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Like Mother that daughter, either you report to right authority or carry your mother from there , which one is soldier ? What those soldiers did is enough for them to loose their job.

BaddieFreak:
My brother, I tire oo.

But he appended his signature, isn't that enough thebosstrevor1?

Under duress. Who wouldn't sign that?

Anyway as long as they didn't beat him and he keeps to his promise.

No worry he'll soon kick ur mum out of his house. Then you'll marry her. She knows what's still keeping her there..

BaddieFreak:
I wish I could tell you more gists about how it all happened but I am really tired, today was a really stressful day.

If that is your tired picture on your profile, how will your not-tired picture be

supportnija:
Like Mother that daughter, either you report to right authority or carry your mother from there , which one is soldier ? What those soldiers did is enough for them to loose their job.

How many soldiers who killed people in the Lekki 20/10/2020 massacre, during the #EndSARS protests, have lost their jobs

ILoveDemMANNA:
Na man u be.....

Correct man for dat matter.....

Na female oh

Except she dey lie with her gender

Wyry:
Nigerian girls are useless.

do you know your mother is among? Useless child

Why do you think so? If your own mother was in that exact situation and you took the same step, are you going to DEFINITELY regret your action?

jawalis:
You’ll definitely regret your action. Mark today’s date in your calendar.

BaddieFreak:
I understand your point but even if I try to force my mom out of his house, I doubt if she will agree especially now that she said he has been conducting himself very well.

Yes, she needs to know why.

Additionally, if this man attacks her again it will be the worst ever and he will do it more carefully.

I wouldn't have advised this line of sight action.

BaddieFreak:
Lol. I actually begged them not to touch him before we left.
I thought he was going to fight them but he didn't, he was really scared and he didn't expect I could do something as elaborate as bringing military men into his house, he was super shocked.

If they had touched him you will be in big trouble with your mum. If your step dad was smart,he would have started a fight with them,at least that would put you in a fix with your mum who will be fighting you now. But don't celebrate just yet,he has a turn to play because you didn't go hard enough to send a strong message.

This statement is needless and a fallacy of generalization. There are more than 110 million Nigerian women and they are never useless. Please be guided accordingly.

Wyry:
Nigerian girls are useless.

Good one my Nairaland friend.what you did is awesome but I will still advice you take your mum to always kom spend some time with you
It will give her alot of relief from that tyrant husband
My Mum died from the hand of such a man, he treated my mum with such cruelty.he Neva laid his hands on her but he gave her hell in other ways
Just take your mum away until he Misses her to much

supportnija:
Like Mother that daughter, either you report to right authority or carry your mother from there , which one is soldier ? What those soldiers did is enough for them to loose their job.

The man isn't smart. A smart man who knows their mission is unconstitutional would have started something and trust me he for Sue Nigeria Army and win and even have the Op jailed some months for being an accomplice to statutory abuse.

:Na man u be.....Correct man for dat matter.....

Get your mum out his reach seems to be the permanent solution cos once beaten, will likely beat again

ModsStopBanning:
The attention seeking hoe is at it again

The correct spelling is LovePeddler and not HOE as you've written..

* pls go back to school*

ModsStopBanning:
The attention seeking hoe is at it again

D; D;

Illegal operations?

All involved to be identified and be subjected to court marshal

Oesophagus99:
The correct spelling is LovePeddler and not HOE as you've written..

* pls go back to school*

I think you're the one who needs schooling

And I hope you can also work hard to provide for her so she has options...should it go further south.

BaddieFreak:
If he tries anything stupid, I will make sure I force my mom out of his house whether she likes it or not.

U are not a wise child

Proud of you, son! You did the right thing, whatever the outcome maybe.

BaddieFreak:
Sequel.

Former thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6300083/step-dad-maltreating-mom-confused


About my mom being maltreated by my step dad, I took a bold step today, I took two military men to my step dad's house today and luckily for me, I only met him at home, I didn't meet my mom there, I guess she went out, I am expecting her call lol. I don't know what she would say about what I did though.

When we got in, he was sitting in his living room watching TV, he was shocked to see military men with me. To cut the long story short, they made him sign an undertaking not to lay his hands on my mom again, I just hope he listens knowing the kind of man that he is.

I am really grateful to everybody that showed some love by giving me quality advice, you are blessed.

I wish I could tell you more gists about how it all happened but I am really tired, today was a really stressful day.

Just give me the location,make I arranged boyz make dem con deal with him,I hate rubbish

hmmn well done. hope he gives himself brain.

BaddieFreak:
Whoever did you this bad is a very wicked soul, the Lord is your strength.

yen yen yen... pls stfu... he's saying d truth

Excuzeme:
Most people will not agree or see sense on your post.
I wish couples can resolve their issues without resorting to violence. It takes a lot of self control.
But Violence is not just physical, it can come in form of verbal abuse, destroying the emotional and psychological stability of the victim, from the inside, without any outer evidence or damage.
Women inflict such violence on their husbands; women are better than men, with their "mouth", inflicting emotional and psychological torture that has made some men to commit suicide and the husband, being not good at 'words' responds in how they know best, physical violence.
Both spouse need to exercise greater control when annoyed.

As to this lady that used Soldiers to threaten her Step-Dad, l think it might be the beginning of a very bad and complicated experience.
It seems to me, he has an alcohol problem, rather than a Violent nature. he beats her Mum, when he is drunk,
probably her Mum sees the good side of the man when he is sober and that is why she does not wan to leave the man.
So, l would rather they had work on his alcoholism, that threaten him in a way that puts his ego at stake.

I hope the man is a 'total drunk' who never gets sober otherwise, he wont forgive this sort of action and l am even worried for the lady herself, not to mention her mother.
Truth is, the agreement is as useless as the paper it is signed-on, you cant enforce such agreement in any court, because it was signed under duress.
What we dont know is who the drunk will tell, about what his Step-daughter did to him and you can bet he will have sympathisers who will Coach him on "what to do" to the Step-Daughter!
That is why l said l hope he is always drunk, that way he wont be sober enough to think about it.

Some people dont forgive when you hurt their ego, especially in a situation of that much age difference.

I have heard stories of how a young lady offended an elderly man (she actually used Police to harass him because her boyfriend an dlater husband, was a Police Officer), the old man took it in his stride, acted as if all was well but later went diabolical behind her.
For a long time, the lady was barren until it was revealed to her that she has offended an elderly man and should go and seek forgiveness.
The description was so clear that she herself said: I know who it is.
It took a lot of effort to find the man and assuage his hurt ego, sacrifice, etc. Even the Police husband could not remember what he had done almost a decade ago.
My fear is that this man that is suddenly behaving himself now, might be planning something worse and sinister, that might not even be traceable to him. To us, we have concluded that he is afraid, what if we are wrong?
Let's hope the @Op and her mother remains safe and does not regret her action, young people need to think twice before listening to advice on the internet, when shits hits the fan, it becomes your problem, internet does care that much.

Imagine @Op going back to the same house to see her Mother and she meets the step-Dad eyeball, to eyeball, what do you think will be going on in his head? He already sees you as a threat to his own life and you cant predict how some people react in such situation.
What if he puts something on the ground for you and you unknowing match or walk over it?
Does he have grown Children? What if he tells them and they decide to take you out or you think other people dont have access to the Army or bad guys?

Just get your Mother out of that place fast and stay away from him, your Chicken may have nestled on a Cloth-line, Chicken cant rest, Cloth-line cant rest.

Am glad someone makes sense with me. Thank you. All these people saying she had done the best thing will not be there she attack is launched on Baddiefreak by her step dad. I just wish her well.

BaddieFreak:
Lol. I am waiting for his next line of action. My mom just called and told me that he has been comporting himself very well since she came back.

so proud of you girl!

BaddieFreak:
Lol. I am waiting for his next line of action. My mom just called and told me that he has been comporting himself very well since she came back.

Wicked gal. You've turned a brother to a SIMP

you are one of the few who gets human nature, a good person is a good person and a useless person is a useless person. Left to me the best solution is to sit the mother down and explain who she's living with let her understand that "you could love a snake and it may even love you back but it's still a snake"

Thattallgirl:
I really pray he doesn't punish her in other ways

Stranger18:
you are one of the few who gets human nature, a good person is a good person and a useless person is a useless person. Left to me the best solution is to sit the mother down and explain who she's living with let her understand that "you could love a snake and it may even love you back but it's still a snake"

Thank u. I have a terrible step dad too. His own wickedness isn't physical.

I don't think the lady's mom would listen though. She doesn't wanna be without a husband which is bad for her health