I told you guys marriage was scam but una nor listen.
Every woman that walks the face of this Earth is a either a LovePeddler/cheat or nagging bitch or a devil or will soon become such so it's better to stay single or adopt/get a baby mama if you need kids never marry i repeat never if you want to enjoy life

JONSYN7154:
The truth is that if you can endure women's repugnant character you won't regret your marriage.

Marriage is all about enduring each other's character.

if you have tough enduring skin you'll have a PERFECT marriage.

Hmmm, re u married

nope

Yes

Most men regret married to their wives at some point, and yet happy they chose the right one.


It is a pity that these days, marriage has been bastardised by a lot of things.

Why should I tell a single man my Genesis

icebird25:
Every married men here is regretting on venturing into the scam called marriage ..they wont tell you is a scam because they want you to be a victim too ....just take a look at the Duncan mighty's marriage ...if to born dey hungry you just look for one woman and impregnate her and make her your baby mama ...even women prefer baby mama status this days than being married, and every woman has the potential to cheat ..you were never his spec but just an option, if she sees that man that's her everyday crush ..you wouldn't mind to offer her pussy to him .. that's to show what women can do.. marriage is a scam, baby mama all the way ...all men was born equal and free. If you later go and marry you are on your own

True...They are in misery...And misery likes company. That's why they don't like single guys

BigDawsNet:
My people dint regret
So I won't too
Tho I'm about settling with a white lady

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See you oo Why you no settle for a Nigerian lady make we count scores after 3 years nah


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That's why one needs to take his time before deciding on whom to marry cos it's a life time thing

Jodha:
Just marry the right woman...and yhull be happy for the rest of yhur life.... although life is not a bed of roses...but yhull scale through...

But if yhu marry the wrong woman....yhull be miserable...

There is no right woman, I would advise all men to remain single and adopt a child.

Gwagone:
G

G for Gwagone

icebird25:
Every married men here is regretting on venturing into the scam called marriage ..they wont tell you is a scam because they want you to be a victim too ....just take a look at the Duncan mighty's marriage ...if to born dey hungry you just look for one woman and impregnate her and make her your baby mama ...even women prefer baby mama status this days than being married, and every woman has the potential to cheat ..you were never his spec but just an option, if she sees that man that's her everyday crush ..you wouldn't mind to offer her pussy to him .. that's to show what women can do.. marriage is a scam, baby mama all the way ...all men was born equal and free. If you later go and marry you are on your own

I agree with your point except for the baby mama talk. Having a baby mama will bleed your pockets and cost you a lifetime of misery - that's if you're even guaranteed that the kid is yours in the first place.

icebird25:
Every married men here is regretting on venturing into the scam called marriage ..they wont tell you is a scam because they want you to be a victim too ....just take a look at the Duncan mighty's marriage ...if to born dey hungry you just look for one woman and impregnate her and make her your baby mama ...even women prefer baby mama status this days than being married, and every woman has the potential to cheat ..you were never his spec but just an option, if she sees that man that's her everyday crush ..you wouldn't mind to offer her pussy to him .. that's to show what women can do.. marriage is a scam, baby mama all the way ...all men was born equal and free. If you later go and marry you are on your own

The first word of this post is a fallacy.

dominique:
There's no perfect spouse or marriage anywhere. Just make sure you study whoever you're dating very well to see if you will be able to cope with their imperfections. Sadly men are too busy focused on physical looks and women too desperate to become Mrs to see through any flaws their prospective spouse may have. Las Las, na hide my id go end their matter.

Don't be discouraged by all the tales of gloom and doom you read on social media about marriage. There are a lot of marriages that are doing well.

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Yes

BigDawsNet:
My people dint regret

So I won't too

Tho I'm about settling with a white lady

Did you know white people generally take a bath or shower only once or twice a week?
Forget how pale their skin looks, they are dirty asf.

You could actually regret, but don't be surprised , you could actually regret to regret later if your regret brought about divorce and calamities . No marriage is perfect , you nurture it to be. But it can't be perfect and that's the bitter truth.

Mine is the opposite

bouncin04:
I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .

Lol, it can happen. Marriage is honorable and should be worked on and preserved. Regret can be temporary if you make it so. There are people who regretted joining an organization or a school or a course but it later turned out well because they didn't quit or there was no option. Some people even regretted being pregnant or getting pregnant but it's not so when that child succeeds and is making waves 30years later. Don't remain a boy.

If I have to advise single I will say

Marriage is a decision and a commitment first to yourself and then to your partner.

You made a decision and commitment to stay, care , cherish and love for him/her irrespective of what he/she does.
The moment you cannot follow through this decision for whatever reason please its over.
Except for assault, emotional and physical torture, emotional and physical oppression

For other reasons I have come to find out that both of you can still find a common ground except the above.

There are many times I fell regret so also many times I count myself lucky.
The grass always look green on the other side.

At least this one I know her, we go quarrel , settle and the circle goes on
Nothing like a sweet, free and willing partner in crime

Marriage is sweet when u marry the right person. Marry a trusted friend
Not all marriage will end in divorce. Loving a spouse is more than a feeling. Loving a spouse is an action. When the foundation is not strong, the marriage is not meant to last.
Signs of a shaking foundation
1.lack of trust.
2. A cheating spouse
3. Addictions of any kind
4. Money problems
5. Disrespect
6. Lies and secrets
7. An abusive spouse
8. Lack of intimacy
9. Anger problem
10. In laws wahala.
11. Not praying to God
12. Unforgiveness
13. A stingy spouse

bouncin04:
I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .

Since you have been hallucinating divorce....you will see divorce...because married is the union between two crazy people living together....you have to regulate your craze if your partner is craze and your partner have to regulate her craze if your craze don enter market...
And Naija ladies are greedy and self-centered, everything you invested in the marriage is for the woman because it will be directly proportional to the future returns of the woman alone because if the dividend is coming you could have been dead by then....
My bro, live your life the way it comes.. And enjoy your life to the fullest...go to a beer joint and buy Nkwobi, and chilled beer, eat it and come home... After all Nah your money

I will advice you as a Christian to seek God's face before going into marriage...cause God is the only one that can choose for you,infact the person might not meet your criteria but He only knows best. And to be sincere with you challenges will come that might make you to doubt but you can run back to God to fix it for you if only He does the choosing initially.

Preetti:
It's only in women matter they have strength. Team "Alpha" apes

I keep seeing childish kids like you making comments about 'alpha' males.

This is popular shaming tactic used to quench the effects of the redpill philosophy which is spreading like wildfire...

Comments like yours makes it obvious that women are starting to panic #justsaying

icebird25:
Every married men here is regretting on venturing into the scam called marriage ..they wont tell you is a scam because they want you to be a victim too ....just take a look at the Duncan mighty's marriage ...if to born dey hungry you just look for one woman and impregnate her and make her your baby mama ...even women prefer baby mama status this days, than being married. and every woman has the potential to cheat ..you were never his spec but just an option. if she sees that man, that's her everyday crush ..she wouldn't mind to offer her pussy to him .. that's to show what women can do.. marriage is a scam, baby mama all the way ...all men was born equal and free. If you later go and marry you are on your own

Are you married?

1. Marry a good hearted person.
2. Be a good husband. Don’t do to her what you wouldn’t want her to do to you.
3. Have some savings that can sufficiently take care of a family. Financial issues can ruin the best of people.
4. Do not have children for at least, the first year of marriage. Use that time to understand your partner and form a bond.
5. Do not have relatives or friends live with you for the first year of marriage. Visits shouldn’t be more than 3 days. Nosy family and friends are the number one cause of issues in young marriages.
6. Let God lead in all you do. As the head of the home, it is important you have a direct bond with God because even the Bible says the husband is the head of the home and the blessings flow from the husband to the wife. That’s why he opens his head in prayers while she covers her own. If the head is weak, the body is open to all sorts of attacks.
7. Do not start things you cannot finish. If you’re the type that doesn’t believe in cooking or cleaning, let her know during courtship so you both can plan your responsibilities. You cannot be Tony Umez in courtship then turn into Pete Edochie during marriage. It is a sure way to kill whatever love may exist between the two of you.
8. Avoid unnecessary interference from family, friends and most especially, religious people. Do what works for you both no matter how unconventional it may seem to others.
9. Be patient and honest but do not enable misbehavior in any form. In a calm and firm manner, let your partner know what they did to offend you and sort out all issues to avoid any form of lingering resentment.
10. Enjoy yourselves. Go on dates, knack in the sitting room, kitchen etc. You both are now one before God and should explore your bodies and minds to the fullest.

That’s all I know.

nwaezeemmanuel:
@the bolded.

If you don't want to get married, that is on you and your choice to make. Don't come here and be saying bullshit

Why e pain you like this madam? Na u get e phone?

icebird25:
Every married men here is regretting on venturing into the scam called marriage ..they wont tell you is a scam because they want you to be a victim too ....just take a look at the Duncan mighty's marriage ...if to born dey hungry you just look for one woman and impregnate her and make her your baby mama ...even women prefer baby mama status this days, than being married. and every woman has the potential to cheat ..you were never his spec but just an option. if she sees that man, that's her everyday crush ..she wouldn't mind to offer her pussy to him .. that's to show what women can do.. marriage is a scam, baby mama all the way ...all men was born equal and free. If you later go and marry you are on your own

you are a big liar. In my next world I will still love to marry my present wife. This is my 7 years in marriage.

icebird25:
Every married men here is regretting on venturing into the scam called marriage ..they wont tell you is a scam because they want you to be a victim too ....just take a look at the Duncan mighty's marriage ...if to born dey hungry you just look for one woman and impregnate her and make her your baby mama ...even women prefer baby mama status this days than being married, and every woman has the potential to cheat ..you were never his spec but just an option, if she sees that man that's her everyday crush ..you wouldn't mind to offer her pussy to him .. that's to show what women can do.. marriage is a scam, baby mama all the way ...all men was born equal and free. If you later go and marry you are on your own

I think its better if you are spokesman for single dads rather talking on behalf of married men, since the beginning of our courtship up til this present moment am enjoying it, of course we can't rule out stormy season of few occasions but with God on our side and with compromise we always overcome differences.

You guys quickly blame marriage institutions as if its human being.

The day couple will start seeing each other as one flesh is the day they will start enjoying their marriages.

The reason why people always blame partner alone for marriages failure is still fathom to me, if you are a type who always meet bad bf/gf , check urself and clichés of friends you are moving with properly.

So many foolish guys condemning marriages, but endorsing baby mama, they forget that single parenting has very big negative effect on kids, if you put value about having kids, I think you should put more values about their proper upbringings.

Also when you grow old, at 60 upward, when it would difficult for you to remarry, how will you be taking care of urself in advanced age? A man of 75 washing, cooking, doing all sorts of house chores with gray hairs, I think its a curse .

Think properly b4 you venture in single fatherhood.

emkz:
I regretted mine, not necessarily for what she did but for my inability to follow my instincts about her which could have prevented the calamity. We were not married but things had been done towards that like introduction and trad before kasala burst. I was happy kasala burst before we went farther.

For anyone who wants to get married, by all means do so...but marry for the right reasons. You first need to understand yourself and your own limitations. If your aim is to have children, perhaps a contractual arrangement suffices. Unfortunately, many marriages today are not different from service contracts: I will provide shelter, food and security while you provide pussy when I want it and how I want it, and you must not provide it to someone else. Or I am marrying you because society expects and would respect me to be married as it shows I am responsible.

The Dutch Prime Minister is single.

Or I'd marry you only because I love you. These are wrong reasons to be married. For a potential spouse, look at compatibility, companionship, communication, character and charisma. Exude these qualities yourself and you shall find it in your potential partner. Love will fade, the butterflies in your stomach shall die, your partner shall irritate you, what then would hold your marriage?

The stories of wayward men and women are told everyday on this forum. Don't let them deter you. There are very good men and women from very good homes who are responsible to be wifed or husbanded. I know this because all my sisters have been married for years and no one has come to report that they have issues with them.

Don't go looking for a wife. Develop yourself and have the values of someone husbandable, creation will link you to your spouse.

In closing, my question to you is:

Why exactly do you want to get married? Are you truly convinced of the answer you give yourself?

abi Dutch minister is gay