luminouz:


That you even try to justify what annihilation means tells me all I need to know about your mindset on this issue.

This is my last reply. Have a nice day

JovialJune:
In Nigeria, men are kings because the law favours you all, In the abroad, equality is king, and our women use it to their advantage.


The problem you guys have with wives from naija who went to the abroad is your failure to lord over her as it was in naija, y'all still want a lady of servitude who will abide by your rules and wishes cos of what you're used to forgetting obodo oyibo nor send you

It's simple, when you bring your wife over there, just know it is no longer a master slave norm but an equality, relinquish your right as being the head, you'll live your life peacefully,

I have peeps over there, and they're doing just fine.

psyco:
go back to Instagram

lie..
If you guys weren't that desperate to get married, then why all these kayamata and juju shit on social media?
Women and self deception are like 5 and 6.
It's very hard to find a woman who can be at least honest with herself.

Hathor5:


It's your brothers who shame single ladies and call them evening newspapers. It's not us trying to hoodwink you.

OchoL:



Empty rants again as usual.

The difference between women here and women over there is LAZINESS!

A woman abroad works and contributes just as equally as the man. Hence why they have grounds to expect contribution in domestic affairs from their husbands.

Unlike here in Nigeria where most wives are either unemployed, under-employed or self- employed in some petty 'business' shes hardly making any money in..
Wives here contribute so little to the financial upkeep of the household .. they think they are 'contributing' because they pay for their own sanitary pads, hair & nails lol.. they push the position of provision to a man... that is why husbands have been regarded as the 'head' for so long.

Majority of wives delegate their domestic duties to househelps, employing young girls to do their chores. So basically all they are is a decorated housewife who does nothing all day but maltreat their slaves househelps.

You can't expect equality with men in a society that you contribute little to no value too.

Frustrated007:
lie..
If you guys weren't that desperate to get married, then why all these kayamata and juju shit on social media?
Women and self deception are like 5 and 6.
It's very hard to find a woman who can be at least honest with herself.

JovialJune:



Lol I already have sons, I am and will continue to train them and teach them right on how to treat ladies well, regardless of where they are in future

Cheers.

luminouz:
.You should see the weak ass arguments these females have been bringing on this issue. E weak me no be small. I just couldn't deal with the lack of rational and logical thoughts

JovialJune:
In Nigeria, men are kings because the law favours you all, In the abroad, equality is king, and our women use it to their advantage.


The problem you guys have with wives from naija who went to the abroad is your failure to lord over her as it was in naija, y'all still want a lady of servitude who will abide by your rules and wishes cos of what you're used to forgetting obodo oyibo nor send you

It's simple, when you bring your wife over there, just know it is no longer a master slave norm [b]but an equality, [/b]relinquish your right as being the head, you'll live your life peacefully,

I have peeps over there, and they're doing just fine.

omokeinde84655:
Many of us have happy marriages abroad, maybe you and your brothers just suck at it. Ever considered personal responsibility?

OchoL:


I'm a woman that fears my own gender.

I pity all the young men in my family.. girls of nowadays are worse than Jezebel

serving your husband and giving him the necessary respect is human trafficking?

Which hole do you thots crawl out from for Christ sake!!!
I swear there needs to be a massive campaign against marriage!
Prostitution should be legal and men should boycott marriages then we will see who will suffer.
People don't value what they have till they loose it.
The same way the Israelites didn't value God till he left them.

Saintmary:
Bringing a woman to stay with you abroad into a position of servitude is marital human trafficking.
Stop marital human trafficking!

Frustrated007:
serving your husband and giving him the necessary respect is human trafficking?

Which hole do you thots crawl out from for Christ sake!!!
I swear there needs to be a massive campaign against marriage!
Prostitution should be legal and men should boycott marriages then we will see who will suffer.
People don't value what they have till they loose it.
The same way the Israelites didn't value God till he left them.

UwaMmebii:


Hmmm marry her here, leave her here so that another man will be fucking her? Nah I will rather marry a black America there

ziondaughter247:
Nairaland men and their usual inferiority complex rant! So because you brought your wife over, did you bring her to heaven! Many of you useless men dish out a lot of shit to your Nigerian wives, half of these you can't even try with with foreign women! Honestly it is saddening to read this these kind of useless rants everyday. Travelling abroad is no biggie nowadays! You are not doing anyone a favour, if you want to marry from over there do so and stop insulting Nigerian women. Many of you obviously came from disfunctional homes where your father beat and was controlling your mothers.

I am so glad at the way you #AlphaApes go to jail abroad! Yes, you think you can take your uselessness from Nigeria to developed countries. they will just treat your fuckup! In all the countries(western) countries that are doing so well which you #AlphaApes are running to, have gender equality. In some of them, the women are even the presidents/prime ministers. But checkout retarded and backward Africa and Middle east, the useless men have nothing to offer except shouting respect, submission etc. The average Nigerian woman is really sick and tired of you apes. You have lost respect and relevance the world over, hence the regular rantings on nairaland. I can assure you that most of these AlphaApes cleaning toilets abroad that came home to marry women, did so because they are looking for who to bully and subdue. They take the poor lady abroad and start mistreating her, because they feel that they own her and they did a big deal bringing her over. Any lady that wants to relocate and still believes that she needs and AlphaApe to do it for her is a nicoompoop. There are serveral countries one can relocate to now and it's as simple as ABC, you can do it yourself. Lol. Gone are the days when travelling abroad was such a big deal. As long as you take your useless behaviour outside, they will keep treating your Bleep up and throwing you in jail. Bunch of nothings! Empty vessels.

JovialJune:
In Nigeria, men are kings because the law favours you all, In the abroad, equality is king, and our women use it to their advantage.


The problem you guys have with wives from naija who went to the abroad is your failure to lord over her as it was in naija, y'all still want a lady of servitude who will abide by your rules and wishes cos of what you're used to forgetting obodo oyibo nor send you

It's simple, when you bring your wife over there, just know it is no longer a master slave norm but an equality, relinquish your right as being the head, you'll live your life peacefully,

I have peeps over there, and they're doing just fine.

JovialJune:



I wonder you see in my write up that my sons will be taught to worship women? Where exactly?

If my saying I'll teach them how to treat women right means worship, then I have no words for you, seeing as you are a woman.

DEMZEE:
Western society is femcentric I pity guys who dont have redpill knowledge and decide to marry overseas...

Beremx:
and who told you I have an Instagram account?

Idiots everywhere!!

vivsravine:
ABROAD SISTERS, STOP SHAMING US

How do I start this write up without offending those involved?

Trust me I don't care, because enough is enough of the nonsence you ladies portray over there and forget so soon how you started.

It's no longer news what most of our sisters do to our brothers in the name of marriage overseas is quite alarming.

The news is so hard to bear and you start to wonder who actual birth these type of women, who forget humble beginning.

A man leaves all the ladies in the countries they reside and comes home to pick you as a wife, sometimes they even forget about those good girls they had a life with before they left the country.

He sponsors everyting about you, gets married to you and starts a life with you over there, in less than five years you become wiser than the devil and you begin to act like assistant devil.

Many will have the nerve to call the cops on their husband's in the slightest provacations some of these men go to jail because of martial issues while some of these women become as selfish as cain and they won't give a hoot and many of our brothers lose all their properties over there.

You easily become authoritative because you feel you have arrived and you can't be talked to, many go to the extent of sponsoring their exes to their country of abode, others would build houses here in the country without the consent of their husbands, some will even buy cars and other properties without letting their husbands be in the know.

The records of domestic violence has increased amongst ladies who were picked from here to such civilised countries, they go there and feel they are now wild and cling to have ample rights to discern what happens and nobody can dare them.

Many of our brothers has been deported, some have lost their chances of ever going back to that country and even other countries, many deny them access to their children and finally others go about killing their husbands because of inheritance.

Stop this show of shame and retrace your steps home, stop this abuse you know you can never do back home, in as much as I don't support injustice of any kind, lets stop this bad behaviour and guard your homes.

So many brothers no longer value Nigerian women because of this act that has eaten into them negatively, its a dent on all ladies because even the good ones are now affected badly.

It's another season for them to come back home and pick a wife, you will be with him soon and you will be excited of relocating but immediately you get there, you become as wild as a cat and hunt like a leopard.

So sad, because of this acidious acts, our brothers now come home, marry us and leave us here to take care of the kids while they go hustle and come back intermittently.

Remember karma is a bitch you can win but you won't always win, the repercussions are always closer, nemesis doesn't miss its address and certainly vengeance is of God .

Make ammends now and retrace your steps, don't forget humble beginnings your character is your voice even in your absence it would speak for you.

Ahudiya speaks ©

Mikehot:
But is it Nigeria you want to pick a wife and take abroad, they would turn on you.

I prefer to date a girl already there then we both sign documents on what the relationship should be about should it go south

I always look at what if it goes south.

A foreigner fit chill when Una agree with documents but Naija woman no go green (she would enter jass with her family back down)

Hathor5:


They will be shouting that women take away their property abroad but majority of them do not even own houses there. They live in the poorest neighborhoods to be able to send some small change home. Yet they expect their wives to worship them for taking them abroad.

Martinez39s:
The courts over there don't respect prenups. Prenups won't protect you. They could be thrown out for any reason, and you will face the harsh claws of the gynocentric and misandric family court.

drlateef:
Going abroad is empowering to women. The laws in western countries are pro-women. This empowers the women and they misbehave big time with such opportunity. Only the highly religious ones keep their sanity for fear of God. If you must take your wife abroad, think deeply about it and pray fervently. Because your best girl in Nigeria is likely to be your best enemy when she gets abroad. The truth is that majority of men who come home to marry or take their wives along after many years staying alone at foreign countries are responsible men. But their wives ruin their lives when they get abroad.

yahoodetector:


I doubt she has anything tangible to say!


Bact to the topic. The rights and entitlements women enjoy in the United states and some parts of Europe has made many of our Nigerian women residing in those places to turn to wild dogs. You hardly see or hear of Caucasian women carrying out such wickedness against their spouses.

Those entitlements are what Nigerian women of today are praying for here in Nigeria so that they can malign and gore men to their control whichever way they want but it can never work for them.

OchoL:


I'm a woman that fears my own gender.

I pity all the young men in my family.. girls of nowadays are worse than Jezebel

Zzor:
But you prefer transactional sex abi, what does that make you?

JOACHINpedro:
Congrats to anyone making marriage undesirable for this generation. They're sure doing a good Job

Collegelove:
The big question is, what can you offer to a man? Isn't better to live poorly and send something home than living richly and cannot send anything? Which would you choose? Senseless woman.