Blackpearlxx:
Unpopular opinion:::: only if we where filled with so much love there wouldn’t be any need to compare the amount of love to be given to each individual...xx

But what happens when mothers that nurtured and raise the sons are forgotten while girlfriends and wives are spoilt with every good thing in life? That is the angle the artist was talking from, I believe. But maybe you are right: if the sons were filled or nurtured with love, they would not forget their mothers simply because they found another woman.

Fussion1000:




Oga stop nonsense, your mother has husband. If her husband, ur Father refused to show utmost love for her so be it, the number 1 person a man must love most is wife, even much more than kids.

Think properly bf you post gibberish on faceless forum.

You sounded like a son that his mother didn't do enough for. I also hope you don't grow up to pursue a woman while you abandon your kids.
If you are hurting or your mother failed you while you were growing up, I pray that you get healed.

WrittyWritter:
Omo dey plenty oo..spending money on girls and buying her expensive things when ur mother is hawking or doing menial work and is using a phone dat as spoil..dat she have tie with rubber tire...I feel like slapping lot of guys I see every time..especially all those yahoo boys dat waste their money...dey will use money to lodge in a hotel with their babes 4 days while their mother does not even have money to eat...Ahh..dey are plenty in my side...I really pity d mothers..but if police arrest dem or dey get into trouble it is d mother dat will go and beg 4 den and bill dem out..babe nowhere to be seen..but d worst thing is after all this dey still continue with their lifestyle spending on girls while their mothers suffer

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Next time mind your business ,make your own money and flex whosoever you wanna flex .

Do you know if the money he's spending and poping champagne with came as a result of using the girls pant for rituals ? ..
Or the yahoo boy has been instructed by Baba not to give any part of his wealth to his family members including his mother , unless he wants to lose all or die young ..
Not all you see that glitters are golden , only the cook knows the ingredients that went into the soup ,, remove eye from yahoo boys money

saaphiere:
Lack of care and attention make most women cheat in their marriage. It's good to help your mom but never place her above your wife

Most useless and stupid comment of the year... thunder fire wife. Nonsense!

saaphiere:
Before I even have a son I will buy my own cars. I am not the kind of lady that until the put food in her mouth before she eats. I go out and get my own. I will be so successful that my children wealth won't matter to me.
I will be giving out cars to my sons' wives on their birthdays.

lol. You are just talking rubbish.so you know you can buy your own, why are you now waiting for your husband to buy one for you?

is saaphiere or safari is your name.

y u con go dumb all of a sudden, I expect to keep on arguing as usual as you've always been trying to prove that you're the smartest person on Earth.

many of your comments and post gives me reasons to pray for alalubarika wife and not a gold digger like you.

Mayeldah:
If all your siblings buy car for Mama, how many she go drive?

It is neither here nor there. Some mothers are in the village and can neither ride a bike or drive a car.

Buy a car for your wife if you can afford it, buy for your mom too if it is necessary.

olodo. He said IF YOUR MAMA IS TREKING. that means if one of your siblings already bought for her. Then she is settled you can buy something else she needs

I dont care about what any mf says about this. To me, personally, my mom comes first before anybody, I repeat anybody. Just get broke for a week and see if ur wife won't leave u. These women of nowadays that just after what they can gain in the marriage.

Oh boy! See the mumu that has sense���. Just be broke for a week, if ur wife wont dump inside a pit toilet. Not to talk of sickness. Dont mind this idiot

pocohantas:


Common sense is indeed not common. Maybe their fathers bought for their grandmothers first, so their mothers had to wait decades for her son to buy for her.

My dad bought my mum a car when my grandma didn’t have one and heaven didn’t fall. My mum needed it more than an old retired woman in the village. Many men have done same too...

I don’t know why it is always men ranting about how they love their mothers than Jesus, whereas there is still an age-long belief that female kids take care of their parents more in old age.

Empty barrels make most noise...

MrTAnonymous:


Mtcheew. Why would my wife be driving the best car and my mom that made me who I am be trekking?

After all if the worst happens to me, my mother will stand by my side but I can't say the same about my wife. My mother will always stay loyal to me, no matter the circumstances.

Your points ain't valid at all, next time think before you type. Thank you!

Incase you don't know na me talk

Hmmm this one strong oo

Friend22:


You and fussion1000 are sick people.
Imagine the years of sacrifices, the pain she went through and all she did to make me who I am today and one fool because she's a woman claim I should love her more ?
when she is totally out of her mind.
You people should stop comparing a wife to a mother.
This argument alone is stupid,foolish and irresponsible.
Even a good wife will know that she has a limit in trying to come between her husband and his mother.
Only fools and useless entitled slay queens will request such stupid comparison.
Whether in heaven or in hell ,a wife can NEVER be given the love and attention my mum needs.

Not until you Start sending more money for ur mother on monthly basis to ur mother than your wife, if not you are most hypocrite man on earth, if your mother demands you give her more money than your wife, such mother is most wicked on earth and if you don't care you won't have peace and you go to the grave earlier.

fairheart:


You sounded like a son that his mother didn't do enough for. I also hope you don't grow up to pursue a woman while you abandon your kids.
If you are hurting or your mother failed you while you were growing up, I pray that you get healed.

If you say so, you sound like a son, who is mother will not allow to have wife, am very sure you single father, if your mother demands that you spend for her than you, I pity ur sorry ass, if you don't carefully you will not enjoy peace til you go to grave.

Oga tell the whole world, this year alone, how much has it gone to ur mother and how much has it gone to ur wife?

You guys will surely die of hypocrisy.

Even those that had never send a penny to parents will come online raise ego.

Go and get good wife, Bible says ur wife is flesh of ur flesh, nobody can take care of others than himself.

Your Wife can never be your mother ,Your mother can never be your wife .Wife can divorce U anyday anytime even if u buy d whole Canada for her even threatenings to Kill U . Ur mother won't ever divorce U.Your mother is number one before u met ur wife .Take care of ur mother very well ,Also take care of ur wife as well but taking care of ur wife while ur mom suffers is quite wrong ,Never allow any stupid love covers ur brain by allowing ur wife to dictate what help u will render to your mother ...

I still dont understand why a grown up man will wear socks with slippers , but won't wear socks with shoes!

I'm coming,,,,, please wait ✋

fairheart:


If you are hurting or your mother failed you while you were growing up, I pray that you get healed.

Amen to that!

Thumbs up

Nazgul:

Hope you'll maintain this your stand when your son grows up and gets his wife a brand new luxury car and you're there treking to church and market everyday.

Talk is so cheap and convinent when it doesn't concern or affects us directly. But we immediately change and become hypocrites by protesting aggressively the moment we become victims of our supposed views.

saaphiere:
Lack of care and attention make most women cheat in their marriage. It's good to help your mom but never place her above your wife.


God bless you Fussion1000. I least expected this raw truth from a male.

you see life

That's dumb coming from him but things need to balanced out though.

Once wife and family is primary responsibility, mother, father and siblings secondary.

saaphiere:
The earlier men understand that their WIVES need more attention and caring than their moms the better for them. Something like 60:40.
If you want to experience hell in your marriage, buy something for your mom first before buying for your wife or give your mom a quality item than your wife.

As for Duncan laying curses on men because the take care of their wives than their mom, I really don't blame him. Anyone is entitled to do or say dumb things to trend. Just of recent a child made a fool of his parents just to trend by telling them their TV is touch-screen.

I am not saying you should not take care of your mom. I am not saying you should wait for your mom to beg you for things before you give her.
I am saying you should take care of your mom and wife but never give your mom more than you give your wife if you want peace in your home.

God bless you. What most of them don't know is, most wives are the pillars of their homes these days. What if the wife made the man who he is?

Not in this case. If the mom is sick, a sane man should use his money and take his mom to the hospital. You can't compare life with car. But in the case were both mom and wife are healthy, invest more in your wife. Your wife is the one you return home to meet everyday.

Wow! God bless you. Even the Bible says a good friend is better than a bad brother. There are men who won't amount to anything if it wasn't their wives.

Keep short we done know your type

Amen pastor.

saaphiere:
The earlier men understand that their WIVES need more attention and caring than their moms the better for them. Something like 60:40.
If you want to experience hell in your marriage, buy something for your mom first before buying for your wife or give your mom a quality item than your wife.

As for Duncan laying curses on men because the take care of their wives than their mom, I really don't blame him. Anyone is entitled to do or say dumb things to trend. Just of recent a child made a fool of his parents just to trend by telling them their TV is touch-screen.

I am not saying you should not take care of your mom. I am not saying you should wait for your mom to beg you for things before you give her.
I am saying you should take care of your mom and wife but never give your mom more than you give your wife if you want peace in your home.

God bless you. What most of them don't know is, most wives are the pillars of their homes these days. What if the wife made the man who he is?

Not in this case. If the mom is sick, a sane man should use his money and take his mom to the hospital. You can't compare life with car. But in the case were both mom and wife are healthy, invest more in your wife. Your wife is the one you return home to meet everyday.

Wow! God bless you. Even the Bible says a good friend is better than a bad brother. There are men who won't amount to anything if it wasn't their wives.

Most women like you don't understand simple logic of how to win a man's heart.

Motivates him to take care of his mum or get good gift for his mum from time to time and watch him dance to your tune. There is nothing you ll demand from such a man that ll not do for you

Some ppl said we're a wife suffered and sponsor the man. This situation is rare. It's 1 out of 1000. Do you no that most wives came after the food is ready. They don't know how the food is prepared. A lot of mother sold there precious property to train there children. Some suffered to send there children abroad. Pls let appreciate our mother. They carried us in her belly for 9 months, pass tru sleepless night to raise us. They deserve more than wives, unfortunately am a culprit. I did for my wife than my dear mother.

For such a breed of poverty ridden people, Nigerian women are very entitled and dull. See useless women here ranting that their husbands should buy them cars. Do this. So that. Cursed lot. You can't even understand that it's possible to work and buy yourself a car. That's why when Nigerian women leave the country, no one wants to touch them with a 20 ft pole.

WrittyWritter:


I reject ur type 4 any guy I know and will know..chaii..so u can allow it mother-in-law to suffer while u enjoy..I know some mother in-law get their own 4 body but

D man dat will marry better not have a mother...I am so shocked by what u said I don't even know what to say... ...I don't understand were u ladies get dis entitlement mentality from aswr..I'm a lady and I don't have it..so how do u ladies develop it

There is oil in your head！

when you draw 2 parallel Lines on the ground THE OGA WITH TRIBAL MARK will attack you.

continue !! I dey Read your Post!!!

u dey host babe birthday party for Abuja, but maly the owe people for villa ....

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Why should a man buy his wife a car? Because the economy is no good, the women finished school and not able to get a good job. I do not wish my daughter to expect a car as a gift from her husband.

Onye Egwu Eziokwu ka ina ekwu
Definitivamente!

Ikillbrokehoes:
Who knows, Ur wife might be the breadwinner of Ur family, I'm not surprised.

She was once the bread winner of my house for many years, Until God finally picked my call.

in case you don't know, my wife my everything.

After I graduated & had no job for some years, my mom was the one who stood by me, supported me, encouraged me, trusted me, prayed for me, fed me, and never gave up on me, no other woman was there to support me or give me hope except her, even my papa no even send for wetin I been dey pass through, but this woman kept fighting, kept praying & kept hoping. Despite my wrong deeds & mistakes in life, my mom never neglected me, neither did she lose hope on me. Mind you, Iam not her only child & she scolds me as well. So tell me why I will be so foolish to compare my mom's undying love to another, never. I can never ever love any other woman more than my own precious mother, never. I'm yet to see such woman, such woman don't even exist in my own world, not even my wife, you know why? Because a wife can be replaced, but mom can never ever ever, I mean never ever be replaced. If you like your life, abeg comot body where my mama dey. Note: I'd rather prefer to be called Mama's boy than to be called woman wrapper. No woman can control me over my mother, God forbid, I reject it, it's not my portion!

saaphiere:
The earlier men understand that their WIVES need more attention and caring than their moms the better for them. Something like 60:40.
If you want to experience hell in your marriage, buy something for your mom first before buying for your wife or give your mom a quality item than your wife.

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I am not saying you should not take care of your mom. I am not saying you should wait for your mom to beg you for things before you give her.
I am saying you should take care of your mom and wife but never give your mom more than you give your wife if you want peace in your home.

When you have your son's and they treat their wives better than you, you will be okay with it?