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Who is this riffr*ff?

AmazonTopaz:
You are the one talking like a child

OMOJOHN001:
Stupid Question.

If a father that buried your child placenter is not in the position to name the child, then that wife must be crazy.
TUEEEEEEHHH

My father name all his children, then my mom also gave us the name she wished, but it was my father that named us,all the first name we are using. my mom do call us by the name she gave us and our dad do call us my the name he gave us.

Even in yoruba land, that's not a question to ask.
Even when a child is given birth to and the father is not around they do call the father to ask for the child name.

Arrogant and Maybe cheating is what will make a woman to be dragging naming of a child with her husband.

Maybe it was another man that even owns the child who knows, TUEEEH

This is 2020 anybody names a child even in the Yoruba land you are using as an example.
Go siddon abeg the man for still carry the belle too since na him work alone.
Rubbish.
A woman who names her child must have been arrogant and cheated too you sure say you dey alright so?

DMerciful:
Who is this riffr*ff?

You are the riffr*ff

AmazonTopaz:
I don't read thr bible neither are we in biblical times do I couldn't care about that.

My point id anybody names a child and not the exclusive role of thr father.

what's your moral upbringing? It's important one has a foundation at early age to be able to handle some issues we face in future

Nuyokoi:
which women takes marriage as an achievement?

naming a child isn't a big deal nor does it replace the man's place
but if that's what you're concluding you need to work on your self-worth as a man.

if the man were smart, he would work together to make the naming a joint effort;
millions of names out there for them to come to an agreement on.

if YOU are not careful, your ignorance will destroy you.

Well said

Luak:
what's your moral upbringing? It's important one has a foundation at early age to be able to handle some issues we face in future

Oh I am a very moral person believe me I am.
Morality is subjective and not exclusive to religion .

AmazonTopaz:
Oh this is the same Trump supporter arguing that BLM is affiliated with CNN and the democrats oh I should have known better.

when you have no point to make, you commit fallacy. I understand your type.

To correct your myopic view. I said BLM was Democrats tool politically and CNN as an arm of Democrats.

oluwatosink:
Names plays vital role in the lives of children. So the mother should name the child because only her knew what she went through before the delivery of the child. The husband can give a second name to the child.

Man is the head of the house,he paid her her diary,his house,the child's name and surname all belongs to the man...which Kain yeye wetin he pass through

AmazonTopaz:
Oh I am a very moral person believe me I am.
Morality is subjective and not exclusive to religion .

educate me more

Inside life

Freedom? what kinda name is that for God's sake? is the baby in bondage?

Since some people don't even understand naming, let them both name the child:

Victor - First name
Freedom - Middle name
Bondage - Third name

Oshi==== people and pettiness.

Juliusmomoh:
My anty is just messing things up... . She want to be the all in all in everthing..

That's what happens when a woman know you are not the real father.

Juliusmomoh:
E shock me oo..
In her word: " i have the right to decide the name to be giving to my son"

that ur Aunty marriage nor go last

kalu61:
when you have not point to make, you commit fallacy. I understand your type.

To correct you myopic view. I said BLM was democrate tool politically and CNN as an arm of Democrats.

Tool oh,affiliated oh
All na the same thing very myopic and illogical reasoning because there is no evidence of that.

You don't know my type so run along

Luak:
educate me more

On what exactly.I don't know where to start from

AmazonTopaz:
Tool oh,affiliated oh
All na the same thing very myopic and illogical reasoning because there is no evidence of that.

You don't know my type so run along

Don't deviate again when you lost in a discussion. Face the topic of the thread woman

kalu61:
Africa culture place such responsibility on the man first

Women of nowadays are now jumping against culture and assuming that responsibility and its very sad

One4me:
So the Husband was sleeping throughout the pregnancy, ehn?
Some of you sef.
The Husband is the HEAD of that Family, whether Religiously or Culturally and he has the right of first refusal.
He would give the child his firs name and then the Mother can add the middle name. Even Cousins, GrandDads and GrandMas can add their own, it should not cause any disagreement

Even Jesus was named by his Father, Abraham named his Sons, Isaac name his Sons, etc
Let me ask out of curiosity: Who gave you your own name? Your Father or Mother?
I will not be surprised at your answer because it may be responsible for the way you are reasoning.


*** runs away before Pot, Pan and Spoons start flying***

Leave that lady. She knows nothing.

AmazonTopaz:
On what exactly.I don't know where to start from

start from when you were a child, the schools you attended and the source of your moral upbringing

Hmm

Well, as for me, I will name the boys, she name the girls

Don't want no woman naming my sons after her exes.

Today women are senseless

kalu61:
Don't deviate again when you lost in a discussion. Face the topic of the thread woman

Excuse me where we discussing

Go and sit down young man

AmazonTopaz:
Excuse me where we discussing

Go and sit down young man

lgnored

Na Alfa or Pastor
Thank you

Victor Freedom. Simple thing, but Nigerians go still fūck am up.

Luak:
start from when you were a child, the schools you attended and the source of your moral upbringing

I was brought up in a christian family and attended christian schools.
I won't say that was the source of my morality now because I have deviated from some things considered moral according to the religion.
I am liberal in my ideology so there are some things I may believe in or morally agree with that is not in agreement with christianity.
The source of my morality is my conscience and what I personally view as right/wrong as long as it does not infringe on the rights of others I believe in the principle of live and let live.I believe in tolerance so I don't dictate to others or how they choose to live their lives.I avoid trouble and loathe violence I believe in diplomacy/round table discussions and team work that is a part of own moral code.

Local names. ,,,,, which one is freedom and victor

The Bible wants wives to be submissive to their husband. Except there's another man involved, the wife should.

See the little things that cause quarrel in marriages.... Tomorrow now you will hear ,shebi na you give am the name ?

My wife always ask me to give my child a name first (English name).

She will then give the child a second name of her choice (Igbo name).


Stop showing muscle on minor issues in marriage.

Juliusmomoh:
Good day nairalander
.
What is your kind opinion to the above question ?...
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My anty and her husband have being having isuee concerning this since yesterday...
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She gave birth 7days ago, and according to there religion (christainity), tomorrow is the naming...
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Now two of them are having isuee now concerning the naming..
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The husband suggest the boy to be called: victor..
While the wife (my anty) suggest the boy to be called: freedom ...
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Now mothers and fathers in the house. WHO OUGHT TO NAME A CHILD ? .
Mother or father ? Abi both of them ?

Both of them

The man gives native name
The woman gives christian or English name

:Africa culture place such responsibility on the man first Women of nowadays are now jumping against culture and assuming that responsibility and its very sad

AmazonTopaz:
I was brought up in a christian family and attended christian schools.
I won't say that was the source of my morality now because I have deviated from some things considered moral according to the religion.
I am liberal in my ideology so there are some things I may believe in or morally agree with that is not in agreement with christianity.
The source of my morality is my conscience and what I personally view as right/wrong as long as it does not infringe on the rights of others I believe in the principle of live and let live.I believe in tolerance so I don't dictate to others or how they choose to live their lives.I avoid trouble and loathe violence I believe in diplomacy/round table discussions and team work that is a part of own moral code.

I'm beginning to like you. You are a special person

AmazonTopaz:
I like this method your family adopted

Yeahh.
I'm gonna be adopting it too.

Luak:
I'm beginning to like you. You are a special person

I like you too.I like the fact that you did not judge me but wanted to hear me out that is nice.
Thanks for the compliment also.