₦airaland Forum

michaelpop50:
If you are the one on your profile photo, you don't look like one of those bad ladies that men are complaining about.

OlawaleBammie:


I still dey pity U, a never pity U finish

Goddys:
That's how you girls enter menopause jumping from one man to another in the name of desperation for marriage. A girl that cannot faithfully wait for a man for 4-5 years cuz she's afraid of the future and doesn't trust the man is free to walk

michaelpop50:
Na average looking girls dey get married nowadays. Beautiful girls rarely get married these days.

michaelpop50:
I dey observe her comments na

dangermouse:
The quest to marry an already made man is what is keeping many of them from being married. QED

LizBathory:
Son, they actually deserve better than you. it's better to be single and successful at age 44 than to be tied down with a common riff raff. I'd never advise a woman to date down, she has to be equally yoked with someone on her level. It's you foolish Nigerians that think marriage is the beginning and end of life, I just hope more women come to realise that men aren't worth it, they should focus on their own lives and if the right man comes along, she can move with him. No woman should ever settle for less.

SweetCunt97:
Only few struggling men would wanna marry.

Moogurisar:
If this is the way that things are going to be then we might as well allow polygamous marriages in Nigeria. It seems that the girls are way more than the boys and yet they want to be married. Also I have noticed that these days people do not focus that much on getting marrried. There might come a time when people no longer get married.

lefulefu:
biko dat passage in the bible that had one quote about shortage of men and what the women would do in such days pls can anybody quote that bible passage
i cant seem to remember what passage in the bible is that
biko someone help me here
and by the way any woman saying there is shortage of men is not serious
wen u are looking for men that look like Will Smith or Brad pit and riding the latest Murano jeep and has ten packs with red lips and hairy chest and has the stamina of lexington steel in za oza room plus would die for u like jack did for kate in titanic and intelligent like albert einstein plus a good kisser like LU Min hoe Of korean film romance or wetin be im name again plus have ten billion in his akant biko now many of such men dey common ?
looking for a man dat has all the qualities how possible is dat?
He can be romantic but ugly and caring but poor and has a good heart but he is very short with a pot belly .dats just the way it is.If u are looking for Mr perfect u go wait tire o .

dangermouse:
. Will u wanna marry a struggling man with a bright future?. Most girls rather focus on the made men who already have a woman beside them. What happened to supporting each other and building a home together?.

Gerrard59:
Maybe from your perspective. However, from mine, even those who slept around still got married. Provided they don't exhibit feministic attitudes, those currently unmarried will get married. This "why are men scarce" or "today's women aren't marriageable" starts and ends only social media.

ZINIBANKS:
The point exactly is men are getting wise they will rather prefer the baby mama stuff than to wed you
They already know the marriage is not favouring men again, and worst part of it our economy is not helping cause many graduate are jobless
Person wey no get job tell am say make he go marry he go bang something for your head
And besides when they marry you, you will definitely change in your ways and behaviour

I heard a programm on a radio where they match make people for marriage and believe me the numbers of Ladies that called is more plenty than men I was like WTF
Funniest part they were asked of their age some were even mentioning 43,42,35,32 was just laughing at them cause they ought to peg their age down a bit no man will want to marry those age range of ladies they will prefer those young girls
I pray they all find their soulmate
Cause being single ain't easy at all
Seeing your mate's carrying their baby and you are still in the single zone
That Shit hurt like a motherfucker

LizBathory:
Son, they actually deserve better than you. it's better to be single and successful at age 44 than to be tied down with a common riff raff. I'd never advise a woman to date down, she has to be equally yoked with someone on her level. It's you foolish Nigerians that think marriage is the beginning and end of life, I just hope more women come to realise that men aren't worth it, they should focus on their own lives and if the right man comes along, she can move with him. No woman should ever settle for less.

Lanre6:
at 44? don't forget she is approaching 50 oohh , would you advise your brother to marry such lady ? don't answer with hypocrisy and don't be among the feminists that cry in silent when they see their mates doing fine in marriages but fake things up o a mo iruyin.

ugbede69:
gbam...you just hit the hammer on the nail abi na nail on the hammer...

some are looking for a hushpuppi with a touch of apostle paul

michaelpop50:
Na average looking girls dey get married nowadays. Beautiful girls rarely get married these days.

taskcompleteng:
Research has revealed that some single women are now complaining due to over scarcity of suitors in the country. It is the desire of most ladies to get hooked to a man at certain age brackets for support, procreation and affection. But all around today, we have many single ladies with no suitors. There are many single ladies and as well as bachelors who would want to get married, but the fear of uncertainty of the future of the union have really prevented many from doing so owing to unpredicatable economic situation.

Reports showed that there were enough women and men who really wanted to get married but it appeared both sides do not want to gamble into it to avoid devastating consequences and regrets in the future. One of the ladies, who preferred to be simply called Titi said she had taken the issue of marriage as a do-or-die affair due to “internal pressure” but that as much as she had tried, frustration had often been the result. At 37, the businesswoman who sells clothes in Ikeja, the Lagos State capital in western Nigeria, disclosed that she is not finding life easy.

“What is happiness without a man in a woman’s life?”she asked our correspondent during a chat. She had dated several men with some promising marriage, but without fulfilling the promise.

“You can’t imagine that in the last three years, I have dated about eight men, but the relationship was often short-lived simply because I ask for their commitment.I am not getting any younger and I cry every time I see my mates with their husbands and children.If at 37 I don’t have a child or a permanent man, when would I have them? Is it when my skin has wrinkled? she asked our correspondent

Miss Karia Anumba, 41, lamented that she had lived and changed many cities in Nigeria looking for suitors but those she met were afraid because they were not sure of the future of the marriage. She revealed that she tried to convince and persuade the men she had contact with to make the move and even assured them that she would manage no matter the condition, but regretted that none of them agreed to marry her. Anumba said she quickly relocated to Lagos from Abuja when she realized that she was gradually turning into prostitute because of the drive for marriage.

She explained that since she came to Lagos, she had engaged herself with a work and was still searching for interested men but yet to get one. She narrated that some men who were above 40 years still roamed about and do not want to get married; attributing it to fear and economic condition as most of them were jobless.

Bose (surname withheld), 37, has found herself patronising many of the social interaction sites on the internet.The banker told our correspondent that she is on Eskimi, 2go, Badoo, Whatsapp, Facebook, Twitter as well as 4clique and Instagram just to look for life partner.

“We can’t tell the particular broom in the bunch that kills a fly,” she said on why she patronises such number of social interaction sites. “I always change my name in the different sites but the ultimate goal is to get a husband,” she added. Bose reveals that she is really worried about the situation, adding that she lives comfortably (in a mini-flat and has a car), “but who do I have to enjoy this comfort with me?

“I have tried a hook up programme on a Lagos-based radio station, but my age is now a major factor hindering my dream of being married,” she lamented pleading with our married correspondent, who she considered a bachelor, to “help dry my tears.”

A married woman, who gave her name as Mrs. Blessing Aguebor and resident in Oshodi, confirmed that the issue of lack of serious men for marriage is giving many ladies sleepless nights. She narrated the touching story of her friend who was disappointed by her boyfriend of five years when it was time to “settle down”.

“My friend was 29 when he met this man in Benin and they dated for five years. The man was always giving the lady hope without her knowing the man had other plans. The year he fixed for their marriage was the year he travelled abroad without even informing my friend. It was later he called her and asked her to find another man because he still had many more years to hustle. My friend almost went mad. She is 36 now without a man. I had to convince her to relocate to Lagos so that possibly out of the population here, she would find someone. It is pathetic,” she said.

A 38-year old business woman in Ketu, narrated how she lost her first husband to a friend, Idayat, who was desperate for a husband. According to Mrs. Adewunmi who remarried last year, Idayat was 36 and needed a husband but her search was endless.

“I was always encouraging her and made her a part of my family. She would always help me take care of the kids when I go to the market. With time, she took over my husband without my knowledge until the day I caught them red-handed and that was the end of my marriage. Ladies are like hunters these days,” she said.

Asked why she was not married at 34, Blessing, a nurse with a private hospital in Abuja, retorted: “that is why I’m on this social site. Why are you asking? Is it a bad idea if you propose to me?”

She explained that life was becoming unbearable without a husband.

“My friends and family members are aways asking when they would come and ‘chop’ rice, and I keep hoping,” she added.

A marriage counsellor in Lagos, Mrs. Victoria Aliu, told P.M.NEWS that scarcity of ‘real men’ is becoming a terrible condition for women ready for marriage. She blamed the problem partly on the Nigerian economy, confusion among the bachelors on their choices of the women they want as wives and the attitudes of the spinsters.

“Many women, whether consciously or not, behave irritably sometimes, forgetting that the man just beside them at every point in time may just have been nursing how to start a conversation that could lead to marriage. Some other ladies are very choosy and unserious at their early stages of adulthood. They only open their eyes to discover that their friends are all married and that they are the only ones left at the bus stop. Then it becomes a terrible case for them,” she explained.

With the above examples, do you sincerely think that there is scarcity of men for ladied in Nigeria?…..kindly share your opinion with us below

fati2001:
HOLY GHOST FIRE.














NAH ONLY NIGERIA MEN DY EARTH ABI?

Kenplay:
baby, I hope you are reading about the scarcity of men. Accept me now before its too late.
Am your palliative come and loot me baby

Gerrard59:
Same here and I'm surprised that considering the social distancing measures in place, people still congregate to get married. These articles about people not marrying or men are scarce or women are slutty starts and ends on social media. In reality, people still get married in huge numbers.

COOL10:
They date older men in their youth and expect to settle down with their mates when they're hitting 35 upwards.

Una never start to dey cry

fati2001:
HOLY GHOST FIRE.
we are ready but what we are not ready for is the dramma









CRY ME A RIVER.






NAH ONLY NIGERIA MEN DY EARTH ABI?





WHEN MOST OF EM" DON'T HAVE HUMAN BEING SYMPATHY ESPECIALLY SOME OF EM" HERE ON THIS FORUM....... THEY BE TAKING EVERYTHING ON GRADATED, SPEAKING ILLNESS, JOKING AROUND WHEN SITUATIONS ARE HOT, NOTHING ELSE APART FROM COMMENTING ABOUT RUBBISH, COMPARING HUMAN WITH ANOTHER,WHEN MOST ARE NOT SERIOUS IN LIFE,BLAMING THE GOVERNMENT AND OTHER HUMANS FOR THEIR DOWN FALL.

SweetCunt97:
See its shouldn't b about the now but d future. Men who are still struggling are usually distracted by their immediate situation and tend to push a good woman away

JordanMichael:
With all sincerity, momey is the reason am still not married. If any lady can offer me Job that'll fetch me stable income I'll marry her. Age no problem. 08063943708

Stephenomozzy:
The poor ones have a leech mentality,

The rich ones feel they don't really need a man if he's not 10x richer than herself - they start acting fake feminism

The Middle class one are still trying to decide

taskcompleteng:
Research has revealed that some single women are now complaining due to over scarcity of suitors in the country. It is the desire of most ladies to get hooked to a man at certain age brackets for support, procreation and affection. But all around today, we have many single ladies with no suitors. There are many single ladies and as well as bachelors who would want to get married, but the fear of uncertainty of the future of the union have really prevented many from doing so owing to unpredicatable economic situation.

Reports showed that there were enough women and men who really wanted to get married but it appeared both sides do not want to gamble into it to avoid devastating consequences and regrets in the future. One of the ladies, who preferred to be simply called Titi said she had taken the issue of marriage as a do-or-die affair due to “internal pressure” but that as much as she had tried, frustration had often been the result. At 37, the businesswoman who sells clothes in Ikeja, the Lagos State capital in western Nigeria, disclosed that she is not finding life easy.

“What is happiness without a man in a woman’s life?”she asked our correspondent during a chat. She had dated several men with some promising marriage, but without fulfilling the promise.

“You can’t imagine that in the last three years, I have dated about eight men, but the relationship was often short-lived simply because I ask for their commitment.I am not getting any younger and I cry every time I see my mates with their husbands and children.If at 37 I don’t have a child or a permanent man, when would I have them? Is it when my skin has wrinkled? she asked our correspondent

Miss Karia Anumba, 41, lamented that she had lived and changed many cities in Nigeria looking for suitors but those she met were afraid because they were not sure of the future of the marriage. She revealed that she tried to convince and persuade the men she had contact with to make the move and even assured them that she would manage no matter the condition, but regretted that none of them agreed to marry her. Anumba said she quickly relocated to Lagos from Abuja when she realized that she was gradually turning into prostitute because of the drive for marriage.

She explained that since she came to Lagos, she had engaged herself with a work and was still searching for interested men but yet to get one. She narrated that some men who were above 40 years still roamed about and do not want to get married; attributing it to fear and economic condition as most of them were jobless.

Bose (surname withheld), 37, has found herself patronising many of the social interaction sites on the internet.The banker told our correspondent that she is on Eskimi, 2go, Badoo, Whatsapp, Facebook, Twitter as well as 4clique and Instagram just to look for life partner.

“We can’t tell the particular broom in the bunch that kills a fly,” she said on why she patronises such number of social interaction sites. “I always change my name in the different sites but the ultimate goal is to get a husband,” she added. Bose reveals that she is really worried about the situation, adding that she lives comfortably (in a mini-flat and has a car), “but who do I have to enjoy this comfort with me?

“I have tried a hook up programme on a Lagos-based radio station, but my age is now a major factor hindering my dream of being married,” she lamented pleading with our married correspondent, who she considered a bachelor, to “help dry my tears.”

A married woman, who gave her name as Mrs. Blessing Aguebor and resident in Oshodi, confirmed that the issue of lack of serious men for marriage is giving many ladies sleepless nights. She narrated the touching story of her friend who was disappointed by her boyfriend of five years when it was time to “settle down”.

“My friend was 29 when he met this man in Benin and they dated for five years. The man was always giving the lady hope without her knowing the man had other plans. The year he fixed for their marriage was the year he travelled abroad without even informing my friend. It was later he called her and asked her to find another man because he still had many more years to hustle. My friend almost went mad. She is 36 now without a man. I had to convince her to relocate to Lagos so that possibly out of the population here, she would find someone. It is pathetic,” she said.

A 38-year old business woman in Ketu, narrated how she lost her first husband to a friend, Idayat, who was desperate for a husband. According to Mrs. Adewunmi who remarried last year, Idayat was 36 and needed a husband but her search was endless.

“I was always encouraging her and made her a part of my family. She would always help me take care of the kids when I go to the market. With time, she took over my husband without my knowledge until the day I caught them red-handed and that was the end of my marriage. Ladies are like hunters these days,” she said.

Asked why she was not married at 34, Blessing, a nurse with a private hospital in Abuja, retorted: “that is why I’m on this social site. Why are you asking? Is it a bad idea if you propose to me?”

She explained that life was becoming unbearable without a husband.

“My friends and family members are aways asking when they would come and ‘chop’ rice, and I keep hoping,” she added.

A marriage counsellor in Lagos, Mrs. Victoria Aliu, told P.M.NEWS that scarcity of ‘real men’ is becoming a terrible condition for women ready for marriage. She blamed the problem partly on the Nigerian economy, confusion among the bachelors on their choices of the women they want as wives and the attitudes of the spinsters.

“Many women, whether consciously or not, behave irritably sometimes, forgetting that the man just beside them at every point in time may just have been nursing how to start a conversation that could lead to marriage. Some other ladies are very choosy and unserious at their early stages of adulthood. They only open their eyes to discover that their friends are all married and that they are the only ones left at the bus stop. Then it becomes a terrible case for them,” she explained.

With the above examples, do you sincerely think that there is scarcity of men for ladied in Nigeria?…..kindly share your opinion with us below