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kkins25:
Yes.. How did you derive this deduction, or was it from nolly wood?? Who has carried out the research? What are the statistics?

Who carried out your own statistics? Or you think Naija women would be hopping from one crusade to the other if all is well? Naija men can turn an atheist to a prayer warrior.

Find out from the guys married to or dating your sisters...

Truvel:
I Don't Mean Exchanging Of Chats But Of Words I.e Heated Arguement Or Quarrel. I'm An Action Guy. I'm Man Of Few Words. Actions Speak Louder Dan Words, Dat's D Kind Of Person I'm.

That's cool✌

pocohantas:
Who carried out your own statistics? Or you think Naija women would be hopping from one crusade to the other if all is well? Naija men can turn an atheist to a prayer warrior.

LMAO

pocohantas:
Who carried out your own statistics? Or you think Naija women would be hopping from one crusade to the other if all is well? Naija men can turn an atheist to a prayer warrior.

Don't make hasty generalization, its offensive to some responsible well meaning nigerian men

Yankee101:
Sorry but are you gay?

Wait, gay guys love it when a man is violent?

Dapcity007:
Don't make hasty generalization, its offensive to some responsible well meaning nigerian men

I am not generalizing, just stating the obvious. It is lack of rest of mind that is making them move from one church to another o. You know you men can go to beer parlors to drink out your problems. We can’t. Next thing na to wear boubou and tie hair...come storm one revival for the area.

“Every sidechick, trying to divert my husband’s penis, die by fire. Die die die!!!”

Go on. High BP and stroke dey hungry you.

pocohantas:
I am not generalizing, just stating the obvious. It is lack of rest of mind that is making them move from one church to another o. You know you men can go to beer parlors to drink out your problems. We can’t. Next thing na to wear boubou and tie hair...come storm one revival for the area.

“Every sidechick, trying to divert my husband’s penis, die by fire. Die die die!!!”

Women too are sugarmummies ,adultery doesn't discriminate against gender , but we men we know we don't generalize or make a big deal about it

So you love being a male simp no wonder women are becoming male and male becoming female

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

gunners160:
You want to knw if there are other men like you out there? Yes, there are several men like you in fact one even disgraced us and went to a reality show to display his level of foolishness meanwhile the so called lady he is asslicking is winning endorsement deals while he is busy wearing a short nika.
You can add him up on Instagram or Facebook so that he can be your role model. If possible open a WhatsApp page titled SIMPS group

Hahaha....

Na wa u oo... See ur brutal uppercut nah!

U no dey pamper pesiin?

Stil laughing...

Chii59:
Yeah, he reminds me of a male submissive in erotica (I read quite a lot then). Op, right now, you DON'T need an authoritative woman you need therapy. Your sisters "broke" you, hence your way of reasoning. I'm not just saying this because you're a man but because as a human being if you've got no backbone, people will take undue advantage of you over and over again. There's a striking difference between being phlegmatic and being a weak man. And right now, the latter is who you are. Get help before some authoritative lady destroys what's left of your life.

This girl geh sense o... surprised Nairaland has a breed of sensible lady like you.. unlike the many around here.

gunners160:
You want to knw if there are other men like you out there? Yes, there are several men like you in fact one even disgraced us and went to a reality show to display his level of foolishness meanwhile the so called lady he is asslicking is winning endorsement deals while he is busy wearing a short nika.
You can add him up on Instagram or Facebook so that he can be your role model. If possible open a WhatsApp page titled SIMPS group

I thought that stuff was a skit.

It's for real

Absolute character of weak dick

Your problem wouldn't have happened if your sweet mom had aborted you then, it would have saved us all this stress. Furthermore, had you been killed during that #EndSARS protest, we would be glad that a simp has been annihilated. Anyway, since I don't know your location to trace you & rid you, I leave you to your fate. I don't have anything to tell you!

mhizbluegrass:
my kind of man...im not violent tho but i know i'm authoritative...thanks to being the first child of 4 girls..

OP this is your woman here. She registered almost one year ago and never posted anything here or made any comment until she saw your post. She's your missing authoritative rib. Grab her. We will beg her not to kill u since we are all Nairaland family.

LadyDomme:
OP, sweethearted, you’re a submissive man that needs a dominant woman. Dm me and I’ll tell you more.

OP..this is another candidate. She went to create this account today just to respond to your post and take you home. You are so lucky..plenty dominant ladies are now eyeing you ...we can only hope they have good intentions and not brutalise u too much.....Some gay may also find u appealing..chai..ur ass is not safe..be careful wot u wished for

obowunmi:
How is it going so far?

What?

Lethal234:
You are seeing this wrongly, what you call violent is strong willed women, and its good if she won't try to use it against you.
Behind every successful man is a woman ( an assertive woman) that could constantly inspire and gas you up.
A woman that would re- energize you on that day you are too weak, too unmotivated to do the right thing.

Ok

Onyxunlimited:
Do what makes you happy, bro. I'm concerned about the violence part though. There's nothing wrong with being a follower, I just hope you don't end with someone toxic as per the violence part.
Good luck.

Alright

KristenT:
Lol. You are not alone bro.

Save for the violent aspects, I love women who are authoritative, team leads, assertive yet understand that there is only one man at home.

I like my woman to be really really aspirational yet submissive. I will back her in it all, but this doesn't mean I won't be covering from my own end, I will take care of my family of course just that I don't mind if she becomes very much successful than I am.

Consider it like Ngozi Okonjo Iweala and her husband kinda relationship, or the Late Professor Dora kind of husband.

All the support she needs to make it to that place she will get it. And I have just one term: create that line between your business and aspirations and our home. Not necessary subservient, but respectful.

That's cool.

onyxo76:
you fit die before your time. thats all i can tell you.

God forbid.

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

No wonder...

Ishilove:
LMAO

Baby.... oniranu!!! I learnt this greeting from you last we met... someone told me here it means "child of grace" ishilove oniranu ...shild of graze.

SweetHearted:
God forbid.

no be say i dey curse you o, but such women go shorten your lifespan by more than 40%.

austine4real:
Violent ke??


Come mushin olosha or oshodi oju irin


U go plenty of them wey don drink paraga bellefu

Bleached skin and tattoo

Toast any of them
Pay her bride's price and enjoy ur life

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

Nawa ohh, sorry you sound like a jelly fish. No backbone & I despise your kind of person for a man. I can’t stand a man that I have to tell what to do. That aside, I think what you saw growing up affected you. In the real world, men are leaders especially in their homes.They are decision makers and together with your girl, you should sit & decide. I think you need to talk with a therapist who will help change your thinking & correct the wrong. Read books on leadership also & how to be a man. You can also find good men to mentor you. Goodluck.

Emeraldgreene:
[This is Avery ignorant reponsequote author=SILENTandSMART2 post=96168435]How does this concern us bayi o ?



Even if you found werey attractive , nah your problem be dat,



We're not ready to answer any werey questions,



Misplaced priority everywhere


You go dey alright lasss lasss

Aunty what did you meant by typing dat ?


Shit happens

Beey:
Nawa ohh, sorry you sound like a jelly fish. No backbone & I despise your kind of person for a man. I can’t stand a man that I have to tell what to do. That aside, I think what you saw growing up affected you. In the real world, men are leaders especially in their homes.They are decision makers and together with your girl, you should sit & decide. I think you need to talk with a therapist who will help change your thinking & correct the wrong. Read books on leadership also & how to be a man. You can also find good men to mentor you. Goodluck.

You have said it all. A man should take control of his house. Don't allow your wife to control you. Rather she must be under submission and obedience.
If she tries to usurp your authority, discipline her and let her know her place in the house.
This is Africa where men must not be told what to do. A husband say is final and the wife must learn to accept it.
A woman must not be allowed to lead in an organization when there is at least one man there.
Women can only lead women but a man can lead both men and women. The op needs to wake up and realize his opportunity as a man. Women don't have this opportunity that men are having, but the op has chosen to throw away the opportunity by allowing women to lead him.
I pray I don't give birth to such a weak man
God forbid that I give birth to a man that behaves like a woman.

Dapcity007:
Bloody Simp



Dont be fooled by Leftist media CNN who seek to promote radicalized feminism , homosexuality, gay marriage, LGBTQ, abortion under the disguise of supporting End SARS look at their DJ Switch media talk and compare to their news of female celeb Adele divorce from her spouse, who after the divorce she will be feeding as their culture support female hypergamy creating broke emasculated men , my fellow youths let's not be deceived , the ends protest has been hijacked

Obviously its expected she married an emasculated Simp(a potential gay**t), because their society is so progressive and allows for female hypergamy hence the rise of weak nonvirile men , homosexual men, non binary men, She Male,Bisexual men,and other aborminations we see openly in these society,I commend her success as an individual , attaining these height in her music career based on her own merit but I'm against their society killing natural masculinity in their men via queerness,sexless,and genderless notion

The African Man is a natural redpiller , our conservative culture alone produces Alpha male,and also strong independent women who don't see men,babies,marriage,family as threats to achieving their personal set out objectives eg Mrs Folorusho Alakija(richest woman in Africa),Mrs Awoseka of first bank , Arch bishop Mrs Idahosa , Mrs Tara of house of Tara, Former senator Mrs Florence It's Giwa, Rev Mrs Adejumo, Aisha Yesufu of Endsars protest, Mrs Stella okoli the founder and current CEO of Emzor pharmaceutical,and a host of others

These compared to what the leftist american media who want to promote single motherhood,divorce,queerness and other progressive ideologies and we see in some of our female celebrities Toke Makiwa (divorce),Vanetta of big brother(divorce),Genevieve Nnaji (single mother),Waje(single mother ),INI Edo(divorce),Tiwa savage(divorce and single mother) and a host of others

Note I'm not against single women or men Apostle Paul was single,Jesus was single,Mother Theresa was single, you can be single and still fufil destiny, have peace of mind, attain happiness without needing the institution of marriage or family,what I'm against and I now see in some women is that they now see that marriage, family, .men, babies all as threats to attaining women right,and women independence hence the wave of radical feminism, toxic feminity ,progressivism,LGBTQ, genderless and queerness notion

An example is an NGO called feminist coalition that was headed by modern feminist kiki mordi and a host of other ladies who where one of the major sponsors and organizers of the End SARS protest specifically in Lekki toll gate protest under the guise of fighting for police reform,end to police brutality ,end to extra Judicial killing, were actual fighting for radical leftist ideologies like LGBTQ,abortion,gay marriage, etc which are against God and Nature, they were verified by progressive twitter owner Jack Dorsey to gain popularity and donation for these so called purpose

We are all complaining about Buhari today , his bad economic policies as we are seeing rise in fuel,food,transportion costs etc. poor govt educational policies keeping youths from school because of ASUU strike, dictatorial tendency by trying to ban social media,corruption by holding covid 19 pallatives ,etc. We see former pres Jonathan as a weak, incompetent , corrupt politician who could not handle the Boko Haram terrorist insurgency ,people don't see the reason for these was his refusal to accept progressive Obama Gay marriage policy,Jonathan not only refused these satanic leftist feminist ideology but also penalized homosexuals with new legislative bill of 13 yrs imprisonment of homosexuals,Obama punished Nigeria by refusing us the money and arms to fight these terrorist hence leading to countless loss of lives and properties,human displacement into IDP camps,violation of women body and right in the case of Chibok girls , and now these tribalist bigot incompetent president Buhari.

bro...u really know so much...

Adakintroy:
We all have our interest.

But aligning in such a way that a supposedly weak nature rule over you is not adviser.


The average strong woman is weak compare to the average strong man out there.

Some of my sister's are rich and ok at least by Nigerian standard. But some are not married. You need to see them in their quite time how dejected they can be.

I am also not married. But I laugh over it. My guy issult me like God knows what. I just accept and move on.

My point women are not as strong as they portray themselves to be. Most time is just a mental inductrination( we need to be strong). It's a difference from actually being strong. So no need summiting that way. Respect them but they are weaker than men in every sense. Mental, physical and spiritual.

well spoken bro

Truvel:
Not All Av It Ooo. I'm A Gentle Guy, I Don't Want A Gentle Woman. I Want A Woman Dat Won't Take Shit 4rm Anyone. If U Dare Say Any Rubbish Abt Her Guy In Presence Or Absent, She Will Blast U. Yes, Dat's D Kind Of Woman I Want. Do U Know Why? I'm A Gentle Guy, I Barely Talk, I Barely Exchange Words With People.

So who will fight when it gets physical, say a guy beats her? 'cos sharp mouth results to lots of problems