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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AkataWoman: 6:00am On Nov 07, 2020 |
This thread was not made to bash African American women in any way. They are beautiful people with good hearts. Serious question: Why the obsession with black Americans? We don’t think about you in the US. You won’t find ONE thread from a black American about how to date an African. This is why we don’t bother to support your SARS protests. You guys are too nasty, mean spirited and ignorant to a group of people who’ve done nothing to you. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AkataWoman: 6:20am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Ejusni: Do you know what YOUR NAMES sound like to Americans-black and white??!! They’re so horrible you’re ashamed to use them. You create ‘Christian’ names. Laqueisha is going to keep her name anywhere she goes in the world. And the world will pronounce it correctly. You’re mad there’s no respect for you OR your names! That’s why you’ve heard of LaQueisha but Americans don’t know your African names. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AkataWoman: 6:31am On Nov 07, 2020 |
lefulefu: And this is why Nobody has no right talking about any ethnic group. The lying, scamming and BS Nigerians do? But akatas are filled with dramaYou have no right to talk about anyone. Nobody has to be a jealous Nigerian woman. I can’t believe a man is spending so much time denigrating a group of women. It seems so catty. Then again, Nigerian men do treat their women like shit. 6 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AkataWoman: 6:41am On Nov 07, 2020 |
2buffagain:Give me a break. This is not a California thing. Educated, successful black Americans are spread throughout the entire country. The problem is that immigrants like Nobody are so poor that they’re forced to live in poor neighborhood and only see one type of black. The US Census shows that 80% of black Americans are middle class and higher socioeconomically. There are not many ghettos in the US. The majority of black Americans do not live in ghettoes. Nigerians, on the other hand, who shit I’m public streets and have no electricity or plumbing shouldn’t be talking shit about anybody. You’re poverty is otherworldly. You’re uneducated; the majority of you are illiterate because your families can’t afford the $5/year school fees. Any group of people who have more elementary school kids selling wares on the sides of roads than in school should not be talking shit about anybody. And for the record, black American women aren’t attracted to African men, much less chasing and bringing them around the 10 kids we have by 20 different men. Nigerians have no right to talk about anybody. 5 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AkataWoman: 5:08pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 7:26pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
AkataWoman: Say all this to the black american women who get instantly wet as soon as they meet a Nigerian brother out here. I know this because I get this reaction all the time from AA. They know we take care of our women and provide for them with pride. As opposed to their Tyrone who can usually be seen flexing with their woman's car and comfortable being financially dependent on her for his livelihood. Her words, not mine. Those are normal aspects of your culture we do not ascribe to. And I don't know why you are repeating me. I already told you that there is huge wealth disparity in Nigeria. You're either balling or you're not... And this is why when we as a group get to a place with opportunities... We don't dull like you do. Yes you will see the poor young boys and girls in Nigeria working hard to make money to afford those school fees... Because they know the value of education and how it will change their life. Yet your school fees are even free till college, yet some of you drop out of even FREE school, yet blaming everyone else. Your people don't take advantage of opportunities. You rather complain. It is not about the poverty, it is about the heart. And a good percentage of you have the heart of lazy complainers. You would not survive the Nigerian hussle if you ever had to. And that is why when we get to the land you keep complaining about, we become the most educated and most accomplished group of people in your country. Also it is ignorant to think Nigerians are on the same level as other immigrants. We don't play when it comes to the level up and we are well known for that. Go read facts. But you know this already. It's why you are here, to look for a Nigerian man to save you from your wretched loneliness. We don't want you. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AkataWoman: 10:27pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
2buffagain:Nigerians are DELUSIONAL. Black American (BA) women are not interested in Nigerian men. We think scammer and greencard seeker the minute we see you. We also think BODY ODOR. Some bitter Nigerian chick made a meme about how black American woman jump on Nigerian peen but were quiet about EndSARS. The commenters agreed that black American women are not interested in Nigerian peen and only a few date you. We’re not interested. Stop lying to yourself. (Funny, we’re such lowbrow people but you were begging BLACK AMERICANS for support during EndSARS although the Whites you worship didn’t support you either.) And Nigerians are not the most successful immigrants in the US. Asians are. You guys really need to stop lying to yourselves. Interesting that a group who doesn’t want us created a 44 page thread about tips on dating us. You won’t find black Americans making threads with tips on how to date y’all ugly, smelly, scamming, Uber driving asses. And we have more educated, literate black Americans than all of Nigeria-where you have 1 million more times black people. You guys are LOSERS and you know it. The world knows it. That’s why nobody ran to save your dumb asses from SARS. 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AkataWoman: 10:32pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
2buffagain: Oh yeah, where are black American women meeting all of these Nigerian men to get wet over You’re banned from the US for being such lowlifes, there are only a few of you in the US. Then narrow that number down to Nigerian men within a certain dating age. Then most Nigerians live in poor black communities where they create African bubbles. Most black Americans live in middle class America. So how are “all of these” BA women meeting Nigerian men to get wet over? When? Where? Statistically the crossing of paths are few and far between. See what a liar you are! Here to meet a Nigerian man Who can’t even get a visa to the US? I’m barely on this site but from the very first post many Nigerians men were sending me messages. I’ve not entertained even one. You guys are not appealing. The lies and delusion. 5 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 12:12am On Nov 08, 2020 |
AkataWoman: LOL I'm not going to argue with your thirsty ass. Just gonna drop facts. Your made-up, uneducated opinions don't matter. Be sure to shut the door on your way out after this school session. Again, we don't want you.... We are just generally better than you given the same opportunities: https://www.ozy.com/around-the-world/the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-may-surprise-you/86885/ https://medium.com/@joecarleton/why-nigerian-immigrants-are-the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-23a7ea5a0832 In the graphs below, note how it treats black immigrants as a unit and not just Nigerian immigrants, because if it did, our averages would be even way better. But even as that aggregate, we are still better than you. Uneducated black American like you coming here to talk nonsense : Broke-ass, no opportunity-taking black american coming here to say Nigerians in US are "poor" More than 1-in-4 of you ain't shit. You are the most poor in a land filled with so many opportunities. So much so that an outsider, who has to fight and suffer years of indignities before even being ALLOWED to work legally...comes in, starts from zero, and overtakes you. Ask yourself why. Don't say "It's because I'm black", because our skin is the same color. Mumu. You should have checked the FACTS before coming to show yourself a fool here. But then again, your type don't care about facts but instead prefer emotional outbursts, lies, complaining, and still referring to yourselves with the name "nigger" used by racist white scum to define you. Martin Luther King would slap you today if he could.. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AkataWoman: 1:34am On Nov 08, 2020 |
2buffagain: Are you trying to compare .0001% of the Nigerian population in the US with 100% of the US population? In what world does that make sense? You’re usually only allowed in for the purpose of getting an education. So why wouldn’t you have a larger percentage (not number) of educated people in the US Let’s compare the opposite: 100% of BAs in Nigeria are educated compared to 2% of the Nigerians. What would it look like if the floodgates were open to all of Nigerians-the vast majority of whom are ILLITERATE and criminal minded? The fact that you’re losers who’ve been sitting in Nigeria for billions of years before black Americans reached America but STILL haven’t developed to the point of consistent electricity tells the world all we need to know about your slow, uneducated, backwards & primitive asses. Stop shitting outdoors. Stop behaving like animals. Only then can you talk about BAs. If black Americans were to write a post about dating Nigerians, there would be just one: DON’T do it. Damn shame you’re too lazy and stupid to create a habitable country and must LEECH off the hard work of others. 4 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AkataWoman: 1:36am On Nov 08, 2020 |
[quote author=2buffagain post=95802312] LOL I'm not going to argue with your thirsty ass. Just gonna drop facts. Your made-up, uneducated opinions don't matter. Be sure to shut the door on your way out after this school session. Again, we don't want you.... We are just generally better than you given the same opportunities: https://www.ozy.com/around-the-world/the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-may-surprise-you/86885/ https://medium.com/@joecarleton/why-nigerian-immigrants-are-the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-23a7ea5a0832 Uneducated black American like you coming here to talk nonsense : Broke-ass, no opportunity-taking black american coming here to say Nigerians in US are "poor" More than 1-in-4 of you ain't shit. You are the most poor in a land filled with so many opportunities. So much so that an outsider, who has to fight and suffer years of indignities before even being ALLOWED to work legally...comes in, starts from zero, and overtakes you. Ask yourself why. Don't say "It's because I'm black", because our skin is the same color. Mumu. You should have checked the FACTS before coming to show yourself a fool here. But then again, your type don't care about facts but instead prefer emotional outbursts, lies, complaining, and still referring to yourselves with the name "nigger" used by racist white scum to define you. Martin Luther King would slap you today if he could.. [/quote |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 2:03am On Nov 08, 2020 |
AkataWoman: Post facts or shut up. I will not waste my time arguing with an slowpoke who just makes up numbers. You lack the academic habit of citing facts for your arguments, and you expect anyone here to take you seriously. Before I even wade through the rest of your diarrhea of a post, first provide facts that say only 2% of Nigerians in Nigeria are educated. Failing the provision of FACTS to back up your numbers, leave in shame! PS: Go wipe the ass of this guy shitting in the streets in San Francisco 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by James4bright(m): 2:34am On Nov 08, 2020 |
khia: Please do not listen to these guys. They are just assholes. Don't let the hate get to you. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Favor99(m): 2:47am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Nigerians don’t have any problem with Black Americans. The two groups need communication with each other. We can’t be fighting like this. We actually love Black Americans and see them as our people. We have deep love and respect for them. The best thing is communication and working together so we can be on the same page. A lot of Black Americans truly love Nigeria and Africa but miscommunication and division is keeping us seperated. Where one people, let’s get along and stop fighting |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AkataWoman: 2:51am On Nov 08, 2020 |
2buffagain: That’s right! I forgot. Nigerians are too illiterate to keep accurate statistics. It’s the very reason you were banned from the US in the first place. Are you disputing the percentage of educated BAs in Nigeria is higher than the percentage of educated Nigerians? Cute. A picture of one obviously mentally ill person in San Francisco is not the same as a culture that thinks shitting outdoors is a normal practice. I’m sure that shit was cleaned up off the street before the person could put their phone away. Unlike Nigeria where open sewers are normal. |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AkataWoman: 2:53am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Favor99: If you’re Nigerian, you need to talk to your people. As the poster said that you replied to, people like the OP make it bad for the rest of you. They’re the reason the world—especially black Americans—stayed silent about EndSARS. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by AkataWoman: 2:58am On Nov 08, 2020 |
2buffagain: Oh yeah, since you’re so intelligent and smart, why is your country a literal shithole STILL? Why no free education if you value education so much? Why no plumbing or electricity? WHY CRY OUT TO STUPID AIN’T SHIT BAs TO HELP SAVE YOU FROM SARS? Why can’t you fight your own battles? BAs don’t @ Nigerian news sites to cover our stories. You guys are lazy cowards who want others to fight your battles for you. 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Kvngfrosh(m): 3:19am On Nov 08, 2020 |
@ Akatawoman @ Khiaa I have a question: Is it true that AA are Lazy ? and blame the system for their problems ? 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 3:28am On Nov 08, 2020 |
AkataWoman: Oh so you admit that it is only SOME (i.e mental) people that shit in the streets in your country. Yet you are pushing for a narrative that ALL Nigerians shit in the streets as a "culture". I have never seen anyone taking a dump publicly in all the time I have spent in Nigeria. I do see people take dumps in the street in Detroit, Atlanta, and obviously San Francisco. I could as well name that one of your "cultures". But I'm not that daft. I leave such unintelligent summations to you. You prove your lack of intellectual integrity with every word you type. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 3:37am On Nov 08, 2020 |
AkataWoman: Because we have shit colonial minded military leaders who we will be dealing with and expelling within the next 4 years tops so we can build for us. At least that's our problem. You will never and can never expel your own supposed oppressors. Meaning you will whine and bitch forever about yours. Sad. Who cried out to you about SARS? Go and ask those people those questions. Primarily Nigerians home and abroad joined hands to fight that said same evil leadership back home for a better future for our country. Look at this idiot blowing smoke up her own ass like as if she is that important. What did you do? Pleeeeaase Stop coming here to rap nonsense. You're pulling my ire. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Jman06(m): 3:44am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Only some senseless Nigerian assholes talk trash about black Americans. I see those Nigerians who make derogatory remarks about black Americans as poor students of history or some overfed kids who need to be properly schooled about the struggles BAs went through to make it possible for Africans to have some breathing space in not just America but the rest of the western world. I personally LOVE black Americans because I know their history. 6 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 3:56am On Nov 08, 2020 |
@AkataWoman Artificial arguments aside... In truth, I fully understand why the world is the way it is, both for AA and Nigerians. I just don't care much for an AA coming over here to spew rubbish about my people. If you want to have intelligent conversations, I will have that with you. But if you just wanna come here and shit on Nigerians with unintelligent arguments while trying to have a sense of superiority, you'll get that same energy right back...with TWICE the logical and factual accuracy. I can decide to match your ignorance if I want to. PS: many forums like LSA talk about africans and AA dating african men. I see threads there all the time. It is only the "bitter birds" who spew vitriol about it. And they are a pariah even to their own society. Everybody loves everybody in a normal setting. 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Favor99(m): 4:36am On Nov 08, 2020 |
AkataWoman:Ok I see, yes I’m Nigerian. I believe people discriminate and are racist everywhere, not just Nigerians. But I see where your coming from. A lot of Nigerians don’t stereotype and discriminate against Black Americans. Some feel that Black Americans don’t like them. It’s just a communication problem gone real bad lol. But we’re still one people, one family and have much love and respect for the other whether the two sides show it or not. |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Favor99(m): 4:42am On Nov 08, 2020 |
Kvngfrosh:No their not. It’s just stereotypes. Their numbers of college graduates have been increasing every year 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by James4bright(m): 8:57am On Nov 08, 2020 |
AkataWoman: You make it seem like Nigerians are just filled with so much hate, but it's crazy you didn't look towards the path of African Americans. You all barely like each other too. I've seen several African American men who hate black women and would never get entangled with one. I've seen African Americans discriminating Africans. We all know the fact that African Americans kill themselves all the time. Can we blacks just kill the hate rather. Nairaland is filled with the most discriminatory set of people. You making it look as though African Americans would never take Nigerians seriously is just another reason too why Nigerians should never give in into "Black Lives Matter" protests. One thing you need to understand is that, we blacks have got so much hatred for one another. If you are really trying to help then you should ignore assholes. But putting up discriminatory contexts about Nigerians would only spike hatred between us. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Terryishere: 10:59pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
2buffagain: I see you are at it again. You said you don't like Black Americans coming to NLand spewing rubbish on your people yet you don't find it a problem when your people come to the US and spew your hatefull prejudices, whitewashed ignorance onto my people in MY country. NIGERIANS are neck and neck with the whites when it comes to arrogance and hypocrisy. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 1:49am On Nov 09, 2020 |
Terryishere: I agree. I do go over board sometimes. But meh. There is truth to the things I say. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Terryishere: 2:12am On Nov 09, 2020 |
2buffagain:There is also truth in the things Akatawoman said. |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 2:54am On Nov 09, 2020 |
Terryishere: Like? That it is our culture to shit in the streets? If so then you would also have to agree that gang-banging , laziness, street-shitting and OOW kids is also your culture. The argument in general is stupid. Hence why I laugh and match the energy. Difference between myself and sis is, I actually ADMIT that nigeria has problems. I can have issues and still see a thing that is bad and call it bad, including my own bad thing. She here trying to make it look like she is some sort of black savior who came from the heavens. FOHWATS 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Terryishere: 10:40am On Nov 09, 2020 |
2buffagain:All of the things you noted happens in Nigeria" Laziness, street shitting, cult murders, OOW kids, kidnappings, rape, illiteracy, 419 scamming, is this not a part of the culture? 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 2:15am On Nov 12, 2020 |
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