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Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by stella55(f): 1:52pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
the only solution for you is to date fat girl don't consider her shape and continue feeding her. don't come back to write "my girlfriend is becoming too fat and I don't like it" |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by swiswiioo(m): 1:59pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
stella55: I could never imagine myself thinking such. If I find a woman the only thing brining my back here to write would be to bring about how big and fine my wife is. How do I find such a woman? Should I just remove my eye from slim and average sized girls? baralatie: How do you know I haven't been doing so? |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by swiswiioo(m): 2:00pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
LadyTianna: We're you unhappy being with him becyse he liked feeding you or because he was like your dad? Also yes I'm Igbo. How did you know? |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by LadyTianna(f): 2:09pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
swiswiioo: No I wasn't unhappy. I found it endearing. I think its something common with Ibo men. He always told me that the wealth of men in your tribe is meant to reflect in their loved ones. It gives them a kind of pride 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by swiswiioo(m): 2:22pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
LadyTianna: Please ooo where can I find someone who finds such endearing I didn't realise it was an Igbo thing. But yes that is how I feel about it partly. I really want to take care of my woman well. I cannot feel satisfied as a man if I don't. In which relationship does a well taken care of woman not add 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by LadyTianna(f): 2:32pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
swiswiioo: Why not just go for fat girls then? They will eventually get fatter after having babies anyway... |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by LadyTianna(f): 2:33pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
swiswiioo:did you try communication? Assuring them that you love them that way? |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by stella55(f): 2:34pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
stella55: swiswiioo: stella55: |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by swiswiioo(m): 2:50pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
LadyTianna: This is what I replied the person who asked me the same question "I am not against this idea at all. Infact I'd prefer this scenario if I could find it in real life. The thing is, few eligible women I run into are big. Most of the girls who catch my eye end up being married or even with children already. So it seems like by excluding non-big women I'm lowering my chances of finding true love. Plus, do girls who are already fat typically accept their size?" LadyTianna: Yes I have. I didn't tell them I was trying to make them fat, but I told them I loved the extra flesh and all of that. It didn't help. In my experience it usually it just makes them feel worse. One of my ex's even got mad at me for saying it. stella55:Are fat girls more okay with a man that likes them that way or even bigger? |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by SILENTandSMART2: 2:55pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
I read dat writeup and I can't find wisdom in it, I even use torchlight to find wisdom but i can't, Eleribuu man, Eleribuu original Eleribuu OP |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by LadyTianna(f): 2:59pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
[quote author=swiswiioo post=97026422] This is what I replied the person who asked me the same question Yes I have. I didn't tell them I was trying to make them fat, but I told them I loved the extra flesh and all of that. You're not going about the communication the right way. It even seems shady not telling them and just feeding them. Let her know from the Start that you love big girls. Compliment her frequently. Let her see you admiring her. Smile when you look at her. I'm curious tho...how fat is too fat for you? |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by stella55(f): 3:01pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
swiswiioo:yes fat girls are the best for since you like them fat and save yourself unnecessary drama |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by swiswiioo(m): 3:21pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
SILENTandSMART2: Oga, why do my desires make you vex like this? LadyTianna: No I do that, I am even told I'm overcaring at times. Atleast I try dropping hints about liking flesh before things get serious. When they add in relationships I tell them I love the extra curves and all of that. Maybe it's just my ex's, but it doesn't usually help. Infact it makes them feel someone that I like that they've gotten bigger. Unless that's still not how I should be going about it? The only thing I haven't told them is that I don't just like them bigger but actually enjoy making them bigger. As for size though, I've not seen someone in real life I thought was too big. I think it would depend on her shape, but realistically I'm not worried about a woman getting to fat for me. Those people on 600 Pound Life are definitely too big though. stella55: If fat girls are okay with getting fatter then it could be peaceful and happy for us. But then I run into the issue of finding fat girls that are unmarried and childless. |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by hashtagged(m): 3:30pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
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Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by hashtagged(m): 3:30pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Jodha: No 2, what happened to being a feminist |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by LadyTianna(f): 3:33pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
[quote author=swiswiioo post=97027315] The only thing I haven't told them is that I don't just like them bigger but actually enjoy making them bigger. /quote] My point exactly. Be completely upfront. Tell her exactly what you want. Don't tell her you love her size AFTER she's already gained weight. Any girl would be upset by that. Let her know before the weight starts coming. Let her know the kind of guy you are |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by swiswiioo(m): 3:52pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
hashtagged: If only the enthusiasm was real. LadyTianna: Okay I understand what you mean. I just wouldn't think it would be necessary because I think it would be obvious that if you're always being taken out and fed your clothes will get tight on you. It's not like I forced the pizza and ice cream down their throats. I figured that with the fact I find them more attractive bigger would be enough to "connect the dots" so to speak. But if you think being open about it is better I can try it. But won't a woman run from the hills if a guy she's dating tells her in the beginning "see I want to be feeding you and watching you add" |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by Erojepromise(f): 3:55pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
op come to mama. l want someone to spoil me rotten.. but I won't be overweight sha |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by Nobody: 3:58pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Do So If U Want. Who Is Stopping U? |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by navzla(m): 4:01pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
swiswiioo:Human beings add weight as they grow older ,.pls do not make a lady add unnatural weight. It is dangerous and harmful. First; she lost her shape and attractions secondly; she becomes ugly Thirdly; She will be lazy, She will become obsessed, thereafter she Will develop health issues, like hypertension, diabetes, etc. |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by Ishilove: 4:12pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
swiswiioo:A good number do. They have the mindset of "na fat I fat. I no kee person." Since you like them with flesh on their bones, it will be better to hook up with a fleshy woman so there won't be any need to fatten them. Their main concern will be looking good, dressing well, glowing skin, being your companion etc. Yes, you like them fat but also be concerned about their health as well. Obesity will lead to untimely death. |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by Ishilove: 4:28pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
swiswiioo:Oya drop your CV here let the fat Nairaland women locate you by fire. |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by Sarita01(f): 4:28pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
swiswiioo:I have a friend who loves her size,she's fat and curvy,all our bad mouth dey fall on deaf ears,she's still eating as she likes,so yes there are women who love being fat and have accepted it |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by LadyTianna(f): 4:36pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
swiswiioo: You know that no one can read minds. Guys take their babes out all the time, but they don't secretly hope that the girls will gain weight. Your desire is quite uncommon so I'm surprised you expect the girls to know what you're thinking. A way to let her know what you want is to smile and tease her from time to time saying, "babe please eat up, I like it when my woman gains weight and adds flesh". You can say it from time to time, that way, when she starts getting bigger, she'll know you like it. You can now say, "yea just how I like it" lol Also, I think its better to go for girls that are already chubby. They might not mind adding extra kilos. I think a woman will feel comfortable with her weight no matter her size as long as her man makes her feel sexy. If you've watched "why did I get married", you'll get what I mean |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:54pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
OP, send me a DM. Let's start from there. I sure do love a man who has some money to throw around. I love you, darling OP. Anticipating your message, please. |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by Angelacruz: 5:05pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Weird thread...adding excess weight leads to early ageing. swiswiioo: |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by Angelacruz: 5:09pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Go to church ,weddig etc u will find one swiswiioo: |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by Nobody: 5:21pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
op ur own fetish no be here u should be featured in TLC i am having a big guess dat op must be a calabar man |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by swiswiioo(m): 5:35pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Erojepromise: What's your definition of overweight? Truvel: No one is stopping me. I just want both me and my wife to be happy. Not just me. Ishilove: I've yet to meet a woman like that but I'd love to. Thing is, even if she's already big I'd still like seeing her add just by default. But it's not like they have to worry about health. It's not anything extreme like that. |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by swiswiioo(m): 5:39pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Ishilove: Well I'm a young guy but established. I was very serious about school so I graduated early. I work as a .... We'll any girl who wants to know my details should message me . Sarita01: Do you know where I can find girls like our friend? Or how to tell if a girl is like your friend before entering relationship? |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by swiswiioo(m): 5:48pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
LadyTianna: It's not like I expected them to read my mind. I just figured it's an awkward weird thing to say outright. The way I've always hope it works is I take my girl out, spoil her, fatten her up. Then if she starts commenting on it I'll tell her how beautiful and attractive her fuller shape is. How I can't resist her and haven't been so drawn to her in my life. She'll be happy and then I can come out and say I'd like to see her add more. But it's never worked out like that, usually they just get upset that they've added and I like it. But I like what you mentioned though. It's a good way to say it without it being awkward. It's even flirtatious and sexy sef . I just want her to be happy and comfortable with her size, even if she's bigger. It seems people are telling me girls that are already plump are the way to go. What happened in the movie? |
Re: I Can't Be Happy If I Can't Watch A Woman I Love Grow Fat by swiswiioo(m): 5:51pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Angelacruz: So anywhere I can just find a normal babe? lefulefu: My own no reach that one oooo! |
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