sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

Women are like children, they need a more experienced hero to guide them. Make sure you're that hero or she will treat you like her child. Good luck.

The kind of women I seek for, OP you are lucky. Stop making an issue out of a mole hill and love that woman gaddammit

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

Age is just a number invented by humans, the way we invented the clock, you can set your clock to whatever you like, like I can give myself any age I like

Dear ladies, always make the hay while the sun shines....stop wasting your youthful age thinking you are getting younger......you can still achieve all your career, business or academic dreams while married to a good man.....don't keep your marital life on hold in the name of chasing career or business or education or money, because if you do, take it from me, you will regret it at the end because by the time you have achieved all your so called big career and academic and money dreams, all the great guys of your age range are happily married leaving you with young Gigolo boys to be using you to learn how to sleep with a girl like a IndecentStar....use your head while young dear ladies, don't try to be like guys.


God didn't create you with a dick....God gave you a pussy, a vagina and not a dick...wake up ladies!

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

Man wey don make am

pocohantas:


It is really well.

These men ehn... God knows what made him start rethinking such an issue after 4 freaking years.

Myhusband:



the thing pained the fool somewhat of uploading his father's picture


now I can see where you inherited your stupidity, stark illiterate

Look at this Odę, was it not your terrorist father that was reported to have died from bomb blast in Yobe State.

4years in relationship with just one person and you are still asking for advice....?

I think people should be coming to you for professional advice and not the other way round. You are already a Bsc degree holder and highly experienced in dating older lady.... Just prepare yourself for NYSC at any registry of your choice and focus on what future has to offer.

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

Don't listen to all these BOYS asking you not to marry her ooo
Oloriburuku lopo ninu won oo

And it's after 4 years you just realising she's older?

fati2001:
CONGRATULATIONS

Yea

The age difference is not much. Go ahead and knot tie with her, whether she a bit older or not she will give you that respect as her husband. Don't let age matter bother you, age is just a number. I wish you all the best of luck.

Kobicove:


The major con is that in the next 10 years she will likely be looking far older than you and you may be embarrassed to introduce her as your wife

Wrong, let her be physically active and she would stay young forever.

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

I will make it simple for u.

The greatest thing in a relationship is character. Any other thing is plus and minus.

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

Op: you have seen someone good for you. Just go with her. YOU JUST GOT PEACE WHICH IS THE BLESSING MANY ARE LOOKING FOR.

My brother, it's easier said than done. You need to know the basis for your union. There's no marriage without its peculiar glitches. Nothing is wrong with marrying an older lady, only make sure:

1. She's not marrying you because you spoke/proposed to her, as opposed to her loving you. In such cases, if there's someone she has been hoping would speak and didn't, if she's obsessed with him, you might struggle to earn her sincere love, and it's a very big issue in marriages. So, ask yourself, would she have picked me if this other brother had proposed at the same time I did and she would have had to pick one person? If your answer is No, note that marriage can not be endured. You are going to be together longer than you've ever been.

2. You are not marrying her for the fear of being accused of wasting her time? As evil as wasting her time could be, worst still, is marrying to avoid being told that. It will not be fair to her if you don't love her and you marry her. It takes grace for sincere development of love in such instances.

Also, note; that love can be a decision but there's the mystery you may not have control over.

Let me stop here.

Kobicove:


The major con is that in the next 10 years she will likely be looking far older than you and you may be embarrassed to introduce her as your wife

Don’t doubt the power of money, the more you take good care of her/ the older she get the more she look good for you.

Dyt:


Don't listen to all these BOYS asking you not to marry her ooo
Oloriburuku lopo ninu won oo

And it's after 4 years you just realising she's older?

Why body dey bite you like this Na,

Why take it personal Na,

Na wah o......nothing wey person no go see for Naija girls

Thattallgirl:
Updated. I'm removing it in the next 5 minutes

nairaland is not like WhatsApp that will beep your phone to know when someone replied your message. So your game of 5minutes was not fair on me. I didn't see it

ehinmowo:



I perceive you are under 25.

That true,you must be in your late 30s or early 40s judging from when you joined this forum.

capitalzero:


Adam was older than Eve, Abraham was 10 years older than Sarah.
Marrying older lady is against law of nature. Girls attain puberty earlier than boys. Women reach menopause around 50 years . Men can still father children even at 70 years.
If you are looking for a lady who will take care of you like jyour mum did. Look for a woman who is 20 years older than you. Just her as your mum and mother of your children .
Congratulations !!!!

You are just saying rubbish.

So you don't know there are men happily married to older women and how many men do you know still having children at 70?also don't you know that with the help of science women above 50 still have children what does that have to do with nature?go and sit down because you have nothing reasonable to say.

Kestolove:
God4bid, I can't marry a man that am older than...guy beta leave that girl for somebody better

Your thinking is very low!!

Kestolove:
God4bid, I can't marry a man that am older than...guy beta leave that girl for somebody better

sorry no vex how old are you presently

This is not necessarily true. With good diet, exercise and a healthy lifestyle, she would look as beautiful and youthful as she wants. She can also do some enhancements if she's into that kinda thing. But then, everything is hinged on money, so he's got to be packing for her to have the luxury of taking good care of herself.

Kobicove:


The major con is that in the next 10 years she will likely be looking far older than you and you may be embarrassed to introduce her as your wife

ThEGodFaThEr101:
Op you're original Mumu, how can you get married to a woman 2 years older than you and still claim you love her. Wait till after 4 years of marriage and see if you'll still love her. Don't you know that women age at increasing rate while men at decreasing rate.

Men nor dey marry women wey senior dem before and love them join na today e start?

You go just dey talk rubbish.
There are men married to older women and did not witness this rubbish you are saying?
Genes matter when it comes to ageing there are also men who may be same age with their wives and they age faster than them.It is your genes,the food you take and the kind of lifestyle you live that determines ageing decreasing or increasing not gender what you wrote is out of ignorance.

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.


Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

You can never know everything about a woman, you can only know the things she wants you to know

Kokaine:
nairaland is not like WhatsApp that will beep your phone to know when someone replied your message. So your game of 5minutes was not fair on me. I didn't see it

Okay I'll permanently leave one. It's not full picture though

Congratulations guy go and marry your wife, you are already comfortable with her, older means 25 year older but 2years is not a older to me,,, infact understanding matter alot, she is mature, she will likely to give u rest of mind,, pls invite us to wedding next year.. congratulations..

Myhusband:



you're uninformed. a lady increasing and a man decreasing theorem is one of the absurd things I've ever read here


see giving birth early is one of the reflection of a lady's look, that's why I always laughed at all this career ladies, imagine you made money and you're still looking older than your mates


a lady that finished giving birth before she clocked 35-36years is tend to look ageless at least to a certain age. giving birth early is the secret behind ladies age look, not that your absurd belief

You are also uninformed is it even a bad thing to age?
Don't you know that someones genes,food they eat and lifestyle contributes to aging.
Everyone has a choice if the lady wants to be a career woman first it is her choice and such woman can still look young depending on how she takes care of her body or her genes.So no need to laugh at career women not all women start early or choose to depend on a man because they wanna have kids early.After all children must be taken care of financially.

Agricaddict:



You are wicked, haba

uBuNiT:
If she is above 35, she give birth to slow children; the younger a woman, the sharper her children's brain

And where did you get this info from
You go just dey talk rubbish

Bros na you wear the shoe... oh....

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

Uniquekriss:
if u take a woman to your parents as a wife to be and they don't know ask her age then it means they just told u OYO. It must be among d questions to ask.

And who told you that in the Africa you are talking about everybody sees it that way.
Or don't you know that in this same Africa women marry younger men.Abeg stop making blanket statement about a continent you don't know all their cultures and traditions and even at that women marry younger men here