This thread was not made to bash African American women in any way. They are beautiful people with good hearts.

African American women are wonderful people and deserve the best of life and love, so I am writing this to educate you of what to expect perchance you fall in love with one.

Once again, if anyone find this post offensive, it was never my intention. Once on a while, our opinion on issues may offend people but that doesn't mean our opinion is wrong.

I'm sorry if you are offended but I have to tell the truth


Ok guys, this is something I've been wanting to do for a while. Many Akata females in US have been getting tired of their fellow Akata men, and they migrated to Jamaica to look for men, only to find out that Jamaican men were no better than Akata men.

Now they have begun looking into Africa and especially Nigeria to look for men. Now, my naija brothers, you have to help your destiny. If na America your destiny is, abeg follow the Akata and leave that hellhole called Nigeria o. But before you take the dive, here are a few things you may want to consider. If you can put up with all of it, please go ahead. If you can't, then don't follow Akata enter ya grave o.

A word is enough for the wise.

PS: I will be updating this as time goes on.

Serious question: Why the obsession with black Americans? We don’t think about you in the US. You won’t find ONE thread from a black American about how to date an African.

This is why we don’t bother to support your SARS protests. You guys are too nasty, mean spirited and ignorant to a group of people who’ve done nothing to you.

Ejusni:
And I was drooling over black American women LOL seems it's just to have sex with them and move on, I can't deal with any LaQueshia or whatever freakish name they give themselves and the accompanying drama, I can take a lot of shit but gays and transgender freaks in my house never!... White chicks here I come!

Do you know what YOUR NAMES sound like to Americans-black and white??!! They’re so horrible you’re ashamed to use them. You create ‘Christian’ names. Laqueisha is going to keep her name anywhere she goes in the world. And the world will pronounce it correctly. You’re mad there’s no respect for you OR your names! That’s why you’ve heard of LaQueisha but Americans don’t know your African names.

lefulefu:
when i was in benin i knew some guys who were married to old white women in europe but came ack to nigeria to secretly marry their nigerian heartthrob or nigerian wives arranged for them by their parents or siblings.dont think it will be that easy to just divorce ur american wife and be flaunting your nigerian wife at her face.that spells for disaster .most guys would keep their foreign wife back overseas and go back to naija and marry their naija wives and ensure their naija wives remain in naija.

And this is why Nobody has no right talking about any ethnic group. The lying, scamming and BS Nigerians do? But akatas are filled with dramaYou have no right to talk about anyone.

Nobody has to be a jealous Nigerian woman. I can’t believe a man is spending so much time denigrating a group of women. It seems so catty. Then again, Nigerian men do treat their women like shit.

2buffagain:


Cali, middle class, buying house.
You're bougie so I can see why you feel the need to fight the OP's observations.
You feel that they don't represent you....and they don't. But you are 1 in 1000000. You can't really speak for the other majority AA to whom these things represent to a T. And I do mean majority.

I lived in Cali before so I understand just how much a minority you as an AA are there.

And this is life. Groups of people are judged by their majority, not their minority.
You do it too. It's actually a scientific way of concatenating facts.

I, for one, never got angry when Trump insulted Nigerians and called our country a shithole.
In fact, I agree. Because I'm not blind. I have 2 eyes and I say it all the time.
In fact I even agree with AA when they say Africans are foolish for still allowing china, france and co to still be messing with them like that.
I agree, because I am logical and I have eyes to see and a brain to think. Working on it is one thing, but africans will call something bad if it is bad. No need to get our emotions involved with defending something that is actually bad.

But one thing I always find hard to see is an AA that is honest enough to say "yup. I agree. my people do too much and/or could do better here or there".
The rote response is automatic defense. No one improves that way if they can't even agree that they have a problem.
To the AA "We are not the problem. Everyone else is". And it's the primary reason why many in that community do not progress. It always has to be someone else's fault. No personal responsibility.

AA think they have it bad...while living in a society with constant electricity and running water...with various programs to get an education with nothing out of pocket if they so choose. But no, they choose foolishly. Only to start making noise in everyone else's ear like idiots. Living in this yankee, sometimes I understand why the other races see black people as subhuman. Majority of Akata don't help with fighting this negative narrative.

Give me a break. This is not a California thing. Educated, successful black Americans are spread throughout the entire country. The problem is that immigrants like Nobody are so poor that they’re forced to live in poor neighborhood and only see one type of black.

The US Census shows that 80% of black Americans are middle class and higher socioeconomically. There are not many ghettos in the US. The majority of black Americans do not live in ghettoes.

Nigerians, on the other hand, who shit I’m public streets and have no electricity or plumbing shouldn’t be talking shit about anybody. You’re poverty is otherworldly. You’re uneducated; the majority of you are illiterate because your families can’t afford the $5/year school fees. Any group of people who have more elementary school kids selling wares on the sides of roads than in school should not be talking shit about anybody.

And for the record, black American women aren’t attracted to African men, much less chasing and bringing them around the 10 kids we have by 20 different men.

Nigerians have no right to talk about anybody.

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AkataWoman:

Give me a break. This is not a California thing. Educated, successful black Americans are spread throughout the entire country. The problem is that immigrants like Nobody are so poor that they’re forced to live in poor neighborhood and only see one type of black.

The US Census shows that 80% of black Americans are middle class and higher socioeconomically. There are not many ghettos in the US. The majority of black Americans do not live in ghettoes.

Nigerians, on the other hand, who shit I’m public streets and have no electricity or plumbing shouldn’t be talking shit about anybody. You’re poverty is otherworldly. You’re uneducated; the majority of you are illiterate because your families can’t afford the $5/year school fees. Any group of people who have more elementary school kids selling wares on the sides of roads than in school should not be talking shit about anybody.

And for the record, black American women aren’t attracted to African men, much less chasing and bringing them around the 10 kids we have by 20 different men.

Nigerians have no right to talk about anybody.

Say all this to the black american women who get instantly wet as soon as they meet a Nigerian brother out here. I know this because I get this reaction all the time from AA. They know we take care of our women and provide for them with pride.

As opposed to their Tyrone who can usually be seen flexing with their woman's car and comfortable being financially dependent on her for his livelihood. Her words, not mine. Those are normal aspects of your culture we do not ascribe to.

And I don't know why you are repeating me. I already told you that there is huge wealth disparity in Nigeria. You're either balling or you're not... And this is why when we as a group get to a place with opportunities... We don't dull like you do.

Yes you will see the poor young boys and girls in Nigeria working hard to make money to afford those school fees... Because they know the value of education and how it will change their life.
Yet your school fees are even free till college, yet some of you drop out of even FREE school, yet blaming everyone else. Your people don't take advantage of opportunities. You rather complain.

It is not about the poverty, it is about the heart. And a good percentage of you have the heart of lazy complainers. You would not survive the Nigerian hussle if you ever had to. And that is why when we get to the land you keep complaining about, we become the most educated and most accomplished group of people in your country. Also it is ignorant to think Nigerians are on the same level as other immigrants. We don't play when it comes to the level up and we are well known for that.

Go read facts.
But you know this already. It's why you are here, to look for a Nigerian man to save you from your wretched loneliness. We don't want you.

2buffagain:


Say all this to the black american women who get instantly wet as soon as they meet a Nigerian brother. I know this because I get this reaction all the time from AA. They know we take care of our women and provide for them with pride.

As opposed to their Tyrone who can usually be seen flexing with their woman's car and comfortable being financially dependent on her for his livelihood. Her words, not mine. Those are normal aspects of your culture we do not ascribe to.

And I don't know why you are repeating me. I already told you that there is huge wealth disparity in Nigeria. You're either balling or you're not... And this is why when we as a group get to a place with opportunities... We don't dull like you do.

Yes you will see the poor young boys and girls in Nigeria working hard to make money to afford those school fees... Because they know the value of education and how it will change their life.
Yet your school fees are even free till college, yet some of you drop out of even FREE school, yet blaming everyone else. Your people don't take advantage of opportunities. You rather complain.

It is not about the poverty, it is about the heart. And a good percentage of you have the heart of lazy complainers. You would not survive the Nigerian hussle if you ever had to. And that is why when we get to the land you keep complaining about, we become the most educated and most accomplished group of people in your country. Also it is ignorant to think Nigerians are on the same level as other immigrants. We don't play when it comes to the level up and we are well known for that.

Go read facts.
But you know this already. It's why you are here, to look for a Nigerian man to save you from your wretched loneliness. We don't want you.

Nigerians are DELUSIONAL. Black American (BA) women are not interested in Nigerian men. We think scammer and greencard seeker the minute we see you. We also think BODY ODOR.

Some bitter Nigerian chick made a meme about how black American woman jump on Nigerian peen but were quiet about EndSARS. The commenters agreed that black American women are not interested in Nigerian peen and only a few date you. We’re not interested. Stop lying to yourself. (Funny, we’re such lowbrow people but you were begging BLACK AMERICANS for support during EndSARS although the Whites you worship didn’t support you either.)

And Nigerians are not the most successful immigrants in the US. Asians are. You guys really need to stop lying to yourselves.

Interesting that a group who doesn’t want us created a 44 page thread about tips on dating us.

You won’t find black Americans making threads with tips on how to date y’all ugly, smelly, scamming, Uber driving asses.

And we have more educated, literate black Americans than all of Nigeria-where you have 1 million more times black people.

You guys are LOSERS and you know it. The world knows it. That’s why nobody ran to save your dumb asses from SARS.

2buffagain:


Say all this to the black american women who get instantly wet as soon as they meet a Nigerian brother. I know this because I get this reaction all the time from AA. They know we take care of our women and provide for them with pride.

As opposed to their Tyrone who can usually be seen flexing with their woman's car and comfortable being financially dependent on her for his livelihood. Her words, not mine. Those are normal aspects of your culture we do not ascribe to.

And I don't know why you are repeating me. I already told you that there is huge wealth disparity in Nigeria. You're either balling or you're not... And this is why when we as a group get to a place with opportunities... We don't dull like you do.

Yes you will see the poor young boys and girls in Nigeria working hard to make money to afford those school fees... Because they know the value of education and how it will change their life.
Yet your school fees are even free till college, yet some of you drop out of even FREE school, yet blaming everyone else. Your people don't take advantage of opportunities. You rather complain.

It is not about the poverty, it is about the heart. And a good percentage of you have the heart of lazy complainers. You would not survive the Nigerian hussle if you ever had to. And that is why when we get to the land you keep complaining about, we become the most educated and most accomplished group of people in your country. Also it is ignorant to think Nigerians are on the same level as other immigrants. We don't play when it comes to the level up and we are well known for that.

Go read facts.
But you know this already. It's why you are here, to look for a Nigerian man to save you from your wretched loneliness. We don't want you.

Oh yeah, where are black American women meeting all of these Nigerian men to get wet over

You’re banned from the US for being such lowlifes, there are only a few of you in the US. Then narrow that number down to Nigerian men within a certain dating age. Then most Nigerians live in poor black communities where they create African bubbles.

Most black Americans live in middle class America.

So how are “all of these” BA women meeting Nigerian men to get wet over? When? Where? Statistically the crossing of paths are few and far between.

See what a liar you are!

Here to meet a Nigerian man Who can’t even get a visa to the US? I’m barely on this site but from the very first post many Nigerians men were sending me messages. I’ve not entertained even one. You guys are not appealing.

The lies and delusion.

AkataWoman:


Oh yeah, where are black American women meeting all of these Nigerian men to get wet over

You’re banned from the US for being such lowlifes, there are only a few of you in the US. Then narrow that number down to Nigerian men within a certain dating age. Then most Nigerians live in poor black communities where they create African bubbles.

Most black Americans live in middle class America.

So how are “all of these” BA women meeting Nigerian men to get wet over? When? Where? Statistically the crossing of paths are few and far between.

See what a liar you are!

Here to meet a Nigerian man Who can’t even get a visa to the US? I’m barely on this site but from the very first post many Nigerians men were sending me messages. I’ve not entertained even one. You guys are not appealing.

The lies and delusion.

LOL I'm not going to argue with your thirsty ass.
Just gonna drop facts. Your made-up, uneducated opinions don't matter.
Be sure to shut the door on your way out after this school session. Again, we don't want you....

We are just generally better than you given the same opportunities:
https://www.ozy.com/around-the-world/the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-may-surprise-you/86885/
https://medium.com/@joecarleton/why-nigerian-immigrants-are-the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-23a7ea5a0832

In the graphs below, note how it treats black immigrants as a unit and not just Nigerian immigrants, because if it did, our averages would be even way better. But even as that aggregate, we are still better than you.

Uneducated black American like you coming here to talk nonsense :


Broke-ass, no opportunity-taking black american coming here to say Nigerians in US are "poor"


More than 1-in-4 of you ain't shit. You are the most poor in a land filled with so many opportunities. So much so that an outsider, who has to fight and suffer years of indignities before even being ALLOWED to work legally...comes in, starts from zero, and overtakes you. Ask yourself why. Don't say "It's because I'm black", because our skin is the same color. Mumu.


You should have checked the FACTS before coming to show yourself a fool here.
But then again, your type don't care about facts but instead prefer emotional outbursts, lies, complaining, and still referring to yourselves with the name "nigger" used by racist white scum to define you. Martin Luther King would slap you today if he could..

2buffagain:


LOL I'm not going to argue with your thirsty ass.
Just gonna drop facts. Your made-up, uneducated opinions don't matter.
Be sure to shut the door on your way out after this school session. Again, we don't want you....

We are just generally better than you given the same opportunities:
https://www.ozy.com/around-the-world/the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-may-surprise-you/86885/
https://medium.com/@joecarleton/why-nigerian-immigrants-are-the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-23a7ea5a0832

Uneducated black American like you coming here to talk nonsense :


Broke-ass, no opportunity-taking black american coming here to say Nigerians in US are "poor"


More than 1-in-4 of you ain't shit. You are the most poor in a land filled with so many opportunities. So much so that an outsider, who has to fight and suffer years of indignities before even being ALLOWED to work legally...comes in, starts from zero, and overtakes you. Ask yourself why. Don't say "It's because I'm black", because our skin is the same color. Mumu.


You should have checked the FACTS before coming to show yourself a fool here.
But then again, your type don't care about facts but instead prefer emotional outbursts, lies, complaining, and still referring to yourselves with the name "nigger" used by racist white scum to define you. Martin Luther King would slap you today if he could..

Are you trying to compare .0001% of the Nigerian population in the US with 100% of the US population? In what world does that make sense? You’re usually only allowed in for the purpose of getting an education. So why wouldn’t you have a larger percentage (not number) of educated people in the US

Let’s compare the opposite: 100% of BAs in Nigeria are educated compared to 2% of the Nigerians.

What would it look like if the floodgates were open to all of Nigerians-the vast majority of whom are ILLITERATE and criminal minded?

The fact that you’re losers who’ve been sitting in Nigeria for billions of years before black Americans reached America but STILL haven’t developed to the point of consistent electricity tells the world all we need to know about your slow, uneducated, backwards & primitive asses.

Stop shitting outdoors. Stop behaving like animals. Only then can you talk about BAs.

If black Americans were to write a post about dating Nigerians, there would be just one: DON’T do it.

Damn shame you’re too lazy and stupid to create a habitable country and must LEECH off the hard work of others.

[quote author=2buffagain post=95802312]

LOL I'm not going to argue with your thirsty ass.
Just gonna drop facts. Your made-up, uneducated opinions don't matter.
Be sure to shut the door on your way out after this school session. Again, we don't want you....

We are just generally better than you given the same opportunities:
https://www.ozy.com/around-the-world/the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-may-surprise-you/86885/
https://medium.com/@joecarleton/why-nigerian-immigrants-are-the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-23a7ea5a0832

Uneducated black American like you coming here to talk nonsense :


Broke-ass, no opportunity-taking black american coming here to say Nigerians in US are "poor"


More than 1-in-4 of you ain't shit. You are the most poor in a land filled with so many opportunities. So much so that an outsider, who has to fight and suffer years of indignities before even being ALLOWED to work legally...comes in, starts from zero, and overtakes you. Ask yourself why. Don't say "It's because I'm black", because our skin is the same color. Mumu.


You should have checked the FACTS before coming to show yourself a fool here.
But then again, your type don't care about facts but instead prefer emotional outbursts, lies, complaining, and still referring to yourselves with the name "nigger" used by racist white scum to define you. Martin Luther King would slap you today if he could..
[/quote

AkataWoman:


Are you trying to compare .0001% of the Nigerian population in the US with 100% of the US population? In what world does that make sense? You’re usually only allowed in for the purpose of getting an education. So why wouldn’t you have a larger percentage (not number) of educated people in the US

Let’s compare the opposite: 100% of BAs in Nigeria are educated compared to 2% of the Nigerians.

What would it look like if the floodgates were open to all of Nigerians-the vast majority of whom are ILLITERATE and criminal minded?

The fact that you’re losers who’ve been sitting in Nigeria for billions of years before black Americans reached America but STILL haven’t developed to the point of consistent electricity tells the world all we need to know about your slow, uneducated, backwards & primitive asses.

Stop shitting outdoors. Stop behaving like animals. Only then can you talk about BAs.

If black Americans were to write a post about dating Nigerians, there would be just one: DON’T do it.

Damn shame you’re too lazy and stupid to create a habitable country and must LEECH off the hard work of others.

Post facts or shut up.
I will not waste my time arguing with an slowpoke who just makes up numbers.
You lack the academic habit of citing facts for your arguments, and you expect anyone here to take you seriously.

Before I even wade through the rest of your diarrhea of a post, first provide facts that say only 2% of Nigerians in Nigeria are educated.
Failing the provision of FACTS to back up your numbers, leave in shame!

PS: Go wipe the ass of this guy shitting in the streets in San Francisco

khia:
Its ignorant COONS like the op and many others who make it hard for Nigerians in America. Black Americans fought for the right for Africans to permanently migrate to the US and it wasn't an easy fight.

Today we don't care about immigration because of the behavior of the Africans (mostly Nigerians) COONS. When Trump sent the Muslims back to their country and the Hispanics the country was in an uproar. When he said he was sending the Liberians and Nigerians back to their "Shithole Countries" nobody cared.

We used to care and would have made a big protest in the past but today we are too busy taking the daggers out of our backs placed by Africans Nigerians like the op and his followers.

Please do not listen to these guys. They are just assholes. Don't let the hate get to you.

Nigerians don’t have any problem with Black Americans. The two groups need communication with each other. We can’t be fighting like this. We actually love Black Americans and see them as our people. We have deep love and respect for them. The best thing is communication and working together so we can be on the same page.

A lot of Black Americans truly love Nigeria and Africa but miscommunication and division is keeping us seperated. Where one people, let’s get along and stop fighting

2buffagain:


Post facts or shut up.
I will not waste my time arguing with an slowpoke who just makes up numbers.
You lack the academic habit of citing facts for your arguments, and you expect anyone here to take you seriously.

Before I even wade through the rest of your diarrhea of a post, first provide facts that say only 2% of Nigerians in Nigeria are educated.
Failing the provision of FACTS to back up your numbers, leave in shame!

PS: Go wipe the ass of this guy shitting in the streets in San Francisco

That’s right! I forgot. Nigerians are too illiterate to keep accurate statistics. It’s the very reason you were banned from the US in the first place.

Are you disputing the percentage of educated BAs in Nigeria is higher than the percentage of educated Nigerians?

Cute. A picture of one obviously mentally ill person in San Francisco is not the same as a culture that thinks shitting outdoors is a normal practice. I’m sure that shit was cleaned up off the street before the person could put their phone away. Unlike Nigeria where open sewers are normal.

Favor99:
Nigerians don’t have any problem with Black Americans. The two groups need communication with each other. We can’t be fighting like this. We actually love Black Americans and see them as our people. We have deep love and respect for them. The best thing is communication and working together so we can be on the same page.

A lot of Black Americans truly love Nigeria and Africa but miscommunication and division is keeping us seperated. Where one people, let’s get along and stop fighting

If you’re Nigerian, you need to talk to your people.

As the poster said that you replied to, people like the OP make it bad for the rest of you.

They’re the reason the world—especially black Americans—stayed silent about EndSARS.

2buffagain:


Post facts or shut up.
I will not waste my time arguing with an slowpoke who just makes up numbers.
You lack the academic habit of citing facts for your arguments, and you expect anyone here to take you seriously.

Before I even wade through the rest of your diarrhea of a post, first provide facts that say only 2% of Nigerians in Nigeria are educated.
Failing the provision of FACTS to back up your numbers, leave in shame!

PS: Go wipe the ass of this guy shitting in the streets in San Francisco

Oh yeah, since you’re so intelligent and smart, why is your country a literal shithole STILL? Why no free education if you value education so much? Why no plumbing or electricity?

WHY CRY OUT TO STUPID AIN’T SHIT BAs TO HELP SAVE YOU FROM SARS? Why can’t you fight your own battles?

BAs don’t @ Nigerian news sites to cover our stories. You guys are lazy cowards who want others to fight your battles for you.

@ Akatawoman
@ Khiaa
I have a question: Is it true that AA are Lazy ?
and blame the system for their problems ?

AkataWoman:


That’s right! I forgot. Nigerians are too illiterate to keep accurate statistics. It’s the very reason you were banned from the US in the first place.

Are you disputing the percentage of educated BAs in Nigeria is higher than the percentage of educated Nigerians?

Cute. A picture of one obviously mentally ill person in San Francisco is not the same as a culture that thinks shitting outdoors is a normal practice. I’m sure that shit was cleaned up off the street before the person could put their phone away. Unlike Nigeria where open sewers are normal.

Oh so you admit that it is only SOME (i.e mental) people that shit in the streets in your country.
Yet you are pushing for a narrative that ALL Nigerians shit in the streets as a "culture".
I have never seen anyone taking a dump publicly in all the time I have spent in Nigeria.
I do see people take dumps in the street in Detroit, Atlanta, and obviously San Francisco. I could as well name that one of your "cultures".

But I'm not that daft. I leave such unintelligent summations to you.

You prove your lack of intellectual integrity with every word you type.

AkataWoman:


Oh yeah, since you’re so intelligent and smart, why is your country a literal shithole STILL? Why no free education if you value education so much? Why no plumbing or electricity?

WHY CRY OUT TO STUPID AIN’T SHIT BAs TO HELP SAVE YOU FROM SARS? Why can’t you fight your own battles?

BAs don’t @ Nigerian news sites to cover our stories. You guys are lazy cowards who want others to fight your battles for you.

Because we have shit colonial minded military leaders who we will be dealing with and expelling within the next 4 years tops so we can build for us.
At least that's our problem. You will never and can never expel your own supposed oppressors. Meaning you will whine and bitch forever about yours. Sad.

Who cried out to you about SARS? Go and ask those people those questions.
Primarily Nigerians home and abroad joined hands to fight that said same evil leadership back home for a better future for our country.
Look at this idiot blowing smoke up her own ass like as if she is that important. What did you do? Pleeeeaase

Stop coming here to rap nonsense. You're pulling my ire.

Only some senseless Nigerian assholes talk trash about black Americans. I see those Nigerians who make derogatory remarks about black Americans as poor students of history or some overfed kids who need to be properly schooled about the struggles BAs went through to make it possible for Africans to have some breathing space in not just America but the rest of the western world.

I personally LOVE black Americans because I know their history.

@AkataWoman
Artificial arguments aside...

In truth, I fully understand why the world is the way it is, both for AA and Nigerians.
I just don't care much for an AA coming over here to spew rubbish about my people.

If you want to have intelligent conversations, I will have that with you.

But if you just wanna come here and shit on Nigerians with unintelligent arguments while trying to have a sense of superiority, you'll get that same energy right back...with TWICE the logical and factual accuracy.

I can decide to match your ignorance if I want to.

PS: many forums like LSA talk about africans and AA dating african men. I see threads there all the time.
It is only the "bitter birds" who spew vitriol about it. And they are a pariah even to their own society.

Everybody loves everybody in a normal setting.

AkataWoman:


If you’re Nigerian, you need to talk to your people.

As the poster said that you replied to, people like the OP make it bad for the rest of you.

They’re the reason the world—especially black Americans—stayed silent about EndSARS.

Ok I see, yes I’m Nigerian. I believe people discriminate and are racist everywhere, not just Nigerians. But I see where your coming from. A lot of Nigerians don’t stereotype and discriminate against Black Americans.

Some feel that Black Americans don’t like them. It’s just a communication problem gone real bad lol.
But we’re still one people, one family and have much love and respect for the other whether the two sides show it or not.

Kvngfrosh:
@ Akatawoman
@ Khiaa
I have a question: Is it true that AA are Lazy ?
and blame the system for their problems ?

No their not. It’s just stereotypes. Their numbers of college graduates have been increasing every year

AkataWoman:


If you’re Nigerian, you need to talk to your people.

As the poster said that you replied to, people like the OP make it bad for the rest of you.

They’re the reason the world—especially black Americans—stayed silent about EndSARS.

You make it seem like Nigerians are just filled with so much hate, but it's crazy you didn't look towards the path of African Americans.

You all barely like each other too. I've seen several African American men who hate black women and would never get entangled with one. I've seen African Americans discriminating Africans. We all know the fact that African Americans kill themselves all the time.

Can we blacks just kill the hate rather. Nairaland is filled with the most discriminatory set of people.

You making it look as though African Americans would never take Nigerians seriously is just another reason too why Nigerians should never give in into "Black Lives Matter" protests.


One thing you need to understand is that, we blacks have got so much hatred for one another. If you are really trying to help then you should ignore assholes.

But putting up discriminatory contexts about Nigerians would only spike hatred between us.

2buffagain:
@AkataWoman
Artificial arguments aside...

In truth, I fully understand why the world is the way it is, both for AA and Nigerians.
I just don't care much for an AA coming over here to spew rubbish about my people.

If you want to have intelligent conversations, I will have that with you.

But if you just wanna come here and shit on Nigerians with unintelligent arguments while trying to have a sense of superiority, you'll get that same energy right back...with TWICE the logical and factual accuracy.

I can decide to match your ignorance if I want to.

PS: many forums like LSA talk about africans and AA dating african men. I see threads there all the time.
It is only the "bitter birds" who spew vitriol about it. And they are a pariah even to their own society.

Everybody loves everybody in a normal setting.

I see you are at it again. You said you don't like Black Americans coming to NLand spewing rubbish on your people yet you don't find it a problem when your people come to the US and spew your hatefull prejudices, whitewashed ignorance onto my people in MY country.

NIGERIANS are neck and neck with the whites when it comes to arrogance and hypocrisy.

Terryishere:


I see you are at it again. You said you don't like Black Americans coming to NLand spewing rubbish on your people yet you don't find it a problem when your people come to the US and spew your hatefull prejudices, whitewashed ignorance onto my people in MY country.

NIGERIANS are neck and neck with the whites when it comes to arrogance and hypocrisy.

I agree. I do go over board sometimes. But meh.
There is truth to the things I say.

2buffagain:


I agree. I do go over board sometimes. But meh.
There is truth to the things I say.

There is also truth in the things Akatawoman said.

Terryishere:

There is also truth in the things Akatawoman said.

Like?

That it is our culture to shit in the streets?

If so then you would also have to agree that gang-banging , laziness, street-shitting and OOW kids is also your culture.

The argument in general is stupid. Hence why I laugh and match the energy.

Difference between myself and sis is, I actually ADMIT that nigeria has problems. I can have issues and still see a thing that is bad and call it bad, including my own bad thing.
She here trying to make it look like she is some sort of black savior who came from the heavens. FOHWATS

2buffagain:


Like?

That it is our culture to shit in the streets?

If so then you would also have to agree that gang-banging , laziness, street-shitting and OOW kids is also your culture.

The argument in general is stupid. Hence why I laugh and match the energy.

Difference between myself and sis is, I actually ADMIT that nigeria has problems. I can have issues and still see a thing that is bad and call it bad, including my own bad thing.
She here trying to make it look like she is some sort of black savior who came from the heavens. FOHWOTS

All of the things you noted happens in Nigeria" Laziness, street shitting, cult murders, OOW kids, kidnappings, rape, illiteracy, 419 scamming, is this not a part of the culture?

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
pDudd dude WTF is your issue in life

believe this thread at your own peril, I can assure you that negro has never stepped foot outside naija to ordinary Cotonou, speak less of the USA
He's just spitting out false stereotypes on AA women.

Lols