FanOfMyself:

okay, you have a computer system? are you ready to dedicate at least 4 hours everyday to learn and practice? and finally you have to pay just a token to purchase the training courses (in video formats)? four courses to bring you from novice to intermediate level, each course will cost you 2k totaling 8k. Then I will be giving you exercises and mini projects to do after the first three courses. I will be available to answer ALL of your questions. I will link you up with other students learning under me so that you guys can stay motivated. let me know if you are in....They good thing is that you will still keep your job at least until when you have become an expert and start working full time as a software developer

Mujinho4b:
Simple Advice:
Leave the girl, focus on yourself. Pray for a Lady that would be working, love you and be contented with what you have.
Your Salary is ok for a start, except if you are staying in Abuja or Lagos.
Any other state, 80k is enough for a start.. As you are focusing on your self. Save money to venture into farming. Half of your salary is 400k in 10 months. In 10months you can learn any type of farming you want to do. Process all these FG funds for Agro. Get a plot of land.. and you are good to go.
The girl and her family would regret.

Asour:


To be true (depending on the state he resides in) he can afford to in many Nigerian states.

However this is NOT without qualifications. E.g.
No children for a while., A Rather minimalist lifestyle and commitment to save and improve earnings.

Now the MAJOR issue is the Nigerian society. One element of our cultural thinking that has become a trap is the clamour for large weddings.

It's hard to argue that a Wedding is usually the average Nigerian [Youth's] Single largest Project. And this project ends in a day or 2!

It's a Big war to do any different. Society (including family) would fight back.

God help us.

Jidkidz:
can I have your number please

chiomaP:

I've done something like that, can you do it?

melaxy:
I earn an average of 150-200k monthly in bizness although i still feel i am not strong financially to get married. I employed someone and started him with 20k monthly and he told me he is traveling next month to see his supposed to be father in law. I was suprised. With 20k? I learnt something. Money or whatever you earn wont stop you from getting married otherwise that boy wont think of going to see his in law to be. Its continuing the process trusting God and doing your best.if she is avoiding marriage plans at 80k, you will go through fire when you loose your job. Some dissapointment are blessings in disguise

Heryormilekan:


Wow! You're smart. I finished service this year also, have been freelancing on upwork prior to my service year, I also blog and do domaining. You can check nairaland business section there are some embedded mini importation threads there.

Please do apply for available vacancies in my field too.

Heryormilekan:


Yes

yomi007k:
Brother. Go for thanksgiving.

oceanized25:
While 80k is not really high, it is not abominable for marriage either...i find It strange that people(most)are shouting"go look for money first,focus on money",I will bet my balls that they(some)don't have such regular amount coming in monthly...because others are talking, they also want to feel among.

Op,it's is alright to try n increase or better your income, but don't think the money is not enough for starters(just you n wife)most of those niggars talking up n down there will kill to be in your position...see them rushing for N-power n u will understand.

Kenmatt:
Let me tell you the gospel truth.

You are a less man, therefore, you have to "man up".

What is actually affecting you is low self esteem. 80k salary is not a small money. Monthly for that matter.

How much are civil servants receiving?

Or is it the name of the work you do that is getting you down casted? "Security administrator?" SECURITY!

With 80k monthly, I can rule my World, even marry and control that Obama only daughter.

thesicilian:
With the marriage plans, it seems you were heading into the life of the average Nigerian family man living daily from hand to mouth and praying fervently for the next day's meal. Thank God for your girlfriend and in-laws who God has used to redeem you (whether their intentions are genuine or not).
TD Jakes Sermons
My advice to you is that you should invest most of your salary into marketable skills, keep your certificates aside for now. Learn a skill that you know can set you up within 6months to 1yr and then start your own business based on that skill. It could be in IT, Real estate, engineering, construction, general grade, etc, just something with good potentials that God can bless for you.

FanOfMyself:

Oh my nigga... Socrates/Pluto

Afikoo:
.

I am 32. I have been working for 7 years here. Also working while in school. Just finished last year and got a pay rise to 80k as security administrator.

Baba, my issue isn't the marriage. My issue is the money. I am desperately asking on how best improve my income. Concrete suggestions on what I need to lay my hands on now to get started. I am tire of submitting applications

kushme:


True, but it's a crazy reality to see that our feelings as humans are so attached to material things.. Insatiable humans everywhere.

I see my Mama dey use just two Maggi cook pot of soup in the 90s.. Till this day, I still use two Maggi some times three based on quantity whenever I get time to cook (kitchen practical) .

Only for a dude and his chic to visit few days ago, and they used more than 4 Maggi to cook pasta.
Them laugh me when I asked say, shey the Maggi no plenty so..

Ebenezer2021:
the world has changed and with this mentality of yours you'll have to stay long before you get a simp for marriage.
The house chores you are good at could actually be done by the housemaid while you go out and also hustle and bring money home.
Men don wise up and no man needs a liability anymore.

ThaThinka:


You wan come?

So if I married you now, na so you no go wan work?

Assisted, yes. Nobody is asking you to take care of the entire family. Just contribute your quota, even if it's only for yourself.

Front0lane:


After several years of olosho run on n off Tinder FB Instagram Badoo Codedruns n Co.

Elui2:

If you have a laptop to use and some cash to spare,you can hit me up on WhatsApp,i will teach you e-commerce (mini-importation and how to sell through facebook ads)

miidae:
80k?? When the lady has no source of income don't even try it

Kaeboy:
A family that has a jobless daughter who can't boost of half of your income monthly is throwing you into depression because of your finances. . You need prayers.

Heryormilekan:


Wow! You're smart. I finished service this year also, have been freelancing on upwork prior to my service year, I also blog and do domaining. You can check nairaland business section there are some embedded mini importation threads there.

Please do apply for available vacancies in my field too.

PeachtreeReside:



Is she a graduate?
This your condition is not because of village people or because you are lazy .

Our leaders are the cause of it.
Think digital. Write a history related book.

ford101:
go to YouTube search for WordPress website. development

Sixfeetbelle:


Didn't I just say I will assist in your farm if you had one?


Define "contribute" cause all I'm seeing here is you wanting the wife to work and earn salary too. That's not the direction I'm going though.


What happened to traditional men?

Ebenezer2021:
another luxurious slay queen spotted

Ebenezer2021:
Gbam.
I used YouTube to self learn Corel draw and graphic designing, didn't bother wasting my resources to con men.
Airtel and MTN night data would do the trick

miidae:

Ode.. I earn almost twice as a salary with an official car not to talk of my business side hustle
who would like to settle for a broke nigga like you?
everybody na slay queen