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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by SlurUsername1: 2:01pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
nabiz: That one concern you madam.. Marriage is a scam, enjoy your scam alone 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by GreaterFuture(m): 2:01pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Most Nigerians are not happy in their marriages, especially the women, This i Know for sure. The fact that you are asking shows that something is Seriously wrong somewhere and it is Obvious. If a person has not improved on himself/herself as a human being and not matured or Experienced, how would he/she settle with another who is most likely the Same? Also deep deep down if we want it be honest, marraige is not for many People, cos of a lot of deep numerous, Complicated and not too complicated reasons. Whether the person is sensible or not, matured or not, good or not, faithful or not, is not the point, Marraige just isn't for everyone, and that's a Solid Truth. But many do not or can ever ever bring themselves to accept that Truth, because of the way our society is plus they are not even bold enough to live their life like that. If about 60% of the married women i have met in my life, including old, middle aged and young, Rich or poor, Illiterate and Educated, North and South East, Home based and Abroad, etc... were attracted and Would have been a sure 'Lay' for me if I tried, (Some even behaving like teenagers around me) then it shows that something is seriously wrong somewhere. I know there is a lot we still do not understand about life, our existence, consciousness and psychology etc. but Still i think this is kinda Sad. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by petitejolie(f): 2:01pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
nabiz:thank you ooo... some people are just looking for to join their association of miserable guys 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jefferyhi86(m): 2:02pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Ur right thou, couple to the fact av being jobless for some time make me regret marriage icebird25: |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by when2(f): 2:02pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
bouncin04: For you to come to nairaland to seek advise from women haters shows that you are not ready to settle down. Besides its a well known fact that men are unfaithful in marriage than women. Besides i don't think you are a saint. 7 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Berankis: 2:02pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
1. Dont you regret being alive sometimes? But it doesnt mean you want to die. 2. Dont you regret being a Nigerian a lot of times? But it doesnt necessarily mean you want to stop being a Nigerian, so same too is marriage. Sometimes, you regret and some other times you feel it is the best thing that has happened to you. You just have to understand that being married doesnt necessarily mean you have full control of your wife, her parents still have a great influence over her and must respect it and vice versa. She also has some level of freedom too and you must accord it. Things dont always go as planned or as expected, just take life as it comes and try to make the best out of every situation. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by foreveryoung1515(f): 2:02pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Marry your friend. that's what I didn't do and I do regret it over and over again. 18 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by SlurUsername1: 2:03pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Kuns84: Explain to the house how baby mamas bleed pockets in Nigeria? This is a lie to make us fall for the scam called marriage 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Ensquare(m): 2:03pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Yes..five times |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Frustrated007: 2:03pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
nah them worse pass BigDawsNet: |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by laborious(m): 2:04pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Someone that have my child already is waiting for me to marry her...me that i know what i am doing! 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by wisdomeze(m): 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Please and please, don't listen to these little children who have all come bellow u to write "marriage is a scam" most of them are not even up-to their mid-twenties. I got married at age twenty eight and today I am 33 and still strong in my marriage. If to say ur mama and Papa fear, by now u for no exist. Be a man by taking decisions ursef, u don't need anybody's opinion about this institution called marriage. We learn everyday. I never ready, I never ready naim make some people wey de 60years get children of 1year, 3years and 7years. Which strength dem wan use train the children? Most of them go begin take Viagra to satisfy their young wives sef. My brother, until u take that bold step, u re not yet a man.... 14 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by icebird25(m): 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Fussion1000: Look at this one ..better go and run a DNA test on your children ..before you comment anything here.... 4 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by zubimete(f): 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
icebird25:YOU LIED. WOMEN ARE THE MOST FAITHFUL IN MARRIAGE. MARRIAGE IS FOR SERIOUS & RESPONSIBLE BEING. 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by SlurUsername1: 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
foreveryoung1515: Shaaraappp 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by judedwriter(m): 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by FuckThaMod: 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Na this kain topic dey sweet ladies, Always fantasizing about anything marriage. Mtcheww 6 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by omotola90(m): 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Preetti:alpha apes is not right to call God's creature... Happy Sunday |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by reidkrugger(m): 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
There's no difference between marriage and courtship. Na oversense and overconfidence de kill d latter. If you r humble, truthful, wise and tolerant, you can marry. Marriage is simple, it's d participants dat makes it hard. Get married when your time comes, for there is no real joy in becoming a baby anything. 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by malali: 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
petitejolie: Abi you are lesbian ? |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Theevilone(m): 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
icebird25: Ur so so wrong. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by mkoabiola: 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Make i Park for this br lane to read comments. D gud.. D bad abd d ugly. But it will b gud if married men/women comment so as to read with juice n popcorn 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Karlifate: 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
bouncin04, compatibility is vital. 3 Likes
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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by TheRedpillguy: 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
dominique: Yeah ignore the statistics and real life story and pay attention to the make believe happy life nobody is seeing . 4 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by AlfaSeltzer(m): 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Many people that give you marriage advise, just like rev. fathers, have no idea what marriage is like. Follow them at your own risk. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by emkz: 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
petitejolie: Please where did you read and how do you know Mark Rutte is gay? Please don't come to a public forum to throw speculations about his sexual orientation. It can be damaging if it's not true. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gidah: 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Funny I just got married few weeks ago and every forum I go this is the only thing I see lol. That's how it went for everyone I guess everyone reminding you that you can't do this and that now, but I'm denying it and I will live to be a proof that marriage shouldn't be an obstacle if God give you the knowledge to handle your type of woman. So help me God 17 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 2:07pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
When you are ready to marry, go ahead and Marry. Forget about scary stories you here about marriage. Parents regret giving birth to some kids and even they try to abort some and they refuse to get aborted. Sinlings fight even twins. Look at Peter and Paul for example. I'm sure at a point they regretted being borthers. Don't marry with the mentality that everything is gonna be perfect. It wont. It has never been perfect. It gets perfect at some point where you look back and smile and tell yourself you dis the right thing marrying this person. Some don't ever get perfect and leads to break-up. That doesn't mean people shouldn't marry if they want to.also remember, it's not a do or die or a competition or a let me taste it and know if I can do kind of thing. 8 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by icebird25(m): 2:07pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by FuckThaMod: 2:07pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
zubimete:So you mean everyone that got married are serious and responsible. Clap for yourself, marriage counselor 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by pocohantas(f): 2:08pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
It is funny when some NL guys claim marriage doesn’t benefit men, yet they won’t stop shaming single ladies with “go and marry”. One would think they’ll love single ladies and encourage them, but the reverse is the case. I honestly don’t know how that works. If your parents and the people around you are having troubled marriages- that is on them. After all, marriage is the coming together of 2 (maybe more) people. It is what you put into it, that it gives you back. GIGO... 17 Likes 3 Shares |
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