How Do I Handle This? - Romance - Nairaland
Nairaland Forum › Nairaland General › Romance › How Do I Handle This? (1640 Views)
| How Do I Handle This? by mezico96(op): 9:32am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Pls great people of NL for some years now I've been molested and harassed by gays My first experience was during my secondary school days in abuja...I was approached by a close friend of mine to be his partner and I declined and due to my relationship with him,I didn't take actions... I had passion for football and was good at it as a young guy but same issue of gay almost ruined me,I had a coach who was very found of me,in fact,he is the reason I became a good player cos he trusted and trained me even when he had better players...though I had rumors about he's sexuality but never took it serious because he never approached me or mentioned any thing of such... One day he called me to his place and told me about his plans of connecting me to better team but on condition that he use me  ...of cocourse I declined and lost the opportunity.Fast forward to today... I've relocated to Benue and am still facing same problem...to the extent that one of them swore to do what ever it takes to have me...there was this day one came to my room,while I was busy playing my PlayStation,he held my hands and as I tried to turn he kissed me ...I felt really bad and hated myself throughout that week.I don't know if I'm the problem, I'm a simple and friendly,I try not to judge but I feel this is getting to far, even though I've threatened to expose them. Please what do I do? |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by Skyfornia(m): 9:39am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Why would you be asking such question? Are you not a man or you are considering indulging in the act?? Why you no punch the guy or give him dirty slap? One guy tried such with me way back and I taught him a lesson. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by mezico96(op): 9:49am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Skyfornia:In truth I couldn't react maybe because I was shocked,though I stopped him from coming to my house and also told my family about it and they adviced me not do anything unless he tries it again... I can't and will never indulge in such a thing cos it is ungodly and bad for my health... |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by Sundrus: 10:24am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Ur next story soon go be "a male friend raped me. Please nairalanders what should i do?" U sure say ur attitude & way of life no dey attract those gays  |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by Jodha(f): 10:29am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Guy yhu better man up... sometimes it's not good to be "too nice" or "too approachable" ... people will easily walk all over yhu... Yhu need to bone....be strict and limit people's access to yhu...yhull see that they won't have the audacity... I was that before...all and sundry will walk up to me and tell me shitz...but not anymore... And I feel it's better that way... 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by SILENTandSMART2: 10:37am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Bro use rag to handle it  If you use hand it the food can pour away jusss use rag |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by internationalman(m): 10:46am On Dec 06, 2020 |
It takes gay to know gay.. That's all I gotta say 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by Homeboiy: 10:52am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Women de try sha How them take they turn different men down no easy oo 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by mezico96(op): 11:58am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Jodha:Thanks man...best advise so far |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by mezico96(op): 11:58am On Dec 06, 2020 |
internationalman:Hmm... |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by hashtagged(m): 12:39pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
The way you react means you are almost a gay but haven't totally lost it, simple just go warn them that you would go to the police, they would fear the 14yrs that would go from their lives 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by mezico96(op): 1:05pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
hashtagged:OK sir...thanks alot |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by NiklauseFred(m): 9:32pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Sorry if this may offend you but pls post ur pic here,I want to check something.  |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by apartlawful: 9:34pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Lol.. do u behave like girl 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by adogp: 9:36pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Oga oooo. How will you even kiss ur fellow guy. Very disgusting |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by mezico96(op): 9:57pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
NiklauseFred:sorry I can't...I created this account to share my problem and also express myself |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by mezico96(op): 9:58pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
apartlawful:nahh...far from that |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by mezico96(op): 9:59pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
adogp:its not even as disgusting as when you are the victim... |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by NiklauseFred(m): 10:12pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
mezico96:It's okay. But I think you need to check urself very well,to know if you are doing anything that pertains to gays. |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Where una dey see dem self me no dey see them O But I wan see one one day make I teach am lesson 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Where una dey see dem self me no dey see them O But I wan see one one day make I teach am lesson  2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by Zazzzu(m): 10:46pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
if na benue no gree o. dem dey use am do money 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by tobechi74: 1:42am On Dec 07, 2020 |
You are too submissive, they see you as one that can be pressured into a cock soccer. Next time you play ball. Be aggressive towards every body. Commit foul. Fight. They will not bear you 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by mezico96(op): 7:51am On Dec 07, 2020 |
NiklauseFred:I act same way amongst my friends be it male or female.... And if they notice otherwise in my character they tell me 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by mezico96(op): 7:54am On Dec 07, 2020 |
tobechi74:Do you know me? Cos am guilty of all you said... but how is it related to my problem? |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by NiklauseFred(m): 8:17am On Dec 07, 2020 |
mezico96:Sometimes people tend to mind their business. |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by mezico96(op): 8:47am On Dec 07, 2020 |
NiklauseFred:I don't keep such friends |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by UndauntedYOCA(f): 12:20pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Fear those UniAgric and BSU boys ooo, most of them are cultists and deadly, you know how they can just shoot you in public and no one will do anything about it. If you have to relocate, please do. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by tobechi74: 12:35pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
mezico96:Among Homosexuals, there are dominant (husband) and submissive(wives). Men like obedience women as wives. People with certain features are likely victims. Quiet person wey no like wahala make good diiick succkkkkeers.. The day you begin to be assertive, querrelsome, fighter,. He will see you as a fellow dominant person. You no longer make a potential gay wife. He will avoid you. Do not fight him? Let him see you aggressive many times. https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/ |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by mezico96(op): 7:57pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
UndauntedYOCA:Are you in Benue? |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by mezico96(op): 7:58pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
tobechi74:For real?? |
| Re: How Do I Handle This? by gfon(m): 8:08pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
With the sweetness of puzzy??God helps any guy that trys dat with me.my pistol would rain that day |
If You Can’t Handle This, Don’t Date A Single Mom • My Fiancé Disregards Me, How Do I Handle This? • How Do I Handle This? Am Not Proud Of My Girl's Looks.. • 2 • 3 • 4
A Story Of A Lover Who Married The Whole Family • Is This Right Or Wrong • This Guy Dumped Me Because Of Luggage (real Life Story)