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Must everything be brought online? Nawao. why cant she take the pixs to her spiritual leaders and have them sort things out. Report him to his family or even go to his boss and complain so he is called to order. She could even go to court and separate herself from him for the time being. But her fish brain took her online; shaming her children. Imagine how the kids will feel in school when they realize their friends know their family issues.

fatahtalks:
Instead of coming to social media to do all this. It wld hv been better if she approach the husband's family to ask them to talk to the husband. Now ur husband cld be fired by channels television for these video. Which means u will hv a jobless man to deal with, which is even worst. Atleast she said she advised him to spend wisely, which means he atleast spends a little on the family. When he becomes jobless wat will become the faith of the family. All this online sympathy wont put food on ur table. Think before you act

As much as I am not a fan of social justice warriors, sometimes, it is the only place to get justice. The husband who did this doesn't deserve any form of hush hush. He needs to be called out publicly, let the world know and what he is.

You said he could be fired, so which is worse, him being fired or the trauma he has subjected her to? No, you can't dictate the clap back when you were the one who started the clapping.

Plus if he has been doing this for 6 years, who told you talking to family members will change him?

If you're not holding brief then watch the brief sit down and shut the hell up

clarocuzioo:
The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.


There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.

But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.

Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.

Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.

This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.

If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.

Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?

Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.

Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?

Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?

Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?

Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.

Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.

Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?

Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?

There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.

It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.

For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.

NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now.

He just lost job....... Let's see how he would fund his extra curriculum activities....... (eventual outcome).......

Afterwards, he must also be prosecuted...... He is not a man, but animal.......

Whilst dating, did she not notice his physically abusive tendencies.......... For this, I blame her........

Let's say he did not abuse her, during dating periods.... What happened after his first strike?.....

Yet, she sat and had 4 kids with this thug..... I hope those so called God of men, did not plea on his behalf, allowing her collect more abuse..........

fatahtalks:
Instead of coming to social media to do all this. It wld hv been better if she approach the husband's family to ask them to talk to the husband. Now ur husband cld be fired by channels television for these video. Which means u will hv a jobless man to deal with, which is even worst. Atleast she said she advised him to spend wisely, which means he atleast spends a little on the family. When he becomes jobless wat will become the faith of the family. All this online sympathy wont put food on ur table. Think before you act

She's a medical doctor for Christ's sake. And yes, the idiot deserves to lose his job. And who tells you family members talking to him would change anything Las las, he'd beg and swear that he won't do it again, until he finally kills her. Any woman who sticks to a violent man deserves whatsoever she gets. Even if she dies in the process, I'd still be unbothered. A foolish person always doesn't end well

contour0510:
Must everything be brought online? Nawao. why cant she take the pixs to her spiritual leaders and have them sort things out. Report him to his family or even go to his boss and complain so he is called to order. She could even go to court and separate herself from him for the time being. But her fish brain took her online; shaming her children. Imagine how the kids will feel in school when they realize their friends know their family issues.

Let the world know their family business. The world deserves to know what kind of animal the man is so they know how to react.

As for the children, how do you think they feel already knowing their mother is in the next room taking premiumg and maximum beating?

Biko, all these talks of not publicly shaming men who do this are just okoto. Shame him, let him feel shame so other men will not go down this road

Panel beaters everywhere. And some people are here protecting the man's interest as usual. Toxic masculinity is a thing in Africa.

Wahala be like bicycle this days oooo, thank God say I never marry, because those wey don marry dey make everything dey shock us wey be single guys, but Hanty why you come dey bring your family affairs to the social media?

Good she brought it on social media so that everyone will know the monster he is inside

If you're tired of the woman why not seek for separation but he knows as a medical doctor she can be able to survive without him somewhat.

clarocuzioo:
The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.


There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.

But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.

Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.

Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.

This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.

If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.

Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?

Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.

Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?

Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?

Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?

Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.

Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.

Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?

Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?

There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.

It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.

For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.

NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now.

Ol boy, you get "mad" data on this girl.
You suppose feed her husband all these info before he got into the marriage setup.

Wahala really be like bicycle.

That's not absolutely correct. It's not right. She may regret it later. Women are easily tempered. That's why it's easy for them to fall for a sweet tongued liar/toaster.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4YgZTi2opU

ityP:
She's a medical doctor for Christ's sake. And yes, the idiot deserves to lose his job. And who tells you family members talking to him would change anything Las las, he'd beg and swear that he won't do it again, until he finally kills her. Any woman who sticks to a violent man deserves whatsoever she gets. Even if she dies in the process, I'd still be unbothered. A foolish person always doesn't end well

It's people like your quoted, that make them sit in abusive relationships. Till someone is killed...........

sapphiere:
Most women always believe that their husbands would change with time.
Also, some women stay in abusive marriage for the sake of their kids.

Change you say? Any who believes such is a fool. An abusive man would always remain an abusive man for life, except of course, you stab am with bottle or knife and he spends some time in the hospital. But, if the stabbing goes wrong and he dies, na jail straight. Also, the excuse of staying in an abusive marriage for the sake of the kids is a very foolish mentality too. A lady should get out of an abusive marriage for the sake of her kids. It's way better a child grows up in a divided home than in an abusive one

I believe this man has family and kinsmen that you can start with and not bringing every issue to the public. You are still in his house, if am not mistaking

BarrElChapo:
Good she brought it on social media so that everyone will know the monster he is inside

If you're tired of the woman why not seek for separation but he knows as a medical doctor she can be able to survive without him somewhat.

All she needs to do is relocate........ She would live like a queen, that she is..........

asatemple:
I believe this man has family and kinsmen that you can start with and not bringing every issue to the public. You are still in his house, if am not mistaking

So he should kill her..... How are you sure it's not her house?.....

I hope your husband treats you with respect........

Why all this na?

Men, make una dey stop all this kind crap!

If marriage tire una, make una dey exit. Which one be say make una dey beat person daughter?

Many people, especially men, testify online that marriage is a waste of time and a disadvantage for men. You people mock them with a certain name (shey na Alpha male abi red piller, I no know). You then go ahead with marriage which is good. But when it does not favour you, you are now too ashamed to exit it; you don't want to prove they were somehow right. I know women well enough and won't be surprised she was the first to cheat but a honourable man walks away. And that's it!

But instead, you now resort to staying in the marriage while punishing the woman. See, I thought the laws in the West have been made stronger on spouse battery. Let them pick him up asap. All these men, because of small money wey them get, them go dey feel like say them be Napoleon. Awon oniiranu.

6yrs of pummeling,6yrs with 4kids? How manage? There is more to this story.

No matter what, endeavour to hear from the other person before making conclusion,some of these women dey beat their husbands steady,the day he chooses to fight back they now bring it to the media,men are also going through a lot just that they don't voice it out...say no to domestic violence

Lexusgs430:
It's people like your quoted, that make them sit in abusive relationships. Till someone is killed...........

Exactly

sapphiere:
Most women always believe that their husbands would change with time.
Also, some women stay in abusive marriage for the sake of their kids.

Change is in the hands of the individual involved, nobody can change anybody..........

Sake of the kids, till she is in a coffin........ The kids would still live their life afterwards.......

Sorry

asatemple:
I believe this man has family and kinsmen that you can start with and not bringing every issue to the public. You are still in his house, if am not mistaking

Abegi. Of what use is telling his family and kinsmen? She should tell the world. Who knows, a good Samaritan may help to treat the idiot's f*CK up

See them. Why don’t you go and find out the things she did in primary school. even better see if you can find out the bad things she did while in her mother’s womb, to try and justify the domestic violence. We are familiar with your type.

clarocuzioo:
The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.


There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.

But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.

Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.

Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.

This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.

If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.

Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?

Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.

Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?

Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?

Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?

Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.

Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.

Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?

Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?

There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.

It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.

For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.

NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now.

sapphiere:
Men and cheat.

Calm down. Women cheat more disdainfully. Can she swear with her life she never slept with a married man before she got married? Can you yourself also swear that? Now how many unmarried men do you know sleep with married women?

Abeg go rest.

Not justifying the man's assault tho.

LordKO:
Unless the man is insane, I wager the physical abuse is a reaction to either emotional or psychological abuse. So, shame and blame go to whosoever is the instigator of the abuse between them. It's about time everyone accepts the fact that no one person has a monopoly of toxicity and pettiness. Say no to all forms of abuse.

Nonsense talk. If he is emotionally or psychologically abused, he can exit the marriage. Dem no tie am put

Dayoebe:
Nobody deserve this kinda beating.

Real men don beat their wives no matter the circumstances or pressure.

I'd rather fight my fellow men instead of beating any women.



Though some women are stoneheaded

No amount of stoneheadness justified physical assault. If my wife dey gimme headache, I dey separate or divorce asap

You are a DR with 4 children in six years.. Except, twins are among the children that's look somehow..
He will be reporting live on channel on the need for child spacing, likewise you will be telling pregnant women in the clinic on the important of child spacing.. Where is correlation here.. I wish you normalcy in your apparent sour relationship in the marriage

clarocuzioo:
The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.


There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.

But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.

Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.

Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.

This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.

If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.

Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?

Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.

Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?

Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?

Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?

Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.

Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.

Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?

Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?

There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.

It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.

For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.

NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now.

Onku, you be the elder brother? How you come manage know her generation history even pass the parents.

capitalzero:
The woman is a medical doctor. She can take care of herself and kids. Do you want her dead? Women should speak up on account of domestic violence before it is too late!!

dead how?, do you think is all men that can take women careless talk, I may take it, but every other men may not. I know they most be a careless talk, the man just want to correct her careless talk in a way he think he will be better for him, but is not going to kill her as you said.

contour0510:
Must everything be brought online? Nawao. why cant she take the pixs to her spiritual leaders and have them sort things out. Report him to his family or even go to his boss and complain so he is called to order. She could even go to court and separate herself from him for the time being. But her fish brain took her online; shaming her children. Imagine how the kids will feel in school when they realize their friends know their family issues.

Shut up. She isn't shaming her children. She's shaming her husband. When he beats her, you no reason say neighbors fit hear the beatings? Whether she comes to the public to say it or not, people in her area (and most likely the area her kids go to school) know she married a wife beater

johnnychuks:
dead how?, do you think is all men that can take women careless talk, I may take it, but every other men may not. I know they most be a careless talk, the man just want to correct her careless talk in a way he think he will be better for him, but is not going to kill her as you said.

Omo. See mentality abeg. So what happens when na the man dey do careless talk? Make she carry cane beat am too? Mtcheww. And see as you dey yarn, "is not going to kill her"? Chai. Your wife go hear am with this stupid mentality of yours