Modified:

I just figured the girl is pretty unserious, I have been the one doing all the calling.

Next plan:

Smashing her and moving on... just like I have always done .

Would update this thread as events unfold.

#wholovehelp.

Give it time
Time heals everything!
You maybe in love
Who doesn't love maybe not now but as you ages you will understand my words today. It's better now
Because you can't play hard forever but make it sexfree !




FTC
Wow
Dedicated to all men living alone and remaining faithful to wifey !
I love her

Keep checking the phones of all the other gender you come across, you’ll always see wetin u dey find.


That’s a simp thing...there’s nothing “hard guy” about you. Leave the phone checking to the ladies.

A real hard guy never gives a phuck what happens. Until you’re not afraid to let any woman go, you’re not ripe enough to be a man. Every woman is expendable.

Nreebge:
Give it time
Time heals everything!
You maybe in love
Who doesn't love maybe not now but as you ages you will understand my words today. It's better now
Because you can't play hard forever but make it sexfree !




FTC
Wow
Dedicated to all men living alone and remaining faithful to wifey !
I love her

”Make it sex free” that one go hard ooo but on a second note that could be why she is still precious before my sight. Maybe the moment we do it the scales may fall off my eyes.

BarrSly:


Y’all should please help me o.

I have been this guy who started out loving and affectionate and sweet which did earn me girls attention but the bad part is that these girls were never faithful. Someway and somehow they always ended up messing with my heart and it just went from bad to worse.

Along the line I decided to channel my mind towards getting some cash which paid off for me and it’s not like I wasn’t having girls around me prior to the cash but the whole thing changed. I had this air of confidence that I barely gave an F about a girls feelings. I saw all of them as worthless liars and I never believed a thing or two they told me about their emotions and feelings for me.

Once upon a time I met a girl and she said to me that she was done with her ex and how she loves me so much. I didn’t believe nor had any emotions for her but I planned on catching some cruise lol so one night she slept over and I went through her phone chai!!! This girl was nasty, begging her ex a night before she came to my house to forgive her and take her back, texting another guy about how he has a big D and many more. I just tire!!!!!

(I’ll be honest with myself and say that yes to some extent the love from some girls I met during my “hard guy stage” seemed true but hell no I wasn’t ready to buy any of that cause I had seen more crap than good) I was being this hard guy and it was working fine for me. If a girl pisses me off, I delete her number and block her off for life and they would usually still be the ones to run to me and beg.


This was going on fine for me till lately, all that hard guy shit was become boring, filled with a boring cycle of meeting a girl, liking her a bit, sex and then I just want her to get lost. I was tired of it all so I looked inside of me in search of what the problem might be and realized that I was just basically afraid of letting my heart out, afraid of falling in love, breaking down my walls in order to give someone the opportunity to either make or mar me, I didn’t trust anyone, I was not ready to be played.

I decided to go in search of love and I recently met this young lady (a week ago) who just fits!! Like she stole my heart in a second although pretty but she was not my kinda girl in terms of body shape but I did not care (I never even thought of having sex with her nor could I imagine it). All I just want to do is to love her and care for her. I am a very busy guy but I’m seeing myself do things like call to check on her, worry about her if I haven’t heard from her in a while, thinking about her every f*ing time no matter how occupied I am with work and I’m beginning to get mad at myself and see myself like am a fool.

I can tell she likes me too and as a matter of fact was the first to tell me she loves me. But I don hear that one tire and nothing good ever came out.

The old hard and emotionless me is laughing at this new me who is in love and is just waiting for things to crash. My fears are returning and I’m beginning to second guess my decision to fall in love.

What do I do?

Does falling in love make me a fool i.e a SIMPson lol?

I’m worried what if she is just another werey in disguise.

Do I just stick to being a hard guy and kill my feelings for her and just keep her around like I do with other chicks?

I have made jest of fellas in love but now I want to go into the same thing I laughed at usually.

My mind is telling me to just go through her phone make I settle my mind but I love this girl too much to do that like am scared of having to see something that’ll eventually break us up.

If I didn’t like her at all I’ll be the one to even go through the phone so I can get an excuse to lay her off but right now am madly in love and there’s nothing I can do!!!

Or do I give her my love while I keep some chicks on the side should incase things don’t work out?


Please advise �

Ps-it’s a Long Distance Relationship

Asaba - PH

As for me I’m never falling in love again and won’t advice anyone to ever fall in love again. Make money and travel the world. 6 countries so far, Bleep love!

Swiitdoll:


As for me I’m never falling in love again and won’t advice anyone to ever fall in love again. Make money and travel the world. 6 countries so far, Bleep love!

best advice so far. Enjoy the simple things of life. I personally, would love to live out the rest of my life in Japan. And so shall it be.

It will end in premium tears.

Shortyy:
It will end in premium tears.

I'm surprised you didn't advice him to empty his Entire life savings on her

Continue chasing the elusive love

It will end in premium tears.

SarutobiEky:
best advice so far. Enjoy the simple things of life. I personally, would love to live out the rest of my life in Japan. And so shall it be.

Yes o. I’m going to the 7th country in two weeks. Infact I’m not even interested in the opposite sex so much again. Maybe for sex only sha, once in a while. I’d adopt when I’m 35. I hope my family won’t cry when they realise I’m not marrying no fkn body. But after crying they will shut up and accept it

Swiitdoll:


Yes o. I’m going to the 7th country in two weeks. Infact I’m not even interested in the opposite sex so much again. Maybe for sex only sha, once in a while. I’d adopt when I’m 35. I hope my family won’t cry when they realise I’m not marrying no fkn body. But after crying they will shut up and accept it

Haha..goddamn..I swear to God you just spoke my mind. I have always told myself, it's either I have a baby mama or baby mamas or I adopt. The latter seems more realistic, cause I don't really fancy the promiscuous kinda lifestyle. But who knows? Btw... 7th you are having a ball! When next you planning on touching down on Tokyo, take me with you. I envy you, I won't lie!

SarutobiEky:


Haha..goddamn..I swear to God you just spoke my mind. I have always told myself, it's either I have a baby mama or baby mamas or I adopt. The latter seems more realistic, cause I don't really fancy the promiscuous kinda lifestyle. But who knows? Btw... 7th you are having a ball! When next you planning on touching down on Tokyo, take me with you. I envy you, I won't lie!

I’m a lady so I can’t have baby mamas haha. But baby mama drama, are u sure u are ready? Well I plan to go to a 100 countries before I die. So I have 93 more to go, that’s a lot haha . I think marriage and all that love shit is overrated. I’d love and give my all and get done dirty. I simply don’t have any love to give any man again sorry. Just gonna enjoy life!

Omo e be things oh! Love don suffer for peoples hand oh

Swiitdoll:


I’m a lady so I can’t have baby mamas haha. But baby mama drama, are u sure u are ready? Well I plan to go to a 100 countries before I die. So I have 93 more to go, that’s a lot haha . I think marriage and all that love shit is overrated. I’d love and give my all and get done dirty. I simply don’t have any love to give any man again sorry. Just gonna enjoy life!

Chuckles. Cheers to that Mami..just do you. Yeah..baby mama shii..I could deal.. no biggie. Lol. You're right, life's too short. You do what makes you happy dear. But A 100 countries? Damn...you must have a really really deep pocket o..

BarrSly:


The old hard and emotionless me is laughing at this new me who is in love and is just waiting for things to crash. My fears are returning and I’m beginning to second guess my decision to fall in love.

Asaba - PH

When you are in a relationship with any female, rid yourself of all emotions. There are sure ways to do this from the start, it is the only way you can be in a relationship and stay happy. Guys should stop deceiving yourselves with the word "love", it is a path of stupidity and you are supposed to grow past it on your way to becoming a man.
The only emotions on your part should be the make-believe type, you need it to get what you want.

Just flip the genders and the message will make more sense to you, a little 16 years old girl is smarter than most men when it comes to relationships because men are always "falling in love" aka "stupid" when it comes to relationship.