insights though
Pls your take ??

What kanai say

timwudz:
What kanai say

what you think

Childish thread

*Walks out*

OLAD01:
Bro no matter wat, always play save....when it about to rain, don't forget to go with your raincoat...

Lol...noted bro

STI and STD loading...

"The downfall of a mighty man is initiated by his slightest mistake"
JOACHINpedro, 14BC

I can assure you, your next thread on Nairaland will be

"My New Girlfriend has Deceived Me, She Has Ruined My Life, I Should Have Listened To My Heart"

You guys have not met your selves before? and she is not afraid of STDs simply means she wants to give you a complete package. advice your self and run

DaddyRochie1642:
I can assure you, your next thread on Nairaland will be

"My New Girlfriend has Deceived Me, She Has Ruined My Life, I Should Have Listened To My Heart"

Lol I just don't need that situation,that is why I am seeking for the best advice

Baba hiv rampant this days i swear go clinic wey dem dey issue arv you go shock ..... play safe oo

Tallino25:
This story is expected to be a long one because of the nature of our relationship and how we met, probably I will subsequently narrate my story in another thread for now, I will go straight to the point.
So I met this lady online on Facebook at the beginning of the lockdown around April,we actually got so close then we came over to WhatsApp to chat with ease,with time we fell in love with ourselves
The relationship in question was a long distance relationship, because she stayed at Ph and I at abia so coupled with the lockdown we found it difficult to see ourselves for the first time,so presently plans are on ground already for us to meet ourselves.
Now during one of our chats when we were talking about how we are gonna meet we deviated to our intimacy,it was then she insisted on the fact that i shouldn't use condom to have sex with her,she actually told me prior to this chat that she has allergies using condoms and the effects causes weeks of endless pains so I shouldn't use it on her we almost had a big issue arguing that then. So I insisted that my type plays safe and I dont wanna take the risk of going raw but she assured me that she is free from STDs and also she will take some drugs after our intimacy in my presence to thwart any possible pregnancy.

My moves to insist and persuade her that I wanna play safe proved abortive,she ended up being angry saying that i am a selfish person,that if I tell anyone about this
that he/she will confirm that am a selfish person
Pls am here to find out, what can I do? Which line of action should I tow? Because currently that relationship is under threat now and my decision can make or break it
Note(this girl has been faithful throughout and preserved for me according to her actions I believe so)
I have a lot to add to this story,but I want to make this post as short possible Even if it appears quite long though
As the thread continues I can give more insights though
Pls your take ??

Tell her you have HIV simple and move on to find saner girls

Let her continue to talk her rubbish to any man who cares to listen to her

Dump her

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For u to even ask dis question shows ur............

Yes you are selfish, but since she is the selfless one why can't she use the condom and endure the pain for you.
Abeg you guys should part ways jare let her go find someone who doesn't like using a condom and you too go find someone who prefers using a condom. This life is not hard.

The fvck

Niggarr!!

When I thought I have heard it all, then boom another springs up.

Soulsymbol99:
For u to even ask dis question shows ur............

am what??

.

Both of u should go for a comprehensive std test nau since she wan chop raw yam

Some ladies are truly allergic to latex, I've met one before, if you don't trust her simply do test to ensure you guys are safe then go ahead to do whatever you want to do or don't have sex with her at all, it's as simple as that. I don't see how this is a big issue

You are naive to the ways of woman,don't fall prey to her antics.A lot of people have died prematurely bacuase they refused to apply common sense and make the simplest of decisions. What are your main purpose of dating her?.If sex is the reason ,then make sure you both run test to ascertain your health status. The girl in question have been having unprotected sex ,hence she is allergic to the use of condom.If you value your life and want to live long,never fail to use a condom when being intimate with a woman you don't know her health status. Your life matters a lot,don't put it on the line because of ten minutes stress.

U better use your Head, Is it a must u sleep with someone u are not married to ?

But are you normal at all? Person wan rope u, you wan goke urself abi?? Commot for here jare.

Strange enough, Mr righteousness isn't here. I think I'm gonna go with his perceived views on this: what's the big deal on wanting to commit fornication/adultery? As if Illicit sex is normal. Pls try n be a normal man n flee away from illicit sex

Tallino25:
This story is expected to be a long one because of the nature of our relationship and how we met, probably I will subsequently narrate my story in another thread for now, I will go straight to the point.
So I met this lady online on Facebook at the beginning of the lockdown around April,we actually got so close then we came over to WhatsApp to chat with ease,with time we fell in love with ourselves
The relationship in question was a long distance relationship, because she stayed at Ph and I at abia so coupled with the lockdown we found it difficult to see ourselves for the first time,so presently plans are on ground already for us to meet ourselves.
Now during one of our chats when we were talking about how we are gonna meet we deviated to our intimacy,it was then she insisted on the fact that i shouldn't use condom to have sex with her,she actually told me prior to this chat that she has allergies using condoms and the effects causes weeks of endless pains so I shouldn't use it on her we almost had a big issue arguing that then. So I insisted that my type plays safe and I dont wanna take the risk of going raw but she assured me that she is free from STDs and also she will take some drugs after our intimacy in my presence to thwart any possible pregnancy.

My moves to insist and persuade her that I wanna play safe proved abortive,she ended up being angry saying that i am a selfish person,that if I tell anyone about this
that he/she will confirm that am a selfish person
Pls am here to find out, what can I do? Which line of action should I tow? Because currently that relationship is under threat now and my decision can make or break it
Note(this girl has been faithful throughout and preserved for me according to her actions I believe so)
I have a lot to add to this story,but I want to make this post as short possible Even if it appears quite long though
As the thread continues I can give more insights though
Pls your take ??

use cellophane

Both of u should go for comprehensive std test nau since she wan chop raw yam

Tallino25:
This story is expected to be a long one because of the nature of our relationship and how we met, probably I will subsequently narrate my story in another thread for now, I will go straight to the point.
So I met this lady online on Facebook at the beginning of the lockdown around April,we actually got so close then we came over to WhatsApp to chat with ease,with time we fell in love with ourselves
The relationship in question was a long distance relationship, because she stayed at Ph and I at abia so coupled with the lockdown we found it difficult to see ourselves for the first time,so presently plans are on ground already for us to meet ourselves.
Now during one of our chats when we were talking about how we are gonna meet we deviated to our intimacy,it was then she insisted on the fact that i shouldn't use condom to have sex with her,she actually told me prior to this chat that she has allergies using condoms and the effects causes weeks of endless pains so I shouldn't use it on her we almost had a big issue arguing that then. So I insisted that my type plays safe and I dont wanna take the risk of going raw but she assured me that she is free from STDs and also she will take some drugs after our intimacy in my presence to thwart any possible pregnancy.

My moves to insist and persuade her that I wanna play safe proved abortive,she ended up being angry saying that i am a selfish person,that if I tell anyone about this
that he/she will confirm that am a selfish person
Pls am here to find out, what can I do? Which line of action should I tow? Because currently that relationship is under threat now and my decision can make or break it
Note(this girl has been faithful throughout and preserved for me according to her actions I believe so)
I have a lot to add to this story,but I want to make this post as short possible Even if it appears quite long though
As the thread continues I can give more insights though
Pls your take ??

Mugu...go kill urself because of to.tos

If-i-tell-you-to-run-you-might-get-caught...so-here's-what-you-gon-do...if-you-have-any-luggage-throw-it-away,take-off-your-footwear-then-ruuuuun!!

Guy run o she's HIV positive and wants to spread it to any naive guy out there happened to someone I know 5 mins pleasure can put you in an early grave be wise tufiakwa.