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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by mechanics(m): 8:32pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
You should be ashamed of yourself. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by amazingspiderma: 8:35pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
You need to grow out of that experience by growing into a new experience. The new experience of the power of Christ at work in the spirit of a man is amazing. Giving your life to Christ is the first step. But surrendering to him is the second step. To surrender mean you must build your time, environment, interaction and contents around the Word of God. The process requires your faith to be diligently exercised and your mind to be focused on God. You will not leave sexual immorality by thinking about it. You leave it by turning your mind away from it while focusing totally on the things of God. In the Spirit, some thoughts can transport you into realms especially strong thoughts like sex and lust. They should not be joked with. They can eat you up, like ice cream in the sun. This is because the natural man has no power over it. It is only the Spirit of God that can strengthen your mind to live above and away from it. In summary surrender to Jesus, listen, trust and obey Him through His Word. Then let the Holy Ghost renew your mind. 8:13 For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live.8:14 For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. Romans I advice you read Romans Chapters 7/8 for a start. God bless you. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by payloader(m): 8:42pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Demons of lust has taken over you. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by orgylover: 8:50pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Lightangel65:offcourse i dont. who sense help na. abeg i need to fork. send me adress 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by goodshepherd123(m): 9:30pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Sincerely you need to give your life to Christ and also go for deliverance as quickly as possible. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Harshreality: 9:43pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
So we're all going to ignore the fact that he was molested? Wonderful. Op what happened to you was 100% wrong and in a saner clime that rapist is supposed to be cooling her ass off in jail. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Harshreality: 9:46pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
TheKingIsHere: Heck even if he continued till he was 20 it does not in anyways change the fact that he was raped! That woman needs to be brought to justice. Of all the people to sleep with she only saw a child? Rape is rape. It does not matter if the victim comes back later. Why are people so insensitive when it comes to molestation of males? Even his fellow males can't stand up for him Disgusting. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by SeunNotOwner: 9:48pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
SkyRicks: It doesn't work the way you think. What work is that you start preparing yourself for the Marriage, spiritual, physical, mentality mature. financially stability: is not the same for everyone. If you are above 25years sexual urge is normal, your body is telling you to go and Marry. Don't compare yourself with those who are single at 35+ committing fornication up and down. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Toks2008(m): 9:49pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
SkyRicks: Your sexual desire has nothing to do with the abuse yu experienced at 8 up to 15. Neverthekess, I think you should not see any big deal in self service except it is controlling your life. Make no mistake, but for the economy of Nigeria, nothing bad in a guy marrying at 18 as it is in many western countries. So get yourself busy with other things and condition your mind to ease off maybe once or twice a week talking about self servicing which is perfectly OK and not a sin in anyway but avoid getting addicted to it so much that it stars affecting your life. All the best. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by vikstandon(m): 9:57pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Is a common occurrence with people who were molested... I battled with mine while praying I don't molest any young person. If you don't break free through prayer, you might also be a paedophile. You can conquer it...feed your mind with the scriptures, you will not satisfy the desires of the flesh. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by seguno2: 9:57pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
SkyRicks: Do you know what a psychologist/psychotherapist does |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by dmz1: 10:18pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
@skyRicks get the book 'what's on your mind' by merlin carothers. It will help you a lot |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by TOPMAN4LIFE: 10:36pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
SkyRicks:You need to give your life to Jesus, Spirit of lust is already operating in you, you cannot save yourself, go to a Bible believing church and you will receive help, If you reestablish relationship with the lady, you just want to ruin your life 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Nobody: 10:40pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
SkyRicks: Lot more goes into this Sir. While it may seem to work, that may not be the cure. You need grace. Can you start and keep joining this Link https://mixlr.com/pastor-segun-obadje every 5:30am in the morning?! |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Mosco100(m): 10:48pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Repent and follow Christ. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by nnaluea: 11:00pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Sort for a spiritual deliverance |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by ejiboy1(m): 11:49pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Effizist(m): 11:57pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
OP you can gradually get rid of this habit if you decide to engage yourself with something... whenever your alone the urge will always creep in no doubt about that...find a hobby whenever you find yourself alone get your hands busy with something and lastly you need God too very important |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Cyrus77(m): 12:19am On Nov 29, 2020 |
It's not normal,you where robbed of your innocence. You need spiritual help,get to a Bible believing church and go for counseling with prayer and fasting. Reason being that for a lady to sleep with a minor, many things could.wrong with her. Secondly delete,disconnect with any video or picture or friendship that can activate such urge Go to YouTube, download messages by Joshua Selman and listen to them as if you're life depends on it. Please know that is war, destiny war, it's about your career,finance, dreams,marital destiny etc Please fight,its not enjoyment,it's slavery. You can join any nearby Living Faith Church if you don't belong to any I wish you well.May God forgive that lady. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by sammiepraise(m): 6:20am On Nov 29, 2020 |
SkyRicks: is there anyway i can communicate with you? i can talk to you about it and maybe help you out. i had same experience too but now i am over it. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Emmyj2g: 6:50am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by MacMkboy(m): 8:23am On Nov 29, 2020 |
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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by MacMkboy(m): 8:26am On Nov 29, 2020 |
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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by MacMkboy(m): 8:33am On Nov 29, 2020 |
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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by MacMkboy(m): 8:58am On Nov 29, 2020 |
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Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by rafosky1: 9:31am On Nov 29, 2020 |
The earlier you realize that the problem is inside your head, the better for you. Like every other form of addiction, this is a psychological issue that can only be solved by you making changes to your lifestyle. Direct that your wanking energy to something more beneficial to your life. Goodluck. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Dufil(m): 10:10am On Nov 29, 2020 |
I had same problem, started having sex at 6, as a boy, before 10 I have slept with 4 girls and one boy. At 11 I began to form Christian, and became very shy. I grew up claiming virgin but deep down I was dying of lusts. Porn and masturbation was horrible, peadophiling nearly got me into trouble, now I gained control when I took freedom into my hand and started a relationship with sex, I was happy but I developed trust issues again. So we broke up. But, now to win, try keep a relationship and be mature enough to trust her and care for her. You will be fine. Simple solution getting married to a woman you desire not for sex but for companionship. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by fredie107(m): 10:42am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Jesus is the answer!!! When u desire Jesus, u will desired nothing more. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by EMMY76: 11:48am On Nov 29, 2020 |
SkyRicks: What kind of helpful advice can she offer u at this point she is the root cause of ur problems its far more better to avoid such a woman who sexually exploited ur innonsense at a very tender age. Am very certain she might even seduce u again to continue to sleep with her even if she is now married better run for ur life and seek help elsewhere. |
Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by Bobxin: 1:15pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
SkyRicks: Haba, you don't need to tell the pharmacist anything, just ask for an anti-depressant drug. Shuuuu |
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