stella55:
the only solution for you is to date fat girl don't consider her shape and continue feeding her.

don't come back to write "my girlfriend is becoming too fat and I don't like it"

baralatie:

they start a 21 day praying and fasting to find such a woman na!
don't you believe in prayers ni

LadyTianna:
Lol I've dated a guy like that. Felt weird cos sometimes he reminded me of my dad. Op are you Ibo?

swiswiioo:


We're you unhappy being with him becyse he liked feeding you or because he was like your dad?

Also yes I'm Igbo. How did you know?

LadyTianna:


No I wasn't unhappy. I found it endearing. I think its something common with Ibo men. He always told me that the wealth of men in your tribe is meant to reflect in their loved ones. It gives them a kind of pride

swiswiioo:


Please ooo where can I find someone who finds such endearing

I didn't realise it was an Igbo thing. But yes that is how I feel about it partly. I really want to take care of my woman well. I cannot feel satisfied as a man if I don't.

In which relationship does a well taken care of woman not add

swiswiioo:


That is usually not a problem for me. The issue I have is once they start adding they start becoming unhappy.

I want to know how I can be in a situation where both my future wife and I can be happy.

stella55:
the only solution for you is to date fat girl don't consider her shape and continue feeding her.

don't come back to write "my girlfriend is becoming too fat and I don't like it"

swiswiioo:


I could never imagine myself thinking such. If I find a woman the only thing brining my back here to write would be to bring about how big and fine my wife is.

How do I find such a woman?
Should I just remove my eye from slim and average sized girls?

yes remove your eyes from slim and average girls date fat girls and stick with them.

stella55:
the only solution for you is to date fat girl don't consider her shape and continue feeding her.

don't come back to write "my girlfriend is becoming too fat and I don't like it"

LadyTianna:


Why not just go for fat girls then? They will eventually get fatter after having babies anyway...

LadyTianna:
did you try communication? Assuring them that you love them that way?

stella55:
yes remove your eyes from slim and average girls date fat girls and stick with them.

Yes I have. I didn't tell them I was trying to make them fat, but I told them I loved the extra flesh and all of that.

It didn't help. In my experience it usually it just makes them feel worse. One of my ex's even got mad at me for saying it.

swiswiioo:




Are fat girls more okay with a man that likes them that way or even bigger?

SILENTandSMART2:
I read dat writeup and I can't find wisdom in it,


I even use torchlight to find wisdom but i can't,


Eleribuu man,


Eleribuu original


Eleribuu OP

LadyTianna:
You're not going about the communication the right way. It even seems shady not telling them and just feeding them. Let her know from the Start that you love big girls. Compliment her frequently. Let her see you admiring her. Smile when you look at her.

I'm curious tho...how fat is too fat for you?

stella55:

yes fat girls are the best for since you like them fat and save yourself unnecessary drama

SweetCunt97:
Psycho on the beat.


Come and marry me o. I'll grow fat and exercise, fat exercise.

Come and feed me fat Op

Jodha:
So yhu want yhur babe to be shapeless?.... Nawa .... That's how a guy I was with insisted I must get fat to prove he's taking care of me....

I change am for am ASAP.... I'm not slim because my parents does not take care of me or I can't take care of myself....but I always watch my weight and mind what I eat because...I cannot be shapeless...

hashtagged:


No 1 contender

LadyTianna:
My point exactly. Be completely upfront. Tell her exactly what you want. Don't tell her you love her size AFTER she's already gained weight. Any girl would be upset by that. Let her know before the weight starts coming. Let her know the kind of guy you are

swiswiioo:
Hello Nairaland

I made an account just to ask this question. I know it sounds strange and people like to post things to catch cruise but I'm in actual need of guidance. I don't have anyone in real life I can consult.

Basically, I can't feel content in a relationship if my woman is not being fed well and adding weight. Not only does it turn me on, but it fills me with love and happiness. I feel like it is my responsibility to spoil and care for my woman, and adding weight is a major sign of being well cared for. If my woman is not growing or even reducing, I feel like I'm failing as a man. She musn't end up extremely too too big, but definitely become big gradually over time.

I have dated a few girls before and they always end up becoming fat. I took them out often. Plenty pizza, icecream, big meals with cake and other desserts. I don't stress them physically so they can just relax and grow. While their added weight droven me crazy, they were often displeased and unhappy with it, affecting the relationship. Guilt would not allow me to tell them I very much like it and infact sought it out.

I don't know why I'm like this. It's like things would be better if I was a normal man that gets disappointed when his woman adds. I've tried to change this about myself many times but just can't. It's been part of me since I went through puberty.

I'm looking for a wife to marry now and I'm worried. I'm told I am a caring guy who will make a good husband, but I don't want to make my future wife miserable.
How can I find a women I can feed and spoil without guilt? How can I end up in a marriage where my wife can accept the fact I love that she has become fat?

swiswiioo:


I am not against this idea at all. Infact I'd prefer this scenario if I could find it in real life.

The thing is, few eligible women I run into are big. Most of the girls who catch my eye end up being married or even with children already. So it seems like by excluding non-big women I'm lowering my chances of finding true love.

Plus, do girls who are already fat typically accept their size?

swiswiioo:


This is what I replied the person who asked me the same question

"I am not against this idea at all. Infact I'd prefer this scenario if I could find it in real life.

The thing is, few eligible women I run into are big. Most of the girls who catch my eye end up being married or even with children already. So it seems like by excluding non-big women I'm lowering my chances of finding true love.

Plus, do girls who are already fat typically accept their size?"



Yes I have. I didn't tell them I was trying to make them fat, but I told them I loved the extra flesh and all of that.

It didn't help. In my experience it usually it just makes them feel worse. One of my ex's even got mad at me for saying it.


Are fat girls more okay with a man that likes them that way or even bigger?

swiswiioo:


I am not against this idea at all. Infact I'd prefer this scenario if I could find it in real life.

The thing is, few eligible women I run into are big. Most of the girls who catch my eye end up being married or even with children already. So it seems like by excluding non-big women I'm lowering my chances of finding true love.

Plus, do girls who are already fat typically accept their size?

swiswiioo:


If only the enthusiasm was real.



Okay I understand what you mean.
I just wouldn't think it would be necessary because I think it would be obvious that if you're always being taken out and fed your clothes will get tight on you. It's not like I forced the pizza and ice cream down their throats. I figured that with the fact I find them more attractive bigger would be enough to "connect the dots" so to speak.

But if you think being open about it is better I can try it. But won't a woman run from the hills if a guy she's dating tells her in the beginning "see I want to be feeding you and watching you add"

swiswiioo:


I am not against this idea at all. Infact I'd prefer this scenario if I could find it in real life.

The thing is, few eligible women I run into are big. Most of the girls who catch my eye end up being married or even with children already. So it seems like by excluding non-big women I'm lowering my chances of finding true love.

Plus, do girls who are already fat typically accept their size?

swiswiioo:


This is what I replied the person who asked me the same question

"I am not against this idea at all. Infact I'd prefer this scenario if I could find it in real life.

The thing is, few eligible women I run into are big. Most of the girls who catch my eye end up being married or even with children already. So it seems like by excluding non-big women I'm lowering my chances of finding true love.

Plus, do girls who are already fat typically accept their size?"



Yes I have. I didn't tell them I was trying to make them fat, but I told them I loved the extra flesh and all of that.

It didn't help. In my experience it usually it just makes them feel worse. One of my ex's even got mad at me for saying it.


Are fat girls more okay with a man that likes them that way or even bigger?

Erojepromise:
op come to mama. l want someone to spoil me rotten.. but I won't be overweight sha

Truvel:
Do So If U Want. Who Is Stopping U?

Ishilove:

A good number do. They have the mindset of "na fat I fat. I no kee person."

Since you like them with flesh on their bones, it will be better to hook up with a fleshy woman so there won't be any need to fatten them. Their main concern will be looking good, dressing well, glowing skin, being your companion etc. Yes, you like them fat but also be concerned about their health as well. Obesity will lead to untimely death.

Ishilove:

Oya drop your CV here let the fat Nairaland women locate you by fire.

Sarita01:

I have a friend who loves her size,she's fat and curvy,all our bad mouth dey fall on deaf ears,she's still eating as she likes,so yes there are women who love being fat and have accepted it

LadyTianna:


You know that no one can read minds. Guys take their babes out all the time, but they don't secretly hope that the girls will gain weight. Your desire is quite uncommon so I'm surprised you expect the girls to know what you're thinking. A way to let her know what you want is to smile and tease her from time to time saying, "babe please eat up, I like it when my woman gains weight and adds flesh". You can say it from time to time, that way, when she starts getting bigger, she'll know you like it. You can now say, "yea just how I like it" lol

Also, I think its better to go for girls that are already chubby. They might not mind adding extra kilos. I think a woman will feel comfortable with her weight no matter her size as long as her man makes her feel sexy. If you've watched "why did I get married", you'll get what I mean

Angelacruz:
Go to church ,weddig etc u will find one

lefulefu:
op ur own fetish no be here
u should be featured in TLC
i am having a big guess dat op must be a calabar man