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Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by cutieBR(f): 12:22pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
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Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by cutieBR(f): 12:23pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Ghost dey complain tnerro1: |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by kkins25(m): 12:28pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
SweetHearted:psychology fascinates me, so much so that i wish you would start a diary here and update us frequently of this "condition" of yours. unfortunately, even though naija is full of people with some form of psychological trauma or the other, the country's lack of development and ignorance has made the psychiatric profession one that is least demanded(upon the large amount of mad people every where).. Thank goodness because men who had dominating females (especially mothers) in their house often tend to develop some form of "sexual-serial killing" fetish as i have come to find out after watching Netflix's Mindhunters. There are no psychologist in the house, so i would advice you not to take my amebo analysis and other comments on the forum seriously before they mis-diagnose you of "inferiority complex". i was watching candace orwel just yesterday eloquently make T.I look like olodo. She mentions that blacks underestimate the tremendous negative effects of having single mothers. like callie has stateted already, "where is your father for....sake" ? Personally, i don't think there is anything wrong with you. it is not normal because your environment has molded you into what you currently are. moreso, unfortunatley you happened to be at the bottom of the pecking order in the family. Worst part is- according to you- you have been bullied into submission. Men are usually dominant, but you are a submissive. i think the beating from your elder sisters has psychologically affected you to the extent of forming a behavioral fetish for dominant female. not necessarily dominant but you are willing to put your self under the power of the feminine gender. nothing do you, the only thing be say it may be difficult for you to find a woman in this country that is dominant. good luck with your search sha... all the best. make more male friends. watch out for gayish tendencies too. which is normal by the way considering the enviroment at which you grew up in.. 1 Like |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by pocohantas(f): 12:29pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Sarita01: It doesn’t mean she is the man. Leadership doesn’t automatically change sexes. It is a myth that every man is opinionated and every woman is submissive. Some men actually love and go for women who are assertive and can think on their feet. My uncle married one of such and they have been together for over 40yrs. The woman respects him, but everyone knows she calls majority of the shots, this includes helping out with his business. Every other year he is buying her a new car. He doesn’t use her to play, she sef carry im matter for head. The violent part is off (maybe he is a masochist or he is using a wrong word), but nothing is strange about OP’s disposition. There are many of his kind, even though everyone is an alfa male online... 3 Likes |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by bukatyne(f): 12:35pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
kkins25: Where is the father is a poignant question. Where, where, where? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Remix10(m): 12:44pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
SweetHearted: How can someone inflict pain to show love, your sisters are murderers! Don't take after them, never justify violence |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Skmoda360(m): 12:46pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
leksite120:He is a sick fellow like you said.... |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Skmoda360(m): 12:49pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
cutieBR:Leave this one alone.... |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Certifiedfucker(m): 12:57pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
SweetHearted:werey |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Olisehinnocent: 1:04pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
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Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Nobody: 1:28pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
pcguru1:Gokd afternoon sir,my line is available now. You can call me anytime now |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Sunnybabe(m): 1:33pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
which one is this again I swear problem no dey finish for Naija oo, when u think u have see it all, another one will just arise OP, I think u are suffering from psychological irremediable macaca-: fascicularis abeg don't ask me the meaning |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Psoul(m): 1:51pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
I wish you a wife like Tonto Dikeh |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Ahasco(m): 1:54pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
gaius01: every little thing we term deliverance eh! what about therapy? |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Sarita01(f): 2:06pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
pocohantas: I might have exagerrated the man,woman statement a bit but that doesn't mean it's a myth,I've seen men calling all the shots in a relationship more times than I can count ,but my question is,is he gonna find a woman who could be both dominating and loving,bdsm is only interesting in movies,I'm not really sure his preferences fits into the Nigerian society,can he find a woman who wouldn't take advantage of him cos op seriously needs some harsh loving but can he find a woman who can give him all three(love,respect and torture),most women can easily give out the torture aspect but not the love and respect,especially when they find out he's docile,he's gonna be heart broken most of the time @sweethearted do you also like a woman who'll dominate you in the oda room,more like fem domme role play?and also do you like older women?i'm curious 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Emeka71(m): 2:09pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
SweetHearted:So you enjoy when you are being humiliated by your sisters. |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by pocohantas(f): 2:14pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Sarita01: I was actually in tune with your comments, just saying exceptions apply and it isn’t so strange. Also, you never know what goes on in lots of homes/relationships- except they let you in or make it very obvious. A woman can do certain things while making it look like the husband did it. Na normal package. If OP can find a woman who would do the highlighted, he is fine. Any man/woman that gets a partner who gives them the first two things is in luck. Though most people would generally take advantage of meek partners. Men have been taking advantage of their “submissive” wives since time immemorial and they normalized it. Some are only crying here because they hate to be at the receiving end of a partner that abuses their position. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Greatfullheart: 2:17pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Some people are in the grave wishing they were still Alive, and one guy who's Alive is wishing death for himself, by the time she put you on the ground and start punching u like Anthony Joshua you go know howfa. |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by irrefragable: 2:18pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Skepticus:I declare you WISE among fellow men. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by infometric: 2:21pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
SweetHearted:don't like the one that would kill you o |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Yankee101: 2:25pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Sorry but are you gay? |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by kkins25(m): 2:25pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Sarita01:yep, its definitely not a myth. males are dominant but not in the sense we use it, they are more aggressive and less agreeable than women. women are not submissive in the sense that we are using it, they are rather more agreeable, therefore less likely to put up a fight unlike men. hence men are more aggressive. ITS BIOLOGY! we humans have evolved from a proven animal society of "pecking orders". From the crustaceans like lobsters in the ocean to the chimpanzee in the forest. The phenomenon of dominance and submissiveness is a genetic trait. So you did not exaggerate anything! YOU SPOKE THE BIOLOGICAL TRUTH! I've seen men calling all the shots in a relationship more times than I can count ,but my question is,is he gonna find a woman who could be both dominating and loving,bdsm is only interesting in movies,I'm not really sure his preferences fits into the Nigerian society,can he find a woman who wouldn't take advantage of him cos op seriously needs some harsh loving but can he find a woman who can give him all three(love,respect and torture),most women can easily give out the torture aspect but not the love and respect,especially when they find out he's docile,he's gonna be heart broken most of the timeyou necessarily do not need to see anything because you are absolutely right. Men call the shots. its not Patriarchy, its BIOLOGY! @sweethearted do you also like a woman who'll dominate you in the oda room,more like fem domme role play?and also do you like older women?i'm curiousim sure he does. i would love for him to open a diary!! sweethearted, people of homosexual tendencies, for example; men have been shown to have had a traumatic or an overwhelmingly incident happen to them that leads them to doubt their masculinity and it usually involves And yes there are lots of women who could easily assume the role of a man and exuberant the same amount of aggression... you would definitely find one... look for ladies who engage in sports, like football, weight lifting, boxing, or girls that can fight very well.... 1 Like |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by kkins25(m): 2:28pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
pocohantas:kindly elaborate!! |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by planetx: 2:30pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
You probably also like them kicking you in your nuts. Bros you are sick and need some psychotherapy. 1 Like |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by pocohantas(f): 2:32pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
kkins25: Elaborate what? That Nigerian men/husbands haven’t been the best to their submissive wives? |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Amotolongbo(f): 3:03pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
flyingpig:I'm never a violent and authoritative person |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Incognitress(f): 3:14pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
OP, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you, absolutely nothing. We like what we like, I find it cool that you've come to know who you are and accepted it. There are a lot of males like you, they're just in denial. I only pray you don't get abused. Coz the chances of finding a dominant woman who wouldn't take advantage of your docile nature are slimmmm, especially in Nigeria. Either way, keep living... 1 Like |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Emeraldgreene(f): 3:34pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
[This is Avery ignorant reponsequote author=SILENTandSMART2 post=96168435]How does this concern us bayi o ? Even if you found werey attractive , nah your problem be dat, We're not ready to answer any werey questions, Misplaced priority everywhere You go dey alright lasss lasss [/quote] |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by Loisemm2(f): 3:36pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Lol. When you see violent woman, na you go tire. Nobody will tell you to run after she almost kills you. |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by cococandy(f): 3:41pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
The coolaid is strong with this one Dapcity007: 2 Likes |
Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by kkins25(m): 3:42pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
pocohantas:Yes.. How did you derive this deduction, or was it from nolly wood?? Who has carried out the research? What are the statistics? |
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