To my fellow men,,it's not advisable in any manner to take your wife with you to a civilized world.
There's a way this vagina people's brain are wired,, they easily forgets your sacrifices to get them over there,, once you go with them and secondary their laws over there favours them(women)most.
Nothing like there are good ones,,they will definitely like to be in charge once they realize what law their new country has...
My own sister got married to a Nigerian guy staying abroad and the guy took her with him but what baffles me is the way my sister do things now, she's now claiming right over the guy.
I think that sent me to a school of making right decisions... nothing on earth will make me take my wife with me outside Nigeria

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Newman20:



No1 please learn to use full stops at the end of your sentences.

No2 I dint misrepresent any facts sir I merely stated the truth. No one has a damaged psyche it is just a matter differences in culture and tradition.

Get redpilled


I'm at work. I don't even pay at tent n to typos

RedPanthar:




Get redpilled


I'm at work. I don't even pay at tent n to typos

Working at 7pm? what kind of work is that?

Newman20:



Working at 7pm? what kind of work is that?

I run an ICT unit . My outfit

RedPanthar:



I run an ICT unit . My outfit

Good for you man. Good luck on your ICT unit.


Lets just agree to disagree on this one.

JovialJune:



What are you saying and what is the thread about?

A traditional man wants a stay at home wife because he likes it that way, and his authority cannot be questioned which is fine with the wife

A working class wife here is expected to submit and abide by the rules of her husband regardless of equal financial responsibility they both provide, and most times, she has no choice but to follow suit, because well, this is Nigeria

Now, in the abroad

A husband who brings his wife over there and sponsors her education and whatnot, still expects the wife to obey and abide by his rules regardless of her bringing 90% of her income, when she doesnt comply, issues start to happen whereby the husband will question himself as the man of the house, wife decides to use the law to her advantage, she realises she doesnt have to continuously be married to him hence divorce, he flips and becomes vengeful by killing her, or loses everything to her, becomes depressed and kills himself

Now, what is the root cause of the problem? The root cause is the inability of a typical naija man to tame his domineering persona cos he feels since he brought his wife over, therefore he owns her, their law doesnt give fvck about that, in other to be safe than sorry, why not see her as an equal, do things like equal human beings and live peacefully, surely it shouldn't be that hard,

Pls focus on what the thread is about next time, I like intelligent debate.

While I agree with you on the points you made here, this isn't exactly the only source of the problem. Unless you are trying to be dishonest. The truth is that most people cannot manage "freedom". Most of those women actually go out of the way to harm their husband over slight disagreements that would come up anyway. You think a typical white man doesn't have disagreements with his wife? Every relationship has to do with compromise. And unfortunately most women never learn that in Nigeria. It's the reason why female bosses are some of the worst. So immediately many of those women realize their power abroad they refuse to be reasoned with. Same thing that the men do here in Nigeria. We don't know how to manage power.

I have heard of cases where the wife just one year after arriving abroad starts threatening the husband that she knows the law will support her here and is unable to compromise.

I always laugh when Nigerian women say is it a big deal bringing her over? If it is not, then she should do it herself now?

ziondaughter247:
Nairaland men and their usual inferiority complex rant! So because you brought your wife over, did you bring her to heaven! Many of you useless men dish out a lot of shit to your Nigerian wives, half of these you can't even try with with foreign women! Honestly it is saddening to read this these kind of useless rants everyday. Travelling abroad is no biggie nowadays! You are not doing anyone a favour, if you want to marry from over there do so and stop insulting Nigerian women. Many of you obviously came from disfunctional homes where your father beat and was controlling your mothers.

I am so glad at the way you #AlphaApes go to jail abroad! Yes, you think you can take your uselessness from Nigeria to developed countries. they will just treat your fuckup! In all the countries(western) countries that are doing so well which you #AlphaApes are running to, have gender equality. In some of them, the women are even the presidents/prime ministers. But checkout retarded and backward Africa and Middle east, the useless men have nothing to offer except shouting respect, submission etc. The average Nigerian woman is really sick and tired of you apes. You have lost respect and relevance the world over, hence the regular rantings on nairaland. I can assure you that most of these AlphaApes cleaning toilets abroad that came home to marry women, did so because they are looking for who to bully and subdue. They take the poor lady abroad and start mistreating her, because they feel that they own her and they did a big deal bringing her over. Any lady that wants to relocate and still believes that she needs and AlphaApe to do it for her is a nicoompoop. There are serveral countries one can relocate to now and it's as simple as ABC, you can do it yourself. Lol. Gone are the days when travelling abroad was such a big deal. As long as you take your useless behaviour outside, they will keep treating your Bleep up and throwing you in jail. Bunch of nothings! Empty vessels.

Mikehot:
I never see woman o.

I took my mind off marriage, was looking at babymama

You have the right approach to marriage. Except the contracted part. Get married. Make just one more woman on Earth happy or don't if it's what you both want

OchoL:
OP, you better be careful before JovialJune, apatheticme & CHoccolaTE will soon accuse you of being a male pretending to be female.


Meanwhile.. the biggest disgrace to womanhood are those urgent 2k girls - dirty lazy girls who refuse to work legitimate jobs for their money.. rather they whoore around, begging for alms from men up and down, then come on NL forming feminism.

bambiala girls putting real hardworking women to shame.

Babe u surely dey vex o! bambiala girls for sure

Nna the tears flowing from the mails here is enough to flood the sahara desert

Reading their comments here shows how bitter and utterly useless they've been, are and always will be.

Those docile and quiet wives you mails trafficked abroad to lord over and place underneath your feet because it's the norm in this country and Africa in general will continue to deal with you lots. Ndi ala

ziondaughter247:
Nairaland men and their usual inferiority complex rant! So because you brought your wife over, did you bring her to heaven! Many of you useless men dish out a lot of shit to your Nigerian wives, half of these you can't even try with with foreign women! Honestly it is saddening to read this these kind of useless rants everyday. Travelling abroad is no biggie nowadays! You are not doing anyone a favour, if you want to marry from over there do so and stop insulting Nigerian women. Many of you obviously came from disfunctional homes where your father beat and was controlling your mothers.

I am so glad at the way you #AlphaApes go to jail abroad! Yes, you think you can take your uselessness from Nigeria to developed countries. they will just treat your fuckup! In all the countries(western) countries that are doing so well which you #AlphaApes are running to, have gender equality. In some of them, the women are even the presidents/prime ministers. But checkout retarded and backward Africa and Middle east, the useless men have nothing to offer except shouting respect, submission etc. The average Nigerian woman is really sick and tired of you apes. You have lost respect and relevance the world over, hence the regular rantings on nairaland. I can assure you that most of these AlphaApes cleaning toilets abroad that came home to marry women, did so because they are looking for who to bully and subdue. They take the poor lady abroad and start mistreating her, because they feel that they own her and they did a big deal bringing her over. Any lady that wants to relocate and still believes that she needs and AlphaApe to do it for her is a nicoompoop. There are serveral countries one can relocate to now and it's as simple as ABC, you can do it yourself. Lol. Gone are the days when travelling abroad was such a big deal. As long as you take your useless behaviour outside, they will keep treating your Bleep up and throwing you in jail. Bunch of nothings! Empty vessels.

Number 1 know say ur papa n ur brothers r AlphaApes too. Olodo rabata. N ur sons il b AlphaApes too.

Ardar:
Nna the tears flowing from our Alfa mails is enough to flood the sahara desert

Reading their comments here shows how bitter and utterly useless they've been, are and always will be.

Lol-they are quite bitter. The Epistles are tiring. They should get with the times. If women have to contribute more, then men have to lose their privileges.

Some will even claim white women enjoy their domination, but they know that it's a lie because they are only nice to white women so that they don't get deported or jailed. Nigerian men simply adore foreign women as part of inferiority and fear

No thinking person wants to be sat on or made to do more work than the other.

Ardar:
Nna the tears flowing from our Alfa mails is enough to flood the sahara desert

Reading their comments here shows how bitter and utterly useless they've been, are and always will be.

when u talk remember dat ur father n brothers r also Alpha males too n i m sure tears r flowing from their eyes too

emonis88:

when u talk remember dat ur father n brothers r also Alpha males too n i m sure tears r flowing from their eyes too

You know, it's quite funny that you mails suddenly seem to remember our mail relatives when we call out how utterly useless you are but always forget to remember your female relatives when you show your uncivilized, cave man behavior all over this forum every single day.

DamZik:
Because he is your head. He has authority over you.

Including how I spend my hard earned money?

BRATISLAVA:


Lol-they are quite bitter. The Epistles are tiring. They should get with the times. If women have to contribute more, then they have to lose their privileges.

Some will even claim white women enjoy their domination, but they know that it's a lie because they are only nice to white women so that they don't get deported or jailed. Nigerian men simply adore foreign women as part of inferiority and fear

No thinking person wants to be sat on or made to do more work than the other.

You know the saying, "give or place someone in a position of power and see their true self emerge"

Nobody and I mean nobody like to be trampled upon or dominated by another human being.
These mails will scream BLOODY MURDER when faced with racism and suppression by white people but won't hesitate to give out the same treatment to their wives because they are in the position to do as they please simply because they are mails and "God" has placed their stupid azz above women.

JovialJune:
In Nigeria, men are kings because the law favours you all, In the abroad, equality is king, and our women use it to their advantage.


The problem you guys have with wives from naija who went to the abroad is your failure to lord over her as it was in naija, y'all still want a lady of servitude who will abide by your rules and wishes cos of what you're used to forgetting obodo oyibo nor send you

It's simple, when you bring your wife over there, just know it is no longer a master slave norm but an equality, relinquish your right as being the head, you'll live your life peacefully,

I have peeps over there, and they're doing just fine.

abeg which kain grammar b dis..?? Wetin b In the Abroad..? Abeg write in ur native tongue if you no know how to write joor

Eya, see them crying.

Once upon a time, white folks cried like you. Then they got up and decided not to enslave their women and instead enslave black people.

Set your priorities straight. Stop forcing your head in vagina and use your brains for productivity that doesn't require your finger ba3 d1ck and $perm. That's not how to be a man.

Time is running out.

koyyes:
Eya, see them crying.

Once upon a time, white folks cried like you. Then they got up and decided not to enslave their women and instead enslave black people.

Set your priorities straight. Stop forcing your head in vagina and use your brains for productivity that doesn't require your $perm. That's not how to be a man.

Time is running out.

Hahahahahahahahaha


See this man woman that can't even get a go at to date her. Na you to yaba mehn


Abeg hide your shame. You're irredeemably stvpid for this lousy post.

Next time digest information before you throw out your misandrists madness. No one is against women but against the entitlement mentality and irrational attitude.

Your brain is obviously as your rusty vagina


Ode

BRATISLAVA:


You sound ridiculous, because you think women are dogs that need to follow a lead. This is part of the damaged mentality most young men have been brainwashed into. When you discover that you can't control another human you would've made peace with reality.

How I wish all men can be like me....by jettison getting married, most of those ladies could have really known guys worth.
some of these guys can die or kill because of this hoe in-between the legs of ladies...

RedPanthar:




Hahahahahahahahaha


See this man woman that can't even get a go at to date her. Na you to yaba mehn


Abeg hide your shame. You're irredeemably stvpid for this lousy post.

Next time digest information before you throw out your misandrists madness. No one is against women but against the entitlement mentality and irrational attitude.

Your brain is obviously as your rusty vagina


Ode

E pain am. Truth is bitter, swallow it jejely.

Define man and see if you or the ranters here qualify.

I couldn't be bothered. Anything short of my standard with the male folk is bestiality. Let that sink.

F@ggot.

koyyes:


E pain am. Truth is bitter, swallow it jejely.

Define man and see if you or the ranters her qualify.

I found be bothered. Anything short of my standard with the male folk is bestiality. Let that sink.

F@ggot.

Go oil your tow tow. Lemme

RedPanthar:




Go oil your tow tow. Lemme

Grow a brain. A real one and not the defected matter in your empty skull.

Cursed primitive breed.

Ishilove:

Including how I spend my hard earned money?

Lucyspa:


So, if he says no what should she do?

Colossians 3:18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.
Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
Any woman that questions this divine principle can never have a happy home no matter what or else she marries a simp. But I know most ladies don't like a simp as husband. The secrets of happy, fulfilling home are submission and love. Then you will the practicality of Heaven on earth.

cjeriia:
abeg which kain grammar b dis..?? Wetin b In the Abroad..? Abeg write in ur native tongue if you no know how to write joor

Seriously? Lmao

Abeg who will help me school this illiterate that I'm correct to use that sentence

Amen to this.

I wish the prayer goes for her brothers, her uncles, her nephews everything male related may he relinquish his headship to
His wife Whether in Nigeria or Abroad.

OchoL:


A ridiculous rant again as I expected.

You are obviously still a young girl.

My prayer point for you is that you bear sons who will fall victim to the highlighted - let's see your online bravado and rants when that happens

Oracleforce:



How I wish all men can be like me....by jettison getting married, most of those ladies could have really known guys worth.
some of these guys can die or kill because of this hoe in-between the legs of ladies...

Nobody is interested in marriage. But people say women are. That is why men are surprised that women want to leave them, and cry bloody murder.
Love isn't permanent.

BRATISLAVA:


Nobody is interested in marriage. But people say women are. That is why men are surprised that women want to leave them, and cry bloody murder.
Love isn't permanent.

Now that it is so obvious that marriage is a scam...i know that as time goes on, guys will begin to show ladies their worth by abstaining and jettisoning from the facade of marriage.....

CalliDora1:
A God-fearing woman will never do such.
Marry a born-again Christan.
Marry a virtuous woman.
Marry the will of God not oustside His will.

The problem is that many people are marrying for beauty, class or money. These are wrong foundations upon which building marriages cannot last. The factors you listed above are not in their dictionary. How I wish they could learn.

ziondaughter247:
Nairaland men and their usual inferiority complex rant! So because you brought your wife over, did you bring her to heaven! Many of you useless men dish out a lot of shit to your Nigerian wives, half of these you can't even try with with foreign women! Honestly it is saddening to read this these kind of useless rants everyday. Travelling abroad is no biggie nowadays! You are not doing anyone a favour, if you want to marry from over there do so and stop insulting Nigerian women. Many of you obviously came from disfunctional homes where your father beat and was controlling your mothers.

I am so glad at the way you #AlphaApes go to jail abroad! Yes, you think you can take your uselessness from Nigeria to developed countries. they will just treat your fuckup! In all the countries(western) countries that are doing so well which you #AlphaApes are running to, have gender equality. In some of them, the women are even the presidents/prime ministers. But checkout retarded and backward Africa and Middle east, the useless men have nothing to offer except shouting respect, submission etc. The average Nigerian woman is really sick and tired of you apes. You have lost respect and relevance the world over, hence the regular rantings on nairaland. I can assure you that most of these AlphaApes cleaning toilets abroad that came home to marry women, did so because they are looking for who to bully and subdue. They take the poor lady abroad and start mistreating her, because they feel that they own her and they did a big deal bringing her over. Any lady that wants to relocate and still believes that she needs and AlphaApe to do it for her is a nicoompoop. There are serveral countries one can relocate to now and it's as simple as ABC, you can do it yourself. Lol. Gone are the days when travelling abroad was such a big deal. As long as you take your useless behaviour outside, they will keep treating your Bleep up and throwing you in jail. Bunch of nothings! Empty vessels.

i just love this wonderful masterpiece! Let's educate this men with cave mentality

Broken marriages happen every where