Zzor:
Thanks but I don't have enemies here, you all are too sensitive

That guy and his supposed mother are all scammers.

Zzor:
Good morning to you all, I know i would get a correct advise and steps to take here over my mistakes. I met this man who lives and work in the US on one of the social media networks and we became chat buddies, strictly platonic and nothing more, he told me how he lost his wife to cancer some years back and have been unable to remarry, he told me about his only child (a girl) who lives with his mum here in Nigeria, I get to know much about him from our chats and I realized he has not seen his daughter for some years now and there was no communication with his daughter for almost two years. The reason was that the mum told him never to call her again since he has refused to remarry and will only speak with him when he has found a wife, he's the only child of the mum and they are from a very wealthy home, the mum is eager and so desperate for more kids from him (you understand how our mothers behave on issues like this). During one of our conversation, he suddenly asked if I would consider him for marriage and I replied with a solid No, he then begged me to play along as he intends Introducing me to the mum as his fiancee just so he could speak with his daughter, he sent me crying videos of how he misses his daughter and how his mom kept to her words, I sympathized with him and saw the eagerness and somehow I agreed to speak with the mom and play along so he will achieve his aim of speaking with his daughter. The next day his mum called and I could hear the excitement in her voice, she was so happy and didn't even care of other things, she spent more than an hour with me on phone and told me alot, by this time I was already scared but can't withdraw. That was the beginning of this whole problems, his mum now call me on daily basis, through her I have spoken with aunties and uncles of this man I haven't even met, recently she sent someone in my location to check on me and she brought really expensive gifts for me,she wanted to visit me but I somehow was able to convince her that she should wait till her son comes back which is next month. I have complained to this man of how he got me into a trap I didn't bargain for and he keeps begging and sending crying videos and telling me to do this for him so as to establish once more a good relationship with his mom and daughter and that when he comes back, he will sort out everything. Now this whole thing has really weigh me down, I don't sleep well anymore, I've lost weight and my heart skips each time my phone rings, my mum keeps asking me if anything is wrong but I can't get to tell her, I'm depressed already. Please help me with advise on what to do and how best to remove myself from all this. Please don't bash me and I'm not a good writer too, pardon me.

I don't like wasting my precious time commenting on fake stories like this.

But to play along, madam so many red flags but I believe you are enjoying the gifts and money. If not how in the whole wide world will u agree to this ludicrous idea.

End every attempt of seeing that guy cuz he will deceive you more physically to do what you ain't for. If he can do that remotely I wonder what will happen physically.
And again that family is a sick one.

Don't end up on the pages of our national dailies of another pretty face (I guess) cut short.

Money dey entice you. Go and work for your own woman. And dont be our next imprisoned wifey

MedicH:


That guy and his supposed mother are all scammers.

though I still don't believe he's a scammer because of what I've known and confirm about him and his family but I will be very careful.Thanks my arc enemy lol

@Op don't worry, when the mystery man comes back home from US he'll fvck and impregnate you.. then you'll come back to tell us how he begged you to put the tip of his dlck in your pvssy.

Just start preparing yourself for marriage. It's that simple.

Just run. They did it to somebody I know. The script is to get your trust . Very soon he will tell u his mother is dying in the hospital that you should help send money to save his mother that he can't send money from his location. This is high class fraud. Run away.

Continue playing along for a while. Collect some more gifts. The mother who uses the grandchild to manipulate her son deserves it.

Kenplay:

Zzor is a man pretending to be a female, dont be deceived by her fake story

How true is this?

I've noticed different people saying the same thing...

mariahAngel:


How true is this?

I've noticed different people saying the same thing...

Its true dear, Zzor has been busted several times here but he always rush to edit those comment when he realise he is using a female moniker.
Zzor is a man using a female moniker

Kenplay:

Its true dear, Zzor has been busted several times here but he always rush to edit those comment when he realise he is using a female moniker.
Zzor is a man using a female moniker

Is he/she the same person as Biancan?

Zzor, so you're a male posing as a "naive" female?

mariahAngel:


Is he/she the same person as Biancan?

Zzor, so you're a male posing as a "naive" female?

So you just know? Most people here have found out long ago.

I can understand what you're going through and I understand what the man is going through but my dear it's time to tell the truth and set yourself free. I hope you make a good decision.

Zzor:
Good morning to you all, I know i would get a correct advise and steps to take here over my mistakes. I met this man who lives and work in the US on one of the social media networks and we became chat buddies, strictly platonic and nothing more, he told me how he lost his wife to cancer some years back and have been unable to remarry, he told me about his only child (a girl) who lives with his mum here in Nigeria, I get to know much about him from our chats and I realized he has not seen his daughter for some years now and there was no communication with his daughter for almost two years. The reason was that the mum told him never to call her again since he has refused to remarry and will only speak with him when he has found a wife, he's the only child of the mum and they are from a very wealthy home, the mum is eager and so desperate for more kids from him (you understand how our mothers behave on issues like this). During one of our conversation, he suddenly asked if I would consider him for marriage and I replied with a solid No, he then begged me to play along as he intends Introducing me to the mum as his fiancee just so he could speak with his daughter, he sent me crying videos of how he misses his daughter and how his mom kept to her words, I sympathized with him and saw the eagerness and somehow I agreed to speak with the mom and play along so he will achieve his aim of speaking with his daughter. The next day his mum called and I could hear the excitement in her voice, she was so happy and didn't even care of other things, she spent more than an hour with me on phone and told me alot, by this time I was already scared but can't withdraw. That was the beginning of this whole problems, his mum now call me on daily basis, through her I have spoken with aunties and uncles of this man I haven't even met, recently she sent someone in my location to check on me and she brought really expensive gifts for me,she wanted to visit me but I somehow was able to convince her that she should wait till her son comes back which is next month. I have complained to this man of how he got me into a trap I didn't bargain for and he keeps begging and sending crying videos and telling me to do this for him so as to establish once more a good relationship with his mom and daughter and that when he comes back, he will sort out everything. Now this whole thing has really weigh me down, I don't sleep well anymore, I've lost weight and my heart skips each time my phone rings, my mum keeps asking me if anything is wrong but I can't get to tell her, I'm depressed already. Please help me with advise on what to do and how best to remove myself from all this. Please don't bash me and I'm not a good writer too, pardon me.

Why do I find this story very hard to believe??

Uwa, I don't believe this story at all at all.

fati2001:
JUST TELL THE WOMAN (THE MAN MOTHER) EVERYTHING BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE TO TURN BACK.

If someone else posted this. You would have displayed your scallywag attitude here.

Zzor It's a Professional 419 setup. Do not fall for it, cut all communications. Thet use a thick smoke screen, it's happened to someone before. They would soon BILL you

Ishilove:
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Why do I find this story very hard to believe??

Uwa, I don't believe this story at all at all.

It's a Professional 419 setup. Please tell her to run for her life. They would soon bill her with mummy in the hospital story with the child crying in the background. Zzor RuN

Zzor:
Good morning to you all, I know i would get a correct advise and steps to take here over my mistakes. I met this man who lives and work in the US on one of the social media networks and we became chat buddies, strictly platonic and nothing more, he told me how he lost his wife to cancer some years back and have been unable to remarry, he told me about his only child (a girl) who lives with his mum here in Nigeria, I get to know much about him from our chats and I realized he has not seen his daughter for some years now and there was no communication with his daughter for almost two years. The reason was that the mum told him never to call her again since he has refused to remarry and will only speak with him when he has found a wife, he's the only child of the mum and they are from a very wealthy home, the mum is eager and so desperate for more kids from him (you understand how our mothers behave on issues like this). During one of our conversation, he suddenly asked if I would consider him for marriage and I replied with a solid No, he then begged me to play along as he intends Introducing me to the mum as his fiancee just so he could speak with his daughter, he sent me crying videos of how he misses his daughter and how his mom kept to her words, I sympathized with him and saw the eagerness and somehow I agreed to speak with the mom and play along so he will achieve his aim of speaking with his daughter. The next day his mum called and I could hear the excitement in her voice, she was so happy and didn't even care of other things, she spent more than an hour with me on phone and told me alot, by this time I was already scared but can't withdraw. That was the beginning of this whole problems, his mum now call me on daily basis, through her I have spoken with aunties and uncles of this man I haven't even met, recently she sent someone in my location to check on me and she brought really expensive gifts for me,she wanted to visit me but I somehow was able to convince her that she should wait till her son comes back which is next month. I have complained to this man of how he got me into a trap I didn't bargain for and he keeps begging and sending crying videos and telling me to do this for him so as to establish once more a good relationship with his mom and daughter and that when he comes back, he will sort out everything. Now this whole thing has really weigh me down, I don't sleep well anymore, I've lost weight and my heart skips each time my phone rings, my mum keeps asking me if anything is wrong but I can't get to tell her, I'm depressed already. Please help me with advise on what to do and how best to remove myself from all this. Please don't bash me and I'm not a good writer too, pardon me.

I know am not your best friend here but it will end in scam the guy want to scam you but your brain will not tell you this part .... sha zzor or zero, zoro

Ishilove:

Why do I find this story very hard to believe??

Uwa, I don't believe this story at all at all.

Lol...

This lady and her never ending stories. At least you agree this one happened to you and not a fictional friend.

Ishilove:

Why do I find this story very hard to believe??

Uwa, I don't believe this story at all at all.

Im not even a good writer in the first place not to talk of fabricating something like this, he works in an oil field in California, I've done some video calls with him in his office and on the field, he's from bauchi state, I still don't want to believe it's a scam because of what I've known about the family, I have a friend who is from the same place with him and she knows their family, his late dad is a prominent man, this has weighed me down, it's like I'm in a trap, the mom already see me as her daughter inlaw to be, I've seen her pictures and did several video calls with her and the mans daughter, his mom is a respected woman, it's not a scam but I will try and exercise patient till next month, guilt won't let me rest, I don't sleep well anymore, I've lost weight, maybe I will tell my pastor today, I can't tell mum because of the unending sermons that will follow.

TATALoAlaMu:
It's a 419 Syndicate

Which 419 will send me a watery sum of amount but had to reject it,which 419 will send you an expensive gold necklace and wristwatches,which 419 will show you his houses and you will be seeing his pictures in the sitting room, that of his mum, daughter and later dad, which 419 will show you videos of him crying at his wife's funeral. It's not 419, I just want to somehow get the mum off my back and stop all the games, I feel she doesn't deserve that betrayal, I didn't know how I got so far in all this

Blackbishop:



I don't like wasting my precious time commenting on fake stories like this.

But to play along, madam so many red flags but I believe you are enjoying the gifts and money. If not how in the whole wide world will u agree to this ludicrous idea.

End every attempt of seeing that guy cuz he will deceive you more physically to do what you ain't for. If he can do that remotely I wonder what will happen physically.
And again that family is a sick one.

Don't end up on the pages of our national dailies of another pretty face (I guess) cut short.

Money dey entice you. Go and work for your own woman. And dont be our next imprisoned wifey

I wish it was fake so I can get back my peace of mind but this is my current predicament, and it's not a scam as most of you thought ,by 2am I'm up these days, I've cried alot and my mom is secretly suspecting something is wrong with me but I can't get myself to tell her, I want to relate everything with my pastor today and beg him not to involve my mom

Zzor:
I wish it was fake so I can get back my peace of mind but this is my current predicament, and it's not a scam as most of you thought ,by 2am I'm up these days, I've cried alot and my mom is secretly suspecting something is wrong with me but I can't get myself to tell her, I want to relate everything with my pastor today and beg him not to involve my mom

My dear cut all forms of communication now before its too late. Don't let what they are bringing on the table move you. "NOT ALL THAT GLITTERS IS GOLD

Blackbishop:


My dear cut all forms of communication now before its too late. Don't let what they are bringing on the table move you. "NOT ALL THAT GLITTERS IS GOLD

Thanks,i wish it was that easy, the mum is my major problem, I would have long change my number but I can't for now and she already sent a family member of hers to know my place, this woman is already pampering me so much, I speak with her and the man's daughter everyday,she gists me unnecessarily,that excitement is all over her and the guilt I feel every time has become unbearable.I will tell my pastor everything today and see how he can help me

Zzor:
I don't want to because I can't have anything with him, he already has a child, I'm too young for that

You honestly don't sound like a good person to me.
So, cos he has a child from his previous marriage is the main reason why u can't have a relationship with him cos u feel you're too young to mingle with a man who has a child. You simply saying you can't accept another's child as your own. Damn, that's very selfish of you. I'd advice you work on your mindset. Its bad!
I forgot to mention. You even said he is your kind of man. Your only problem is cos he is not too religious and he has a child.
Then I wonder the kind of person you are if this is your only major concern!

My only advice to you is, don't mess the Game you agreed to be part of.
At least be patient till he comes back.
Don't be quick to rule him off. He might actually be your destined husband. Some times Godswill comes disguised. You may fall inlove with him when you see him in person and that might change everything for you. Just relax...
The only thing is, you tell him that he got to tell his mom the truth once he has seen his daughter. Cos u can't continue to live with the guilt. Let him explain to his mom that you're his good friend and not his lover. That settles it all.
Don't be afraid to go with him to see his mum. The poor woman already likes you. You guys could become good family friends that's if it doesn't end up as inlaws.
Na wisdom I don pour for you so o. If u like hear!

A word is enough for the wise h

Zzor:
Which 419 will send me a watery sum of amount but had to reject it,which 419 will send you an expensive gold necklace and wristwatches,which 419 will show you his houses and you will be seeing his pictures in the sitting room, that of his mum, daughter and later dad, which 419 will show you videos of him crying at his wife's funeral. It's not 419, I just want to somehow get the mum off my back and stop all the games, I feel she doesn't deserve that betrayal, I didn't know how I got so far in all this

Waiting for your I got scammed and heartbroken thread

Zzor:
Im not even a good writer in the first place not to talk of fabricating something like this, he works in an oil field in California, I've done some video calls with him in his office and on the field, he's from bauchi state, I still don't want to believe it's a scam because of what I've known about the family, I have a friend who is from the same place with him and she knows their family, his late dad is a prominent man, this has weighed me down, it's like I'm in a trap, the mom already see me as her daughter inlaw to be, I've seen her pictures and did several video calls with her and the mans daughter, his mom is a respected woman, it's not a scam but I will try and exercise patient till next month, guilt won't let me rest, I don't sleep well anymore, I've lost weight, maybe I will tell my pastor today, I can't tell mum because of the unending sermons that will follow.

How can a man be so weak as to allow his mother hijack his daughter?

Develop military mind. Shikena.

I still don't believe this story

Zzor:
Im not even a good writer in the first place not to talk of fabricating something like this, he works in an oil field in California, I've done some video calls with him in his office and on the field, he's from bauchi state, I still don't want to believe it's a scam because of what I've known about the family, I have a friend who is from the same place with him and she knows their family, his late dad is a prominent man, this has weighed me down, it's like I'm in a trap, the mom already see me as her daughter inlaw to be, I've seen her pictures and did several video calls with her and the mans daughter, his mom is a respected woman, it's not a scam but I will try and exercise patient till next month, guilt won't let me rest, I don't sleep well anymore, I've lost weight, maybe I will tell my pastor today, I can't tell mum because of the unending sermons that will follow.

Auntie, there are two things involved. One it's either your story is made up, or two you are about to fall into a very terrible syndicate, you'll find extremely difficult to pull out from, you've been mapped and they'll use you. You should have asked yourself, which grandmother holds her granddaughter to hostage abi bait to make her son remarry, doesn't it sound weird to you. He works in an oil coy abroud, family is rich, from bauchi state, and you think these category of Hausa/fulani blueblood will find love online and their folks will agree

Ishilove:

How can a man be so weak as to allow his mother hijack his daughter?

Develop military mind. Shikena.

I still don't believe this story

hmm I'm tired of the whole thing already, the mum knew that's the best way to get him down to remarry, he's her only child, I wish I can reveal his identity here