omooba969:


It applies to any age group.

Older age groups know the truth.

Because that is what it actually means.

sircatherine45:
As for me, i don't invite women to my house.

If we wanna meet, we do it at public parks, eateries, or cinema. I won't even bring up the idea of house visiting...won't try that. I'm jealous of my space, so i dread it if anyone, even my sister or female cousin comes around.

If you insist to see me, I'll dodge and use excuses to make your visit not happen, till the babes stop calling me...


Don't have time for women's Phusshy.

Money first...

You mean Soap First...

Taking a girl to the next level.

firstbornson:

You mean Soap First...

I don't do that, please
$$$ gives me orgasm alone

Escabado:


This is because Nigerian girls are too greddyy, selfishhh, and too money conscious . No foreign girl will ask u to be paying her bills as if you are her father or as if she is doing you a favour by sleeping with you . Come to think of it . It's guys that do u girls a favour by sleeping with u , a rich guy living in 3 bedroom apartment , use nice car , use expensive perfume and still go and sleep with one poor girls that are living 3 in a room and share unhygienic toilet . Who is doing who a favour here ? Who is more highgenic than who here. Lots of men stoop so low to even sleep with you girls cos una no reach our standard at all . Yet u girls are trying to form hard to get. Imagine a man begging and paying to have a liability in his life as a wife or a girlfriend

Lol

donMIG:



Hahahahahaha
U don finish all guys I swear...
The one wei burst my head na

ZOMBIES WITH EVERLASTING ERECTION

I wan die

This one off me

WoundedLamb:
You are here to shout at girls and not the opportunistic boys who think a girl coming to their houses is an invite to fvck. I really feel bad when some men defend assault by saying things like "if she didn't want to do it, then why did she go to his house?". Now, the same men are here to still scold girls for being cautious. Will girls leave this planet for you people?!

@bolded.
Yes please. After all, you met us here

See en, life no balance, I remember inviting a girl to my place one-time just with the idea that we should just keep each other's company. After like one hour she started throwing all the signs she could, I saw them but didn't catch any of it, she decided to take her leave few minutes after , when she got home, she went ahead to tell her friend that I no Sabi anything, say I be novice, say I just dy talk and laugh like mumu .........GOD!! can I ever understand this creature called Females, not only females, even the human race at large?

I remember inviting a lady over and all she kept saying is we are both adults when I come you know what will happen and i swear nothing like sex dey mind at least not on that day. Truth be told most of this ladies who are suspicious are not trustworthy themselves.

Forget this "come and visit me" . Abeg I dey find hookup for NL. I'll be glad getting a response from any girl here(Hands on the face)

Grateful02:
Forget this "come and visit me" . Abeg I dey find hookup for NL. I'll be glad getting a response from any girl here(Hands on the face)

Lobatan! Abeg if you later see quote me.

Repent and be converted!!!

Jesus loves you

Your second reason is the only answer to the OP's question

1beat:
That is what Nigeria film taught them. is now part of their memory if any guy seek for girl visitation she think and assume that what happened in so so film will happen to her.
secondly, Nigeria guys don't have good record as regards this topic especially PANTS TOUCHING GUYS

Sixfeetbelle:


We have such thoughts cause that's the norm with guys. A meagre 3% isn't enough to cancel the action of the 97%.

Well you are right but to some extent you ladies should atleast have this benefit of doubt that all guys are not the same.

Very true

Sundrus:
Bcuz na wetin many girls don experience for 9ja. Most 9ja guys too dey mumu when e comes to sex. Them dey always behave as if their lives depend on the towtow. No self control, no self respect, no integrity, no principle, no nothing....just zombies with everlasting erections.

21cents:


First time a lady came to my crib after I passed the wooing stage she initiated sex by trying to seduce me and kissing me but I didn't yield, and I felt disgusted of her. in my mind I was like- if she could do that to me then she's been doing it with guys before we met. this one na fine girl o.

she came off too cheap because i expected the initiation should be ignited by me.

Village man

Creeza:
on the flip side though, most of the knacks I've were initiated by the females.
its always been " Are you at home?"
Me: mmmhm
her: you sleeping this hot afternoon?
Me : (mules over why i have to report my life to her. wtf) hiss... whats up?

her: I WANT TO COME AND SEE YOU.

Me: oya na. Sha be ready to cook your food o, or buy takeouts.
her: what do you mean by that?
me : na you sabi, I CANNOT COME AND GO AND KEE MYSELF TWICE.
....
nothing special about pussay. just turn your back on that which everyone else is dying to have...Be subtle and use words indirectly. But if you get the chance to knack my brother, let me borrow the words of the man who raised me "pound that pussay... pounditt like its her last day on earth"

correct guy
it should be the girl who has the desire to know ur place and wanting to visit not u forcing her to come
if she is really into u na she go even dey ask for ur home address not u begging her to come
there are some ladies that will even invite u over to their place and beg u to stay the night
its all about chemistry and attraction.

21cents:


First time a lady came to my crib after I passed the wooing stage she initiated sex by trying to seduce me and kissing me but I didn't yield, and I felt disgusted of her. in my mind I was like- if she could do that to me then she's been doing it with guys before we met. this one na fine girl o.

she came off too cheap because i expected the initiation should be ignited by me.

this assumption is wrong.that she was willing to get down with u does not mean she does same with other guys.it might be she was just attracted to u and liked ur person.she must really be attracted to u for her to make that first move sef.there are girls that some dudes will cry and wail and beg for the girl to give them kpomo to chop .they will kneel down shedding tears and pleading with the girl to just put only the tip and the girl wont even show them colour of pant .that same girl will see another guy and be mopping over him and wanting to get down with him.it happens

It's their mentality that every guy wants only Sex and Sex...

UndauntedYOCA:

Well, some people are opportunistic, when they ask that you visit them then it is about sex. Even if you get raped or something, they'll still lie about you having initiated the sex, you're a hoe, yadayadayada.
About menstrual stuff, it seems as if you never jam guy that loves period sex abi?
I rarely visit, if I have to then ah, it must mean I really know you or we meet in an open place.

In other words, u don't f*ck??

oluwasegun007:
When it's from a poor guy, its sounds like sex.

When it's from a rich dude, its sounds like a good time.

flesh and blood did not reveal this to you

Gandollaar:
Why? Are you afraid of thraeesome?

That friend will keep reminding her of time.... they won't stay more than 45 mins....

lefulefu:
this assumption is wrong.that she was willing to get down with u does not mean she does same with other guys.it might be she was just attracted to u and liked ur person.she must really be attracted to u for her to make that first move sef.there are girls that some dudes will cry and wail and beg for the girl to give them kpomo to chop .they will kneel down shedding tears and pleading with the girl to just put only the tip and the girl wont even show them colour of pant .that same girl will see another guy and be mopping over him and wanting to get down with him.it happens

exactly

yes it does...The first day a guy visited me he misbehaved in my room...girls always take the guy to public places...dont bring him into your rooms to avoid sexual harassement....sometimes he might not do it the first day...it could happen overtime

WoundedLamb:
You are here to shout at girls and not the opportunistic boys who think a girl coming to their houses is an invite to fvck. I really feel bad when some men defend assault by saying things like "if she didn't want to do it, then why did she go to his house?". Now, the same men are here to still scold girls for being cautious. Will girls leave this planet for you people?!

I tire oooooo

Na bad experience bros. No blame dem o.

saasala:
Because that is how it is and that is how it should be.

90% of the time, the guy had previously taken the girl out, spent some money on her and/or rendered some sort of financial assistance to her. Since she is not related to him by blood, nigga needs some sort of compensation so as not to feel like a fool.

90% of the time a guy asks a girl to visit him, he wants sex. 9 out of ten times a lady visits a guy, she has been offered the D.

And isn't just that the norm? Isn't that the way it should be? If I am not taking you out to the restaurant or bar or something and I tell you to come to my house (especially after asking for an urgent 2k, taken you out and spent some money on/for you), should you not know that I want to fvck you?

Na Naija girls dey do shakara na. Oyinbo girl knows that inviting me to your house means we might have sex, she might even be the one to make a move. South Africa and Ghana babes no get chill. If they come to your house and you dont F them they won't pick your calls again.

But trust this Naija babes with their "Its my first visit" Mantra. If you leave them on the first visit, they come with "Its just my second visit", but will keep asking you for money. She will bring her family problems for you to solve as if you be father Christmas.

If you are not my sister and you ask me to solve your financial problems when I was the first to approach you with "Let's date or let's fvck", once I render that help to you, you have instantly been obliged to pay me back with your pussay or you get the fvck out.

I can help ladies randomly without asking for sex in return but not the ones I toasted myself. I toast you, you no gree, you won come turn me to ATM. God punish your entire family and generation.

Gbamsolutely

Durentt:
you have wrote a very long epistle to say almost nothing.

What is the relationship between "come visit me" and "come have sex with me"?

How many Nigerian girls will honour "come have sex with me" direct request?

AnonymousRebec:
You can't blame ladies oo. I am a lady and I have experienced unwanted touching just because I went to a friend's house. It has happened to me twice with different guys and it's not like I was dating these guys oo. They were Nigerians too.

I normally go to the house of my Togolese friend. This guy has never for once touched me inappropriately. We dance, eat, chat, cook together, and not for once has he ever touched me inappropriately. But some Nigerian and Camerounian men will disgrace you .

The two Nigerian guys I went to their house, after chating, they want to hug so tightly, talk very close to my mouth as if you want to kiss me. They want to touch me as if I am their wife. What is even some guys problem.

It is not the lady's fault at all if come and visit me sounds like let's have sex!

Same story as yours except for the Togolese friend part. Like it's so appaling what Nigerian men are like cause of pussy. I have had a fair share of bad experiences cause of "come visit me" but there is this one experience that took the cake for me.

Imagine a guy I met on Facebook and barely knew invited me to visit him two weeks later and mumu me that didn't know scope back then went as per new friend. After we got past the pleasanteries, Oga wanted to turn it to a sex rendezvous. I was beyond shocked that a guy who barely knew me wanted to bleep me; like "nigga I could be an aids patient on a revenge roll. I could also be a spirit wife here to ruin men's destiny or some shit. Did he even reason that far?"

Anyway after that particular incident, I've concluded that "come visit me" means "come have sex" where Nigerian guys are concerned. Hands down.

Deepthoughts:
How many Nigerian girls will honour "come have sex with me" direct request?

Isn't it better you lay it out there and be rejected than to portray yourself as a nigga who's that desperate for sex he has to 'entice' a lady to get it?

Do you guys even reason what ladies can do to you if a supposedly harmless visit turns into sex she wasn't prepared for?