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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by bigl: 10:21pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Afikoo: Take things slow bro .... and irrespective of whether u love her or not, suspend the wedding for now .... Re-evaluate your inlaws actions and consider the future ... What if they have another suitor for your so called babe? See, 80k is pretty decent amount ... When i got married, i was earning 50k and life no end .... But for your inlaws to be acting up at this time and stage? U need to look at things critically 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Marofav(m): 10:27pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Go into Investment bro. Invest in Beurax especially. Call me up at 08165830404 for further talks and I'd tell you more. You mustn't earn from your sweat all the time. To be financially free is to have the freedom of time. That's my philosophy and it's worked for me for years Afikoo: |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Nobody: 10:37pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Afikoo: 80k income for this kind hard period and you are still complaining? Don't let me cry for you o. Many unemployed graduates see you as a big man and could only wish to be like you |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Chigorkizz(m): 10:37pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by ufotty2001: 10:38pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Nigeria is d only country where a girl will be a tailor and the family will expect her to marry Dangote son 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by FRANKOSKI(m): 10:38pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
WAKE HER UP AROUND 1AM AND TELL HER YOU WANT TO SUSPENDED THE MARRIAGE PLANS AND HEAR WHAT SHE'S GONNA SAY.... CITING THE LATEST DEVELOPMENT |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Eking: 10:56pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by ThaThinka: 10:58pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: You wan come? So if I married you now, na so you no go wan work? Assisted, yes. Nobody is asking you to take care of the entire family. Just contribute your quota, even if it's only for yourself. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by omotola90(m): 11:10pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
oceanized25:lol...you know people can type anything just to trend |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by omotola90(m): 11:15pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl:he surely has a good chance of getting a good job at that age.... Street smartness, certificate, connection, going for outreach, self belief and Above all God can get him a good job |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by ticker(m): 11:18pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
thesicilian:real estate? how? |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by OvisFranko: 11:18pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by thesicilian: 11:28pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
ticker: Notatribalist:He's not going into real estate with 80k, the advise is to learn a skill in real estate that can set him up later. For example, he can take a short course in real estate marketing. In Lagos (don't know about other states) there are many real estate companies that will teach you in-depth tactics, and skills to succeed in real estate while paying you good commission to help market their properties, while keeping your normal job. That's just an example. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Lifepodcastng: 11:29pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
I feel like you’re just too concerned about the money that you’re not looking straight. Your girl put you down bc of money and you’re fidgeting? Lmao. Shior. If I see that 80k steady money add to myself now, every girl in Nigeria will beg to marry me. You better throw away that babe and find better woman. It’s like you people do not look straight. If she was earning atleast 60 already then you guys can raise 140 monthly and with that you can start a wonderful life. Do a small court wedding and save at least 50k every month. Since you’re security, you don’t even need much, buy in bulk and stay true to yourself and your wife. Do not let anyone lie to you. You’re doing ok. Life is not enjoyed at the top, the beauty of life is at the bottom and if you’re average then you’re blessed. I’m still baffled sef. The fact that you did not even think of the insult dey pain me honestly. The girl family no think say their pikin useless, them dey find person wey go die for their child. See that family have lost respect for you. You’re sounding defeated sef from your write up. Personally if I see steady that that your money ehn, ha person go die. You think the charisma in men has anything to do with their money? I do not see that charisma in you. At least not from this post. You people think it’s easy to be a man? You’re a grown man, 32 for that matter, do you know how many lady will be praying to see a man like you? See I have a friend who’s 29 and looking for a serious and godlike relationship. If you are sound minded and focused in life, women should troop before you. You throw away disloyalty to talk about money? If I catch that your babe ehn, I go twisted head, she go see say men different from men. Nonsense. You think say na money dey sustain life or relationship? Mehn if you’re not wise, or understand life, you’ll keep being a puppet for your wife and her family. Person wey no respect you when you get can never respect you even when you have, if they latter do then it’s totally fake. Call that babe, tell am to give you your ring back. Tell her you want to be alone for a while, take that time read more, sharpen yourself and get to know Christ and you’ll see women beg you to marry them. Afikoo: |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by bigiyaro(m): 11:32pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
What of folks that are earning minimum wage? |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Melvis100(m): 11:33pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
You don't need a better job.. You need an idea... Go and try Agriculture or charcoal bizness .. Thank me later... Or chat me up for more information |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Nobody: 11:35pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by ElGood: 11:36pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
U r earning 80k and u are still complaining. U no serious. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by thesicilian: 11:38pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Tadeknkeepcalm:everyone who chooses to be rich and makes the necessary sacrifices will be rich isn't wealth relative?so? He's not happy with where he is, he has a right to step up his quality of life, don't you agree? so what if all these options fail. he should never get married? note: this guy is not dirt poor what if he succeeds? should he wait until he's dirt poor before he starts planning for his life? How go you expect a full grown man to take care of himself, parents, wife, children, taxes, electricity, cable, and a million other bills from a salary of 80k? |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by AfroKnight: 11:38pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Afikoo: It appears you are considering moving to tech. That’s nice. Bro, you are not too old to switch careers. Just plan. Ask questions about the new field. Plan your career path. Put it in writing and follow it. Edit your plans as you get more knowledgeable about your new field. More importantly, don’t be afraid. All the best. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by yakson123: 11:45pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Afikoo:First of all congratulations that you have inlaws who want your good Brother drop your mind set of salary and turn to an igbo man Do business Nigeria graduates do business leave all this ideas of i must have good job to marry Who will now create the job for your brothers and sisters and kids Do business. Ooo we are in a country that is not a country make una leave salary do business ooo Hurzul ooo Hmmmmm 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by chiomaP(f): 12:05am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Dear op, 80k isn't a small amount at all, as you have been advised get a skill , improve yourself..be a better you,o finished serving this year,all through my youth service I kept saving ,I received 25k from my PPA + my allawee,I saved up and started importation business,I didn't wait for any white collar job because I know they're none,yes I'm a lady,that just clocked 23, that's supposed to be concerned with material things, but that didn't stop me from doing something little for myself,my business is still going, atleast I don't have to ask a dime for any man..So please don't feel pressured and be a better you. 6 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by stanisbaratheon: 12:05am On Nov 21, 2020 |
OP why the rush?? Me that is earning more than you is not even looking for a wife until I get a higher paying job. My advise, wait it out and see if she's creative enough to start earning her own money before thinking of marriage. I've always said it here that the biggest mistake any young man would make in today's Nigeria is to marry a woman that do not have handwork nor source of income. 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Nobody: 12:09am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Chummynoni:
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Nobody: 12:14am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Lifepodcastng: This is the best comment here |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Nobody: 12:16am On Nov 21, 2020 |
A family that has a jobless daughter who can't boost of half of your income monthly is throwing you into depression because of your finances. . You need prayers. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Heryormilekan(m): 12:23am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Wow |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by chiomaP(f): 12:25am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Heryormilekan:Thank you ☺️� Well-done dear, we will all survive. 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Heryormilekan(m): 12:26am On Nov 21, 2020 |
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Brio984(m): 12:27am On Nov 21, 2020 |
FanOfMyself: am interested sir |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by chiomaP(f): 12:33am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Heryormilekan:Do you mean sponsored page? |
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