Mivici:
chrisbelle the both of us are in love, and we always get jealous immediate we see ourselves with an opposite sex.

Did you ask her to be your girlfriend.

Don't collect the money.... It's betrayal..

Just explain things to the girl and stay away from her...
No be everything be money o. E get why!!!!!

SarutobiEky:
Bro...collect the money ask him to make it 500k. You are going to meet other girls like her, even better than her. You only got one chance

What are saying, 500k

Chrisbella24:



Did you ask her to be your girlfriend.

no I didn't but the connection just came, we blended just like dat because she stay next street and it was easier for the friendship to grow into something serious since she always smile anytime she pass through then.

Lol, if you're a very wise man you won't collect the money at all,

How much is dat money to control yaa mind,

Many things can happen in the future dat you won't be able to speak just because of the nonsense money you've collected,


A wise man will relate the present with his future,

Since he don tell you dat she don belong to somebody , as a man move on, only a fool will believe dat there's woman better dan his current woman (I don't mean say you should be changing girl like jackport card) ,

Don't collect the money, you've reduce the level of your mascularity if you collect the money in this kin situation,

It might not be easy to leave her but you have to,

Mivici:
chrisbelle the both of us are in love, and we always get jealous immediate we see ourselves with an opposite sex.

Don't be deluded, getting jealous doesn't mean that you are his boyfriend, intimately, as the case may be. And if your story is true, you better steer clear of that girl, now its an offer, next time a treat, and you don't know how committed to a cause some people can be. You are from the middle belt, she is Igbo, there will be resistance, even from the family as a whole, and if I were you, leave the money.

ijoba22:

What are saying, 500k

500k too small??

SarutobiEky:
Bro...collect the money ask him to make it 500k. You are going to meet other girls like her, even better than her. You only got one chance

sharp guy

sam20erry:
What's the title of this Nollywood movie�

Movie don scatter ur life

entrep88:
For your integrity and moral sake do not cash out on her. Leave her peacefully, let her bro keep his money and she may be the planner of all this. Be a man, just escape from her let her know its more than love. Remember, that is her brother first option if you are stubborn he has other options.

Dont tell that to a broke nigga

Humanoid01:

Nah! I don't think it's a movie. He created this thread at 4:00 am, meaning he probably had a difficult time getting some sleep. Then after much thinking, he decided to pour out his heart here.

You receive a phone call from an unknown number with no previous contact asking you to show up without explanations.


Will you go?

duduade:


E be like say too much Bollywood is worrying you

Berra wake up to reality man

leave that akpamu..I just dey smh for am dey pity am. Him eye go soon clear.

sofiscatedmoron:

sharp guy

Omo no time o. I place high value on cheddah more than I do women of nowadays. Our fathers were lucky.

tell d girl wat sup, tell her u will d guy 500h k she wilb forming loving n b collecting steady from d guy also

You're not even sure if the girl is your girlfriend or just a friend.

She's your friend, she smiles when she passes your area. You never asked her out, and probably never kissed her sef.

Now, all of a sudden, someone is offering you 350 and you're losing sleep?

If you have not defined your relationship with this girl, better tell Mr. Rich that she's just a friend to you, and that you cherish her friendship and can't lose her for a mere 350.

However, you can help him out in getting her, cause it's obvious you have no serious feelings for this girl.

Then sit the girl down, and define your relationship. Make it clear that she's your bestie, and how going beyond might never work.

Be honest and straightforward. Who knows, Mr. Rich might even make you his trusted friend, and you know what that means. You'll benefit more than that penny you're losing sleep over.

Also, your friendship with the girl will still remain intact, cause you sat her down and defined your relations with her. She will never ever look down on you... If her union with Mr. Rich is successful, she might turn to be the helper you've been praying for.

You'll find someone better, she's not for you. Whether Mr. Rich do something beneficial or not, fact remains that you'll still have your balls.

The moment you sell out anyone for any amount of money, you will regret it later in life. The money wouldn't even be useful at the end of the day.

I wish you the best!

Mivici:
I have a female friend loving and caring.
I really don't know why she is into me, maybe because am also caring, fun to be with or the one meant for her? actually she is a village girl because she was born-and-bred in the village, mind you, she is very intelligent.

I got a call yesterday, when I picked, the voice I heard ask me to meet him at a renowned garden in the village, on reaching there, the man I met introduce himself, I was pleased at first, he ask me what brand will I like to take, I told him Heineken, we were sipping our liquor gradually when he started conversing, he told me that I should leave his sister alone because she had already been taken, I was shocked! Actually am not from that town not even from the state, I am from the middle belt where as the location is in the Eastern part of the country.
I told him but his sister who was my friend has never disclose such a thing to me before, he looks me in the face and told me, he doesn't want to talk to much that he just came back from Europe, Amsterdam precisely, I said to myself, he didn't even have to say that because I know that already. he was riding Audi Q5, I think 2018 model, he now promise to credit my account with the sum of three hundred and fifty thousand to stop picking her calls and calling her because the Man that got him hooked-up big time in Amsterdam has interest in his sister and the man will be coming back next month which is December to meet his parents and doesn't want any attitude from his sister because she had been talking about me recently and I shouldn't even tell her that this was what we even discuss.

Am just thinking of the next actions because I so much cherish the relationship and want to make it permanent.

if you are not ready to marry her, collect the money and go.

It could be a test, I will suggest you don't give in to it. You have a second phone number right?

WrittyWritter:
Dis one is just like d film I watched last night ...In d film d guy told d girl he could not be with her because of her family..left d girl..did not take d money..and continued is life

You just told us the movie you watch

Now advice the op.

Make too much sense no kee u

Mivici:
no I didn't but the connection just came, we blended just like dat because she stay next street and it was easier for the friendship to grow into something serious since she always smile anytime she passes through then.

Meaning you guys aren't even in a serious relationship.

How does smiling at each other while passing became a relationship?

Since it's still a friendship, then let it be a FRIENDSHIP.

GodWrites:
You're not even sure if the girl is your girlfriend or just a friend.

She's your friend, she smiles when she passes your area. You never asked her out, and probably never kissed her sef.

Now, all of a sudden, someone is offering you 350 and you're losing sleep?

If you have not defined your relationship with this girl, better tell Mr. Rich that she's just a friend to you, and that you cherish her friendship and can't lose her for a mere 350.

However, you can help him out in getting her, cause it's obvious you have no serious feelings for this girl.

Then sit the girl down, and define your relationship. Make it clear that she's your bestie, and how going beyond might never work.

Be honest and straightforward. Who knows, Mr. Rich might even make you his trusted friend, and you know what that means. You'll benefit more than that penny you're losing sleep over.

Also, your friendship with the girl will still remain intact, cause you sat her down and defined your relations with her. She will never ever look down on you... If her union with Mr. Rich is successful, she might turn to be the helper you've been praying for.

You'll find someone better, she's not for you. Whether Mr. Rich do something beneficial or not, fact remains that you'll still have your balls.

The moment you sell out anyone for any amount of money, you will regret it later in life. The money wouldn't even be useful at the end of the day.

I wish you the best!

sorry to say this, despites not being married to her yet we do have affair because feelings is involved in the relationship Mr odwrite.

kalu61:
You just told us the movie you watch

Now advice the op.

Make too much sense no kee u

I no get advice 4 him aswr..from wat he asked been saying dey are not even in a serious relationship..But he can do wat d guy did in d movie

Chrisbella24:


Meaning you guys aren't even in a serious relationship.

How does smiling at each other while passing became a relationship?

Since it's still a friendship, then let it be a FRIENDSHIP.

read it again, i said then na, that how we got connected but now it on a different and more matured level ma, pls share your light, I will definitely see her in the evening.

Mivici:
sorry to say this, despites not being married to her yet we do have affair because feelings is involved in the relationship Mr odwrite.

I only responded based on the information you provided on this thread. I never meant to hurt or undermine you in any way. Good luck!

Mivici:
I have a female friend loving and caring.
I really don't know why she is into me, maybe because am also caring, fun to be with or the one meant for her? actually she is a village girl because she was born-and-bred in the village, mind you, she is very intelligent.

I got a call yesterday, when I picked, the voice I heard ask me to meet him at a renowned garden in the village, on reaching there, the man I met introduce himself, I was pleased at first, he ask me what brand will I like to take, I told him Heineken, we were sipping our liquor gradually when he started conversing, he told me that I should leave his sister alone because she had already been taken, I was shocked! Actually am not from that town not even from the state, I am from the middle belt where as the location is in the Eastern part of the country.
I told him but his sister who was my friend has never disclose such a thing to me before, he looks me in the face and told me, he doesn't want to talk to much that he just came back from Europe, Amsterdam precisely, I said to myself, he didn't even have to say that because I know that already. he was riding Audi Q5, I think 2018 model, he now promise to credit my account with the sum of three hundred and fifty thousand to stop picking her calls and calling her because the Man that got him hooked-up big time in Amsterdam has interest in his sister and the man will be coming back next month which is December to meet his parents and doesn't want any attitude from his sister because she had been talking about me recently and I shouldn't even tell her that this was what we even discuss.

Am just thinking of the next actions because I so much cherish the relationship and want to make it permanent.

Go ask Judas how him take spend that money wey him collect for Jesus head.

Mivici:
I have a female friend loving and caring.
I really don't know why she is into me, maybe because am also caring, fun to be with or the one meant for her? actually she is a village girl because she was born-and-bred in the village, mind you, she is very intelligent.

I got a call yesterday, when I picked, the voice I heard ask me to meet him at a renowned garden in the village, on reaching there, the man I met introduce himself, I was pleased at first, he ask me what brand will I like to take, I told him Heineken, we were sipping our liquor gradually when he started conversing, he told me that I should leave his sister alone because she had already been taken, I was shocked! Actually am not from that town not even from the state, I am from the middle belt where as the location is in the Eastern part of the country.
I told him but his sister who was my friend has never disclose such a thing to me before, he looks me in the face and told me, he doesn't want to talk to much that he just came back from Europe, Amsterdam precisely, I said to myself, he didn't even have to say that because I know that already. he was riding Audi Q5, I think 2018 model, he now promise to credit my account with the sum of three hundred and fifty thousand to stop picking her calls and calling her because the Man that got him hooked-up big time in Amsterdam has interest in his sister and the man will be coming back next month which is December to meet his parents and doesn't want any attitude from his sister because she had been talking about me recently and I shouldn't even tell her that this was what we even discuss.

Am just thinking of the next actions because I so much cherish the relationship and want to make it permanent.

Baba cash out gallantly abeg. Increase your demand to 500k. Collect the money, delete her number and avoid her. You will meet someone better than her in the future.

Bro no matter how tempting that money is don't take it ( might be a test from the bro) and ur not even sure he did give u the money
Just explain to the girl and then distance urself let her sought things with her bro
Nothing hurts more than betrayal

AlphaStorm:


Baba cash out gallantly abeg. Increase your demand to 500k. Collect the money, delete her number and avoid her. You will meet someone better than her in the future.

but I can also make the 500k too In future sir anyway thanks for the advice..

Have you asked yourself what if this was a test from the brother to see the length to which you love the sister as she claims ? Don't collect the money. Call the girl and speak with her about it and then give her space to sort issues with her family so as not to put yourself in harm's way if indeed the brother's friend has an interest in her

If you truly have feeling for her and you are sure she has same,then have an open discussion with her and you both weigh your options.You both need to be sure of your loyalty to each other.

WrittyWritter:


I no get advice 4 him aswr..from wat he asked been saying dey are not even in a serious relationship..But he can do wat d guy did in d movie

Since they're not into something serious, you are advice a broke guy not to cash out. That's even more reason to cash out because l observed that too. He is likely to lose out

Mivici:
but I can also make the 500k to In future sir anyway thanks for the advice..

You know what you want and you still came for advice. I don't need the money. Meet the girl and talk things out, if the girls sides you, then wear your fighting trouser and or walk away if she exhibits doubts.

That's his brother alone, go swear for you. Be vigilant