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I Need Your Advice by Nigaraw(op): 12:44pm On Nov 17, 2020
Good day everyone, I actually dont know where to post this but I decided to post here because I needed traffic and people to advice me. I'm a guy in my mid 20s I finished from uni 3 years ago and I have been managing and hustling to keep body and soul together

The problem is I have a uncle who is a politician (a second term senator) I have met him several times to help me with a job he keeps telling me he will, this is the 3rd year now and I dont see any progress

The reason why I created this thread in the first place is to ask for advice. I have been working on how to travel out of the country for a while and by the look of things, it might fall in place next year. Should I make the move and continue investing my savings on my travel plans or I should keep waiting on my uncle

Note, he was not the one that got me my present job I got it myself. I don't want a situation where I will invest all on my travel plans then he will show up with an appointment letter the next day.

Should I keep my mind off him helping me once and for all or I should still be expecting, he promised me that he would get me a job next year. Please come to my aid.
Re: I Need Your Advice by fati2001(m): 12:45pm On Nov 17, 2020
MAN STAND UP... DON'T WAIT FOR ANY HUMAN... AND DON'T FORGET TO PUT GOD IN ALL THAT YOU DO.
Re: I Need Your Advice by Wisebird22(m): 12:51pm On Nov 17, 2020
Bro,if you have an opportunity to create a path for yourself you better do,your uncle might end up not helping you but will forever live to respect you if you stand in your feet by yourself even if he doesn't tell it to your face.
Re: I Need Your Advice by Nigaraw(op): 12:57pm On Nov 17, 2020
fati2001:
MAN STAND UP... DON'T WAIT FOR ANY HUMAN... AND DON'T FORGET TO PUT GOD IN ALL THAT YOU DO.
thanks for your advice. Noted
Re: I Need Your Advice by Nigaraw(op): 12:58pm On Nov 17, 2020
Wisebird22:
Bro,if you have an opportunity to create a path for yourself you better do,your uncle might end up not helping you but will forever live to respect you if you stand in your feet by yourself even if he doesn't tell it to your face.
thanks bro. I pray all falls into place. This country hard abeg
Re: I Need Your Advice by Uzomacharles: 1:20pm On Nov 17, 2020
fati2001:
MAN STAND UP... DON'T WAIT FOR ANY HUMAN... AND DON'T FORGET TO PUT GOD IN ALL THAT YOU DO.
so you be Christian?
Re: I Need Your Advice by anochuko01(m): 1:21pm On Nov 17, 2020
Lol

My uncle was a permanent secretary in a ministry some years ago, the money flow reach my side o, but as soon as that government left power everything ended.

Face your life, anything from your uncle should just be a cherry on the cake.

All government appointments are temporary.
Re: I Need Your Advice by Uzomacharles: 1:22pm On Nov 17, 2020
Even Your Shadow Dey Leave You Run For Darkness


Uncle's get there children to help too..
Uncle's no dey help.....

Put God First Too
Re: I Need Your Advice by anochuko01(m): 1:24pm On Nov 17, 2020
Uzomacharles:
so you be Christian?
She's a Catholic. We attend the same church
Re: I Need Your Advice by Uzomacharles: 1:31pm On Nov 17, 2020
anochuko01:
She's a Catholic. We attend the same church
Okay
Re: I Need Your Advice by frozen70(f): 2:01pm On Nov 17, 2020
Nigaraw:
Good day everyone, I actually dont know where to post this but I decided to post here because I needed traffic and people to advice me. I'm a guy in my mid 20s I finished from uni 3 years ago and I have been managing and hustling to keep body and soul together

The problem is I have a uncle who is a politician (a second term senator) I have met him several times to help me with a job he keeps telling me he will, this is the 3rd year now and I dont see any progress

The reason why I created this thread in the first place is to ask for advice. I have been working on how to travel out of the country for a while and by the look of things, it might fall in place next year. Should I make the move and continue investing my savings on my travel plans or I should keep waiting on my uncle

Note, he was not the one that got me my present job I got it myself. I don't want a situation where I will invest all on my travel plans then he will show up with an appointment letter the next day.

Should I keep my mind off him helping me once and for all or I should still be expecting, he promised me that he would get me a job next year. Please come to my aid.
Go ahead with your traveling plans so far its genuine

If you are already there and your uncle gets a job for you, it doesn't stop you from visiting home to access the job then get employed and still go abroad on visits

Don't hope fully on your uncle and his promises

They are not always trust worthy
Re: I Need Your Advice by ihec(m): 2:28pm On Nov 17, 2020
Oga u get mind to day even consider waiting for your uncle.
Do your thing and don't worry your uncle he will even respect u wen he sees that u are doing fine without his input. That's one thing I have learnt to hustle myself to comfort on my own so that tomorrow when I stand to talk in a gathering I won't have to mince words because one uncle or aunty gave me a job.
Man up
Re: I Need Your Advice by JONSYN7154: 2:50pm On Nov 17, 2020
Nigaraw:
Good day everyone, I actually dont know where to post this but I decided to post here because I needed traffic and people to advice me. I'm a guy in my mid 20s I finished from uni 3 years ago and I have been managing and hustling to keep body and soul together

The problem is I have a uncle who is a politician (a second term senator) I have met him several times to help me with a job he keeps telling me he will, this is the 3rd year now and I dont see any progress

The reason why I created this thread in the first place is to ask for advice. I have been working on how to travel out of the country for a while and by the look of things, it might fall in place next year. Should I make the move and continue investing my savings on my travel plans or I should keep waiting on my uncle

Note, he was not the one that got me my present job I got it myself. I don't want a situation where I will invest all on my travel plans then he will show up with an appointment letter the next day.

Should I keep my mind off him helping me once and for all or I should still be expecting, he promised me that he would get me a job next year. Please come to my aid.
which country do you want to travel to?
Re: I Need Your Advice by Nigaraw(op): 4:39pm On Nov 17, 2020
JONSYN7154:
which country do you want to travel to?
United states
Re: I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 4:55pm On Nov 17, 2020
Don't Rely On Anyone. Try & Stand On Ur Own.
Re: I Need Your Advice by JONSYN7154: 5:08pm On Nov 17, 2020
Nigaraw:
United states
I'll help you without pay. DM me and let's talk.
Re: I Need Your Advice by Nigaraw(op): 5:39pm On Nov 17, 2020
ihec:
Oga u get mind to day even consider waiting for your uncle.
Do your thing and don't worry your uncle he will even respect u wen he sees that u are doing fine without his input. That's one thing I have learnt to hustle myself to comfort on my own so that tomorrow when I stand to talk in a gathering I won't have to mince words because one uncle or aunty gave me a job.
Man up
thanks for the input I really appreciate
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