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i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

Guy. I am a married man, let me advise you from that perspective. You go out because of your family to make sure they don't lack atleast financially and to put food on the table, you wife should respect that and understand. But she cheated, well I would advice you don't take her back, count your losses and move on, but don't forget that ur kid, Nwa bu nke gi.

Wife na u marry,50m bride price na u pay,na u she dey cheat on..and wen she carry hiv,na still u she go give am to...ur decision is my decision.if she dies from adultry,follow her die also.

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

lalasticlala, mynd44 Dominique seun help me

You need to get your son back(if he is really yours) and not her.

But If you still like to enjoy more pains, you can bring her back.

hopeforcharles:
Guy. I am a married man, let me advise you from that perspective. You go out because of your family to make sure they don't lack atleast financially and to put food on the table, you wife should respect that and understand. But she cheated, well I would advice you don't take her back, count your losses and move on, but don't forget y OK ur kid, Nwa bu nke gi.

Make I go tribalistic, e bi like say this people to dey pana**h.

Igala Woman doing this ?

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

lalasticlala, mynd44 Dominique seun help me

Is it your neighbours that should pass judgement on your wife?

because of bride price...dude wants to manage an adulterous woman.....na Sexually transmitted disease and paternity fraud go end am..

Everyday, more reasons to be scared even the more.

Dear Lord, is any sane one remaining?

Jazzafizzy:
Igala Woman doing this ?

e shock you?

Are you into business?
If yes, consider it as money/funds lost in business if that will make you feel better.

Your money, your life, her adultery, your choice sir.

"Goodluck" to you or maybe na "Mohammadu" to you sef.

Find her and take your kid back and put her in jail

On a second note that might not be your child

An adulterous wife will send you to your grave earlier than a bullet from an SKS.

In some traditions, her people will be mandated to pay back every dime you spent marrying her.

Adultery is not something you take lightly, not in Igbo land or Igala.

Get in touch with your people, so they will accompany you to see her people so they can do the necessary things.

Never accept her back, no matter the magnitude of tears and begging. If you give her a chance, she will poison you or probably kill you in your sleep.

Traditionally, the boy is yours. If she's to seek a legal divorce, you'll win custody on the ground that your wife is a hoe, irresponsible, and a bad influence on your son.

My advice to young folks: If you want peace of mind, never marry, get a baby mama instead. There are some good women, they are few and not worth the gamble.

Shalom!

hashtagged:
Find her and take your kid back and put her in jail

On a second note that might not be your child

Put her in jail say wetin happen?!

MJBOLT:

your peace of mind is far more valuable than any bride price,never forgive or take back a hoe because hoes will be hoes.if you can afford it,do a DNA test on your child.

gbam


seconded

Jazzafizzy:
Igala Woman doing this ?

E muzz me too

My guy married women get lashed everyday so there is nothing special about your wife's toto.

Life must go on

Fvckhypocrite:
e shock you?

E shock me oo Dem get better culture for marriage oo

Woe betide a cheating wife

Womanizer:
Put her in jail say wetin happen?!

She kidnapped the kid

Omo

This matter get as e be....some women are just unsatisfiable

Good woman no dey easy to find

hashtagged:
She kidnapped the kid

Kidnapped a child that is also her own?

Jazzafizzy:
E shock me oo Dem get better culture for marriage oo

in every group of fols they must be black egg among so no deal u be igala?

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

lalasticlala, mynd44 Dominique seun help me

Ask for a refund and do a dna test for the kid

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
My guy married women get lashed everyday so there is nothing special about your wife's toto.

Life must go on

it will not be my portion ijn. I reject it

Oga just forgive am. who knows, it may have been that u strafed ppls daughters as an unmarried man previously? If that's d case, then this could just be payback time. Anyway, just forgive her n overlook it, try n b more romantic with her

Go and collect your change ma brother, if them no give you protest for street

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

lalasticlala, mynd44 Dominique seun help me

Next time your life will be involved, don’t be a dummy, relax she will come back

Where are those useless creatures call zzor and fatt002 they won’t comment on this one nonsense

Take her back if you really love her and if she is sincerely remorseful for what she did, not because of the money you spent marrying her.

The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know and the grass is not greener at the other side