Good morning to you all, I know i would get a correct advise and steps to take here over my mistakes. I met this man who lives and work in the US on one of the social media networks and we became chat buddies, strictly platonic and nothing more, he told me how he lost his wife to cancer some years back and have been unable to remarry, he told me about his only child (a girl) who lives with his mum here in Nigeria, I get to know much about him from our chats and I realized he has not seen his daughter for some years now and there was no communication with his daughter for almost two years. The reason was that the mum told him never to call her again since he has refused to remarry and will only speak with him when he has found a wife, he's the only child of the mum and they are from a very wealthy home, the mum is eager and so desperate for more kids from him (you understand how our mothers behave on issues like this). During one of our conversation, he suddenly asked if I would consider him for marriage and I replied with a solid No, he then begged me to play along as he intends Introducing me to the mum as his fiancee just so he could speak with his daughter, he sent me crying videos of how he misses his daughter and how his mom kept to her words, I sympathized with him and saw the eagerness and somehow I agreed to speak with the mom and play along so he will achieve his aim of speaking with his daughter. The next day his mum called and I could hear the excitement in her voice, she was so happy and didn't even care of other things, she spent more than an hour with me on phone and told me alot, by this time I was already scared but can't withdraw. That was the beginning of this whole problems, his mum now call me on daily basis, through her I have spoken with aunties and uncles of this man I haven't even met, recently she sent someone in my location to check on me and she brought really expensive gifts for me,she wanted to visit me but I somehow was able to convince her that she should wait till her son comes back which is next month. I have complained to this man of how he got me into a trap I didn't bargain for and he keeps begging and sending crying videos and telling me to do this for him so as to establish once more a good relationship with his mom and daughter and that when he comes back, he will sort out everything. Now this whole thing has really weigh me down, I don't sleep well anymore, I've lost weight and my heart skips each time my phone rings, my mum keeps asking me if anything is wrong but I can't get to tell her, I'm depressed already. Please help me with advise on what to do and how best to remove myself from all this. Please don't bash me and I'm not a good writer too, pardon me.

If this your script is real.

The fact is that as a lady, if you are so sincere about liberating yourself from the shackles, you know what to do.

You are enjoying the game, if you are not, you would have left the man for long.

My advice is, go and sell this script to Funke Akindele.

Amotolongbo:
Alright

please say something, I'm really so weak already

Good script

A nollywood/hollywood blockbuster...

Location.. US and Nigeria

Religious girl entangled with a widower with one child. His family loves the religious girl but she isn't in love with the widower. What does she do? Watchout

Lead actress... Zzor

Story by Zzorrrr the Cloutchaser

Produced by Zzor

Directed by Zzor

Na so pipu dey do oversabi inherit enemies and problem God nor intend for them out of nonsensical loyalties

duduade:
Good script

A nollywood/hollywood blockbuster...

Location.. US and Nigeria

Religious girl entangled with a widower with one child. His family loves the religious girl but isn't in love with the widower. What does she do?


Cloutchaser

It may sound so but i swear with everything, its not a script, this is my current predicament. I don't know what came over me to have agreed to such

RedPanthar:
Na so pipu dey do oversabi inherit enemies and problem God nor intend for them out of nonsensical loyalties

please what did you mean with this

Emotionally manipulative family

Zzor:
please what did you mean with this

You still don't get it Chai

techmo:
Emotionally manipulative family

It was my fault to have agreed to such, the family are clueless of what's truly going on

Zzor:
It was my fault to have agreed to such, the family are clueless of what's truly going on

A mother using his son's daughter and her grandkid to coerce his son to marry when he isn't ready is manipulative

A man crying over and over again to emotionally blackmail someone to act Fruadulent and partake in his lies is manipulative

This are serious red flags

Moving forward, set a well premeditated rule and agreement, you are a contract staff, Acting a role, what compensation do you want from him, and what acting services can you offer... You are acting like a girlfriend then charge him what escort charge


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Amotolongbo:
If this your script is real.

The fact is that as a lady, if you are so sincere about liberating yourself from the shackles, you know what to do.

You are enjoying the game, if you are not, you would have left the man for long.
ib
My advice is, go and sell this script to Funhke Akindele.

I swear it's not a script, and I'm not enjoying it, infact it's draining me, I only pitied him so he could speak with his daughter

techmo:


A mother using his son's daughter and her grandkid to coerce his son to marry when he isn't ready is manipulative

A man crying over and over again to emotionally blackmail someone to act Fruadulent and partake in his lies is manipulative

This are serious red flags


.

in all of these, I blame myself, my mum will be so dissapointed in me to have allowed myself entangled in such situation

techmo:


A mother using his son's daughter and her grandkid to coerce his son to marry when he isn't ready is manipulative

A man crying over and over again to emotionally blackmail someone to act Fruadulent and partake in his lies is manipulative

This are serious red flags


.

He's an only child, his mother refused to remarry after his father died long ago,thats why she seems so desperate

Abi you no want marry the man or you no want marry at all? Are you currently in another serious relationship? What are your excuses for not wanting the man? Or you no want obodo Oyingbo husband? There's still something you are hiding.

Tell us the rest to know how best to advise

... Yes you agreed to play along due to your greed for material things.

If the guy wasn't from a very wealthy home,you wouldn't have agreed to this rubbish you wrote here.

What kind of a mother will manipulate his son using his daughter as a bet?

Tell us how much he paid you.

So now you want to play the victim abi? Sad truth.

fiction

psucc:
Abi you no want marry the man or you no want marry at all? Are you currently in another serious relationship? What are your excuses for not wanting the man? Or you no want obodo Oyingbo husband? There's still something you are hiding.

Tell us the rest to know how best to advise

I can't marry a man with a child, I'm too young for that, he's my kind of man but I can't marry him, he's very rich and handsome and he's from the north but I don't feel anything for him, he's not religious too

JONNYSPUTE:
... Yes you agreed to play along due to your greed for material things.

If the guy wasn't from a very wealthy home,you wouldn't have agreed to this rubbish you wrote here.

What kind of a mother will manipulate his son using his daughter as a bet?

Tell us how much he paid you.
hk
So now you want to play the victim abi? Sad truth.

I will not lie because im fed up already, he offered to pay a very huge amount but I rejected it, that's really not my kind of person

Nuyokoi:
fiction

I wish it was, I swear this is my current situation

Zzor,

if you stay with your parents, talk to them

if you don't stay with your parents, look for money and rent another house in another part of the city.

Never let him know where you work or where you worship.

if it escalates beyond your imagination and there is a threat to life, report to the nearest police station..

STOP COLLECTING MORE GIFTS!!

Zzor:
I can't marry a man with a child, I'm too young for that, he's my kind of man but I can't marry him, he's very rich and handsome and he's from the north but I don't feel anything for him, he's not religious too

Honestly, advising you to marry him or not is immaterial. The whole matter starts and stops with you. You are the one to bear the consequences of your decision.

So please kindly deal with the matter within you.

psucc:
Honestly, advising you to marry him or not is immaterial. The whole matter starts and stops with you. You are the one to bear the consequences of your decision.

So please kindly deal with the matter within you.

where do I start from? I don't know what to do and how to go about it

JUST TELL THE WOMAN (THE MAN MOTHER) EVERYTHING BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE TO TURN BACK.

fati2001:
JUST TELL THE WOMAN (THE MAN MOTHER) EVERYTHING BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE TO TURN BACK.

Fati I'm so scared of doing that, I can't get to break her heart, she's all over me, I don't know if I should involve my mom but I don't want daily sermons. I just don't know how i got into this

Zzor:
I will not lie because im fed up already, he offered to pay a very huge amount but I rejected it, that's really not my kind of person

.....Ask yourself this questions.

Do I love him?
Can I ever love him?
Am I ready for marriage?
Can I cope with his family members?
Is this what I want for my life?
If you can sort all these out on your own,then you can take a decision.

Mind you, don't back track on any decision you took.

Good luck.

JONNYSPUTE:
.....Ask yourself this questions.

Do I love him?
Can I ever love him?
Am I ready for marriage?
Can I cope with his family members?
Is this what I want for my life?
If you can sort all these out on your own,then you can take a decision.

Mind you, don't back track on any decision you took.

Good luck.

There's no relationship here to start with, I don't know the answers to those questions because I can't like what I've not seen in reality, we were just friends and all these caught up with me.Thanks

Zzor:
There's no relationship here to start with, I don't know the answers to those questions because I can't like what I've not seen in reality, we were just friends and all these caught up with me.Thanks

....And what if you see him?

Zzor:
Good morning to you all, I know i would get a correct advise and steps to take here over my mistakes. I met this man who lives and work in the US on one of the social media networks and we became chat buddies, strictly platonic and nothing more, he told me how he lost his wife to cancer some years back and have been unable to remarry, he told me about his only child (a girl) who lives with his mum here in Nigeria, I get to know much about him from our chats and I realized he has not seen his daughter for some years now and there was no communication with his daughter for almost two years. The reason was that the mum told him never to call her again since he has refused to remarry and will only speak with him when he has found a wife, he's the only child of the mum and they are from a very wealthy home, the mum is eager and so desperate for more kids from him (you understand how our mothers behave on issues like this). During one of our conversation, he suddenly asked if I would consider him for marriage and I replied with a solid No, he then begged me to play along as he intends Introducing me to the mum as his fiancee just so he could speak with his daughter, he sent me crying videos of how he misses his daughter and how his mom kept to her words, I sympathized with him and saw the eagerness and somehow I agreed to speak with the mom and play along so he will achieve his aim of speaking with his daughter. The next day his mum called and I could hear the excitement in her voice, she was so happy and didn't even care of other things, she spent more than an hour with me on phone and told me alot, by this time I was already scared but can't withdraw. That was the beginning of this whole problems, his mum now call me on daily basis, through her I have spoken with aunties and uncles of this man I haven't even met, recently she sent someone in my location to check on me and she brought really expensive gifts for me,she wanted to visit me but I somehow was able to convince her that she should wait till her son comes back which is next month. I have complained to this man of how he got me into a trap I didn't bargain for and he keeps begging and sending crying videos and telling me to do this for him so as to establish once more a good relationship with his mom and daughter and that when he comes back, he will sort out everything. Now this whole thing has really weigh me down, I don't sleep well anymore, I've lost weight and my heart skips each time my phone rings, my mum keeps asking me if anything is wrong but I can't get to tell her, I'm depressed already. Please help me with advise on what to do and how best to remove myself from all this. Please don't bash me and I'm not a good writer too, pardon me.

1. This your story is not complete, there is something u are hiding



2. I do not feel like giving you advice because of how u used to attack men for the past few months


3. If u are tired of her call, stop using your old sim card, just go and register a new MTN or GLO Sim

Tony142:





1. This your story is not complete, there is something u are hiding



2. I do not feel like giving you advice because of how u used to attack men for the past few months


3. If u are tired of her call, stop using your old sim card, just go and register a new MTN or GLO Sim

I only bash on romance section and not here, feel free to ask any questions,i can't do away with my sim for now,someone she knows in my location already knows where i live

JONNYSPUTE:
....And what if you see him?

I don't want to because I can't have anything with him, he already has a child, I'm too young for that