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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hassanmaye(m): 12:25am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Emperor4tune:My brother if you can stick to this your words you will live a peaceful life and live long, only a fool will carry women matter for head. As for me I see them as children I don't have time for drama. 4 Likes |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by karika2018: 12:45am On Dec 18, 2020 |
olisaEze: No man should come home to nigeria...marry a woman and bring her to the west..........over %95 of those marriages do not end well.......this ladies eventually grow wings and turn the heat against the man........keep them in nigeria if possible........... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by haryomikun(m): 1:18am On Dec 18, 2020 |
OchoL:Wasn’t a ridiculous rant. She made sense in her words sir. If you want to tackle her rightly, counter her with a well-written debate. Doesn’t take too much brainpower naa 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Nobody: 1:26am On Dec 18, 2020 |
any man going back to naija to pick a total stranger for marriage cos of tradition or what have u should blame himself whatever comes his way.If u must marry a nigerian lady there tonnes of naija ladies in the foreign country u schooling or working.Nothing stops u hooking up with one there. |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by haryomikun(m): 1:27am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Ishilove:I also had a problem with that clause lol. I think she meant ‘knowledge’ not ‘consent’. |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Nobody: 1:35am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Mitsurugi:dat one no be marriage abeg even if the husband is sending her regular upkeep she will still be miserable with lonliness .every two years for visit? haba if that woman never start to dey cheat she will surely start soon her friends will break her stance and hook her up with a guy na the children i for feel pass sha no body to call daddy only hearing daddy voice on phone ..dat is if he even calls at all on the other hand i am very sure the man has another family with him in swtizerland..if na edo man i am doubly sure 2 Likes |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by haryomikun(m): 2:02am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Princedapace:Your points are solid, man. 1 Like |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by nitrogen(m): 3:01am On Dec 18, 2020 |
ceeceeuwa: You are the frustrated one. Maybe you should go back to my post and confirm my assertions. Did I make any generalization? Better calm down. If you think I sit idle behind a keyboard, no worries, whatever hurts your ego. Again, next time, don’t bring your elders into discussions like this, try and be respectful. Now tell me, did an abroad guy mess you up or something? |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Ezyp(m): 4:22am On Dec 18, 2020 |
JovialJune:Shut da F-up dia...big lie. You think white ladies behave stupid? 4 Likes |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by omoyankee3(m): 4:22am On Dec 18, 2020 |
vivsravine: One of my friends in the US married a girl from his village. Same story.....he brought her to America, paid for her nursing program, gave her papers etc. After all that, the girl showed her true colors. The guy I'm talking about is very humble and nice, and even though he treated his wife like a queen, she still went ahead messed him up. That's when I realized that no matter what you do, a woman that wants to become a tiger abroad would become one. But there's a saying.....Since men have learned to shoot without missing, Eneke has learnt to fly without perching. 1 Like |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by SmartMen: 4:33am On Dec 18, 2020 |
DEMZEE:u are not a man... gerrout... |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by TheRealestGuy(m): 4:36am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Haha So many hilarious replies. I'll just say that when you and your partner love each other and are committed to each other heart, body and soul, it's most likely gonna be a lifetime of joy and happiness through the ups and downs of it all. If you plan on getting married please make sure you and your partner are equally committed to the relationship. Also, men, please treat your girl right and she will be submissive. Don't go around being an asshòle to her and expect love. Life is GIGO. Garbage in, Garbage out. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by BRATISLAVA: 5:36am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Hassanmaye:And so what if she's old? Is that your only achievement, that she is old at home? Guess you got a million Kobo for that. And she came crying to you because you're the only man in the world and she must be with you because you approached her? If she refused you, she must be mocked because she's still unmarried? Are you the only man in the world? The way some of you petty men reason. That could be why she didn't want you. So because you rejected some ladies you did not fancy, you should stay unmarried so that they can mock you for a choice you made? Men logic is so daft. So full of pain and bitterness. It's obvious you men think more of marriage than women do. Yet you claim you want baby mamas, but that is to compensate for rejection. Once a woman doesn't want a relationship with a Nigerian man, and she happens to stay single afterwards, he uses it to mock her and call her a spinster, acting as if he even wanted anything better with her to last. The day Nigerian men grow up and get brains, the better. Marriage is too important to men. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by BRATISLAVA: 5:41am On Dec 18, 2020 |
omoyankee3: You never lived with them to know how he really treated her in private. If women are to churn out stories about mens dubious and foolish behaviors everyday, and come up with crude ways to deal with them, men would suffer most. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Raalsalghul: 5:47am On Dec 18, 2020 |
lefulefu: I don't think the guy will care if she cheats: that is along as family/friends don't find out, she doesn't get pregnant or contracts an STD. He can always bring his kids over. |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Raalsalghul: 5:49am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Princedapace: This makes sense! 1 Like |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by RedPanthar: 6:04am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Scout60: Smiles. It will never happen as long as the earth exists Make una dey sump for women dey go. Not me 1 Like |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by CSTRR: 6:21am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Indians and other Asians go abroad, and their wives still remain sensible. 5 Likes |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by CSTRR: 6:22am On Dec 18, 2020 |
It's going to affect the Ladies in the Long run. Nigerian men would simply stop importing wives. At most, they would leave them in Nigeria. |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Scout60(m): 6:33am On Dec 18, 2020 |
RedPanthar: Anyway na wetin we dey talk because we dey Nigeria. When u travel, u go know wassup |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by RedPanthar: 6:36am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Scout60: Thrash. Make una dey simp for women dey go. The very first thing I tell anyone white o Caucasian o. Indian o. My First principle stands and is I don't discuss my use of finances. Discussing finances is for. Men. On low tier. Levels. For men higher than that we can't discuss it. Just enjoy the spoiling and. Don't ask strict questions Simple. If you can't stay bail up. I don't simp 1 Like |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Aka2003: 6:41am On Dec 18, 2020 |
JovialJune:Thank you for this. Equality should mean mean equality in expenses and responsibilities. Our women expect to be treated equally while not taking an equal share of the expenses and responsibilities. Equality cannot be defined differently due to gender. 2 Likes |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Scout60(m): 6:43am On Dec 18, 2020 |
RedPanthar: Oga abramovich lost 50% of his net worth when he divorced his man, Jeff bezos lost $30 bn when he divorced to his wife. my kinsman out of frustration killed his wife because of same issue. The man in question is bigger and mancho. Dey Nigeria dey talk simp till u come over here. Even over here, your kids can call cops on you and if you do nonsense.... you get deported or sleep long in jail |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by RedPanthar: 6:52am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Scout60: Oga they didn't have pre-nup before marriage I am not marrying anyone without one. And I know the T & C I already have in mind for mine I maintain it, I don't discuss my finances with anyone whatever anyone wants to say or do they do. Simple. I'm not the first man who chooses not to go ahead discussing finances with a woman and by goes through with it There's always someone that is fit for our preferences and I don't go overboard going for a woman who wouldn't fit into mine. Here lies the problem men choose women under so many assumptions and hopes they'll comply. I don't assume. I spell out my conditions before the game begins There's nothing about abroad I don't know Oga. I've had dates with women from all parts of the world high class low class. It still stands. My finances is my privacy. And I don't ask women theirs. Simple. 1 Like |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Franklydes(m): 7:11am On Dec 18, 2020 |
JovialJune:I wish you understand better this SHIT honestly na only black women carry an for head. If you don't know, Blacks are the ones with high rate of divorce and not even the white. Do your research my dear don't bite the finger wey go feed you. 4 Likes |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by bezimo(m): 7:35am On Dec 18, 2020 |
CSTRR: So why are Nigerian women case different? I am sure if you look close you will find out why |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Odoctor(m): 8:06am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Ishilove:Because he is your husband. (use Google to find out the etymology of husband) He paid your bride price, not because you cannot afford bride price, but nature and God made it so. 1 Like |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by DEMZEE(m): 8:06am On Dec 18, 2020 |
SmartMen: Wats ur definition of a man tho |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hassanmaye(m): 8:19am On Dec 18, 2020 |
[quote author=jornwhite post=97162989] By slaves you meant, cook, clean the house and take care of the children without privileges of going on dates or clubbing with whoever they want. Even the so called oyinbo women do domestic chores we see it even on blockbusters movies all the time. most of you're just confuse being. An average naija gurls grow up cooking for her dad, mom & siblings, clean the house & run errands buh when they marry "it becos a slave role". las las eye go clear, nd more men will see babymama is the way forward. Anytime you talk about baby mama you are sending a terror down the spine of our girls, please man marry by all means abeg |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by JOACHINpedro: 8:21am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Hassanmaye:I was being sarcastic |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by RedPanthar: 8:22am On Dec 18, 2020 |
[quote author=Hassanmaye post=97185635][/quote] without privileges of going on dates or clubbing with whoever they want |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Nobody: 8:22am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Lucyspa:Then the wife should stop if he refuses. His "yes" should be "yes." |
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