GrossPrice:


An elderly woman once said, "greed is a strong indicator of adultery in women".

Why did she collect the money? Does it matter if it's 10K or 100K?

You will still condemn her if she rejected the little money

Zzor:
This man is oblivious of my friends view about him,what sort of test is that?he should have simply pocket his money and leave peacefully,my friend thinks he's extremely stingy and you don't understand how life is under a stingy man

She doesn't know how he operates yet, why not study the situation first before raising alarm.

Foma2:


She doesn't know how he operates yet, why not study the situation first before raising alarm.

Funny enough,the man already surprised my friend sha,a very big surprise,hes such a wonderful man after all

Zzor:
Funny enough,the man already surprised my friend sha,a very big surprise,hes such a wonderful man after all

u see now, that's how people like me work, we just wanna be loved for real, not that of money. It's not nice when you are being dated for your money.

Foma2:

u see now, that's how people like me work, we just wanna be loved for real, not that of money. It's not nice when you are being dated for your money.

but money is important,very important

Zzor:
but money is important,very important

lol. girls and money. Wishing her the best...

Foma2:

lol. girls and money. Wishing her the best...

but my friend may turn down his proposal for now ,hes rushing her and she thinks she's still too young for marriage or she's kind of afraid,she needs time but with this super surprise from him,it will be heartbreaking for him if she refuses his proposal.Everything is complicated

Zzor:
but my friend may turn down his proposal for now ,hes rushing her and she thinks she's still too young for marriage or she's kind of afraid,she needs time but with this super surprise from him,it will be heartbreaking for him if she refuses his proposal.Everything is complicated

Very very. Why not just get to know him, DA 8months, 1year. I'm not a fan of rushed marriage, it often has a soft underbelly.

Foma2:


Very very. Why not just get to know him, DA 8months, 1year. I'm not a fan of rushed marriage, it often has a soft underbelly.

exactly,can you imagine him telling my friend that if she's down with him,by next month they will be married

Zzor:
exactly,can you imagine him telling my friend that if she's down with him,by next month they will be married

Sounds desperate, he really needs a wife. is he that old?

Silentgroper:
exactly. She's nt hungry or broke, yet d 1k is a problem.

btw. Zzor is jxt 20yrs, she aint ripe 4 marriage.

The Zzor girl is just craving for attention ni. She may not mean all what she said here on nairaland

The guy is a billionaire. Lol

Why is it that women always over estimate the worth of a man by over a factor of x10?


@OP
The guy wants to settle down fast.
He has no time to get to know you or you know him.
He tried to make sure your decision is not influence by the affluence around him, hence showing you he can, give money, but not freely like a zombie.

No matter what women think, no man's pocket is a bottomless pit, the few exceptions, we know them all and their several wives and grandchildren.

So if you wanna find out about him as you go along, with no ittle or no expectation to swim in his wealth,then say yes. Else . .

illicit:



if he had given her a lot of money there, won't u think that's how he throws money around or tends to impress girls with money....

For real, what the man did wasn't in anyway bad but it seems it would have been better if he didn't give her anything now....

Are you trying to reason with her with logic or emotions? H You mean he should not have dropped anything even though it’s obvious that would be a bigger red flag for these vagina girl who his highlighting his wealth? You dey tey.

If this is not fiction, your friend is placing premium on minor things, in a life partner choice, if you keep focusing on ephemerals you will make wrong choices. Yahoo boys , ritualists and ruffians take advantage of so called "good girls" because they don't look out for the necessary things in men. A yahoo buy would have dashed tens of thousands for "cab" and your friend would have labelled him God fearing. It is quite laughable and i bet you are still young, possibly a teenager or early 20s.

Zzor:
Funny enough,the man already surprised my friend sha,a very big surprise,hes such a wonderful man after all

i just saw this...... so because he surprised your friend, he is a wonderful man I think there should be more packaged trainings for young marriageable girls in picking life partners. Wrong homes breed dsyfunctional offsprings and invariably disfunctional societies.

Zzor I care less about ur friend, I’m more interested in why you’ve stopped dropping those sultry pictures

Hmmm

Zzor:
1k? for what really? that's an insult and isn't that a red flag,she didn't ask him for anything remember

Madam they gave your friend what is she Worth

And remember girls of the same mentality, flock together.

So is until they give her 50k that he is serious about dating or marriage.

Lazy Nigerian bitches everywhere

Zzor:
This is about a friend of mine,she met this man on one of the social media platforms and they became so fond of each other,though the man has been pestering her for a relationship but my friend insisted on meeting him first before she makes any decision.So,they finally met two days ago and after several discussion and all that,he asked my friend to marry him and that he's ready to settle down as soon as possible if he gets a positive answer from my friend,but my friend insisted on giving her time to think about it,he went further to tell my friend to get back to him soon so he can start making the necessary preparations as he wish to settle down by December.Now this very rich man who has businesses all over the place and even outside the country gave my friend only 1k when he was leaving,can you imagine that? My friend is not hungry or broke but who does that? Is that not a sign of extreme stinginess? It would have been better if he didn't give her anything and it would have made it easier for my friend to make her decision.Is this not a huge red flag? Ladies and gentlemen what do you think?

They met and had a date yeah?
Then why's he got to give her money?

Zzor:
Be fair for once in your judgement,it would have been better if he didn't give her anything,remember she didn't place any demand

Well it makes sense to me if a person gives U anything no matter how small U be thankful and grateful. If you're not his wife or his employee why should he be giving you money?
I think it's rude you're even complaining about it. She had a date/meet to get to know the guy...why should he pay for that.
Only escorts charge strange men money for their time

Zzor:
What kind of yeye test is that,my friend is not broke or hungry

A test to see if she complains n if she's greedy n materialistic bitchh or if she's a grateful well mannered lady

dairykidd:
I no understand what he's paying for rn.. she's not even his babe or wife yet and he isn't paying for anything. Instead of giving her 1k i rather just drop her off or order uber to take her home than giving her money just for meeting her. What kind of shiit is that... Na show up fees

Ikr. I'm confused too

Zzor:
Our fathers didn't expect our mothers to bring something to the table and it turned successful

It's sad everything relationship has turned money money money.
All this girls are materialistic n don't know love n honesty in relationships

Zzor:
you understand my point but scared to admit it so as to avoid bashing,even a normal working class guy won't willingly drop that amount for a lady who can dash 10k out

But I wanna know what right she has to his money? How she earned it?
Then I'll understand too.
I'm a woman n I don't understand it
Is irrelevant he's rich or poor.
He didn't owe her anything.
I don't expect anything from anyone for no reason. Especially paying someone just to meet me lol

Vanzcharles:
It all depends. Either way, it could be a red flag of him being a stingy man or maybe he decides to test her.
The 1k would have been better if it wasn't given at all because it somehow look like she's a beggar. He could have kept his money to himself. If I were your friend, I would turn down the money. There are levels to this and what we've passed as humans. Next time, he being reasonable won't try such. He should keep the money to himself.

She just have to be patient with him, let's see maybe he wanted to test her tho.. Just saying, no offence. He might even send her a reasonable amount later, once he travels.

Maybe he wasn't sure she wanted anything knowing she don't need it but not sure cos these girls seem to expect it so maybe he just gave her that.

You are the the friend madam zzor....and know this you foolish gal “you always dish out a shallow mentality and your kind needs to eradicated from the face of the earth” mumu

Zzor:
where is the arrogance and entitlement mentality?

Lol. You're complaining the man was stingy cos he only gave one K.
A gift.
Yet here U complain as if Ur friend is entitled to be paid more just because a rich man had a meeting with her.
How's that not entitled hun.
She didn't earn the money so how's she entitled to his money.
When someone gives U something it's a gift. Ur suposed to be grateful.
If Ur friend wants to know if he's a stingy man in a relationship then that one gesture won't tell U that. She needs get to know him. But girls who expect things for no reason are a turn off to any man. Make yourself valuable not some man's headache n you will have more luck

Zzor:
Funny enough,the man already surprised my friend sha,a very big surprise,hes such a wonderful man after all

Lol hun just cos a man will give U or buy you things doesn't mean he's a good person. Bad ppl can have money too.
She should get to know him first.
It's possible a rich man can give you a miserable life and a broke man make you the happiest woman in de world. Or vice versa. Isn't bout the money

Zzor:
but money is important,very important

But it still isn't everything U need to be happy

Zzor:
This is about a friend of mine,she met this man on one of the social media platforms and they became so fond of each other,though the man has been pestering her for a relationship but my friend insisted on meeting him first before she makes any decision.So,they finally met two days ago and after several discussion and all that,he asked my friend to marry him and that he's ready to settle down as soon as possible if he gets a positive answer from my friend,but my friend insisted on giving her time to think about it,he went further to tell my friend to get back to him soon so he can start making the necessary preparations as he wish to settle down by December.Now this very rich man who has businesses all over the place and even outside the country gave my friend only 1k when he was leaving,can you imagine that? My friend is not hungry or broke but who does that? Is that not a sign of extreme stinginess? It would have been better if he didn't give her anything and it would have made it easier for my friend to make her decision.Is this not a huge red flag? Ladies and gentlemen what do you think?

Greedy idiot that’s what you and your friend are

MoxxxxO123:
He shouldn't have given you 1k nahh, he's just being stingy.. the decision is yours apart from his stingy part is there any other things you noticed signaling the red flag?

You people will condemn girls for demanding, the same you people will talk trash of a guy that want to be who he is, what really the problem of you people

Preshieben:
1k for what exactly.??
First sign of a useless and stingy husband
Tell her this....they both need time

Don’t go and get yourself a job