I came across the post of someone here, saying how can you date a girl/boy from a broken home and expect them to be better partners.
You don't judge people base on other people's choices it so very wrong. Here is a video that will explain better.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xbfph95TTso

It does most of the time

not that it "all matters" ... but it's a factor you should never ignore. broken home is like slow poison, it takes from the victims bits and bits. just like every relationship, communication is important.

not that it "all matters" ... but it's a factor you should never ignore. broken home is like slow poison, it takes from the victims bits and bits. just like every relationship, communication is important.

It's certainly a factor and you can't wish that away.

Broken home,polygamy has a spirit that control them if you don't deal them they will deal with you.

That analysis not absolute. Some people from broken homes make great spouses because they ensure that they avoid a lot of mistakes made by they're parents.
On the other hand, some people from broken homes have the mindset that marriage is not by force, afterall their parents attempted it and it didn't work so who are they to succeed at it.
So it's all about the individual.

You are very right some people from broke homes don't actually make same mistakes of their parents, and it's base on individual because some people are so uneducated and very foolish to read the line on the wall

NobleAngell:
That analysis not absolute. Some people from broken homes make great spouses because they ensure that they avoid a lot of mistakes made by they're parents.
On the other hand, some people from broken homes have the mindset that marriage is not by force afterall, their parents attempted it and it didn't work so who are they to succeed at it.
So it's all about the individual.

It is 99.999999% true, a guy I almost had something with is from a broken home, worse is, all the kids don't so much as acknowledge the existence of their dad, I once asked if he'd invite his dad for his wedding, he said absolutely never, their mum is gold in their eyes, and funny thing is they are 5 boys and a girl, karma be looking at them smiling lol.

Donaldjons:
You are very right some people from broke homes don't actually make same mistakes of their parents, and it's base on individual because some people are so uneducated and very foolish to read the line on the wall

Exactly!

Fountainofyouth:
It is 99.999999% true, a guy I almost had something with is from a broken home, worse is, all the kids don't so much as acknowledge the existence of their dad, I once asked if he'd invite his dad for his wedding, he said absolutely never, their mum is gold in their eyes, and funny thing is they are 5 boys and a girl, karma be looking at them smiling lol.

Lol! But have you bothered finding out why their attitude is that way towards their dad? And why they care so much about their mom? Only them know what she's been through for them. So you can't really be sure.

Sure

Fountainofyouth:
It is 99.999999% true, a guy I almost had something with is from a broken home, worse is, all the kids don't so much as acknowledge the existence of their dad, I once asked if he'd invite his dad for his wedding, he said absolutely never, their mum is gold in their eyes, and funny thing is they are 5 boys and a girl, karma be looking at them smiling lol.

the thing is in a broken home, women always always poison the heart of the child against the father.

but when the kids start growing up, they start to understand society and also see the flaws of their mother

NobleAngell:
Lol! But have you bothered finding out why their attitude is that way towards their dad? And why they care so much about their mom? Only them know what she's been through for them. So you can't really be sure.

I tried asking him countless times, he didn't say, means he's too ashamed to say, I was expecting him to be all out spilling if the dad committed a formidable sin, since they don't care, did he get married to another woman? "Mute", so what could be greater that can't be forgiven? I mean he's their dad, they are mostly men that will be dads soon, how will they feel if their kids do not recognize their existence?

LagosAirport:

the thing is in a broken home, women always always poison the heart of the child against the father.

but when the kids start growing up, they start to understand society and also see the flaws of their mother

Thing is, they are all grown up, some are married with kids, the last boy is a 22 yr old, but they still have this hate for the man, no matter what he did, what is wrong is wrong, kids shouldn't choose sides when parents fight.

It's quite hard to satisfy a girl who is from a broken home cos she always gat it at the back of her mind that break up is inevitable .
Not everyone though

LagosAirport:

the thing is in a broken home, women always always poison the heart of the child against the father.

but when the kids start growing up, they start to understand society and also see the flaws of their mother

I agree with you.

There is no reasonable proof that supports this assertion. It is completely evidence-free. We should focus on character trait, personality, peer pressure, etc. as possible reason. This conclusion is akin to the wrongheaded notion which states that house chore is the reason many married woman starve their husbands sex. On the surface, it seems to be convincing, but when it is thoroughly examined, the disjunctions become apparent.

Can you explain why you think it does?

Tomilola360:
It does most of the time

I know this but what I'm saying is don't cancel them totally but they never had the chance to grow up with both parents.

Odoogu:
not that it "all matters" ... but it's a factor you should never ignore.
broken home is like slow poison, it takes from the victims bits and bits.
just like every relationship, communication is important.

When this kids grow they see things for them selves.

Karlifate:


I agree with you.

I did a research on this before sharing it.

mrblessed:
There is no reasonable proof that supports this assertion. It is completely evidence-free. We should focus on character trait, personality, peer pressure, etc. as possible reason. This conclusion is akin to the wrongheaded notion which states that house chore is the reason many married woman starve their husbands sex. On the surface, it seems to be convincing, but when it is thoroughly examined, the disjunctions become apparent.

People don't just spit out there pain just like that, it brings memories.

Fountainofyouth:



I tried asking him countless times, he didn't say, means he's too ashamed to say, I was expecting him to be all out spilling if the dad committed a formidable sin, since they don't care, did he get married to another woman? "Mute", so what could be greater that can't be forgiven? I mean he's their dad, they are mostly men that will be dads soon, how will they feel if their kids do not recognize their existence?