Because it is actually an invitation for sex. No free lunch.

If e no be sex, visit me to com do wetin na??

To come help me watch plate or clothes? Mtcheww

If e no be sex, make she park well jare

'Visit me' means 'come for sex'.


It is as simple as A B C

Sundrus:
Bcuz na wetin many girls don experience for 9ja. Most 9ja guys too dey mumu when e comes to sex. Them dey always behave as if their lives depend on the towtow. No self control, no self respect, no integrity, no principle, no nothing....just zombies with everlasting erections.

All facts.

The way many Nigerian guys struggle to control their lust is embarassing.

If I tell you to visit me, na because I wan do. If na talk I wan follow you talk, WhatsApp dey.

If you ask me who i go ask?

Soro soke were....no. Dey disguise

That's their life style

If i feel like say u no go gree me make I sex u,I no go invite u come my place,cus I no want situation wey I go wan make move,u go talk say u no gree,then request transport money when u dey wake go house.na who come lose

cuz in their tiny skulls, they know it's the only thing they have to offer

SILENTandSMART2:
That shows who you are


I can never tell a girl to come to my house and think otherwise because they know who i am,


They know dat i don't do shit,

In life try to make sure dat the view dat people use to see you is positive,


OP work on yourself

Gbam! Keep it up.

Truth be told,women love sex except they dont like you

SILENTandSMART2:
That shows who you are


I can never tell a girl to come to my house and think otherwise because they know who i am,


They know dat i don't do shit,

In life try to make sure dat the view dat people use to see you is positive,


OP work on yourself

Yinmu...

All this format so the gehs here may think u be gentleman....

Shiioooor

It's not our fault. Most guys this days are something else. I could remember vividly, I paid this guy a visit, he tried all his best to put me in the mood, I held myself.. He asked y am I acting this way, I told him I won't yield to this. His reply was am I not mature enough to understand when a guys asks a lady to come visit, I should understand..
I vowed never to visit any guy at home, except my boyfriend

It’s actually a sex invitation,you have no reason to accept my invitation if you are not ready for sex

it is what it is dont come here n be saying u dont think about it.

Durentt:
you have wrote a very long epistle to say almost nothing.

What is the relationship between "come visit me" and "come have sex with me"?

He said it all but I too know and owu dey blow you!!!


Read it again

Malawian:
If I tell you to visit me, na because I wan do. If na talk I wan follow you talk, WhatsApp dey.

Dont mind them !

saasala:
Because that is how it is and that is how it should be.

90% of the time, the guy had previously taken the girl out, spent some money on her and/or rendered some sort of financial assistance to her. Since she is not related to him by blood, nigga needs some sort of compensation so as not to feel like a fool.

90% of the time a guy asks a girl to visit him, he wants sex. 9 out of ten times a lady visits a guy, she has been offered the D.

And isn't just that the norm? Isn't that the way it should be? If I am not taking you out to the restaurant or bar or something and I tell you to come to my house (especially after asking for an urgent 2k, taken you out and spent some money on/for you), should you not know that I want to fvck you?

Na Naija girls dey do shakara na. Oyinbo girl knows that inviting me to your house means we might have sex, she might even be the one to make a move. South Africa and Ghana babes no get chill. If they come to your house and you dont F them they won't pick your calls again.

But trust this Naija babes with their "Its my first visit" Mantra. If you leave them on the first visit, they come with "Its just my second visit", but will keep asking you for money. She will bring her family problems for you to solve as if you be father Christmas.

If you are not my sister and you ask me to solve your financial problems when I was the first to approach you with "Let's date or let's fvck", once I render that help to you, you have instantly been obliged to pay me back with your pussay or you get the fvck out.

I can help ladies randomly without asking for sex in return but not the ones I toasted myself. I toast you, you no gree, you won come turn me to ATM. God punish your entire family and generation.

OPARI NAWA HHHHHHHHMMMMMM

Sundrus:
Bcuz na wetin many girls don experience for 9ja. Most 9ja guys too dey mumu when e comes to sex. Them dey always behave as if their lives depend on the towtow. No self control, no self respect, no integrity, no principle, no nothing....just zombies with everlasting erections.

True talk

Bro lemme ask u one question y will u invite her to house cant you meet somewhere else?

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Visit you say you dey hospital bed abi you born baby.
As a girl, if a guy ever says" VISIT ME" block and delete his number. It's another way of say, I want to Bleep your brains out.
If you are not in the mood to Bleep, just tell him you are not interested. Even ordinary discussion, he won't want cos even before you get there, he would already be up and kicking and ready for wild sex.

Lol. You're maddd

WoundedLamb:
You are here to shout at girls and not the opportunistic boys who think a girl coming to their houses is an invite to fvck. I really feel bad when some men defend assault by saying things like "if she didn't want to do it, then why did she go to his house?". Now, the same men are here to still scold girls for being cautious. Will girls leave these planet for you people?!

It is like they are programmed to wail. Jeez!

Powerfly:
If he says 'come and visit me.' baby re-strategise and visit when you're on the second day of your menstrual period.
That's what i do to ensure nothing will happen.
don't announce that you're on your period.. Just surprise him.. Guys love surprises.

Wrong...u never see men wey go fuq you with menses?

Mai dear, e go shock you oh

As to this topic of visit me and trying to make sex advancements to women, I would advice you, If a lady comes to visit you at home, try to touch her and watch the reaction she gives you. If she does not want to have sex with you, back out and apologize and dont try to touch her again. Secondly, if she says No, but her no is not firm, you would also know and try to to make more advancements that makes her relax then you would have your way. Like I said, In all scenarios, as a man, you should be able to decipher between a firm No and a No that stems from her being a woman. Its better you make the advancement so you dont go and hear that she told her friend that she came to your house and you could not even touch her. That one dey pain pass rape case.

Visitation shouldnot be a big deal atall
Just dat in this dangerous country of ourz

Hmm...alot could go wrong

Dreadlock69:
Why would I tell you to visit me or you visit me for no reason without sex.?
Except I'm not attracted to you , my bestie or my neighbour.if non of these is involved then why the visit
I'm I a priest
Do you come because father Christmas said you should come
Shey you come make we gist bout zee world and celebrity gossip
If nah first visit you no want penetration okay . But this go Shay sup
If sexing visit D banj na bangalee

You see the entitlement mentality? Yet you bash some females for being entitled when you and those men who reason like you are no different.

You that is asking for a woman visitation,what is your motives,why can't you visit her instead,OK,you want to do fellowship with her abi,generation of vipers and Vampire.

Lmao!! Let’s be honest please! Come visit me in a casual tone is sexual unless it’s your sister or cousin.

Packing female friends to come visit you is fun though. But 1 chick? Bros, nobody’s holy!!

When it's from a poor guy, its sounds like sex.

When it's from a rich dude, its sounds like a good time.

Stephen2324:
Why does "VISIT ME" sounds like sex to many girls?!!

So wetin u been wan so before?
Preach, talk politics, interview am for job opportunities abi wetin u want make she come so far house wey u no fit tell am on phone?